Relationship Theory

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Join power couple Tom and Lisa Bilyeu as they answer your relationship questions and share how they've created a successful marriage for nearly 20 years. No holds barred. No B.S.

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05.13.2022

What are the things you wish someone told you about being in a long term relationship that absolutely killed your last relationship? Maybe you’re in a new relationship now, and you want to know how to set your relationship up ...

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05.13.2022 WATCH THIS To Build Sexual Desire & Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP! \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu What are the things you wish someone told you about being in a long term relationship that absolutely killed your last relationship? Maybe you’re in a new relationship now, and you want to know how to set your relationship up ...
05.06.2022 The SECRET to AMAZING SEX You NEED to Hear \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu At the beginning of the relationship, it’s so effortless to be in each other’s presence. Thanks to nature and biology, the hormones that flood our systems makes being in love the most magical experience in the world. There’s never enough ...
04.29.2022 How to Handle Feelings of Insecurity and Inadequacy with Your Partner \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Dealing with your partner’s insecurities in the relationship gets very challenging. Because they are often triggered by something internal the work needs to come mainly from your partner. When you are committed and down for the long-term relationship, you realize ...
04.22.2022 The TRUTH About Sexual Market Value & The IMPORTANCE of Aesthetics In A Relationship Have you experienced relationships centered around physical attraction? Relationships can fall apart for dozens of reasons, and physical attraction and sex appeal are definitely one of the major reasons. The truth is, we are all having a biological experience as ...
04.15.2022 These SEX SECRETS Can Help SPICE UP Your Sex Life \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Sexual pleasure between you and your partner is a must for a healthy relationship to thrive. When it comes to pleasing each other are you 100% sure you know how to satisfy your partner and are you giving each other ...
04.08.2022 How to Start TRUSTING Yourself and Others In A Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Having trust for others is never easy once you’ve been hurt, and yet is it a must for any relationship to thrive. How do you determine for yourself if you can trust your partner? Tom and Lisa discuss the most ...
04.01.2022 How to Get on The SAME PAGE with Your Partner \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu What should you do when there is a collision of habits between you and your partner? One likes to get the day started early while the other gets rolling at night. Can you have a healthy and happy relationship when ...
03.25.2022 How to BALANCE Your Sex Drives If They Aren’t Aligned \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu If you’re in a long-term relationship or in the beginning of one, it’s important to know that your sex life together will ebb and flow. With time couples often struggle with sexual intimacy for a number of reasons. I could ...
03.18.2022 SPICE UP Your SEX LIFE with These Tips for GREAT SEX \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu There are both physical and psychological benefits to having a healthy sexual relationship. Better immune system, lower blood pressure, better sleep, less stress, and increased intimacy and connection with your partner are just a few of the benefits a healthy ...
03.11.2022 Tips for Handling Yourself In A Toxic Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu It’s been reported that 10 million people every year are affected by family or domestic violence. Domestic violence takes on many forms such as physical, sexual, emotional and psychological abuse. If you are in a relationship that diminishes your value, ...
03.04.2022 How to COMMUNICATE with Your PARTNER Better Than EVER Before \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu At the root of some of the most common reasons relationships fail is a breakdown or lack of communication. Poor communication makes it difficult to connect and understand what you’re both in need of. To feel heard, respected, and understood ...
02.25.2022 What to Do When Your PARTNER CHANGES \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu The key to being married happily ever after is embracing change and the different phases life and your relationship will bring your way. Part of the human experience is evolution, so it is only natural that the person you start ...
02.18.2022 Free-Range vs. Strict Parenting: What To Do If You Have CONFLICTING Parenting Styles What do you do when you and your partner are ready to have kids, and have different views on the best way to raise them? As adults we each have different experiences growing up with how we were disciplined and ...
02.11.2022 How to Let Your PARTNER KNOW That You’re Not Feeling APPRECIATED \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Feeling appreciated in a relationship can look like anything to anyone. Ask 20 people and you’ll get 20 different responses. Obviously, being in a lifelong relationship means that you want your partner to be happy. You want to feel connected ...
02.04.2022 Stop Pointless ARGUING By Avoiding These Common Mistakes \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Think back to the biggest argument you’ve had with your partner, or even a friend or family. Now that you have that argument in mind, explain to yourself what was the argument over. Was it over money, the way he ...
01.28.2022 The SECRET to How Happy Couples Successfully Manage Their Money \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Regardless of debt load, 41% of couples argue over money. Spending, saving, and deciding how to split finances are leading contributors to stress in relationships. Often one partner spends too much and money values collide. Everyone has different experiences growing ...
01.21.2022 3 SIMPLE Tips That Can IMPROVE Communication With Your Partner Why is communication in your relationship so important? Not knowing how to express yourself or how to hear your partner’s concerns can really break down a relationship’s intimacy, connection, and ability to survive long term. When you don’t feel understood ...
01.14.2022 Shocking TIPS on How to Maximize LOVE \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Since you were a child romantic love stories were painted for you that reassure you that love was enough to face any bad guys, hurdles, and problems. When you grow up and experience relationships of all kinds, you quickly find ...
01.07.2022 How to Have A GREAT SEX Life With Your Partner \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Let’s talk about sex! Believe it or not, there are couples that have been together for years and may even have children that are not comfortable with conversations about sex. Having open communication with about your sex life, desires and ...
12.31.2021 Why People Are ATTRACTED to Dysfunctional Relationships \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Right now if you were asked to name the best example of a healthy relationship, who comes to mind? Is it someone close to you, your parents, grandparents or someone famous? When you look around for examples of healthy relationships ...
12.24.2021 How to DATE for a Serious Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance ...
12.17.2021 How to Be INDEPENDENT and Still Let Your Partner Take CARE of You \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being independent is high on the list of many women. Taking care of yourself, not feeling like you need a man or anyone to give you value or level up is freeing and super empowering. Women have been singing about ...
12.10.2021 How to Find COMMON Ground When Your Values Are NOT the Same In A Relationship \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Were you ever warned about dating outside of your faith, outside of your political beliefs, and culture? Was it ever implied that “people like us…” you can finish the rest. Values matter and are not to be taken lightly when ...
12.03.2021 Skills You NEED for a Lasting Relationship When the Honeymoon Phase FADES \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Long lasting relationships are like the super-fit healthy people we love to envy. It’s easy to admire the results, but not many of us want to take the time, the discipline, and effort it takes to get those results. Handling ...
11.26.2021 How to AVOID Falling Out of Love and If Your Relationship is WORTH Saving \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu One thing nearly every single couple does is argue and have disagreements. Communication allows you both to heal and address the issues that cause the arguments, but what happens when those issues, however small, are not being addressed? Does being ...
11.19.2021 How to NAVIGATE Relationship Problems Caused By SOCIAL MEDIA Usage \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Do you have rules of engagement on social media as a couple? Having open communication is a common theme and the foundation for the success of Tom and Lisa’s 20+ years together. Being able to share with your partner how ...
11.12.2021 How to Keep Your INDIVIDUALITY In A Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu So, you found the love of your life and you have so much in common. What happens when you reach a point where you have to go with your gut and it’s telling you to take a different route than ...
11.05.2021 How to Stop Feeling Insecure in a Relationship and Gain Confidence \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Are you using your partner to overcome insecurities and selfishly get what you want? We’ve all been there at some point, and that’s okay. There are times when feeling insecure just happens and you need to work through those feelings. ...
10.29.2021 How to Choose Between a RELATIONSHIP and Your CAREER \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu If you’re not in a relationship and you’re debating if you should pursue love and building a relationship first or going after your business or career goals, this may be the advice you’ve been waiting for. Tom believes 100% that ...
10.22.2021 How to Put Yourself FIRST, Set Boundaries and VALUE Yourself \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being married and having children demands a certain amount of time, energy and effort thanks to spoken and unspoken expectations. Your time, however, must also be reserved for prioritizing your own needs and not just everyone else’s. Tom and Lisa ...
10.15.2021 Prevent a Sexless Marriage and Fix Mismatched Sex Drives \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being in a sex deprived marriage or relationship doesn’t sound like the goal everyone is aiming for, yet so many people have found themselves in this exact situation. The number of reasons you may be experiencing this in your particular ...
10.08.2021 Qualities to Look for When You Date Someone \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu When it comes to dating, choosing the right person to give a try, or not, can be so tricky. You need to have a set of standards, boundaries and a list of qualities and traits you use when deciding who ...
10.01.2021 What to Do If Someone You Love Is HOLDING You Back \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Friends and family are obviously not always going to agree or even understand the decisions you are making in your relationship. What is decided between you and your partner really doesn’t concern others. But, when you are driven for success ...
09.26.2021 Find Out If You Can Be Too HONEST In A Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being told the truth can sting. If it touches on a matter that is emotional for your partner then it is important it’s done with respect and love. But what about when the subject is not so serious and you ...
09.24.2021 How to Know If Your Relationship is Worth Your Time and Effort \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu You may agree, there is nothing more exhilarating than a brand new relationship. You’re excited, the chemistry is strong, and sexual compatibility is perfect. When the novelty begins to wear off and the 1st week turns into the 1st month, ...
09.19.2021 How To Give Constructive Criticism To Your Partner Without Offending Them \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu When you or your partner set goals, support and encourage each other. When either of you behave in a way that is less desirable and not obvious, do you let it go or speak up? In real meaningful relationships, having ...
09.17.2021 How To Make Your Relationships More FUN \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu In a healthy relationship communication is literally everything. When you are in pain, frustrated, excited, pissed or anxious, it’s a beautiful thing to be able to speak with your partner about anything and everything. However, there is a line and ...
09.12.2021 Why CHEATING Is NEVER Okay \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Betrayal in any relationship is so difficult to deal with, but when it’s in a romantic relationship it’s even messier. Everyone’s beliefs, experiences, and ideas of what infidelity really looks like is so different. While there is no judgement for ...
09.10.2021 When to HAVE SEX for the First Time \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu This is a judgement free zone. If you’re not comfortable talking about sex, you may not be ready for sex yet. When it comes to dating, the million dollar question for men and women comes down to having sex on ...
09.05.2021 If You’re Feeling UNAPPRECIATED, This Is How You Fix It \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Every relationship experiences times when you feel less appreciated or your partner says or does something that leaves you feeling hurt. How do you let your partner know that you’re not feeling appreciated? How do you let them know what ...
09.03.2021 How to Not Let Your Insecurities RUIN Your Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Family relationships are so important. Within the same family both healthy and unhealthy relationships can exist. The relationships you have with different family members shape you and impact your view of the world. Sadly there seems to be those few ...
08.29.2021 If You’re WORRIED About Crossing Your Partner, Watch This \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance ...
08.27.2021 The SECRET to Ending Your Partners BAD Behavior \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu In the beginning stages of falling in love almost nothing your partner does could ever bother you. After the honeymoon phase is over and things start to settle you may start to notice habits and behaviors that are annoying or ...
08.22.2021 Why SETTLING DOWN Too Quickly May Be A TERRIBLE Decision \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu One of the more uncomfortable conversations to bring up when your dating is talking honestly about how many sexual partners and relationships you’ve had. While they are uncomfortable, there is an internal peace and confidence you can have from knowing ...
08.20.2021 Why Missing This ONE THING May Tear Your Relationship APART \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu How necessary is it for both you and your partner to be in the same phase of life for the relationship to work? Selection definitely matters when it comes to choosing who you want to share your life with, and ...
08.15.2021 The KEY to Communicating with Your Partner Is By DOING This In any healthy and lasting relationship, effective communication is necessary. Unfortunately, in a relationship you don’t always agree on how to arrive at the outcome, even when you both agree on the end result. Tom and Lisa break down strategies ...
08.13.2021 THIS Is How You Speak to Your Partner About Your PAST Relationships Boundaries are absolutely necessary, and without a doubt you should have personal boundaries in any healthy relationship. But what do you do when your boundaries are getting in the way of you creating a relationship? Are you stuck in a ...
08.08.2021 Relationship SACRIFICES: What You SHOULD and SHOULDN’T Give Up In A Relationship \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu No doubt there are things you sacrifice in every relationship. Sometimes the sacrifices are mutual and other times they tend to be more one sided. The time comes when you have to ask yourself, who’s the sacrifice for? Is it ...
08.06.2021 If You Aren’t A PRIORITY to Your Partner, Listen to This WARNING \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu There is something beautiful and magical about being able to witness and experience the growth of the people you love. In romantic relationships it is also to get caught up in the selfishness of not wanting the person you married ...
08.01.2021 If Your Partner Has A Hard Time Communicating, Watch This \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu There are so many stereotypes out there for men and women, especially around communication. Women talk more than men. Men talk to get things done, and women talk for emotional connection. While there is a bit of truth in every ...

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05.13.2022 WATCH THIS To Build Sexual Desire & Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP! \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu What are the things you wish someone told you about being in a long term relationship that absolutely killed your last relationship? Maybe you’re in a new relationship now, and you want to know how to set your relationship up ...
05.06.2022 The SECRET to AMAZING SEX You NEED to Hear \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu At the beginning of the relationship, it’s so effortless to be in each other’s presence. Thanks to nature and biology, the hormones that flood our systems makes being in love the most magical experience in the world. There’s never enough ...
04.29.2022 How to Handle Feelings of Insecurity and Inadequacy with Your Partner \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Dealing with your partner’s insecurities in the relationship gets very challenging. Because they are often triggered by something internal the work needs to come mainly from your partner. When you are committed and down for the long-term relationship, you realize ...
04.22.2022 The TRUTH About Sexual Market Value & The IMPORTANCE of Aesthetics In A Relationship Have you experienced relationships centered around physical attraction? Relationships can fall apart for dozens of reasons, and physical attraction and sex appeal are definitely one of the major reasons. The truth is, we are all having a biological experience as ...
04.15.2022 These SEX SECRETS Can Help SPICE UP Your Sex Life \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Sexual pleasure between you and your partner is a must for a healthy relationship to thrive. When it comes to pleasing each other are you 100% sure you know how to satisfy your partner and are you giving each other ...
04.08.2022 How to Start TRUSTING Yourself and Others In A Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Having trust for others is never easy once you’ve been hurt, and yet is it a must for any relationship to thrive. How do you determine for yourself if you can trust your partner? Tom and Lisa discuss the most ...
04.01.2022 How to Get on The SAME PAGE with Your Partner \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu What should you do when there is a collision of habits between you and your partner? One likes to get the day started early while the other gets rolling at night. Can you have a healthy and happy relationship when ...
03.25.2022 How to BALANCE Your Sex Drives If They Aren’t Aligned \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu If you’re in a long-term relationship or in the beginning of one, it’s important to know that your sex life together will ebb and flow. With time couples often struggle with sexual intimacy for a number of reasons. I could ...
03.18.2022 SPICE UP Your SEX LIFE with These Tips for GREAT SEX \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu There are both physical and psychological benefits to having a healthy sexual relationship. Better immune system, lower blood pressure, better sleep, less stress, and increased intimacy and connection with your partner are just a few of the benefits a healthy ...
03.11.2022 Tips for Handling Yourself In A Toxic Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu It’s been reported that 10 million people every year are affected by family or domestic violence. Domestic violence takes on many forms such as physical, sexual, emotional and psychological abuse. If you are in a relationship that diminishes your value, ...
03.04.2022 How to COMMUNICATE with Your PARTNER Better Than EVER Before \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu At the root of some of the most common reasons relationships fail is a breakdown or lack of communication. Poor communication makes it difficult to connect and understand what you’re both in need of. To feel heard, respected, and understood ...
02.25.2022 What to Do When Your PARTNER CHANGES \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu The key to being married happily ever after is embracing change and the different phases life and your relationship will bring your way. Part of the human experience is evolution, so it is only natural that the person you start ...
02.18.2022 Free-Range vs. Strict Parenting: What To Do If You Have CONFLICTING Parenting Styles What do you do when you and your partner are ready to have kids, and have different views on the best way to raise them? As adults we each have different experiences growing up with how we were disciplined and ...
02.11.2022 How to Let Your PARTNER KNOW That You’re Not Feeling APPRECIATED \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Feeling appreciated in a relationship can look like anything to anyone. Ask 20 people and you’ll get 20 different responses. Obviously, being in a lifelong relationship means that you want your partner to be happy. You want to feel connected ...
02.04.2022 Stop Pointless ARGUING By Avoiding These Common Mistakes \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Think back to the biggest argument you’ve had with your partner, or even a friend or family. Now that you have that argument in mind, explain to yourself what was the argument over. Was it over money, the way he ...
01.28.2022 The SECRET to How Happy Couples Successfully Manage Their Money \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Regardless of debt load, 41% of couples argue over money. Spending, saving, and deciding how to split finances are leading contributors to stress in relationships. Often one partner spends too much and money values collide. Everyone has different experiences growing ...
01.21.2022 3 SIMPLE Tips That Can IMPROVE Communication With Your Partner Why is communication in your relationship so important? Not knowing how to express yourself or how to hear your partner’s concerns can really break down a relationship’s intimacy, connection, and ability to survive long term. When you don’t feel understood ...
01.14.2022 Shocking TIPS on How to Maximize LOVE \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Since you were a child romantic love stories were painted for you that reassure you that love was enough to face any bad guys, hurdles, and problems. When you grow up and experience relationships of all kinds, you quickly find ...
01.07.2022 How to Have A GREAT SEX Life With Your Partner \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Let’s talk about sex! Believe it or not, there are couples that have been together for years and may even have children that are not comfortable with conversations about sex. Having open communication with about your sex life, desires and ...
12.31.2021 Why People Are ATTRACTED to Dysfunctional Relationships \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Right now if you were asked to name the best example of a healthy relationship, who comes to mind? Is it someone close to you, your parents, grandparents or someone famous? When you look around for examples of healthy relationships ...
12.24.2021 How to DATE for a Serious Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance ...
12.17.2021 How to Be INDEPENDENT and Still Let Your Partner Take CARE of You \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being independent is high on the list of many women. Taking care of yourself, not feeling like you need a man or anyone to give you value or level up is freeing and super empowering. Women have been singing about ...
12.10.2021 How to Find COMMON Ground When Your Values Are NOT the Same In A Relationship \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Were you ever warned about dating outside of your faith, outside of your political beliefs, and culture? Was it ever implied that “people like us…” you can finish the rest. Values matter and are not to be taken lightly when ...
12.03.2021 Skills You NEED for a Lasting Relationship When the Honeymoon Phase FADES \| Tom & Lisa Bilyeu Long lasting relationships are like the super-fit healthy people we love to envy. It’s easy to admire the results, but not many of us want to take the time, the discipline, and effort it takes to get those results. Handling ...
11.26.2021 How to AVOID Falling Out of Love and If Your Relationship is WORTH Saving \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu One thing nearly every single couple does is argue and have disagreements. Communication allows you both to heal and address the issues that cause the arguments, but what happens when those issues, however small, are not being addressed? Does being ...
11.19.2021 How to NAVIGATE Relationship Problems Caused By SOCIAL MEDIA Usage \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Do you have rules of engagement on social media as a couple? Having open communication is a common theme and the foundation for the success of Tom and Lisa’s 20+ years together. Being able to share with your partner how ...
11.12.2021 How to Keep Your INDIVIDUALITY In A Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu So, you found the love of your life and you have so much in common. What happens when you reach a point where you have to go with your gut and it’s telling you to take a different route than ...
11.05.2021 How to Stop Feeling Insecure in a Relationship and Gain Confidence \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Are you using your partner to overcome insecurities and selfishly get what you want? We’ve all been there at some point, and that’s okay. There are times when feeling insecure just happens and you need to work through those feelings. ...
10.29.2021 How to Choose Between a RELATIONSHIP and Your CAREER \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu If you’re not in a relationship and you’re debating if you should pursue love and building a relationship first or going after your business or career goals, this may be the advice you’ve been waiting for. Tom believes 100% that ...
10.22.2021 How to Put Yourself FIRST, Set Boundaries and VALUE Yourself \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being married and having children demands a certain amount of time, energy and effort thanks to spoken and unspoken expectations. Your time, however, must also be reserved for prioritizing your own needs and not just everyone else’s. Tom and Lisa ...
10.15.2021 Prevent a Sexless Marriage and Fix Mismatched Sex Drives \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being in a sex deprived marriage or relationship doesn’t sound like the goal everyone is aiming for, yet so many people have found themselves in this exact situation. The number of reasons you may be experiencing this in your particular ...
10.08.2021 Qualities to Look for When You Date Someone \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu When it comes to dating, choosing the right person to give a try, or not, can be so tricky. You need to have a set of standards, boundaries and a list of qualities and traits you use when deciding who ...
10.01.2021 What to Do If Someone You Love Is HOLDING You Back \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Friends and family are obviously not always going to agree or even understand the decisions you are making in your relationship. What is decided between you and your partner really doesn’t concern others. But, when you are driven for success ...
09.26.2021 Find Out If You Can Be Too HONEST In A Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Being told the truth can sting. If it touches on a matter that is emotional for your partner then it is important it’s done with respect and love. But what about when the subject is not so serious and you ...
09.24.2021 How to Know If Your Relationship is Worth Your Time and Effort \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu You may agree, there is nothing more exhilarating than a brand new relationship. You’re excited, the chemistry is strong, and sexual compatibility is perfect. When the novelty begins to wear off and the 1st week turns into the 1st month, ...
09.19.2021 How To Give Constructive Criticism To Your Partner Without Offending Them \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu When you or your partner set goals, support and encourage each other. When either of you behave in a way that is less desirable and not obvious, do you let it go or speak up? In real meaningful relationships, having ...
09.17.2021 How To Make Your Relationships More FUN \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu In a healthy relationship communication is literally everything. When you are in pain, frustrated, excited, pissed or anxious, it’s a beautiful thing to be able to speak with your partner about anything and everything. However, there is a line and ...
09.12.2021 Why CHEATING Is NEVER Okay \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Betrayal in any relationship is so difficult to deal with, but when it’s in a romantic relationship it’s even messier. Everyone’s beliefs, experiences, and ideas of what infidelity really looks like is so different. While there is no judgement for ...
09.10.2021 When to HAVE SEX for the First Time \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu This is a judgement free zone. If you’re not comfortable talking about sex, you may not be ready for sex yet. When it comes to dating, the million dollar question for men and women comes down to having sex on ...
09.05.2021 If You’re Feeling UNAPPRECIATED, This Is How You Fix It \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Every relationship experiences times when you feel less appreciated or your partner says or does something that leaves you feeling hurt. How do you let your partner know that you’re not feeling appreciated? How do you let them know what ...
09.03.2021 How to Not Let Your Insecurities RUIN Your Relationship \| Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu Family relationships are so important. Within the same family both healthy and unhealthy relationships can exist. The relationships you have with different family members shape you and impact your view of the world. Sadly there seems to be those few ...
08.29.2021 If You’re WORRIED About Crossing Your Partner, Watch This \| Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance ...
08.27.2021 The SECRET to Ending Your Partners BAD Behavior \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu In the beginning stages of falling in love almost nothing your partner does could ever bother you. After the honeymoon phase is over and things start to settle you may start to notice habits and behaviors that are annoying or ...
08.22.2021 Why SETTLING DOWN Too Quickly May Be A TERRIBLE Decision \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu One of the more uncomfortable conversations to bring up when your dating is talking honestly about how many sexual partners and relationships you’ve had. While they are uncomfortable, there is an internal peace and confidence you can have from knowing ...
08.20.2021 Why Missing This ONE THING May Tear Your Relationship APART \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu How necessary is it for both you and your partner to be in the same phase of life for the relationship to work? Selection definitely matters when it comes to choosing who you want to share your life with, and ...
08.15.2021 The KEY to Communicating with Your Partner Is By DOING This In any healthy and lasting relationship, effective communication is necessary. Unfortunately, in a relationship you don’t always agree on how to arrive at the outcome, even when you both agree on the end result. Tom and Lisa break down strategies ...
08.13.2021 THIS Is How You Speak to Your Partner About Your PAST Relationships Boundaries are absolutely necessary, and without a doubt you should have personal boundaries in any healthy relationship. But what do you do when your boundaries are getting in the way of you creating a relationship? Are you stuck in a ...
08.08.2021 Relationship SACRIFICES: What You SHOULD and SHOULDN’T Give Up In A Relationship \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu No doubt there are things you sacrifice in every relationship. Sometimes the sacrifices are mutual and other times they tend to be more one sided. The time comes when you have to ask yourself, who’s the sacrifice for? Is it ...
08.06.2021 If You Aren’t A PRIORITY to Your Partner, Listen to This WARNING \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu There is something beautiful and magical about being able to witness and experience the growth of the people you love. In romantic relationships it is also to get caught up in the selfishness of not wanting the person you married ...
08.01.2021 If Your Partner Has A Hard Time Communicating, Watch This \| Tom and Lisa Bilyeu There are so many stereotypes out there for men and women, especially around communication. Women talk more than men. Men talk to get things done, and women talk for emotional connection. While there is a bit of truth in every ...

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WATCH THIS To Build Sexual Desire & Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP! | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu

The SECRET to AMAZING SEX You NEED to Hear | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Handle Feelings of Insecurity and Inadequacy with Your Partner | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

The TRUTH About Sexual Market Value & The IMPORTANCE of Aesthetics In A Relationship

These SEX SECRETS Can Help SPICE UP Your Sex Life | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

How to Start TRUSTING Yourself and Others In A Relationship | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Get on The SAME PAGE with Your Partner | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

How to BALANCE Your Sex Drives If They Aren’t Aligned | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

SPICE UP Your SEX LIFE with These Tips for GREAT SEX | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

Tips for Handling Yourself In A Toxic Relationship | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

How to COMMUNICATE with Your PARTNER Better Than EVER Before | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

What to Do When Your PARTNER CHANGES | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

Free-Range vs. Strict Parenting: What To Do If You Have CONFLICTING Parenting Styles

How to Let Your PARTNER KNOW That You’re Not Feeling APPRECIATED | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

Stop Pointless ARGUING By Avoiding These Common Mistakes | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu

The SECRET to How Happy Couples Successfully Manage Their Money | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

3 SIMPLE Tips That Can IMPROVE Communication With Your Partner

Shocking TIPS on How to Maximize LOVE | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Have A GREAT SEX Life With Your Partner | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu

Why People Are ATTRACTED to Dysfunctional Relationships | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to DATE for a Serious Relationship | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Be INDEPENDENT and Still Let Your Partner Take CARE of You | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Find COMMON Ground When Your Values Are NOT the Same In A Relationship | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu

Skills You NEED for a Lasting Relationship When the Honeymoon Phase FADES | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu

How to AVOID Falling Out of Love and If Your Relationship is WORTH Saving | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to NAVIGATE Relationship Problems Caused By SOCIAL MEDIA Usage | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Keep Your INDIVIDUALITY In A Relationship | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Stop Feeling Insecure in a Relationship and Gain Confidence | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Choose Between a RELATIONSHIP and Your CAREER | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Put Yourself FIRST, Set Boundaries and VALUE Yourself | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

Prevent a Sexless Marriage and Fix Mismatched Sex Drives | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

Qualities to Look for When You Date Someone | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

What to Do If Someone You Love Is HOLDING You Back | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

Find Out If You Can Be Too HONEST In A Relationship | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Know If Your Relationship is Worth Your Time and Effort | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How To Give Constructive Criticism To Your Partner Without Offending Them | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How To Make Your Relationships More FUN | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

Why CHEATING Is NEVER Okay | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

When to HAVE SEX for the First Time | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

If You’re Feeling UNAPPRECIATED, This Is How You Fix It | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

How to Not Let Your Insecurities RUIN Your Relationship | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

If You’re WORRIED About Crossing Your Partner, Watch This | Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu

The SECRET to Ending Your Partners BAD Behavior | Tom and Lisa Bilyeu

Why SETTLING DOWN Too Quickly May Be A TERRIBLE Decision | Tom and Lisa Bilyeu

Why Missing This ONE THING May Tear Your Relationship APART | Tom and Lisa Bilyeu

The KEY to Communicating with Your Partner Is By DOING This

THIS Is How You Speak to Your Partner About Your PAST Relationships

Relationship SACRIFICES: What You SHOULD and SHOULDN’T Give Up In A Relationship | Tom and Lisa Bilyeu

If You Aren’t A PRIORITY to Your Partner, Listen to This WARNING | Tom and Lisa Bilyeu

If Your Partner Has A Hard Time Communicating, Watch This | Tom and Lisa Bilyeu