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Do you feel embarrassed by your English accent?

Many English learners believe they must sound like a native speaker before they can succeed professionally. But is that really true?

In this special re-release from the Real English Conversations archives, Curtis Davies and former co-host Amy Whitney explore one of the biggest misconceptions in English learning: that eliminating your accent is the key to confidence.

You'll discover why clear communication is far more important than sounding native, how confidence and pronunciation work together, and practical strategies to become easier to understand without losing your identity.

Whether you're preparing for meetings, presentations, job interviews, or everyday conversations, this episode will help you focus on the communication skills that truly matter.

In this episode you'll learn:

✅ Why sounding like a native speaker isn't the real goal

✅ The connection between confidence and pronunciation

✅ When your accent actually needs improvement—and when it doesn't

✅ Why your accent is part of your identity

✅ Curtis' STIR framework for improving pronunciation naturally

✅ How tone, rhythm and intonation make your English sound more natural

✅ Practical ways to become easier to understand at work and in everyday conversations

About Real English Conversations

The Real English Conversations Podcast helps intermediate and advanced English learners communicate clearly, confidently, and naturally in professional and everyday situations.

Hosted by English Confidence Coach Curtis Davies, each episode provides practical communication strategies, expert interviews, and real-world English to help you succeed in international careers and English-speaking environments.

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What does it really take to become a great teacher, and what can English learners learn from the classroom?

In this inspiring episode of the Real English Conversations Podcast, Curtis Davies sits down with long-time friend Mike Foster, a Canadian high school Physical & Health Education teacher from British Columbia.

Mike's journey wasn't straightforward. After graduating with degrees in Kinesiology and Education, A strike and government negotiations delayed his teaching opportunities, forcing him to gain experience in unexpected places, from lifeguarding and outdoor education to coaching young people with autism, before finally becoming the teacher he had always dreamed of being.

Together, Curtis and Mike explore confidence, perseverance, resilience, learning styles, neurodiversity, motivation, and why some of life's biggest setbacks often become our greatest opportunities.

Whether you're learning English, changing careers, or simply trying to become more confident, this episode will remind you that success isn't about taking the perfect path—it's about continuing to move forward.

In this episode, you'll learn:

✅ Why perseverance often matters more than talent

✅ How setbacks prepare us for future success

✅ What teaching students with autism taught Mike about empathy and communication

✅ Why teenagers today struggle with confidence more than previous generations

✅ The hidden impact of smartphones and social media on learning

✅ The biggest mistake almost every learner makes

✅ How successful learners develop resilience

✅ Why it's okay to change careers—and why happiness should define success

Key Takeaways

• Confidence grows through experience—not perfection.

• Every setback can become valuable preparation for the future.

• Great teachers first build trust before they teach.

• Every learner is different, and understanding how you learn changes everything.

• Don't quit on a bad day.

• Success isn't measured by money—it's measured by purpose and happiness.

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In this latest episode of The Real English Conversations podcast, Curtis welcomes special guest James Murgatroyd from Holler Digital, reminiscing about their high school days and James's recent trip to London to see his favorite band, Galliano. James shares his experience of walking around London, enjoying classic British foods, and doing radio shows together. The conversation turns to their shared passion for music and DJing, with a look back at their high school DJ sessions and radio show takeovers. Overall, the conversation highlights the enduring love for music and the evolution of technology in DJing and music consumption. Tune in for engaging discussions and valuable lessons for real-world English use! Connect With James Murgatroyd Here: https://hollerdigital.com/ 🎙️ Connect with Teacher Curtis & Real English Conversations

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What does it mean to truly find your voice?

In this powerful and inspiring episode of the Real English Conversations Podcast, Curtis sits down with his longtime high school friend Lance Cardinal, an internationally recognized Indigenous artist, television host, entrepreneur, actor, comedian, cultural ambassador, and member of the Bigstone Cree Nation.

For English learners, language is about much more than grammar and vocabulary. It's about identity, confidence, self-expression, and connecting with the world around you.

Lance shares his remarkable journey from growing up in Calling Lake, Alberta, to becoming one of Canada's most recognized Indigenous artists and cultural educators. Together, Curtis and Lance explore confidence, creativity, language learning, Indigenous culture, reconciliation, storytelling, and the importance of embracing who you are.

Whether you're learning English, building confidence, pursuing a dream, or simply looking for inspiration, this conversation will leave you with a new perspective on finding your voice and sharing it with the world.

In This Episode You'll Learn:

✅ Why confidence comes from embracing who you are

✅ How creativity can help you overcome self-doubt

✅ The connection between language, identity, and culture

✅ Why preserving Indigenous languages matters

✅ What learning Cree taught Lance about communication

✅ The story behind the Edmonton Oilers Indigenous Turtle Island logo

✅ How Indigenous art helps create understanding and reconciliation

✅ The mindset habits that helped Lance overcome adversity

✅ Why celebrating your small wins builds long-term confidence

✅ Practical advice for English learners who are afraid to speak

Memorable Topics From This Conversation 🎨 Creativity Builds Confidence

Lance explains how creativity helped him overcome insecurity and find his place in the world. He shares why confidence isn't something you're born with—it's something you build through action, self-reflection, and celebrating your progress.

🪶 Preserving Indigenous Languages

Lance discusses his journey learning Cree as an adult, why many Indigenous languages are at risk of disappearing, and why preserving language means preserving culture, identity, and history.

🏒 The Edmonton Oilers Indigenous Logo

Learn the fascinating story behind Lance's iconic Turtle Island logo created for the Edmonton Oilers Indigenous Celebration Night and what it represents for Indigenous communities across Canada.

🌎 The Guinness World Record Solar Panel Mural

Lance shares the story behind "The Land We Share," the Guinness World Record-winning solar panel mural in downtown Edmonton that brings together Indigenous and Chinese cultural symbolism through art.

🤝 Reconciliation Through Understanding

Lance offers a thoughtful perspective on reconciliation, cultural understanding, and how Indigenous and non-Indigenous communities can move forward together through learning, healing, and meaningful conversations.

🗣️ A Message for English Learners

One of the most powerful messages in this episode is that your voice matters—even if your English isn't perfect. Communication is about connection, not perfection.

Connect with Lance Cardinal

🌐 Website https://www.soulflamecreativeservices.com

📸 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lancecardinalofficial

📘 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/lance.cardinal.90

🎵 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lancecardinalofficial

💼 LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/lance-cardinal-3a66b6109/

📺 Indigenous Art Adventures Available on APTN and online platforms

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Do you ever freeze when speaking English?

Maybe you know exactly what you want to say, but the words won't come out. Maybe you overthink every sentence, worry about making mistakes, or feel nervous speaking in meetings, presentations, or everyday conversations.

In this inspiring episode of the Real English Conversations Podcast, Curtis Davies sits down with Edit B. Kiss—holistic mentor, trauma healing specialist, international speaker, best-selling author, and former petroleum engineer—to explore the deeper reasons why confidence can disappear when we need it most.

Edit shares her incredible journey from working as a petroleum engineer around the world to becoming a successful holistic therapist and mindset coach in London, helping hundreds of people overcome anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, and self-limiting beliefs.

Together, they discuss the surprising connection between confidence, communication, unresolved emotional experiences, and language learning.

Whether you're learning English, building your career, or simply trying to express yourself more confidently, this episode will give you powerful insights and practical strategies you can start using immediately.

🔑 In This Episode You'll Learn:

✅ Why confidence is often an emotional issue—not a language issue

✅ The hidden reasons people freeze during conversations and presentations

✅ How childhood experiences can affect communication skills later in life

✅ Why practice alone isn't always enough to build speaking confidence

✅ How Edit overcame her fear of public speaking and improvisation

✅ The importance of discovering your "why" when learning English

✅ Why immersion and real-world communication accelerate fluency

✅ How to stop overthinking and start speaking more naturally

✅ Practical confidence-building techniques for English learners

📚 Connect With Edit B. Kiss Here 🌐 Edit B. Kiss

Website: https://editbkiss.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MagicalKarmaPriestess

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/editbkiss

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/editbkiss/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bkissedit

📖 Books by Edit B. Kiss

Stop Panic Now https://a.co/d/05jxw4RH

The Healer's Journey https://www.amazon.co.uk/Healers-Journey-Coaching-Book-Seekers

The Gap Filler Success Book https://a.co/d/bkJWUTL

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Do confident professionals communicate differently?

The answer is yes — and the good news is that confidence isn't something you're born with. It's something you build.

In this episode of the Real English Conversations Podcast, Curtis sits down with communication expert, voice actor, broadcaster, speaker, and author David Tyler, creator of the book Connect: A Field Guide for Master Communicators.

With more than 40 years of experience helping people communicate effectively, David shares the 10 communication habits of confident communicators and explains how anyone can develop them — including English learners, business professionals, managers, entrepreneurs, and leaders.

If you've ever struggled with speaking confidently in meetings, presentations, interviews, networking events, or everyday conversations, this episode will give you practical tools you can start using immediately.

You'll also learn why connection is more important than perfection, how to make people feel heard and valued, and why the world's best communicators focus on serving their audience instead of impressing them.

In This Episode You'll Learn:

✅ The 10 communication habits confident communicators use every day

✅ Why listening is often more powerful than speaking

✅ How asking better questions creates stronger connections

✅ Why silence is one of the most underrated communication tools

✅ How to overcome the fear of making mistakes

✅ Why confidence is built through practice, not talent

✅ The importance of making others feel seen, heard, and understood

✅ David's "Seven Colors of the Voice" framework for becoming a more engaging speaker

✅ How communication skills can improve your career, relationships, and personal growth

Key Takeaway

"Most people think confidence is something you are born with or find. In reality, confidence is something you create — one conversation at a time." — David Tyler

Whether you're learning English, building your career, leading a team, or simply wanting to communicate more effectively, these habits can help you become a more confident and impactful communicator.

Connect With & Follow David Tyler Here

📖 Connect: A Field Guide for Master Communicators https://www.amazon.com/Connect-Field-Guide-Master-Communicators/dp/B0DNRSP2BV

The Master Communicator Podcast

https://open.spotify.com/show/41GUGOiYuYSbJXRWfrv5t4?si=06e30bdd567243bb

🌐 David Tyler Website https://davidtyler.com

🎙️ David Tyler Coaching & Speaking https://davidtylerspeaks.com

📄 The Speaker's Playbook (47 Communication Tips) https://buymeacoffee.com/davidtyler

🐦 X (Twitter) https://x.com/DavidTylerVO

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Do you ever feel like you're capable of more, but something is holding you back?

Many English learners struggle with confidence. They know more English than they think they do, but fear, self-doubt, overthinking, and the fear of making mistakes stop them from speaking naturally and expressing themselves fully.

In this inspiring episode of the Real English Conversations Podcast, Curtis sits down with educator, TEDx speaker, author, professional speaker, engineer, and corporate executive John Kundly to discuss confidence, communication, personal growth, purpose, and how to move forward even when you don't feel ready.

John shares his remarkable journey from a small town in Ohio to becoming a successful corporate executive, TEDx speaker, and author—including a period when he was homeless and living in his car after moving to Los Angeles.

Together, Curtis and John explore why confidence isn't something you wait for—it's something you build through action.

If you've ever struggled with speaking English confidently, experienced imposter syndrome, felt stuck in your career, or wondered how to create better opportunities for yourself, this conversation is packed with practical insights and inspiration.

In This Episode You'll Learn:

✅ Why action comes before confidence

✅ How English learners can overcome fear when speaking

✅ Why confidence and fluency are not the same thing

✅ The "Evidence & Exposure" formula for building confidence

✅ How to overcome self-doubt and imposter syndrome

✅ Why successful people still struggle with confidence

✅ How setbacks and detours can become life-changing opportunities

✅ The difference between goals and purpose

✅ Communication skills that separate average professionals from exceptional professionals

✅ How to build a strong professional network and find mentors

✅ Why comparison destroys confidence and what to focus on instead

✅ Practical advice for English learners who want to create better opportunities in life and work

💡 Memorable Quote From John

"Don't wait until you feel ready to use your voice. Use your voice to get ready."

🎙️ Connect with John Kundly

🌐 Website https://reachwithjohn.com

📖 Book: Within Reach https://withinreachbook.net

🎤 TEDx Talk: The Internal GPS (IGPS) https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=John+Kundly+TEDx

📸 Instagram @ReachWithJohn

🎵 TikTok @ReachWithJohn

💼 LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnkundly/

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What happens when three completely different life journeys collide around the same global challenge?

In the final episode of our 6-part Plot Pattern series, Curtis Davies is joined once again by co-host Matt Gardner (Mod Hob Matt) — along with special guest Maryam Shoja, co-founder of the Mod Hob Cooperative — to explore one of the most advanced storytelling frameworks yet: the Parallel Plot Pattern.

This episode goes far beyond storytelling.

Together, Curtis, Matt, and Maryam trace their individual experiences from the turn of the millennium (Y2K) through the evolution of technology, communication, media, education, and AI — showing how seemingly separate lives can converge around shared challenges and common purpose.

From encyclopedias and VHS tapes… to smartphones, social media, and artificial intelligence… this conversation explores how technology has transformed the way we learn, teach, connect, and think.

But the deeper question remains:

👉 As AI makes everything faster and easier… are we losing the friction that helps us truly learn?

✨ In This Episode, You'll Learn

🎭 What the Parallel Plot Pattern is — and why it's one of the most powerful storytelling structures 🌍 How three different life journeys across Canada, Iran, Malaysia, and Mexico intersect through shared global change 📱 The evolution from analog to digital culture — from flip phones and VHS to AI and smartphones 🧠 Why "friction" and discomfort are essential for deep learning and memory retention 🤖 The opportunities and dangers of AI in education and communication 💬 Why human connection still matters in language learning 📚 How technology changed the way we study, teach, consume media, and build relationships ⚖️ The importance of balancing digital tools with real-world human interaction 🔄 How systems thinking helps us understand how everything is connected

💡 Key Insight from This Episode

"If learning becomes too easy, we risk losing the depth, challenge, and reflection that create real growth."

— Real English Conversations Podcast

🌍 Why This Episode Matters

The Parallel Plot Pattern helps us understand that no one exists in isolation.

Every person experiences the world differently… but our stories still intersect through shared systems, technologies, conflicts, and cultural shifts.

This framework teaches us to: • See multiple perspectives at once • Understand how systems influence people • Think critically about technology and communication • Recognize the value of human connection in a digital world

As AI and automation continue to reshape society, this episode reminds us that meaningful learning still requires: ✨ curiosity ✨ challenge ✨ reflection ✨ human connection

📌 Connect With Mod Hob Matt & Maryam Shoja & The Mod Hob Cooperative

🌐 PlotWeaver Substack (Articles + Story Examples) https://plotweaver.substack.com

🎲 PlotWeaver Cards of Creation & Demo https://www.plotweavergame.com/

🏢 Mod Hob Cooperative https://www.modhob.ca/

🎙️ Connect with Teacher Curtis & Real English Conversations

💬 Want to improve your English for professional success?

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🎧 Follow the Series

This episode is part #5 of a 6-part Plot Patterns series designed to help you speak English more naturally, confidently, and effectively in real-life situations.

Make sure to listen to the previous episodes here :

Pt. #1 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/32ZUr4A3gjJao5B9fYwtY7?si=c6d80914e72b4e12

Pt. #1 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pt-1-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver-inverted/id977345837?i=1000758633315

Pt. #2 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Wr0JvE86Z0es46GNhHI3t?si=44418cfa4d1c4328

Pt. #2 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-episode-pt-2-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver/id977345837?i=1000761512525

Pt. #3 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ISJwN6i7mWGS3omRxnrkq?si=daf286c066814c24

Pt. #3 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pt-3-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver-non-linear/id977345837?i=1000763047501

Pt. #4 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/35BJrefXZYAwVxIThD1hGY?si=c212395822574664

Pt. #4 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-episode-pt-4-of-6-how-to-master-the/id977345837?i=1000766428137

Pt. #5 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6VxWCvn7PTJhKbpOD86yW2?si=b944bd28a7404f9e

Pt # 5 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-episode-pt-5-of-6-how-to-master-the/id977345837?i=1000767564190

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Why do so many English learners struggle with perfectionism, self-doubt, and imposter syndrome — even when they're improving?

In Part 5 of our 6-part Plot Pattern series, Curtis Davies is joined again by co-host Matt Gardner (Mod Hob Matt) to explore one of the most powerful storytelling and personal growth frameworks ever created:

The Monomyth Plot Pattern — also known as The Hero's Journey.

This episode goes far beyond storytelling.

Curtis and Matt break down how the Hero's Journey mirrors the real-life experience of learning English, building confidence, overcoming fear, and pushing through the uncomfortable stages of growth.

If you've ever: • felt embarrassed making mistakes • doubted your English abilities • struggled with perfectionism • or felt stuck in your progress…

This episode will completely change how you view the learning process.

✨ In This Episode, You'll Learn

🎯 The 5 major stages of the Monomyth / Hero's Journey 🧠 Why perfectionism is one of the biggest barriers to fluency 💬 How imposter syndrome affects language learners 📉 The connection between ADHD, confidence, and communication struggles 🔥 Why growth only happens outside your comfort zone 🎵 How mistakes in music, storytelling, and creativity often lead to breakthroughs 📚 The connection between the Dunning-Kruger Effect and language learning 💡 Why "mistakes" are actually part of the mastery process 🚀 How to build resilience and confidence through real communication practice

💡 Key Insight from This Episode

"Your mistakes are not proof that you're failing — they are proof that you're growing."

— Real English Conversations Podcast

🌍 Why This Episode Matters

The Monomyth teaches us that every learner goes through the same cycle:

Comfort → Challenge → Self-Doubt → Breakthrough → Transformation

This applies directly to: • Learning English confidently • Public speaking • Professional communication • ADHD learning challenges • Building resilience • Overcoming perfectionism • Becoming a stronger communicator

The goal is not perfection.

The goal is transformation.

And sometimes the biggest breakthrough happens right after the moment you feel like giving up.

📌 Connect With Mod Hob Matt Here

🌐 PlotWeaver Substack (Articles + Story Examples) https://plotweaver.substack.com

🎲 PlotWeaver Demo (Storytelling Practice Tool) https://www.plotweavergame.com/

🏢 Mod Hob Cooperative https://www.modhob.ca/

🎙️ Connect with Curtis & Real English Conversations

💬 Want to improve your English for professional success?

We currently have space for new students to work directly with Curtis through personalized coaching designed to help you speak clearly, confidently, and effectively at work.

Email - [email protected] OR [email protected]

👉 Book your trial session https://realenglishconversations.com/memberships/member-plans/fluency-programs/trial-lesson/

🔥 Join the 90-Day English Challenge (50% OFF with code 90DAY50) https://realenglishconversations.com/memberships/our-courses/90-day-next-level-english/

PODCAST AND PHRASAL VERB AUDIO COURSE BUNDLE

https://courses.realenglishconversations.com/rec-course-bundle

https://realenglishconversations.com/memberships/our-courses/

🌐 Website https://realenglishconversations.com

🎧 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/76ihNoEcjms6485Vt1ng5q

🎧 Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-english-conversations-podcast-real-english-for/id977345837

📺 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@realenglishconversations

📸 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rec.real.english/

📘 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/RealEnglishConversationsOnline

💼 LinkedIn — Curtis Davies https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtis-davies-07928646/

💖 Support the podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/RealEnglishConversationsPodcast

🎧 Follow the Series

This episode is part #5 of a 6-part Plot Patterns series designed to help you speak English more naturally, confidently, and effectively in real-life situations.

Make sure to listen to the previous episodes here :

Pt. #1 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/32ZUr4A3gjJao5B9fYwtY7?si=c6d80914e72b4e12

Pt. #1 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pt-1-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver-inverted/id977345837?i=1000758633315

Pt. #2 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Wr0JvE86Z0es46GNhHI3t?si=44418cfa4d1c4328

Pt. #2 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-episode-pt-2-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver/id977345837?i=1000761512525

Pt. #3 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ISJwN6i7mWGS3omRxnrkq?si=daf286c066814c24

Pt. #3 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pt-3-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver-non-linear/id977345837?i=1000763047501

Pt. #4 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/35BJrefXZYAwVxIThD1hGY?si=c212395822574664

Pt. #4 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-episode-pt-4-of-6-how-to-master-the/id977345837?i=1000766428137

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Why do so many professionals feel stuck in their English progress, even when they're practicing consistently every day?

In Part 4 of our 6-part Plot Pattern series, Curtis Davies is joined by co-host Matt Gardner (Mod Hob Matt) to explore one of the most practical and powerful frameworks yet: the Circular Plot Pattern.

This episode reveals why progress in English (and in life) isn't about pushing harder — it's about creating balance, adapting to disruption, and building confidence through consistent routines.

If you've ever felt like you're doing "everything right" but still not improving… this episode will show you what's missing.

Together, Curtis and Matt break down how routines, setbacks, and mindset shifts all work together in a cycle, and how mastering this pattern can help you communicate more clearly, stay calm under pressure, and continue improving without burnout.

✨ In This Episode, You'll Learn

🎯 The 4 key stages of the Circular Plot Pattern (and how they apply to language learning) 🔄 Why consistency alone isn't enough — and what actually drives progress 🧠 How to handle disruptions like mistakes, anxiety, or unexpected situations 💬 The role of active listening and confidence in real communication 📉 Why "working harder" can actually slow your progress 📈 How to build habits that improve your English step by step 🧘 Practical strategies (like meditation & mindset shifts) to stay calm and focused 💡 How to create backup plans (Plan B / contingency plans) in real conversations

💡 Key Insight from This Episode

"Progress doesn't come from doing more — it comes from adapting, reflecting, and returning stronger."

— Real English Conversations Podcast

🌍 Why This Episode Matters

The Circular Plot Pattern teaches us that growth is not linear.

It's a cycle: You build a routine → face disruption → adapt → return stronger.

This applies directly to: • Speaking English in real-life situations • Handling mistakes and pressure • Building confidence over time • Staying consistent without burnout

If you want to stop feeling stuck and start feeling in control of your English… this framework is a game changer.

📌 Resources Mentioned

🌐 PlotWeaver Substack (Articles + Story Examples) https://plotweaver.substack.com

🎲 PlotWeaver Demo (Storytelling Practice Tool) https://www.plotweavergame.com/

🏢 Mod Hob Cooperative https://www.modhob.ca/

🎙️ Connect with Curtis & Real English Conversations

💬 Want to improve your English for professional success?

We currently have space for new students to work directly with Curtis through personalized coaching designed to help you speak clearly, confidently, and effectively at work.

👉 Book your trial session https://realenglishconversations.com/memberships/member-plans/fluency-programs/trial-lesson/

🔥 Join the 90-Day English Challenge (50% OFF with code 90DAY50) https://realenglishconversations.com/memberships/our-courses/90-day-next-level-english/

PODCAST AND PHRASAL VERB AUDIO COURSE BUNDLE

https://courses.realenglishconversations.com/rec-course-bundle

https://realenglishconversations.com/memberships/our-courses/

🌐 Website https://realenglishconversations.com

🎧 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/76ihNoEcjms6485Vt1ng5q

🎧 Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-english-conversations-podcast-real-english-for/id977345837

📺 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@realenglishconversations

📸 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rec.real.english/

📘 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/RealEnglishConversationsOnline

💼 LinkedIn — Curtis Davies https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtis-davies-07928646/

💖 Support the podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/RealEnglishConversationsPodcast

🎧 Follow the Series

This episode is part #4 of a 6-part Plot Patterns series designed to help you speak English more naturally, confidently, and effectively in real-life situations.

Make sure to listen to the previous episodes here :

Pt. #1 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/32ZUr4A3gjJao5B9fYwtY7?si=c6d80914e72b4e12

Pt. #1 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pt-1-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver-inverted/id977345837?i=1000758633315

Pt. #2 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Wr0JvE86Z0es46GNhHI3t?si=44418cfa4d1c4328

Pt. #2 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-episode-pt-2-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver/id977345837?i=1000761512525

Pt. #3 On Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ISJwN6i7mWGS3omRxnrkq?si=daf286c066814c24

Pt. #3 On Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pt-3-of-6-how-to-master-the-plotweaver-non-linear/id977345837?i=1000763047501

If you enjoyed this episode...

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