QueerLove Podcast

When you hear the word "romance", what do you think about? Flowers, bubble baths, chocolates? We all feel romanced from different experiences, and knowing how your and your partner/s feel romanced is important in your relationships!

In this episode, E and Li discuss romance, things that make them feel romanced, and how to incorporate romance into polyamorous relationships.

What makes you feel romanced?

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Dating is tough! While we are all individuals, we are formed by our surroundings, giving us different perspectives on dating and relationships.

In this episode, Li gives tips for dating based on their perspective as a lesbian. From the small to the large, these suggestions can uplevel your queer relationships, and any relationship!

What tips do you have for queer dating?

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Working with a partner has its ups and downs. Needs for privacy, autonomy, and time alone combined with financial stresses mix with career success and exhilaration. But what if both of you are excellent relationship coaches?

In this episode, E and Li focus on how working together has benefited their relationship and grown their love for each other. Instead of the negatives, it's time to rave about the positives!

Have you ever worked with a partner?

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Sex is a big part of most relationships. It can bring or express closeness and love and be steamy and fun. What about when someone isn't in the mood? That can be difficult for a relationship, especially over time.

In this episode, E and Li discuss what can contribute or detract from our natural cycles or states of arousal, and what to do if there is a disconnect on when, where, or how sex is desired.

What turns you on?

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You may have heard of BDE, but have you heard of BHE? Toxic masculinity affects everyone, and when that bleeds into queer relationships, the downsides can be just as problematic.

In this episode, E and Li joke and giggle about the silliness of the infamous "Big Dick Energy" or "Big Hand Energy" and how these can be a drag in your sex life, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

Have you seen BDE/BHE in your life?

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This is the time of year for reflections! Going forward into the next chapter means honoring this one that is just finishing. 

In this episode, E and Li demonstrate a relationship check in that encompasses the year of 2023 and the successes, challenges, and learning experience they have experienced as a couple.

How will you look back at the past year and honor it?

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Breakups suck. What about polyamorous breakups? Can you go to your other partners for support? What if a partner of yours breaks up with someone you disapproved of?

In this episode, E and Li talk about lessons they've drawn from past breakups, and what to do if there is no lesson to be learned.

What have you learned from breakups in your sphere?

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We all know that feeling when we first start seeing someone new. Butterflies and flutters, tingles, burning, the warm glow when we get a text from them. This New Relationship Energy, or NRE, is fun and useful for bonding, but sometimes it closes our eyes to red flags and potential problems.

In this episode E and Li talk in depth about how to manage NRE and how to keep in touch with yourself (and any other partners you may have) so you aren't swept away by these gushy feelings.

What was your best experience with NRE?

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Breakups suck. Whether it's amicable, mutual, or messy, the grief of losing something you love can really take it out of you. Being in a polyamorous relationship adds new complications.

In this episode, Elizabeth and Li talk about skills that you can bring to make breakups more healthy and manageable, including talking about what breakups can look like well before your relationship is in trouble!

What have you learned from your past breakups?

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Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

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Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Some people know from an early age that they're different; that they don't fit into the "norms" surrounding them. Li is one of those people.

In this episode, Li shares their experiences growing up queer: how they tried to avoid it, how they tried to hide it, and how they tried to reverse it.

Did you ever resist your own development because you'd been told it was "wrong"?

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Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit!

You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube  (@queerloverelationships).

Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session!

Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here!

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.