Welcome to the Called to Love Podcast! 

This week I am joined with author and busy mom, friend of the show, Molly DeFrank! Molly is the proud mom of six kids, ages ranging from teenagers to young ones, both biological and adopted. Her family has also fostered children, and her two adopted kids came first from fostering. 

In this episode, we are talking specifically about raising Godly sons as we live in a world that is telling them their masculinity is toxic and they just need to sit still. Anyone with a little boy knows they have so much energy and can’t focus, and while this may be frustrating it is also how God made them. Molly wrote a book titled, “Mothering Boys: 8 Things Your Son Needs From You Before He Turns 10” which has inspired this conversation. Especially if you have children in your home who come from foster care, they may have negative relationships to masculinity, either from bad male role models, failed father figures, or even abuse. 

We have such an important role as parents to train up these kids, help shape and root their identity in God, and establish their worldview. Let’s talk about the practical ways we can help them be empowered young men for Christ! 

Here are a few key takeaways: 

• Boys face societal pressures that can negatively impact their self-worth.
• Building connection and trust is essential for effective parenting.
• Simple moments can create meaningful connections with boys.
• Unconditional love is crucial for boys to feel safe and accepted.
• Storytelling can help boys understand their identity and values.
• Creating safe spaces for boys to fail fosters resilience.
• Moms should focus on their own well-being to better support their children.

Learn more about Molly on her website or connect with her on social media! 

Interested in her book? Click here to learn more! 

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