REAL LIFE TALK WITH BLESSING

As this year draws to a close, you may finally get a chance to reflect on what a wild ride it has been there were silver linings and powerful lessons worth carrying forth. As you prepare to leave 2021 behind, here are a few gentle reminders to carry with you.

What are you releasing as we move into 2022? Wow it’s amazing to see the new year despite all the challenges. A lot of people already started the new year grumbling, that is not the right move 2022 I have a great expectations and I want you to have great expectations too. Being a podcaster has exposed me to amazing intelligent people and I want to say thank you to everyone, for listening to different episodes of my podcast. 2022 is filled with testimonies no matter what it looks like around us, we are not giving up. Build around you the best support system, everyone actually needs that (lol).. You have a duty to fulfill this year, the duty is to make yourself better at what you do 2022 should be a year to show the world you are the best. Despite everything that has being going on with the Covid omicron and all the commotion in the world, it can actually be overwhelming for some people. My job is to bring out the best version of yourself so the world can see you. Do have an amazing year ahead filled with Gods blessings, and to all my fellow podcasters I say thank you for all your help. To my children may God Bless you guys for lifting me up when ever I feel down. You guys are a gift to my life and I love you guys so much.

An appreciation from a friend who is also a podcaster. Thanks Michele 💕 her podcast show is spill the bean , https://anchor.fm/thebeanspill

Why is thanksgiving so important?

Thanksgiving in the Bible means to respond to

God's goodness and grace with gratitude.

The word for giving thanks in the Old

Testament means to raise hands to God in gratitude. The New Testament word for thanks

has the root idea of grace. Why is thanksgiving so important?

Thanksgiving is important because it's a positive

and secular holiday where we celebrate gratitude, something that we don't do enough of these days.

One of the benefits of praising God is bringing Him into your life. When you thank and praise the Lord, you invite His glory and presence into your heart and soul. When your thanksgiving message reaches God,

He can reach down and bring light to your life with his mere presence.

Thanksgiving

Bible Verses About Gratitude• "Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures

forever." 1 Chronicles 16:34

Benefits of Giving Thanks •

. Gratitude helps us see God.

. Gratitude puts us squarely in God's will.

. Gratitude brings peace.

. Gratitude draws us to

*Thanksgiving gives you access to God's presence for the way out of your predicament, the way forward from your stagnation and the way upward from everything that is holding you down. For His faithfulness in our lives. We serve a faithful God, we must acknowledge

His faithfulness with thanksgiving.

Don’t feel overwhelmed with the situation of life, Bible is filled with verses about gratitude that can encourage you to have Thanksgiving in your heart all year-round, not just on Thanksgiving Day, some of our favorite Thanksgiving Bible verses that will

help you realize how you express Thanksgiving to God.

Thanksgiving Bible Verses

"Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good:

his love endures forever." 1 Chronicles

16:34

"Let the peace of Christ rule in your

hearts, since as members of one body you

were called to peace. And be thankful."

Colossians 3:15

"Devote yourselves to prayer, being

watchful and thankful." Colossians 4:2

"I always thank my God for you because

of his grace given you in Christ Jesus."

1 Corinthians 1:4

"You will be enriched in every way so that

you can be generous on every occasion,

and through us your generosity will result

in thanksgiving to God." 2 Corinthians

9:11

"For everything God created is good, and

nothing is to be rejected if it is received

with thanksgiving, because it is

consecrated by the word of God and

prayer." 1 Timothy 4:4-5.

Ways to Mess Up Your Kids Don’t shut your child

Children understands pain more than adults because they feel helpless

A lot of children are so use to been shut up, a lot of children are hiding huge truths from their parents because of the fear of being shut up

Parents are human, a lot of them didn’t know better, but I guess a lot of us know better now

A lot of time parents make mistakes and then repeat them.

I went to the salon, there was a lady who came with her daughters, one of the girls went to wee in the bathroom , when she got back , she was trying to talk to her mum,

She was like mummy, the mother said please keep quiet , the child started again, mummy she was dragging the mum by her too, and the mum was upset and hit her hand and told the child my friend can u keep quiet?? Or I will smack your bombom now, I had to tell her not to do that, that she should find out what the child wants, we are in a public place you never know what happened when she went to wee wee.

You see I have to let you understand that, those are some of the things that makes a child keep shut even when something bad had happened to them , a child who was raped or molested ..

Please parents don’t shut your children down, this can make a child hide things from you ,

It makes a child see you as unapproachable

And that is not a good relationship to build with your child.

Parents pay attention to your child’s mental, emotional needs,

There was a counseling session I had, and the girl of about 12yrs old said, she did not tell her mother that she was raped, because her mother will blame her, that is because she was always blamed for everything that happens in the house, if a cup breaks the mum blames her, if something is not done right the mother blames her , so you see what I am talking about.

So please parents, take note, don’t shut your child down when they want to tell you something, it might not make sense , but give them the audience, you might just find out something.

You should be the first person your child runs to if there is something happening to them, or if they need someone to talk to..

This is one parenting 101 😂 please use it and build a better relationship with your children

Much love 💕 from real life talk with blessing

And I am ur host KingB

God Loves A Cheerful Giver, It means to be ready to act at a moment's notice, to be prepared. With today's economy, it can be difficult for even the most faithful to give to the needy cheerfully GOD LOOKED AT THE GIVER ACCORDING TO THE ATTITUDE OF THE HEART. GOD LOOKED FOR A PERSON WHO GIVE WHOLEHEARTEDLY

A. Who give and does not complain

B. Who give and does not expect

C. Who give and does not doubt. GOD LOOKED FOR A PERSON WHO GIVE SACRIFICIALLY

A. A person Who give even in times of poverty

B. Who gave even in cause everything

C. Who gave even it hurts. The true giver knows that giving is a tide that raises all ships

This podcast is dedicated to Sylvester Oromoni the young boy that was bullied till death, it is devastating for his parents and everyone because we are still asking how did children became this brutal. Sylvester deserves justice this is what his father has to say about the incident, this is so painful "My son told me he was tortured by senior students who

also forced him to drink a substance right inside Dowen

College, Lekki, hostel" - father of late #SylvesterOromoni

Jnr

"They entered his room, switched off the light and

threatened to kill the other students who witnessed what

they did to my son."

Oromoni Jr was 12. Dowen College in Lekki area of Lagos

blamed his death on injuries suffered while playing

football.

Following public outcry, the school announced that it

would temporarily shut its doors and reopen next week as

exams are scheduled to start soon.

But the Lagos State Government has ordered the school to

be shut down until the education ministry and relevant

authorities conclude a probe into Oromoni Jnr's death.

Prayer For The New Month 

Hello everyone pls join me as I welcome pastor Joseph Mukoro of the faith power Christain center here in Port Harcourt 

as we all know today is the last day of the month and tomorrow is the beginning of a new month,

my goodness December is here already, God is indeed faithful, he has protected us in unimaginable ways

pastor Mukoro is here to start our new month with some life-changing,

testimony filling prayers, and as you listen may you be blessed

be blessed 

thank you so much sir God bless you, you know in a time like this when a lot of people are worried, and giving up , 

a lot of people are exhausted in their mind and body 

this will really go a long way to lift up their spirit

once again I say thank you, sir, thanks for joining me here 

and please to you my listeners follow pastor Joseph Mukoro on Instagram,

Facebook and TikTok for more inspiring messages

talk to again on real-life talk with Blessing

African woman as I see it African womanhood as I see it

The African/ Nigerian women is beautiful, hardworking, talented, industrious but limited,

Limited by religion, limited by tradition, limited my upbringing,..

Nigeria as I know it is a very traditional and religious country

You know the African girl child was practically groomed for marriage, to respect a man, to take care of a man, she was taught to take care of her kids and protect her home at all cost , but deep down I keep asking myself why isn’t anyone teaching the African man to do the same? Aren’t they both humans who will grow up and become adults ?

a lot of African women weren’t groomed for career , they weren’t groomed for independence.. a lot grew up to be dependent on a man

I have seen a lot of women living with a man who cheats who abuse her , mentally and emotionally and she will still be with him because of financial dependence or what her family will say ..

There is a lot

A lot of women I have spoken to really want to leave their bad marriages, but when I ask why do you still allow him treat you like this, you will hear her say blessing you know I don’t have a job, how will I take cate of my children.. so a lot of times they are in sad marriages

One thing we need to know is

We have to start teaching our daughters better

That mentality of depending on a man should end ,

A woman should know she can work hard and give herself the good life that she wants

A lot of us grew up with the mentality of depending on a man , we were just groomed for marriage, we were not groomed to be career women,

You hear worlds like with all your education you will end up in a mans kitchen,

A young lady will be taught how to cook how to clean and no one is teaching the men how to do the same ,

You will see a Pregnat woman standing for hrs making meals for her family while the husband might just be watching a movie or pressing his phone..

when I was pregnant a lot of time I just wanted a little help to make me feel relieved, a lot of women needs that, I think that is why a lot of women now look older than their husbands, just saying.

I am happy the women are changing, they are speaking up, a lot are beginning to see their potentials

I am a proud African, I am proud of my culture, but a lot of African culture should be dropped, they are not helping..

Tips to save a relationship. Maybe this is why your relationship isn’t working

How do you save your dying relationship? Is your communication skill bad and you don’t know what to do? Are you talking instead of communicating? Are people afraid to talk to you because of your bad attitude? When you hear love what comes to your mind? Listen to this episode and learn something interesting and use it for all kinds of relationship. When people hear relationship, the first thing that comes to mind is man and woman. Relationship isn’t only about a man and a woman, there is relationship between father and children, mother and children, brother and sister, relationship between extended family also.. this here is the little I have learnt which I want to share, personally I use this with my children, I communicate with them, and I give them the opportunity to communicate with me also.. in the past I didn’t know children should have their own voice. So today I am sharing this with everyone and you should use this in dealing with everyone even ur spouse.

My wife can not cook. How a man should tell his wife if her cooking is bad. Hello everyone welcome to real life talk with blessing , today is gonna be very interesting cos we have a very interesting topic to talk about, if this is your first time joining this show pls don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends

So I invited some very experienced married people so we can talk about this because this topic has actually destroyed a lot of marriages, you will hear things like she said , he said

So today we need to talk about it and how to handle situations like this

I am your humble host KingB my guest:

Ese

Okey

Tari

Brenda

1: So today we are asking the men

If your wife’s cooking is bad will you tell her ?

2: And how will you tell her ..

3: And the woman how would you like to be told if your cooking is bad ..

To the men

1: How do you want to be told if your sexual performance no enter ?

2: To the women in the house how should a woman tell her man if he doesn’t perform well sexually

3: To the woman if your husband doesn’t perform well sexually will you tell him.