After months away from the mic, I’m back for Season 4 and this time, it’s different. In this episode, I share what it really looks like to hit pause, rebuild from the ground up, and protect your peace while navigating life’s hardest seasons. From financial struggles and fighting through depression, to showing up for my kids when I didn’t feel like showing up for myself, this is about the quiet glow-up that happens when no one’s watching. I talk about teaching my children the value of sacrifice, speaking up for myself, and refusing to let anyone — especially men, play with my peace. This is a conversation about growth, grit, and God’s guidance in the rebuild.

Today, we're diving deep into a transformative journey—from idolization to realization. It's about seeing people clearly, recentering toxic relationships, and embracing the fearless path God has set for us.

We'll explore how placing others on pedestals can cloud our vision, the importance of focusing our minds on what truly matters, and strategies to build balanced, God-centered relationships.

Vote for me through the link in my bio and in the description just head over to @rnrwithchas on Instagram. Hey y’all, After the noise, the heartbreak, the pressure to show up for everyone else... what does it look like to finally choose you? We’re talking about the sacred, often uncomfortable, but deeply necessary journey of choosing you. In this episode, I open up about what it really means to stop self-abandoning, set boundaries without guilt, and return to yourself with love. If you've been pouring into everyone else and wondering when it's your turn, this one’s for you. Let’s talk healing, self-trust, and the power of coming home to the version of you that’s been waiting all along. 💛

Today’s episode is one that hits deep—we’re talking about rejection, loneliness, and how those experiences can leave us guarded, jaded, and questioning everything, even when something good finally comes along. If you’ve ever felt like you're stuck in your own head, constantly second-guessing yourself or pushing people away before they get too close. Rejection stings. Whether it’s from family, friends, relationships, jobs—whatever—it leaves a mark. You downplay your emotions. You sabotage something good before it has the chance to hurt you first. Rejection steals he best of who I am by reinforcing the worst of what's been said of me." -Lysa Terkeurst

Today, we're diving into something deep, being overly empathetic, self-sacrificing, and struggling to put ourselves first. When you constantly prioritize other people’s feelings, images, and needs over your own, it’s easy to lose yourself. Let’s talk about why this happens, the signs that you’re giving too much, and most importantly—how to reclaim your voice and boundaries.

In this episode, I talk about the importance of having confidence in yourself and in your testimony. Your story, your experiences, and everything you’ve overcome are powerful—and you have to own that. Doubt can make you question your journey, but when you stand firm in who you are and what you’ve been through, you inspire yourself and others. Your testimony is proof of your strength, resilience, and growth. Believing in yourself and your story is what will push you forward and open doors you never imagined.

I also have two special guest appearances on this episode.

In this episode, I dive into the hard truth that the reason you’re stuck in the same cycle is because you haven’t stopped to take accountability for your own actions, behaviors, and patterns. It’s easy to blame circumstances or others, but real change begins when you own your role in your own life. Taking responsibility for the choices you make and the conclusions you draw is the first step toward breaking free. When you stop running from self-reflection and start embracing growth, you gain the power to shift your reality and finally break the cycle for good.

In this episode, I talk about the power of choosing confidence over the insecurities that others have projected onto you. Too often, we carry doubts that were never ours, letting them hold us back from our true potential. But stepping into confidence—owning who you are without apology—opens doors to success and allows you to tap into the greatness within you. When you release the weight of others' opinions, you free yourself to grow, thrive, and reach levels you never thought possible. Confidence isn’t just a mindset—it’s the key to unlocking your unused potential.

Two journal prompt questions for you.

1. What is the one compliment you struggle to accept and why?
2. What is the best compliment and do you agree with it?

In this episode, I talk about the importance of pausing to acknowledge just how much my heart has been through—hurt time and time again. It’s easy to keep pushing forward without recognizing the weight of past pain, but true healing starts with acceptance. I dive into why those late-night tears come when reflecting on the past—because they’re a sign of growth, of seeing things clearly for what they were. But the answer to a hurt heart isn’t ignoring it—it’s loving and nurturing it. The best way to rebuild trust in myself is by putting the pieces back together with love, from me, for me.

Life has been life-ing, and I had to take a step back from posting on the podcast to focus on myself. I’ve been prioritizing my well-being, spending time with myself, and making sure I’m no longer putting myself behind anyone else. This hiatus was necessary for growth, reflection, and realignment, and now I’m back—more intentional than ever. Moving forward, it’s all about me, for me, and becoming the best version of myself. Thank you for your patience and support on this journey!