Really? no, Really? with Jason Alexander & Peter Tilden

While Sex in Hollywood movies goes in and out of style, we seem to be in an upswing moment with Academy Award wins for nudity-containing films like Anora and The Substance. Jason personally has some scenes, mostly for comedic purposes but even then, performing it is complicated and often very, very uncomfortable.

The #metoo movement brought increased scrutiny to on-screen contact, and with that a relatively new position called an Intimacy Coordinator was born. Coordinators have recently become more common on set but… what does that person do? What qualifications does one have to have to be one… and does it really give performers a feeling of safety, security and control?

To answer that question, we brough on one of the industry’s pioneers in the field. Yehuda Duenyas is a SAG-AFTRA accredited Intimacy Coordinator who provides full-service Intimacy Coordination for film, TV, and theater productions.

Yehuda’s work and collaborations have received a Primetime Emmy award, 2 Webby awards, 8 Cannes Lions, 11 Clios, 2 Facebook awards, an OBIE award, among others.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• Yehuda describes how and why he became an intimacy coordinator.
• What does a SAG-AFTRA certified intimacy coordinator actually do?
• The Blake Lively / Justin Baldoni lawsuit exposes potential on-set dangers.
• Many actors like Michael Douglas, Jennifer Aniston have questioned intimacy coordination.
• What happens when an actor changes their mind?
• That time an actress asked Jason to help her during a dramatic sex scene.
• Jason’s Game: Have they gone nude… or not?
• Google-HEIM: Other potential on-set coordination!

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Friend of the show, Howie Mandell is filling in for Jason Alexander. He’s the only man balder than Jason so… it works!

Lately, TikTok has been in the news with claims that it’s an arm of the Chinese Government - but with 170 million Americans on the app, is there a danger?

Billionaire Frank McCourt thinks this perceived danger can be turned into a positive by using TikTok’s American userbase to supercharge a brand new and improved internet. Really, no really!

Frank McCourt, Jr. is a civic entrepreneur and the executive chairman of McCourt Global, a private family company committed to building a better future through real estate, sports, technology, media, and capital investment industries.

Additionally, he's the founder of Project Liberty, a far-reaching, $500 million initiative focused on leading a movement of people who want to take back control of their lives in the digital age by reclaiming the internet.

Frank also owns the French football club Olympique de Marseille and formerly owned the Los Angeles Dodgers.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• How influential are apps like TikTok?
• The weaponization of social media has empowered mob rule.
• McCourt founded Project Liberty to take control of our data & privacy.
• TikTok poses an existential threat?
• People should have the right to own and sell their own data.
• Would Howie lose his 11 million followers if Frank buys TikTok?
• TikTok influencers don’t know who their followers are unlike other platforms.
• Influencers, not social media platforms should own their followers.
• The Chinese Government can feed disinformation to 170 million Americans; to get them to believe what the Chinese want them to believe.
• Mr. Beast, Kevin O’Leary… …and maybe Howie, are joining Project Liberty.
• But will Byte Dance actually sell U.S. TikTok?
• Jason returns and has thoughts!

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Website (Fix TikTok): thepeoplesbid.com

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Fatal and devastating fires recently upturned the lives of many Los Angelenos. Even now, with the fires thankfully extinguished, things aren't back to normal.

As you may know, we record several episodes in a day, that's allowed us to keep publishing during these difficult days. Some on our staff are still dealing with significant issues in the aftermath which have unfortunately prevented us from recording a show for you this week.

As we take care of some real-life business, we wanted you to know we aren’t going anywhere, we’ll be back NEXT WEEK with more of the zany, mind-blowing, off the wall science, pop culture, news of the day nonsense you’ve come to expect from us.

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Jeff "Skunk" Baxter is a missile defense expert and a counter-terrorist authority who has consulted for Congressional Committees, the Pentagon, and the US intelligence community… he’s also a legendary guitarist who performed that sick solo on “Rikki Don’t Lose That Number”. Really, no Really!

Skunk is universally recognized as a legendary guitarist. Best-known for his work with Steely Dan (as a founding member) and the Doobie Brothers, his versatility and highly developed technique as a soloist made him a hugely in-demand session guitarist from the '70s on to today.

In the mid-1980s, a series of chance encounters led Baxter to a second career working in the defense industry where his natural ability to look at existing technologies and to see alternate ways to use them, led to multiple security clearances and contracts consulting for a litany of major intelligence and defense agencies.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• Explaining how musicians translate improvised melodies on stage from their mind to their fingers.
• Discovering his would-be passion – playing the guitar.
• How a founding member of Steely Dan end up being a missile defense thought maker.
• Predicting why and how the bad guys do what they do.
• What happens when government agents need you when you’re playing with Ringo Starr?
• Explaining Russia’s motivations in 5 seconds.
• Were Steely Dan’s founding members really taskmasters?
• What makes for a good rock solo?
• Insight into working with Elton John, Donna Summer, Eric Clapton, Dolly Parton and more…
• The difference between a good guitar player and an excellent one is…?

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As TikTok America’s legal limbo continues, Australia became the first country in the world to ban minors under age 16 from social media. Australia’s eSafety Commissioner Julie Inman Grant warned the world saying, tech companies aren’t doing enough to protect kids online. Really, no Really!

While the powers of social media apps are undeniable, the harms they cause are more… enigmatic. Even if harmful effects of social media are established, are bans an effective response? As this international debate rages on, there are millions of parents and young people looking down at their smartphones wondering what if anything they should do differently.

To break down the pros and cons of social media we’ve invited Dr. Jacqueline Nesi to make sense of it all. She’s an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at Brown University, where she studies how technology use affects kids and how parents can help.

She’s published over 50 peer-reviewed publications related to youth and technology use, and her work has been funded by organizations like the NIMH, NICHD, and NSF. She’s also testified before U.S. congressional subcommittees at both the national and state level on issues surrounding tech and mental health.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• How do we define social media and would a ban even work?
• So… how does social media affects us?
• Should kid’s online activities be treated like getting a driver’s license?
• Default privacy settings.
• Teaching media literacy is an important facet of modern parenting.
• What age should kids be allowed to use social media?
• The social media changes kids are actually asking for.
• Speaking to kids about dangers like bullying and pornography.
• Deleting, taking a break, downloading again… deleting again… and again.
• How Jason altered his social media algorithm in 6 weeks!
• REAL or FAKE: Jason stumps the panel on potentially actual websites.
• Google-HEIM: Mistakes!

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Survivor: Borneo – the very first season of Survivor, debuted on Network Television in the year 2000. And with it, reality TV began to transform America’s television industry.

25 years later the Hollywood Reporter proclaims that “Reality TV is on Life Support.

Sure, shows like Love is Blind, Real Housewives and new, up-and-comers like The Traitors are still very popular. But at the same time, more and more reality shows are being canceled, less episodes are being produced, and dramatically smaller budgets are being offered for any of it - indicating to both audiences and industry leaders alike that reality shows may be becoming extinct. Really, no Really!

Today, the guys will be talking to Emily Nussbaum, a Pulitzer Prize winning television critic and the author of: Cue The Sun!: The Invention of Reality TV. She’ll reveal some of the reality behind reality television and how much of it isn’t reality at all. Plus, she’ll discuss the long history of the genre, and the practicalities and impracticalities of its success and possible failure. Which leads me to say this episode of our show should be called: Reality. No Reality!

In 2014 she won a National Magazine Award for Columns and Commentary and in 2016 she won thePulitzer Prize for criticism. She’s written for The New Yorker, New York Magazine, Slate and The New York Times.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• Is Reality TV dead?
• Reality TV was birthed by radio “audience participation shows”.
• Alan Funt was a sneaky guy with a hidden microphone that invented prank shows!
• “Cinéma véritéto” to Abject Bull$%*t - Defining Reality TV
• Non-Disclosure Agreements are WAY worse than you think.
• Most morally compromising?  The Bachelor!
• Why Jason doesn’t think he’d do well on Survivor.
• Punking the guy who made “When Animals Attack”.
• Live Executions? Really?
• “Don’t try this at home!” born on Woody Frasure’s “That’s Incredible!”
• Forget Reality TV for a sec, will TV survive?
• Don’t miss Jason on Netflix’s “The Electric State”
• REAL REALITY TV SHOWS OR FAKE? Jason stumps the panel.
• Google-HEIM: The most watched TV EVER! EVER!

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Ratings for professional sports are booming! Football is up, the WNBA continues to break records, people are even watching Major League Baseball! But despite record amounts of money flooding into professional basketball the ratings are actually sinking. Really, no Really!

And while neither Jason nor Peter are known for their athletic prowess, they both had the same question. Why? Is it the number of games, the officiating, a marketing flaw or has the game itself changed?

To answer those questions, we’ve brought in a true expert, four-time NBA champion, John Salley, he was the first player in NBA history to win championships with three franchises and he was a long-time host of The Best Damn Sports Show Period. If he doesn’t know… nobody does.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• Basketball’s success led to a much more competitive sports consumption market.
• Streaming’s global impact on how we all consume sports.
• Caitlin Clark’s star power created tremendous excitement around the WNBA.
• Has the normalization of the 3-point shot broken the game?
• Refereeing can make or break the game.
• How NOT to be distracted by excitable spectators.
• The moment John fell in love with basketball wasn’t on the court.
• Talking to the Media in the locker room… naked.
• Cannabis, cocaine, and women in the NBA.
• How marijuana changed his life… after retirement.
• John’s scariest life moment was on a television set and what it taught him.

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You’d be hard pressed to find a Seinfeld fan who doesn’t know what “shrinkage” is. But in real-life shrinkage is a phenomenon that’s happening all around us and it means, companies are secretly selling us less product for the exact same price or even, at an increased price! In fact, one in three supermarket products have stealthily, shrunk over the past 4 years. And that means, we’re all getting much less product but actually paying more! Really, no really!

Edgar Dworsky who is known as “Mr. Consumer” has been a consumer advocate for over 45 years, and he joins Jason and Peter to expose selling scams, and to explain and reveal how many companies rely on and use “shrinkflation" and "skimpflation".

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• Shrinkflation is legal, so consumer beware.
• Where have all the local consumer reporters gone?
• When salad dressings replace oil …for water!
• The hidden shrinkflation inside dollar stores.
• How “Party Size” and “New and Improved” trick customers.
• Toilet paper rolls have 90% less sheets than they had in the 1960’s.
• Shrinkflation isn’t isolated to your supermarket.
• What triggers someone to become a consumer advocate?
• We’re celebrating 75 years of shrinkflation!
• Jason and Peter share their personal habits relating to expiration dates.
• The strange lengths Jason takes to postpone eating his bananas!
• Googleheim: The breath mint with “Retsyn”, and the dangerous truth about Retsyn!

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• William Shatner explains what would have happened, if he had suffered a heart attack during his recent mission to space.
• Dick van Dyke discusses his career, turning 100 AND he sings for us!
• Wayne Knight reveals the somewhat controversial atmosphere on the Seinfeld set.
• Tech entrepreneur Bryan Johnson attempts to de-age himself.
• Simpson’s producer, Mike Reiss explains why he vacations in dangerous places and shares his experience on the Titan submersible that later exploded.
• Bryan Cranston’s “Breaking Bad “character Walter White, meets George Costanza.
• Dr. Laurie Santos shows us the path to true happiness.
• Scam baiter Kitboga, enlisted Jason to scam a scammer, by impersonating a fake elderly couple.
• Dr. Samuel West explains why he created the Museum of Failure.
• Jason and Peter have the same favorite episode…

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It's an encore presentation of our Festivus episode... with a TWIST. Jason will forever be associated with the 166th episode of Seinfeld, which featured Festivus...the holiday where families air their grievances, then demonstrate feats of strength around an unadorned, aluminum pole. For Seinfeld writer Dan O'Keefe, the horrors of the real-life Festivus, invented by his mad genius father, were traumatizing events. Really, no Really!

But wait, that's not all. In this updated episode we have a very special performance of a brand-new Festivus song, with lyrics by Peter and music and vocals by Sunny and the Black Pack.

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