QueerLove Podcast

You know it's a good one when there is a "should" in the title. In this episode, we take some inspiration from a question that came up from a client and explore the pros and cons of there being a definitive definition of polyamory.

There are rants, lots of poly terms, and a trip to IKEA made to guide us along this conversation.

What are your thoughts on the question that we pose in this episode? 

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Building from last week, here comes part 2! As you can tell, we could talk for hours on green flags and some of the components to look for in a compatible partner.

We explore a little more on NRE, compatibility, the balance of structure and flow in a dynamic, and also have a little treat for you at the end!

If you are looking for an extra resource around dating in polyamory and wondering what in the world to ask questions around, look no further than the FREE PDF on that very topic that E created for you all! It's extensive, it's juicy, and again, it's free. Click here to get the PDF delivered with love to your email inbox. 

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That's right, this is just part 1! We talked on red flags in the last episode so it was only fitting to go right into green flags. 

Yes, we identify specific green flags to keep an eye out for in queer and poly relationships, but we also dive a little deeper in the nuances of dating different genders and the expectations that arise there.

Li goes on a rant, E laughs, and it's just another day in the neighborhood of the shenanigans that ensue when two relationship nerds go into this requested topic. Stay tuned for even more on green flags in part 2 coming out next week!

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A juicy topic that often brings up a lot of questions from people...red flags in relationships. What are some major red flags, as well as some that are more subtle? How do you address them?

We could talk a lot more on this subject (and probably will in future episodes), but today we share about red flags that we have experiences, as well as some that we see from clients in their queer and poly relationships. 

What are some red flags that you would add to what we shared? 

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We are building from the last episode (so go check that out if you haven't!) and diving deeper in to the topic of self-expression in relationships.

What does it even look like to create relationships that actually have the space to not only have you be fully self-expressed, but also the space for your continued growth and evolution in your self-expression? 

Come and join us as we share more on our own experiences, and what we have seen work successfully with clients in creating these relationship dynamics! 

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It can be one of the most courageous acts in a relationship...to be fully and completely self-expressed.

You are a dynamic being, ever evolving and changing. Do your relationships allow for your expansion of self and is that celebrated? 

We dive deep into what it means to be fully self-expressed in relationships, as well as the consequences that come when you find that you are unable to. Through our own experiences and stories, we will share what has helped us to feel more self-expressed in relationships, and what we have learned from working with clients on this very important piece of relating. 

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Coming from the perspective of someone assigned female at birth and raised in the societal expectations for a woman, what happens when you become more masculine in your appearance, mannerisms, and place in society?

This is a tale from Li's perspective on what they have noticed from their experience in their evolution of self and we also get to hear from E's perspective as Li's partner in this evolution. 

What has been your experience in dancing in the areas of your feminine and masculine expressions? 

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Let's talk about the s3xy, s3xy in this episode! And specifically in the realm of s3x with women.

From having conversations around what s3x is, what actually feels good, change happening and being okay, and what you need to do when you trigger your partner...this is a jam packed episode with lots of goodies. 

What would you add or change from what we shared? We would love to hear it!

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Today we dive into a very light topic...unconditional love. 

We go into what it is to each of us and some of the misconceptions that surrounds this idea. And let's make it clear - unconditional love does not mean unconditional tolerance. Oh yes, we go into it.

What does unconditional love mean to you? And what would some ways that you could express that to someone else? 

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There are a lot of misconceptions about being queer, and especially about being in a queer relationship!

In this episode, Li and E talk and laugh about the biases, assumptions, and silly questions they've encountered after coming out.

What misconceptions about being queer have you encountered?

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Until next time, keep loving y'all.