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  The basis of a true Religion is: Honesty: Honesty, regardless what matter it is. The Great Saint Ramakrishna (the Gospel of Ramakrishna), who became famous through his love to the Lord said: he never can sacrifice his honesty, regardless what. Or Ramakrishna said: when he sees a totally honest person he knows that this is his last life.  The Hindu and Buddhist Religion are wrong because we should not hurt people with the truth or tell the trues about the fake Gurus!  Gandhi said: You can not hurt me without that I have given you the permission.  We are blind to our own errors and shortcomings. Only, when somebody is pointing out that we are wrong we can comprehend. Or remember the story of the King without cloth, when a child said the king has no clothing on, the king realized that he was naked. Quotes: One honest word is more than 1000 flatter words. Honesty hurts (it should be).  Health: In a healthy body is also a healthy soul!  For the Sufis is the body the temple of God. For the Taoist are health and longevity a must!  If we get ill then there is a reason for that. It might be an unhealthy lifestyle or suppressed negative feelings. In any case, we should know why we live an unhealthy lifestyle or why we suppress our negative feelings and which feelings we have suppressed in which situation. Read my book: Heal yourself and stay healthy.    Live your sex: The Sufis are saying that sex is divine and similar is it to the Taoists. We should live our sex otherwise suppressed sex leads to diseases or perversions. Monks and nuns have double so much prostate cancer and breast cancer than worldly people. If our sex life is too exhausting we should reduce our sex. Because too much and too less sex harms our body.  Personal God relationship: We should develop a personal God relationship and have total faith in God. If we do so our life will be much easier and we can develop our spirituality much faster. Awareness: Awareness of our feelings, thoughts and of the changes in the world is necessary to live a religious life. Aristotle: (Ignorantia Juris non excusat)  Ignorance does not protect one from punishment.  Love and compassion:  Love and compassion are the highest goods in the world. Love is the sum of our good habits (Tao) and should be based on honesty and health!  Never give blind faith to anybody.  No religious or worldly leader should be idealized, rather more checked again and again, for his honesty. Ramakrishna said: please check me like counterfeit money. Osho said You are responsible for your life and for your decisions. Blind faith will never help you! You should be the driver of your life and be aware what you are doing. Don’t give blind faith to me or anybody else! No corruption…  Every income and every spending should be taxed. The government should check, tax and regulate every temple, monastery, church, and mosque, to make sure that never corruption will happen again. Every misuse or corruption should be punished with the highest penalty. Because people have donated selflessly their hard earned money to the religious organizations, to help the poor and needy people, money for catastrophes, and the Religions have misused their money.  For instance, the Thai Military government checks for corruption every temple. And every temple has to pay tax on their income so that the government has to check the income of the temples. Every Religion should do so. No Politics of Religion. The Religions should only teach religion, help the poor and needy people and don’t make politics!   My Video: True Religion https://youtu.be/O_YRBaOgiXAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/true-religion.mp3

  And why is to be in the flow always the best? The belief that everything is destiny in our life has made India to the poorest country in the world!!! The astrology describes that everything undergoes a time cycle of changes and that the stars indicate us that.   This means: there are times in favor of our doing, and times where we have more resistance to get our things done.  For instance, a farmer would not plant his seeds on the ground during the cold and icy wintertime. We can’t be everything that we want if we don’t have the talents and support for that.This looks logical, still some marketing experts making money with selling us our dreams and we can’t accomplish them. Not everything is possible. Still, it is much more possible than we can imagine.  Even worse, we have the best talents for our chosen courier and we don’t get the opportunity. Every effort runs in vain. Everything is possible. Also that we lose. Dr. Patrick Liew, Cofounder of Success Resources said our Agenda should be also in compliance with God will.   For instance in wartime or crises, many people are suffering that they can’t do what they want and even must go in the war as a soldier.  Still, we can be thankful that we still alive.  We should try our best, regardless if we win or lose. If we don’t try who knows that we could accomplish our goals? And then to say it is our destiny that we can’t be successful is to fool ourselves.  For me is the most important thing that I learn something on the path to accomplish something. And also that I enjoy my time and be in the flow. If I do so I never can lose! We try our best and sacrifice our fruits to God… That says the Srimad Bhagavatam.  My Video: What is destiny and what can we change?  https://youtu.be/NAMtTZ82EiI  My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-destiny-and-what-can-we-change.mp3

  For most serious relationships, when they meet each other there was this initial spark.It was different with this person than with the other spouses.Or the spirit wants with that person to be together.The spirit in this case means, that it knows the future already… If we go with our intuition we attract better choices, instead to go with our mind.  What is the enemy of our intuition?Fear that we cannot accept that person because. -We had already emotional relationships that didn’t work out.That hurt us very much… The difference between fear and intuition is logical deduction.  Our mind wants to analyze and break down that problem. -The driving force for analyzing is fear… Intuition doesn’t require thinking, analyzing, or logic, - it knows it already.Afterward, we get this emotion of a full Revelation, - this is the spouse for what I am looking for. How can we let go of our fear and don’t sabotage our chances to meet our soul mate? We have to feel and let go of our emotional past so that we are open to an entirely new relationship… We should be healed from our traumas.Otherwise, we just repeat our traumas or relationships with all the same frustration, even if we have changed the partner.And we see that again and again…  We need the confidence to experience a new chance. What if both partners have unhealed wounds from previous relationships and meet each other? It is very difficult to start a new relationship with a lot of unhealed traumas from past relationships… Mostly this relationship will not survive…  And even most people will reject such an opportunity to be together with an such awesome spouse… Because it is too difficult, and then people even like to run back to their ex-boy/girlfriend. Can you heal if you have multiple relationships…?It is highly unlikely…Sex with multiple partners is more a less a distraction from our internal problems. Before you start dating heal first your internal wounds. The best is to go to a therapist/coach/group (for healing traumas), who can recognize our relationship problems and traumas that we even don’t know about.And with our coach, we can heal our traumas much faster … It saves so much time and frustration… Monitor your progress… Does the therapy help to get what you want?  There are two different approaches... 1. To cope with our problems. - That never will work out!! Suppressing our emotions never will work! 2. Or to heal our traumas, to experience our pain and emotions. That opens up our hearts again and heals our wounds.    My Video: How to attract better a new girl/boy-friend? https://youtu.be/Kv9sVdoi6iQ My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/How-to-attract-better-a-new-girl-boy-friend.mp3

  Or be the leader!  If we can’t find the right friends that are fitting to our lifestyle, still, we can choose to help our friends to adopt a better lifestyle.  Recently, I trekked on the Mount Apo (Philippines). It was a must to have a guide and all the camp equipment, that I didn’t have. So I chose to join a group…. For me is most important to meditate, make Qigong and eat only raw food.  In the night the guides, porters, group members ate their nonvegan meal and drunk a lot of brandy. Should I join or should I adapt to my healthy lifestyle? I meditated inside of my tent in the morning and night. My exercises and Qigong I made in front of the group. The people made their jokes, I didn’t care, even I am an introvert.    Afterwards, I said: Great, I am making my Qigong and be surrounded by monkeys!!! We don’t need to be the average of our friends! Why not be the leader of our friends. Who cares what others think about you? Maybe only You!!! Why we can’t do what we want?  Why not doing the things what we want in any way, regardless what our friends or family think??? Nobody can accomplish something great when he has not the bones to stand out of the mass.  Why shouldn’t you change your friends or separate from your family when they hold you back?  I have done both and I never will regret that!!! Don’t be the average of your friends, be the best that you can be!!! My Video: You are the average of your 5 friends  https://youtu.be/egWn2YRuXDsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-are-the-average-of-you-5-friends.mp3

  The women like to study men to find out how to manipulate them. They try to get as much information as possible to manipulate the men.The Information is power. Information is like a currency that she can use to manipulate him.  And through that the women getting their power over the men. For different men exist different strategies and there doesn’t exist a single strategy to convince every man. I will here describe some often used strategies. 1.) The closeness of their body, - that convince much more than anything else. Because a man is getting vulnerable if she touches him or if he feels her closeness of her skin.  2.) To sleep with him. Through sex, a man gets very vulnerable and after some time he can’t live without her.   3.) To get pregnant by him. 4.) To deny facts that are in the way to manipulate. 5.) To feel helpless,-  please help me; I need your help…  6.) Emotional dramas like to be sad or crying.  To tell:  1.) To say I love you. 2.) That she has felt love for him. 3.) We are together you know that. 4.) I am always here for you, you know that. 5.) I care for you.-  To care for people doesn’t mean to love people. The negative strategies: To destroy his confidence to enslave him.  1.) A woman can destroy the confidence of the man in a second because of what she has learned from him. And the man is scared to get hurt by his spouse and is doing what she wants.  2.) Imagine, you have a very important meeting and the spouse is making a scene to destroy your confidence. Wouldn’t you like to avoid that scene? In the most important times of the man, the woman can easily blackmail the guy….  3.) To break his confidence in the bed, so that he feels like a failure. Wouldn’t you like to avoid that? Simple, fulfill her desires! 4.) To pull emotional him down, when he is not in compliance with her. To blackmail the guys:  1.) With money issues. 2.) With a bad consciousness.  3.) With a divorce. So that the man has to pay for her and the kids even after the separation.  4.) To abuse the man with the most hurtful.  5.) To say she can get better men. My video: How women convince men?  https://youtu.be/JZoC971rZZQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-women-convince-men.mp3

  I went through many hair-loss programs and I want to present something that works and is affordable. Besides severe diseases the reasons for losing hair are: 1. The calcifications of the blood vessels that are supporting the hair roots with nutrition…2. The lack of nutrition necessary for growing the hair…3. Stress.4. The lousy Attitude of the people (to be a sheep) who are losing hairs… People who don't have the freedom to think freely regardless of what society proclaims is correct, and are 90% of the population. 1. The calcification of the blood vessels is a huge problem caused by dairy products, industrially processed food, and meat… The Japanese have designed 1000 years ago the dish Natto, which are special fermented Soybeans with Vitamin K2 that drives the calcium from the blood into the bones!In addition, we have to purify the blood and kidneys with juice from Watermelon with the peel, at least 1/2l per day for at least 2 months. And to clean the liver with milk thistle supplement for at least 6 weeks.  2. Through the bad soil that we have today, our fruits and vegetables have lost 90% of their nutrition within 100 years… So that the population eats too less nutrition. What is needed for the hairs?  Fish collagen or Gelatin.Silica for stronger and flexible hairs and bones that hinder them to break too fast…Natto or Vitamin K2 in MK7 form.Biotin.Vitamin B6.Copper, Zinc.And you should eat pro-biotics in the form of fermented vegetables, soybeans, or pro-biotic supplements every day. Because then your digestive system will work so much better and can get much more nutrition out of your food.  3. Avoid stress… How to prevent and regrow the hair… 1. Apply Biotin as a conditioner and/or take a biotin supplement. Biotin is a vitamin B component and so not harmful. I have tried Biotin Conditioner from Avalon Organics already for over 2 years, and it helps…  In the long run the medicaments minoxidil and finasteride for hair loss are harmful and not useful. 2. Low-level laser therapy for pattern balding with Infrared Laser LED.This device is expensive you get it from Amazon and eBay. So more laser diodes so better… It has positive science-proofed results for hair loss. But the results are different… So shorter your hair, so better, because the hairs are blocking the infrared light… A laser comb makes more sense.  3. Soft Head massage daily for 20 minutes. Science proofed.  4. Micro-needling is only useful when done by specialists. Science proofed. 5. Hair implants are too expensive.  6. Onion Juice, I am doing it already… It is cheap and affordable with positive science-proofed results…  On a 14-day survival, done with 2 times/day onion juice on the head, even bald patches on the head could grow hair. Try out 14 days of onion juice on the head for 1 hour, once a day for every day. And then every second/third day…  2 mid-size onions (5cm diameter) should be enough…  Juice the onions, wash your hair before, dry the hair until they are only wet. And slowly put the onion juice on your head and let them 1 hour on your head. Wash the onion juice out of your hair only with water is the best.… Don’t cry…  The first 3 times it is not so easy (without pain, no gain) after that it is easy to do…  7. Rosemary oil is proven for helping hair loss and regrowing hairs, it gets the same results as minoxidil and finasteride without side effects.  You can use only 3 drops (never above 5 drops) of rosemary 100% essential oil for every application. Blend it with water, Baby shampoo, foam it up with a paintbrush… and then massage it softly on your scalp… Let it soak for 2 minutes…  Or blend rosemary oil together with apple cider water, conditioner, or with hair oil, the best is almond oil for your scalp. The other option is to cook water with rosemary, cool it down until the water is red, and filter the rosemary out. Wash your hair, spray the rosemary-water in your hair, massage it… After 1 hour wash the hair again with water, otherwise the skin can dry out...  You can keep Rosemary water in the refrigerator for only 5 days. My Video: Hair loss remedies https://youtu.be/pgoXAZSFTscMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Hair-loss-remedies.mp3

  This great quote is from Shakespeare. - Until today nothing had changed!!! I tried my whole life to be honest, righteous and expected that the other people will do the same. Most of the time it didn’t work out if the other person is in a higher position and it is in his favor to cheat and to lie. Our minor position will be exploited by the mighty one!!!   Then, why should we be honest and righteous in the first place, when we are in a worse situation when we get cheated. Is it not better to cheat and don’t keep our promise when it is in our favor? The answer depends on the loyalty, honesty of the person. If I look in the mirror, I am proud (even this is ego) that I have been honest my whole life.If we cheat and misuse our position, we will get even more cheated and lose our self-respect. If we lose our self-respect we have lost a lot, and that is the reason why so many people are taking drugs…  Even we are getting rich through cheating we lose much more through our negative self-image.  For the cruel one, it doesn’t matter if he is cheating or misusing his power. Do you want to be such being? Do you want to be insensible and don’t be open for love and joy?  The terrible guy is paying for his hardness and miss his value time to enjoy his life!!! Also, he got cheated and now he likes to revenge.  There exist nothing good in the world until we do it.  We should trust God and can’t trust the world. Still, we have to trust the people to get the things done.  We check first the situation and decide how much we can lose. And then we can decide if we want to risk or if we let go.  Without risk, we can not win.  Gerry Roberts said, from 20 business opportunities may be 1 opportunity will work. Don’t risk everything on one opportunity. If we get cheated from a mighty one, then we have lost just one chance… We still trust in God. Life is life… We take the next chance and after some time we will win.    My Video: Might is Right! https://youtu.be/fRt2UX2BEtcMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Might-is-right.mp3  

  I remember the story of the inventor Thomas Edison…  When Edison invented the electric bulb, he needed over 1000 experiments… After the first 500 attempts, all of his assistants left him. Even a Reporter came to Edison and asked: How is it going on? Edison replied relaxed and cheerful, every day it is going better.The reporter asked, what are your results that you are so cheerful? I have found out that 500 constructions failed, so I know much more!The reporter asked, is this not devastating, you are working so hard and you don’t have any results …? Edison said: I have because I know what is not working! Why are you cheerful?Because this designing of new technology is so exciting, I could not imagine anything else that is more fun or exciting…  After 1000 experiments his electric bulb was burning. In the late night, Edison entered the room of his wife and exclaimed: My bulb is burning! His wife replied angrily, make the light off I want to sleep!!! Life is Life!!! Thomas Edison should be a raw model for us all! His attitude was: Be relaxed. Enjoy your work, regardless how frustrating your job is.Be focused on the here and now and don’t focus on the temporary results.Do your best, regardless what. For instance, when Edison want the Electricity in the City, he even worked as a street worker to get the cable installed. Do not give up.  If we are under tension, we lose our creativity and attract a worse outcome. Every obstacle that we have, is created from inside.So more we put us under tension so more obstacle we will have! What is inside is outside!Don’t blemish anything or anybody else for your struggles!!!This means if we or other think “ there is no way”, we start to dig us our pit hole where we drop by ourselves! Alone to think “there is no way”attract our tragedies.  Don’t be focus only on your goal, though that you will invite your suffering.  How is it to think, Everything is possible and to enjoy your work?  My video: If there is no way  https://youtu.be/Iv9Nvrr7liEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/If-there-is-no-way.mp3

  We all want to get peace in the mind. We can’t understand that we can’t live in peaceful world…. To blemish the world for the wars, corruption,… means also to blemish us. Everything is okay if we would understand the polarity.  For instance Love.  Love is a change of harmony and disharmony within a huge polarity.  If Love is the greatest thing and it is with disharmony, why should disharmony be bad?  And God loves the drama. We cannot get everlasting harmony in our life and that is good so. Both are necessary the devastating moments of life and the stillness of the mind for a fulfilling life. In the monasteries, temples the people seeking the peace in mind and many even renounce their worldly life to find peace in mind, inner fulfilling.  To escape from the world is not the solution.  Even this cannot work… Because we will and we live in a polarity and that for every aspect of our life. Before we can’t accept the worst moments in our life we can’t find peace in mind. The worst thing is to fight against our negative feelings or to pretend that everything is okay.  Only honesty can help us We feel our negative feelings as part of our life. Or even better we enjoy our dramas as an adventure, that proceeds/process in front of us like an exciting movie. The reason why I don’t see movies is, I am engaged in my own movies, where I don’t know the end, where I can’t forecast what happens at next, where every moment is getting more exciting.  For me to see movies is boring, because I can forecast after 15minutes movie the whole movie. How to get peace in the mind? Try to live a more peaceful life where you don’t chase for unnecessary worldly things. We start to meditate and to accept the world around us. And we accept our dramas and see them as an exciting adventure. We don’t escape from conflicts because if we do so we increase our fears.  It is scientifically proved that 80 % of our thoughts are fear driven.  We should conquer our fears instead of to supporting our fears when we escape!!! If we don’t have peace in the mind we accept that as a part of our lives and face the situation.  With acceptance, we will gain peace in the mind.  My Video: How to get peace in the mind? https://youtu.be/zCb2wuBEj04My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-get-peace-in-the-mind.mp3

  Memories warm you up from the inside. But they also tear you apart. Spend your money on the things, money can buy.Spend your time on things, money CAN’T buy. Pain is inevitable.Suffering is optional. Whatever it is you’re seeking won’t come in the form you’re expecting. No matter how much suffering you went through,you never wanted to let go of those memories. Don’t feel sorry for yourself.Only assholes do that. Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it. In everybody’s life, there’s a point of no return.And in a few cases, a point where you can’t go forward anymore.And when we reach that point, all we can do is quietly accept the fact.That’s how we can survive.  I can bear any pain as long as it has meaning. The most important thing we learn at school is the fact that the most important things can’t be learned at school.  That’s what the world is after all- An endless battle of contrasting memories. Chances encounter are what keep us going. No matter how far you travel, you can never get away from yourself. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in.That’s what this storm’s all about. Errors are the punctuation marks of life without which, as in the text, there will be no meaning. Until it’s too late.Do not forget that the work of a lifetime is not a business, but life.  You need to spill your feelings out, worse if you stop doing it. Otherwise, they will accumulate and harden inside, and then your feelings will die. Being honest to each other and wanting to help is the main thing. If someone wants to humiliate you, then you are on the right track. My Video: Quotes Haruki Murakami https://youtu.be/j8BMW-aPpvo My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Quotes-Haruki-Murakami.mp3