Ever felt like everyone in the room hates you, but you’re not sure why? Or been told you’re “too much” (or not enough)? Today, we’re unpacking the cultural obsession with dialing women down, the perception gap, and why your biggest personality might be your biggest asset.

🔹 Are famous people actually insufferable—or just big? 🔹 The shocking truth about how others see you. 🔹 Why Jennifer Lopez gets dragged no matter what she does. 🔹 That one guy dancing like no one’s watching—what he knows that we don’t.

Notable Timestamps:

• 02:15 – Why I might actually be insufferable.
• 07:30 – The perception gap: We’re all wrong about how people see us.
• 14:45 – Taylor Swift, Oprah, and why we worship big personalities (but can’t stand them IRL).
• 22:20 – The internet’s favorite people to hate.
• 34:00 – What would happen if you truly took up space?

🔥 Let’s talk: Do you feel too big, too loud, too much? DM me or share your thoughts online—unless you’re one of those private-account, zero-follower, keyboard cowboys.

Listen! Share! Send me a DM and let's TALK ABOUT IT!

🎧 Brilliant Balance podcast, Ep. 383 – The Perception Gap
📖 Interesting source on how we misjudge others' opinions of us – Listen here

💥 Feel too much? Good. Take up more space. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it, tag me on social (@allison__hare), and book a free podcast strategy call: allisonhare.com/freecall.

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What happens when the law decides your body is no longer yours—even in a life-or-death situation? YouTube pioneer and founder of Makeup Geek Cosmetics, Marlena Stell, found herself trapped in a legal and medical nightmare after two miscarriages turned into abortions she was denied—because of where she lived. And it nearly cost her life.

In this unfiltered and urgent conversation, Marlena shares:

• [08:30] The moment she realized she was trapped in Texas’s new abortion laws
• [14:45] Walking around feeling like a “coffin” while waiting to miscarry
• [22:10] The horrifying ER experience that nearly killed her
• [34:00] The impossible choices women face in states with restrictive laws
• [42:15] Why simply "going to another state" isn’t a real solution
• [49:00] How she’s using her platform to break the silence

Resources Mentioned:

• Reinvention Room Episode 141: SPECIAL EDITION: Roe v Wade: 10 Creative Ways to Help
• Planned Parenthood: www.plannedparenthood.org
• Abortion in America (Instagram): @abortioninamerica
• The Afiya Center (Texas-based reproductive justice org): www.theafiyacenter.org
• If/When/How Legal Support: www.ifwhenhow.org

Take Action:
💥 Share this episode. Don’t let this be another story lost in the noise. ESPECIALLY to people who are Pro-Life.
💥 Challenge the silence. Talk about it.
💥 Support organizations fighting for change. Links above.
💥 Follow Marlena Stell on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok

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This isn’t just about one woman’s experience—it’s about what’s happening to thousands. And if you think this doesn’t affect you, think again.

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"Your level of income will never exceed your level of self-worth." - Elyse Archer

Making more money doesn’t have to mean doing more.

Elyse Archer was stuck in the endless hustle—working hard, playing by the rules, and hitting a ceiling she could not break. Until she made one decision that changed everything. Within six weeks, her yearly income became her monthly income.

And she’s handing you the exact shifts that made it happen.

In this episode, you’ll walk away with:
💰 The real reason you’re not earning more (it’s NOT lack of effort)
🔑 How to know if you’re making a smart risk or a reckless move
🧠 The four shifts that will change your income trajectory—fast
🚀 How to stop repelling success without realizing it
👀 A simple mindset tweak that instantly makes more money possible for you

Notable Timestamps:
[04:15] Why Elyse’s "safe" strategy was keeping her broke
[12:30] The gut-check question that reveals if you’re playing too small
[22:45] The four biggest shifts that turned her income around
[36:10] Why hard work isn’t enough—and what actually moves the needle
[48:50] What to do this week to start making more

If you’re tired of working so hard for money that still feels out of reach, this episode is your permission slip to stop grinding and start earning on your terms.

📲 Send this to a friend who needs it, and make sure you're subscribed to The Reinvention Room. Because bigger money starts with bigger moves.

Resources Mentioned:

Elyse Archer's Website

Elyse's free resources for Allison's listeners: www.elysearcher.com/allisonhare

Book a Free Call with Allison to launch your podcast

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February hits, and suddenly, love is supposed to look like a rom-com. But what if your relationship feels… meh? Or worse, on the brink? Before you make a drastic move, let’s talk about 5 relationship strategies that actually work—none of which involve buying lingerie or scheduling weekly date nights.

In this episode, I break down: ✅ Why how you fight matters more than if you fight
✅ The power of “positive illusions” (and why they’re the secret sauce of happy couples)
✅ A counterintuitive mindset shift that strengthens connection instantly
✅ What to stop doing right now if you want real intimacy
✅ The small habit that could change everything

These aren’t the usual, recycled relationship tips. They’re backed by research, tested in real life, and might just save your sanity (and your relationship).

📌 Notable Timestamps:
00:02 – Why Valentine’s Day expectations are BS
05:45 – The biggest misconception about relationship success
12:30 – The one tweak that shifts your partner’s entire perception of you
18:50 – What I learned from my own near-breakup
27:20 – A relationship habit that makes or breaks long-term happiness

🔗 Resources & Links:

• Free Energy Boost Worksheet: https://allisonhare.com/energy
• Work with me: https://allisonhare.com/freecall
• Share this episode with a friend who needs it!

What did you think of these tips? DM me on Instagram (@allison__hare) and let’s talk!

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You ever feel like you’re doing all the “right” things at work—showing up, working your ass off, saying all the right things in meetings—yet you still feel invisible? Like success is just not happening the way it was supposed to?

Enter: The 50% Rule. My guest today, Erin Hatzikostas, former CEO, bestselling author of books You Do You-ish and 50% Rule, and sought-after keynote speaker and executive coach, is breaking down how ditching half the advice you’re given (yes, even from the experts) might just be the key to getting ahead without burning out.

In this episode, we’re talking about:
✅ Why following the playbook is keeping you stuck
✅ How to stand out without playing office politics
✅ Why “just be yourself” is the worst career advice ever
✅ The fastest way to make your work feel meaningful again

If you’re tired of doing everything right and still feeling like something’s missing, this episode is for you.

02:00 | Why working harder isn’t the answer
08:30 | The 50% Rule—what it is & how to use it
17:15 | How to get ahead without following the corporate script
29:45 | Why energy (not effort) is the real game-changer
42:00 | The tiny tweak that makes people actually listen to you at work
54:30 | How to stop overthinking and take action today

🔗 Resources & Links: 

• Erin Hatzikostas Website: https://www.bauthenticinc.com
• 50% Rule Book: https://amzn.to/4gngxrX
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-hatzikostas/
• Book a Free Strategy Call with Allison Hare: https://allisonhare.com/freecall

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What if the world doesn’t need another perfect podcast? In this episode of The Reinvention Room, Allison Hare shares her secrets to launching a meaningful, sustainable, and game-changing podcast. Featuring a conversation with Ryan Lang from The Coaching Equation podcast, this episode explores how podcasting can transform your business, build your personal brand, and create opportunities you didn’t know existed.

You’ll learn:

• Why podcasting isn’t as crowded as it seems—and the surprising stats to prove it.
• The biggest myths about starting a podcast (spoiler: technology isn’t the hard part).
• How authenticity and imperfection are your greatest tools for success.
• The simple, step-by-step process to take your podcast idea from dream to reality.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join the Podcast Launch Waitlist: www.profitablecoach.io/podcastlaunch
• Discover Empire Partners - Helping coaches become profitable business owners
• Follow Ryan Lang on The Coaching Equation Podcast.
• Schedule a free call with Allison re: your podcast and life
• Connect with Allison on Instagram @allison__hare.

Take Action:
If you’ve been waiting for the right time to start your podcast, this is it! Visit www.profitablecoach.io/podcastlaunch to sign up for the waitlist and turn your idea into something impactful.

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You know that irrational hatred some women trigger in you? Same. And in this episode, we’re talking about why. From celebrity drama to the sneaky ways societal conditioning shows up in our everyday lives, I’m taking you through the deeper reasons women criticize other women—and how we can stop.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• [00:00] Why this episode almost didn’t happen (hello, self-doubt!).
• [03:30] Big names, big triggers: Why certain women (like Meghan Markle or J.Lo) bring out big feelings.
• [08:45] Media double standards: Why women have to be either perfectly poised or total messes.
• [15:00] The root of the hate: How anxiety, inadequacy, and internalized sexism play into it all.
• [22:00] My personal struggles with judgment, societal expectations, and feeling like I always had to prove myself.
• [32:40] The fix: How to audit your own biases, shift the narrative, and create more supportive spaces.
• [40:00] Final thoughts: Let’s stop judging ourselves and each other—it’s time to rewrite the story.

Links referenced:

Book your own free reinvention strategy call here: https://allisonhare.com/schedule

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What if manifestation wasn’t just a trending buzzword but a practical tool for redesigning your life? In this episode of The Reinvention Room, Allison Hare sits down with Jen Mazer, affectionately known as the “Queen of Manifestation.” Together, they unravel the myths around manifestation, dive into its science, and explore how intuition and action play a pivotal role in achieving your highest potential.

Jen shares her personal journey, from living rent-free in NYC for 10 years to starting a green school in Africa, offering inspiring stories and actionable tips to manifest your desires. Whether you’re a skeptic or a believer, this episode will leave you with practical tools to shift your mindset, embrace obstacles, and create a life that feels expansive and intentional.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why mainstream manifestation myths miss the mark
• The surprising role of obstacles in the manifestation process
• How to focus on feelings over specific outcomes
• Tools to harness intuition and co-create your life
• How to shift from “victim” to “participant” in your journey

Notable Timestamps:

• [03:15] – The pitfalls of starting the year strong but losing momentum when obstacles arise.
• [06:30] – Why vision boards are the "preschool" of manifestation—and what works better.
• [11:45] – Jen’s story of living rent-free in NYC for 10 years and how it shaped her manifestation journey.
• [16:20] – The science behind manifestation: how your imagination taps into intuition.
• [21:10] – Overcoming skepticism: the difference between intuition and wishful thinking.
• [28:50] – The importance of focusing on feelings, not specifics, to shift your vibration.
• [33:35] – How obstacles are an essential part of the manifestation process—and why they often signal you’re close.
• [41:00] – Practical tools to elevate your mindset and intuition starting today.
• [46:15] – Manifestation myths debunked: Why “fake it till you make it” is misunderstood.
• [52:40] – How Jen turned a simple book idea into a Simon & Schuster deal—and what it taught her about co-creation.

Resources Mentioned:

• Jen Mazer's Website: http://www.queenofmanifestation.com/
• Create a Life of Pure Magic Guide
• Manifest 2025 Workbook
• Jen’s book: Manifesting Made Easy
• The board game Sparked
• Jen’s Manifestation Masters Program and Club 
• Free guide: Create a Life of Pure Magic

Links:

• Connect with Jen: Queen of Manifestation
• Join Allison’s brainstorming session: Book a Call here
• Share this episode with a friend who needs a mindset refresh!

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n this episode of The Reinvention Room, Allison Hare and guest Danielle Laughlin dive into the provocative Netflix documentary Don’t Die, chronicling Bryan Johnson’s $2M-a-year mission to stop aging. This live, unscripted conversation explores the ethics of biohacking, the rigidity of Johnson’s lifestyle, the cultural obsession with longevity, and the societal standards of aging for men and women. With sharp opinions and plenty of laughs, this episode will have you questioning everything you thought about living—and dying.

• 0:00 – 1:45: Allison sets the stage with Bryan Johnson’s background and the Don’t Die documentary.
• 1:46 – 6:30: Bryan Johnson’s journey from suicidal tech entrepreneur to anti-aging pioneer.
• 6:31 – 12:00: Johnson’s strict protocol: Scheduled sex, 11 a.m. dinners, and other wild dating rules.
• 12:01 – 19:45: Ethics of biohacking: Can you play God and still have a meaningful life?
• 19:46 – 24:00: Is perfectionism killing joy? The dangers of rigidity in a hyper-measured life.
• 24:01 – 30:20: Gendered perspectives: Why anti-aging is marketed as beauty for women but optimization for men.
• 30:21 – 34:15: The cult of longevity: Connection and community in Johnson’s movement.
• 34:16 – 39:00: Reimagining aging: What could the future look like if we lived longer, healthier lives?
• 39:01 – End: Visionary or narcissist? Final thoughts on Bryan Johnson and the anti-aging movement.

Resources Mentioned

• Netflix Documentary: Don’t Die
• Book a free brainstorming call with Allison

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Reinvention Room is launched with a whole new twist!!! This episode is a juicy one. I’m breaking down the Tradwife phenomenon—a throwback to 1950s-style homemaking in today’s modern world. If you’ve ever stumbled across an Instagram account like Ballerina Farm or found yourself questioning the aesthetics, values, and privilege behind these curated lives, you’re in for a treat.

I dive into what Tradwives are, why they’re so polarizing, and what makes them both fascinating and frustrating. From the allure of simplicity to the backlash from feminists, I’m unpacking why this cultural moment lights up so many debates. Are Tradwives just living their best lives, or are they masking privilege and systemic inequities? And, most importantly, how does this trend reflect where we are as women in 2025?

I’ll share my personal reactions (spoiler: I’m not moving to a farm anytime soon) and highlight key players like Ballerina Farm and other tradwife influencers. We’ll also explore whether this movement is truly about choice—or if it’s an MLM-esque path back to traditional gender roles.

Notable Timestamps:

• 0:00-2:15: Welcome to The Reinvention Room relaunch! Why we’re talking about Tradwives.
• 2:16-10:30: My journey to this podcast name and why reinvention is central to this conversation.
• 10:31-18:45: What the heck is a Tradwife? Let’s define it and break it down.
• 18:46-27:00: Meet Ballerina Farm—aesthetic goals or a recipe for rage?
• 27:01-33:20: The feminist critique, the conservative dream, and everything in between.
• 33:21-41:10: The behind-the-scenes hustle of tradwife content creators. Are they even “traditional”?
• 41:11-49:00: Is the tradwife movement just an MLM in disguise?
• 49:01-53:30: My closing thoughts: Why this trend makes us feel all the feelings.

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Check out Ballerina Farm on Instagram for a deep dive into the aesthetic.
• Anne Helen Petersen’s viral piece on Tradwives
• Grab your spot in the Freedom25 workshop and mastermind.

If this episode got you thinking, please share it with your friends or tag me on Instagram at @allison__hare. Your shares help change the culture—one conversation at a time. Let’s keep this dialogue going.

Until next time, take up more space and create the life you truly want. You deserve it all.

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