REAL LIFE TALK WITH BLESSING

Hello everyone!! We always look for things to help us get better. This podcast today is a story of two men who fought till death. Why will two grown men end their lives like that, Ego, lack of emotional control. Anger is an expression of emotion. U have to put it under control to avoid catastrophic damage. Below is how the story was sent to me, after review I did this podcast to share my thoughts on it. “👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽

*The Story:*

Two women in the compound had a quarrel. Their husbands, being home, came to see what the matter was. Whether out of too much wisdom or too much foolishness, (e g. I must defend my wife or I can't take this from your type), the two men inherited the fight. After using mere words and hands to fight, they decided to be "manly" and looked for weapons, (chairs, shovels, bottles etc.) The women got scared and ran inside to start shouting and screaming and pleading. But no, anger was on the throne and satan was blowing the whistle. Before long, they injured each other in dangerous places. Blood flowed, tension rose, fear soared and still more bleeding. Yet, they both refused to let go or separate. Before long, one of them slumped owing to fatigue and excessive bleeding. He died. Soon, the other fell too. Other tenants came out and rushed him to the hospital. Doctors swung into action. He lived a few more hours. Before night, he too died !

Same day, two corpses and two widows. Both of them had children. The children had fathers in the morning but became fatherless before night. The men were not sick, not poisoned, not in road accidents, not covid19 cases, not police accidental shooting, not armed robbers or '1million boys' attack. Just anger! "How can you insult my wife! My wife! Iyawo mi!" "Mata na!"

"My husband, don't let them take us for a ride, never!". Now what a shame; what a regret; what a waste!!!

My people, please, let's learn. Prevention is far better than cure! Stay prayerful; Stay peaceful, Stay safe!

A lot time when we lose a family member the grief seems unbearable. But I have to say this to you, you will heal and u will be better. Don’t be too hard on yourself. So in the podcast I share a personal experience and it gave me a glimpse of reflection on life. Life they say is unpredictable, nobody knows when exactly will be the last, that is why I say DO RIGHT, BE NICE , LEAVE A GOOD IMPACT in someone’s life.. and also it’s an opportunity to be grateful to God foe life

Can You Marry A Man

Who Lives In His Family House ? Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be clinged to his wife..... Does that ring a bell, A real man would prefer to acquire his apartment, even if it is a room, than living with his wife and children in the family house.

Do you have what it takes to make your woman CUM, this podcast is about how important sex is in a relationship/ marriage. It is obvious with the increase in cheating and infidelity, a lot of women I have talked to , always talk about how they are starved. Use this methods and build a better relationship and marriage with your partner.. COMMUNICATION, GOOD HYGIENE, LEARNING, BE CREATIVE.. A successful relationship isn't about being picture-perfect or

adorable all the time, but it is about patience and understanding.

There are many common mindsets, behaviors, and habits of truly

healthy relationships that the movies simply don't show. Whether

you're in a relationship looking to improve it or single wondering

about successful relationships, here are a few signs you will have

a successful relationship

Should men pay school fees for their girlfriends? We hear too many stories of heartbreak, about how guys sponsored their girlfriends in school and after graduation the girl will refuse their marriage proposal or break up with them after school. This is my conversation with some men, trying to get it from a man’s prospective. So do you think men should pay school fees for their girlfriends.. a guy recently proposed to his girlfriend who he has being sponsoring in school, and the girl turned him down, and he was crying and telling the girl remember I paid your school fees, so a lot of times the stories end like that. So what’s your talk on that topic should men pay should fees for their girlfriends….. these are the response from different men on this topic.

Why are you bearing unnecessary responsibilities? In this life, wisdom is applicable to everything. She is just your girlfriend and not your wife. What steps is she taking to support herself? What about your own family? Don't they need help? You are an applicant and already you are bearing silly responsibilities.

You better wise up

DEFFINITELY NOT until you have plans of marrying a girl, that is when you can finance for her studies (or whatever she needs the money for). If you have the money and you are willing to help, just do it (like Nike), cos NOBODY knows tomorrow!

She might turn out to be som1 that could help you in the nearest future, who knows?

What kind of men is Nigeria breeding? are they so poor that before they can help out a gal they prolly do as they like they must open a thread and ask the world if it is right knowing the facts that the girl is "poor". These men are so poor mentally trying to be sharp at every turn they cannot have a normal rship because from the inception of the rship all they are out for is what they will gain.

These kind of men if they buy a gal a bottle of coke they want to press her breast if rice mistakenly accompany the coke they expect an all nighter sadly these same men demand respect from the girls as "men" when in a relationship. calculating, making estimates, looking checking if they are getting back their money's worth from every action. I am always i mean always shocked when i see the debates about buying even sweet for a girl. Afraid that they will fall mugu. Men with a small heart are really small men even if they are 6 footers they are midgets in truth.

No wonder this society does not believe in charity. its a take take take society and these are the kind of people that mistakenly get into positions of authority and turn our universities to brothels thinking its payback time for all the gals that ate their money and went free. Small minded men are on the loose.

“I learnt how to do money rituals through Facebook” 18 year old who killed his lover in Ogun confesses. This is why we keep saying that parents should be watchful of pages and sites their Children visits on Facebook and Social Media generally. I listened to the

Interview of those Boys that killed their Girl Friend for money rituals, they said they learnt the Money Rituall

from a group on Facebook "Ogun Owo Ati Osolé todaju'. After a search on Facebook, it's true that the group

exist and it has more than 27500 members, Imagine how

many of those members will be practicing what they

learnt on that Evil groups. I blame the society that celebrate success without knowing the source and track record.

I blame the society that respect only the rich.

I blame the society that doesn't celebrate or encourage hard-work and productivity.

I blame the society that tells you Life is all about the money. I blame the society that keep on producing children in poverty.

I blame the society that gives you any position and Title once you've made money.

I blame a society that teach their children to be dedicated

to their religion instead of teaching them humanity.

I blame a society where an hard-working, intelligent and

truthful ones can't have a voice without money.

I blame a society that pray for miracle money everyday

even in working hours, instead of being diligence in their

duty.

I blame the society where mother is Dancing that she is

eating the fruit of her labour because her 20 year old child

just bought a vehicle for her.

Finally, I blame the society that calls you Jealous Man,

Envious, Bad belle and all sort of names because you

question the source of someone's wealth and flambuoyant

life style.

My Dear People, stop wasting your Time to pray about all these menace, Prayer won't solve anything change your mentality..

Son behead his own biological mother, who would know we will ever get to that time, when a child will say I need mother and I will sacrifice my mother. Greed has become the order of the day, little children that are supposed to be focused with school are thinking about owning cars and house at 15, Parents can’t even tell their child the truth because they will stop giving them from the money. Crazy things are happening, a teacher/principal connived and kidnapped a child in his school, when the innocent child of about 5yrs recognized him he put rat poison in a drink and gave to her, as in that is not enough he cut her in pieces, put on a bag and buried her.. please tell me is that not devilish.? May God not let our path cross with evil men . Parents make it your duty to put your child in the right path. The level of greed in people now adays is something else, a lot of people have thrown away their conscience, they don’t care about peoples lives.. quite unfortunate because all this greed is because they want to use iPhone or drive Benz, how can you take someone’s life over material things? How can you cause so much pain to someone’s family and loved ones because of material things.. let’s be prayerful and watchful of the people around us. Hope you enjoyed this podcast, kindly drop a comment it will be appreciated. Listen to other topics on my podcast I am sure you won’t regret it.

Today all day series I will take this to my grave as we all know it has become common for spouses to keep important information from their partners , so story for today as a wife found out her husband has HIV. It’s quite unfortunate to find one’s self in such predicament.. There is a case of a wife who found out her husband had contacted the deadly disease called HIV , the man never told her he got infected or how he got infected

The only thing is the man stopped being intimidate with her and it has being a big problem in the marriage..

She went snooping to see if he is cheating.

Behold he got infected from one of his rendezvous

Now she is asking what should she do..

I will take this to my grave episode 2

What has become of marriage and commitment, how do judge a case like this?

I will take 'THIS' to my GRAVE!!!

I will take this to my grave , is a series of different stories of people who had died and something they hid came up after their death.

A man secretly built a house and his wife didn’t know till he died , now the question is why will a man hide his possession from his wife and family? Why will a man who has children now disclose it to even his children

We see stories like this every day when a man dies and the family finds out a life the man was living that they didn’t know about

Imagine this man eats the food his wife cooks at home and probably have sexual pleasure with his wife and still hides something like this from his wife.

Like Ese said the relationship was flawed in all ramification and if you dig deeper you might see what will shock you .

So now this boils down to the younger generation, there is more to marriage than just the wedding day , there are things to look out for before you say I DO .

If something like this happened to you how would you handle it? Would you be glad he is even dead or wished he was alive to explain why he would do something like that.

May we not fall victim of such relationship of lies , a relationship where a man will hide his progress from his household, such a man can kill .

They are watching you

Hello everyone, welcome to yet another episode of real life talk with blessing

So some days ago I went shopping and ran into a lady I use to know from the days I was learning tailoring

And if you remember from one of my episodes I said there was a lady who told me last yr why am I doing YouTube channel when I am not paid ..

So she said to me blessing I have being watching you and I see you have being consistent..

then the next word shocked me she said blessing I was just waiting to see how far you will go …

This is it guys , everyone is watching you in that relationship, in that marriage in that career in that business in that path and decision you decided to take ..

That’s the world for you, if you are waiting for people to applaud you, believe me you will be disappointed because a lot of time I always say BE YOUR OWN CHEERLEADER..

I didn’t feel upset or angry rather I felt good for disappointing her by being consistent, because if I give up 1000 and one of them will say shebi we said it before all this one she dey do she go give up soon

Yes some years back I tried a lot of things , oh my goodness, a lot of things, what I didn’t know was I was trying to discover myself like Uncle Tunde said . And once u find that line that was made for you there is no going back on it

So my lovely audience, are u beginning to give up? Are u struggling to be motivated

I am here to tell you today don’t give up on your passion and dream.. don’t give up

Don’t be like the old me that gives up at every storm ..

there are plenty ppl waiting to laugh and say shebi we talk am ..

Don’t lose focus on the finish line , if nobody praise you my brother my sister praise yourself

And I have this last word to say

An unsupportive friend shouldn’t be your friend at all