Everyone is a nerd about something. We are nerds about relationships. In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a relationship nerd, what that looks like for each of us, and how that integrates into the relationship we have.

Are you dating a relationship nerd?

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Are you ready for a crash course on gender? Let's go! 

In this episode, Elizabeth nerds out on gender theory, and Liana shares their insight on fluidity and the journey of gender identity and expression from their own experiences. Full of heartfelt stories and advice to support you in either your own journey, or that of your loved ones.

What comes up for you when you consider the complexities of gender identity and expression?

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Sometime discovering your sexuality is straightforward, sometimes it's not! In this episode, we share our own stories of exploring and understanding our sexuality, and talk about the complexities of self-identifying with courage.

What surprises have you learned about yourself while exploring your sexuality?

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Round two on this juicy topic that even we were surprised we talked so long about. In part two, we go even deeper into what we have learned about ourselves through the lens of our attraction at different points in life. 

We talk about some of the struggles and challenges that arise when attraction becomes attachment and how we have navigated fluctuating levels of attraction in long term relationships. 

What have you learned about yourself when thinking on how your attraction to others has evolved? 

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What do two relationship coaches look for when starting to date/get to know a new person? We had so much to say about this that we had to break up the episode.

We talk about what we individually look for and are attracted to in a potential partner, as well as how that has evolved since we were younger.

And don't worry, we go into it even more in part two of this topic next week, with a little added bonus of some exploration around new relationship energy and how this connects to attraction. 

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Relationships are our jam. We have been studying and coaching on the topics of love, s3x, and relationships for years, while also navigating our personal relationships.

In this episode, we both share about how being relationship coaches have helped us in our own relationships, as well as the challenges that we run into (hello imposter syndrome and other insecurities).

Even if you are not a relationship coach, chances are that you have a strong interest of learning more about relationships since you are listening to this podcast, so you may be able to relate to some of what we share.

Regardless of your level of knowledge or the number of tools/resources that you have, this is a friendly reminder that we are all still humans who have big emotions and some strong insecurities.

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What's your relationship to the "work"? Do you dive into personal development work with an eager spirit like a kid in a candy store? Do you feel annoyed and frustrated with it? Do you feel a mixture of it all?

Even as relationship coaches who work in the space of the "work", we are not immune to the frustrations that come with the territory. In this episode, we both share our experiences and relationship to our personal development journeys, which are quite a bit different.

Wherever you are at on your own journey, and whatever your relationship may be to it, just know that it is completely valid and you are right where you need to be. 

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We're going in a bit deep on this one. In this episode, we talk about past trauma showing up for you now in relationships and how your triggers will often trigger your partner(s). 

This is something that we wanted to talk about broadly to just start the conversation and bring awareness to something that often goes unsaid or just gets talked around in relationships.

We use an example from our relationship to demonstrate this domino effect that happens when someone is triggered from past trauma and how that then translates into the other person getting triggered.

Be gentle with yourself in listening, and please be sure to reach out to a therapist, counselor, or other professional to support yourself in your own healing journey around trauma and triggers. 

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Long distance relationships can happen under any relationship style, but this is something that is often more prevalent in polyamorous dynamics, and something that we both receive a lot of questions around.

We answer a few of the most common questions we get on this topic like what are the best ways to stay connected and how to create intimacy when you can't be physically around each other.

Our relationship started as long distance so we share about our own experiences in building connection with one another, as well as examples from long distance dating with other partners.

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On this episode, Elizabeth shares her experience of being a femme queer.  From identifying as pansexual, to coming out at 29, to her experience with passing privilege and issues with safety, this episode is a personal account. And we know that there are many people who experience similar things.

There are many different intersectionalities and unique individual experiences in being a femme queer and this episode does not cover the entire depth and breadth of all experiences. However, there are many shared experiences, as well, and we hope that you can feel seen and validated.

Enjoy :) 

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