RelationshipAlkemy

What is Sacred Spot Massage and why do Tantrikas always talk about it?!

Join us as we discuss all things about Sacred Spot Massage, like why its so important and just exactly what it is.

Together we’ll get into the nitty gritty on how it can benefit all people in their sexual healing journey.

And Jordan will tell the story of her transformational journey from inorgasmic to female ejaculation.

Links mentioned during the call:

• Upcoming Sacred Spot Massage Retreat for Couples
• Previous podcast episode: The 4 Neural Pathways to Access Altered States of Orgasm

Are we talking about going to a frozen yogurt shop? What do we mean when we say “swirly cosmic fusion”? 

Join us on this podcast as we talk about how centering our sexuality in our relationship has brought us immense joy, peace, and satisfaction.

Learn three ways to infuse your sacred union with more bliss and juiciness today.

How much should you tell your partner? Should you tell them everything? Or are there things you should never share?

What if they respond with defensiveness, judgments or dismissal? What makes it safe to share more of yourself?

Intimacy is all about feeling reassured that we are loved and accepted for who we are. In this podcast episode we dive deep into what the microscopic truth is, how sharing your truth with someone can actually be more connecting, and we share practical tools and stories from our personal journey to help you decide for yourself the type of intimate relationship you want.

Join us as we get into the microscopic truth!

Our free handout is available for download here as you listen in: https://relationshipalkemy.com/free-downloads/

How do female cycles affect intimate relationship dynamics?

How can we honor and respect the ancient wisdom and the natural cycles of the female body and integrate that embodiment into our modern masculine-driven western society?

Kayla Alexander offers workshops on reclaiming the cyclical wisdom of the female body. She involves cultivating relationships with the natural living world i.e. the elements, with plants, and with our own unique ancestry. 

Kayla has spent the last 8 years exploring and understanding her own body and how her cycles impact every other aspect of her life. She has taken a deep dive into exploring both somatic and spiritual traditions such as yoga, Vidanta, meditation, Tantra, organic farming, and circle work.

In this episode we explore the 4 primary phases of the female cycle and how it can impact the dynamics of your intimate relationship.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler
• Womancode or In the Flo from Alisa Vitti

Visit Kayla’s website here and follow her on Instagram @daughterofwater_

Have you ever dreamed of being with multiple partners simultaneously?

Polyamory is supposed to bring more love to our relationships. So why does it often turn into the nightmare of polyagony?

In this episode we explore the different styles of polyamory, we reflect on Jessica Fern’s book Polysecure, and we share our personal stories of polyamorous relationships. 

Our free handout is available for download here as you listen in: https://relationshipalkemy.com/free-downloads/

We did not expect this episode to become so personal and emotional as it turned into a live couple’s coaching session…

Katrina Vaillancourt is a relationship coach and a master at empathy. She has created a card game to practice empathy with yourself or with your partner so you can use empathy when challenging situations arise.

What is empathy? Why is it so important? And how can you use empathy to come back to connection fast, even if you have strong disagreements with your partner?

This is what you’ll learn in this episode as Katrina shares the moving story of how she came up with this card game of empathy and saved her relationship with her 9-year-old son. Listen as she coaches us live on practicing empathy to stay connected through difficult times.

Get Katrina’s Empathy card game here: https://www.lovesmartcards.com

Today we have such a juicy topic with a sexy presenter… let’s talk about sex and expanding pleasure!

What if you could unlock your unrealized potential and access altered states of orgasms?

Leah Piper is a Tantra teacher and a sex geek. She combines her 20-year experience of Tantra with the latest scientific research to refine the female pleasure map.

In this episode, you will learn about:

• Why your brain is your biggest sex organ
• The 4 major neural pathways all women can have access to
• The clitoral orgasm
• The vaginal orgasm
• The difference between the G-Spot and the Sacred Spot
• Understanding Amrita, squirting and female ejaculation
• What to think about anal exploration

If you enjoyed Leah’s talk, follow her and get her free video training on “Never Miss another clitoral orgasm again!” here: https://www.moreloveworks.com/free-gift

If you experienced attachment wounds in your early childhood, chances are you may be playing them out in your present relationships. What happened to you when you were young is not your fault. But, if you want to get out of self-sabotaging patterns, it’s important that you become aware of how early attachment wounds can influence your relationship dynamics.

The Attachment Theory has become the center of modern therapy modalities.

Here are the 4 attachment styles:

• Secure Attachment
• Avoidant Attachment
• Anxious Attachment
• Disorganized Attachment

In this episode, we share some personal examples to illustrate this theory and help you better relate to this concept.

Our free handout is available for download here as you listen in: https://relationshipalkemy.com/free-downloads/

What does the Patriarchy have to do with Intimate Relationships? That’s the question we asked Nicky Dyal, an expert and coach on Detoxing from the Patriarchy.

She has a very practical handout you can read called “301 Tip-Offs to Spot Patriarchy and Toxic Masculinity in Action”. The handout is divided in 3 sections:

1. When Toxic Masculinity is Externalized
2. When Toxic Masculinity is Internalized
3. Reactions and Ways of Avoiding Toxic Masculinity

Nicky is not saying that men are bad; her list is an extremely useful tool to detect potential blind spots, and it applies to both genders.

What has been normalized for you? What are the ways you cope with toxic shame and bullying? Tune in to this eye-opening episode on “Detoxing from the Patriarchy”.

Download Nicky’s free handout from her website at https://www.thunderandsage.com, under the Free Tools tab.

Back in 2013, my therapist said, “Love is not enough. You’ve got to address issues about power, sex, and money, otherwise, they will destroy your relationships.” She was right!

Your partner, friend, or family member might say that they see you as their equal, but in tense situations, how do they treat you? Do they try to force their way on you? Power struggles can also start in very subtle ways.

Do you tend to give your power away, or do you tend to unconsciously try to overpower others?

If you want to nurture a thriving relationship that provides safety and deep connection, then recognizing and dissolving negative thoughts and power struggles is paramount.

Tune in to this episode on Dissolving Power Struggles in Intimate Relationships.

Our free handout is available for download here as you listen in: https://relationshipalkemy.com/free-downloads/