Relationship Rewired

I get it; you care about your partner/spouse; of course, you do. When you care about your unhealthy partner and the unhealthy relationship, you might get defensive, react in toxic and unhealthy ways to bad behavior, but you need to care as much about your mental health as you care about the person that is causing your emotional health to suffer.

Do not miss this podcast if you are in an unhealthy or toxic marriage/relationship!

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People use belittling tactics to evade, deflect, and gaslight their partners.

In this podcast, I am teaching you all the ways a toxic person gets you to do what they want by belittling you; often, you don't even know it.

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Criticism has tremendous power and can be devastating to our developing sense of self. It becomes the truth of who we believe we are.

People that are still wounded from the negative criticism they received as a child are not only extremely hard on themself; their inner critic is brutal, they're also very hard on others.

People report being nervous around them. Their partners feel like they're walking around on eggshells, trying not to wake the beast within. And this is because you apply your own impossibly harsh standards and expectations to other people.

Listen to the podcast to get an in-depth lesson on how this wounded inner child sabotages your relationship, your career, and your life.

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Are there different levels of narcissism?

YES!

What about codependents?

Yes!

The main difference between a codependent and narcissist is that the CD is consciously aware of their pattern, loneliness and that something is wrong.

Alone, both will always feel incomplete, unsatisfied, and lonely. Together, they can forget what is wrong with and what they dislike about themselves. They have escaped shame and loneliness and replaced it with what they know best, chaos, dysfunction, and toxicity.

Here is the link to How To Unlock Your Attachment Style: from unhealthy relationships to thriving partnerships.

The code, as mentioned in the podcast, is BF35.

Can you heal in a relationship?

Can an anxious preoccupied, and dismissive-avoidant find lasting and healthy love?

Is dependency healthy?

What's the difference between the codependent and the anxious preoccupied?

What's going on with the fearful-avoidant?

What does a secure attachment style look like?

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Do you or your partner make ultimatums? For example, do either of you say things you regret saying like, "I want a divorce," "You don't care about me," "I want to break up."

Of course, no one is ever proud of this behavior but when in pain, your attachment style gets activated, and what the other person does or doesn't do triggers your reaction.

Eventually, the crisis will pass, but it will end if your anxious, preoccupied attachment style continues to sabotage the relationship.

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Dating is not easy; dating the opposite attachment style is a disaster.

Adults show patterns of attachment to their romantic partners very similar to the attachment they had with their parent/s; other events come into play, too.

When two people form an intimate relationship, they regulate each other's psychological and emotional well-being.

One must stop confusing love and passion for an activated attachment system, which is anxious, insecure, and obsessive with small windows of feeling secure; that is actually unhealthy and toxic.

What's lacking in your life?

The relationship you desire, the career you dream of, is your bank account always hovering near zero?

If you're open to looking at old ways that haven't worked and learning how to implement new strategies that do, then listen now.

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The way we think, the way we feel, the way we act becomes so routine we no longer put our attention on what we are doing or what we want.

We keep acting and reacting and behaving in a certain way that brings in more negativity, more angst in relationships, more of what we don't want, but we expect different results. And that is insanity.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

How do we stop?

You elevate your life by taking responsibility for who you are and what you are choosing to become.

Most people are already suffering, and they continue to hold onto useless suffering by staying stuck in unhappy, toxic, dysfunctional relationships, careers they hate, with disrespectful, commandos, or uninvolved bosses, and in turn, they are always wishing and wanting but never having.

Why not opt for some useful suffering to get where you want to go and then let go of the misery for good? Listen now to begin to elevate your life!

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