QueerLove Podcast

Ever had an existential crisis with your sexxuality or queerness? In today's episode, we focus solely on E for her latest discovery around herself and it is a juicy exploration. 

This is what it looks like to be raw and dive into things that you may not yet fully understand about yourself yet, and what a beautiful, vulnerable place. We unpack different layers of heteronormativity, gender roles, and the mess that that creates for us as queer folk in our own understanding of ourselves and our queer expression. 

Is there ever a finish line with the fluid nature of this topic? No...but, that is also what makes unraveling more and more layers of this for yourself that much more worthwhile so that you can get closer and closer to your core essence. 

What has been an existential crisis in your sexxuality in your life? 

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Happy Pride! Here is the last episode that is part of our Pride series this year and we are focusing all on creating the beautiful queer relationships that you actually want to be in. Let's unravel what limiting beliefs and programming that is blocking you from actually creating the queer relationships that work for you.

We talk about some of the low hanging fruit in this topic, which would be the domestic types of roles we often think of in this context, but we also bring in some of the deeper rooted challenges that come from growing up in heteronormative society as a queer human. What do we see in the work we do with clients on this topic? What have we dismantled in our own relationship? Let's get into it!

P.S. Our free Q&A call is happening on Saturday, July 13th, from 10am-12pm PST. And the topic for this month...your first year in poly relationships! What questions do you have on this? What experience do you need some guidance on? Register here for the call and we will see you there!

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Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Here we are in our third installment of our queer focused episodes fro Pride month! How has your queerness evolved since you first recognized that you were queer? What have you been resisting around the evolution of your queerness? What have you been growing in curiosity around?

We explore these different aspects in ourselves and our individual journeys, as well as talk about the Gay New Year (aka Pride month) and how you can utilize it to provide some reflection time for your own experience and set up a trajectory for this upcoming year.

AND, as E offered mid-episode, your ticket to the 21 Day Challenge all about the question of "Will Polyamory Actually Work For Me?" can be found here! It's completely free and is running from June 4th until the 26th. Sign up at any time and you still get all the recordings from amazing poly experts and professionals delivered straight to your inbox!

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Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

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Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

We are continuing on with our celebration of Pride Month with this week's episode all on queer joy!

What has queer joy looked and felt like for us over our own evolution? What are the simple moments of queer joy? The larger ones? What makes these moments so impactful and necessary?

Queer joy can carry different meanings for each individual, but the common thread we hear is just that little spark you feel that brings something unique to your queer experience. We would love to hear what some moments of queer joy for you have been!

AND, as E offered mid-episode, your ticket to the 21 Day Challenge all about the question of "Will Polyamory Actually Work For Me?" can be found here! It's completely free and is running from June 4th until the 26th. Sign up at any time and you still get all the recordings from amazing poly experts and professionals delivered straight to your inbox!

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Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Ooooh happy PRIDE month y'all! For the month of June, we are going to be focusing on topics solely connected to being queer and celebrating those who are members of the alphabet mafia!

This first episode of our Pride Month series is all about how our relational patterns often block us from our fullest queer expressions. We dive into the patterns that we both experience in this realm, and E has some breakthroughs of clarity for herself!

Come and learn with us about the challenges we have faced, what has helped us to move through them (which includes having this podcast), and get curious around how this all plays out for you!

AND, as E offered mid-episode, your ticket to the 21 Day Challenge all about the question of "Will Polyamory Actually Work For Me?" can be found here! It's completely free and is running from June 4th until the 26th. Sign up at any time and you still get all the recordings from amazing poly experts and professionals delivered straight to your inbox!

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Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Unmet expectations in relationships are some of the biggest causes of upset.

We have said that as part of a number of episodes, but in this week's episode, we are diving right into the heart of it. This is something we see in our work with clients ALL the time - getting lost in the expectations (whether made known or not), rather than being with the reality of the situation. 

And it is so often that resistance to being with the reality of a situation, person, relationship, experience, etc. that we create even more suffering for ourselves and our loved ones. 

So, how does this show up in queer and poly dynamics? Well, a lot of different ways and we go over some of the common ones that we see play out, as well as those that we have experienced ourselves. And don't worry, we don't leave you hanging without any actions you can take around this for yourself and your relationships! 

What have been some challenging expectations that you have had to release or address when they are not lining up with the reality of your relationships? 

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Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

We have LOTS of lessons from therapy, both individual and couples therapy, but in this first round, we go over one of the lessons that clicked for E in a much more embodied way last year.

So often we see with clients, and also know from personal experience, that we try with all our might to not impact our partners. We think about all the ways that we can avoid bringing up a tough topic or just "deal" with it when there is something that is bothering us in a relationship out of fear of upsetting the other person.

In this episode, we talk about what this lesson has meant for us personally, and how we have seen it playing out with clients, as well as giving you practical points to consider and reflect on to better understand how this is playing out in your relationships!

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You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

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Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Got a case of "comparisonitis"? Have no fear, the queer and poly coaches are here!

But, seriously, let's talk about comparison in your poly relationships. We dive into what we have seen as common pitfalls in this area from working with our clients, as well as questions to ask yourself to help determined what insecurities may be most common in these types of experiences for you.

What are some actions to take to help yourself? What conversations need to be had? What conversations don't need to be had? All this and plenty more in this episode on a very natural human phenomena in any style of relating.

P.S. You still have today (May 15th, 2024) to score on our birthday discount! All you need to do is use the code BIRTHDAY35 at purchase for either the Love Deeper Online Course or Love Deeper e-Workbook. To learn more and to register for the program, click here. To snag your workbook, click here!

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Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

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Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Okay, so this is not going to be a step-by-step process on how to find partners...but, we will go over what actually works in connecting with people that are actually aligned for you and what you want! This is based on what we have experienced personally in the poly dating space, as well as what we have seen with the clients we coach.

On this episode, we dive into the pitfalls and limiting beliefs that we see come up when people ask, "but, WHERE do I actually find polyamorous people to date??". We scope out a bit more broadly to navigate answering this question, but then hone right back into the important pieces that will actually help you create the dating experience you truly want.

P.S. You still have until May 15th to score on our birthday discount! All you need to do is use the code BIRTHDAY35 at purchase for either the Love Deeper Online Course or Love Deeper e-Workbook. To learn more and to register for the program, click here. To snag your workbook, click here!

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Sending you so much love!

Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

Find out more on our Linktree.

Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Happy birthday to us and the Queer & Poly Podcast! It's been a wild ride of a year where we have learned a lot about ourselves and relationships, so we wanted to share some of our insights with you all.

Whether it is a lesson from our relationship with ourselves, partners, friends, family, or even emotions, we have some takeaways from this past year that you can hopefully relate with, as fellow, complex human beings.

We would love to hear what you learn from this episode for yourself, as well as what insights you have gained for yourself around relationships.

AND, as Li shared in the episode, we have a birthday sale happening on the Love Deeper online program, as well as the Love Deeper e-workbook. This sale is going until May 8th and all you need to do is use the code BIRTHDAY35 at purchase. To learn more and to register for the program, click here. To snag your workbook, click here!

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Sending you so much love!

Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

Find out more on our Linktree.

Until next time, keep loving y'all.