Relax with Meditation

  … If… And that maybe never happens.When we get even everything fulfilled, we will still be unhappy. Because we have created this habit to be happy tomorrow.  My father who was a very successful guy was never happy. Because he always wanted more. And that was the reason he was so successful.  All the right things happen today and never tomorrow. The Tomorrow thinking is a vicious circle. Because the tomorrow will be the same of postponing to be happy. And even you will be happy tomorrow, the next day you will again shift the happiness on tomorrow. Now we want to analyze this tomorrow thinking: What we gain tomorrow is in 2 days old again…. And then we are unhappy again.When we get something new, then we think first how brilliant that thing is. Everything has 2 poles…. A beneficial pole and a negative pole. Our mind works like a pendulum. From positive it will swing to negative. Even we admire something after some time our mind will look for mistakes. And that is the reason why in the East philosophy/religion to stop thinking better is than to think at all. We think we can control tomorrow. Normally we have maybe 5% under our control. Every moment we can die… And that will happen! Everything is just so, it is neither good or bad. Our thinking makes a thing positive or negative. Still, everything is just so. How is it if we analyze everything that we want for the positive and negative.  And this I do since over 30 years.   I found out that mostly what I desire is not so attractive as I thought before. And guess what happens? I can be easier happy with what I have and live so more in the here and now. The more things change so more they stay the same.This means we remain the same, regardless how many things are changing.  How is it to be happy with the things, status you have already? The tomorrow will never be better! Don’ t block your happiness through your Tomorrow thinking.  My Video: I’ll be happy tomorrow  https://youtu.be/7naVX6L2d60 My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/I’ll-be-happy-tomorrow.mp3

  Because of the Religions:  Make huge money through their teaching. Give the people a bad consciousness and then rob them out.Overpower governments, people and squeeze them out.Have a double standard/morality - the sexual and corruption scandals of the Religions are well known.Made/make wars against other Religions in the name of the Lord.Demonize people through witch pursuits and kill them as an enemy of the Lord… Kill, enslave and rape nonbelievers of the Islam.Accept slavery and wars.Sexual abuse women, kids… Torture people.Misuse the donation for the poor people or victims in catastrophes and put the money in their own pocket. Sacrifice human life for the benefit of the Lord.Make active politics in the mosque, church, and temple.Proclaim dishonest religious statements and rules to overpower and to discriminate women and certain groups of people.Teach religion rules and history wrong!Don’t allow to criticize their religion teachers, leaders or Gurus, even they are involved in cheating, corruption, sexual abuse of kids and have forbidden sexual affairs. Who wonders, why the Mafia is going to the Catholic Church? Or what is worse the Mafia or the Catholic Church? I could not find an answer!!!! Alone all of these examples above would be enough to make the lucrative business of the Religions an end, still, it continues!! Because the people like to live in slavery, don’t like to think about the crime of the Religions. People rather like to stick to traditions that never had worked. The mass likes to kneel down in front of people in high positions and never question them! Regardless where we look, everywhere we face the wicked guys who want power and wealth. And these people had created the religions, the scriptures after the saint passed by… The next generations made their fortune from the stories of the saint, be them true or false.  When we blemish God for the crime of the Religions or for the dictators, the liars, and cheaters, then we don’t want to be responsible! To complain is too simple, but very comfortable. Until we don’t feel responsible or think we can’t do anything. Our fortune is in the hand of the wicked one and not in the hand of God!!!! We support the wicked and not God! Face it: to idealize a Religion, means to open the door for cheating, lying and to become the fanatic. In Thailand, the Military Dictator checks the temples for corruption and want that they pay tax and open their books. The religious people are against that. Even the religious people prevent that the police can catch the most corrupt and criminal Abbot. So there must be something wrong with the religious people and the society. Every Country should check their organized Religions like the Thai military government.  Gandhi said: Religion is man made and God has no Religion. We can pray and surrender to God also without any organized Religion. My Video: Why the Religions have failed and not God!  https://youtu.be/IOnsPSYXf1U My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-the-Religions-have-failed-and-not-God.mp3

  I have put here some useful tips together….  1.) To sound smartWe all want to be smart, whether we are or not. Wittgenstein said: the greatest fool can become wise if he does what he feels…We express our idea with our own language, don’t polish anything. And through that, you are in the flow with your wisdom, instead of pretending to be somebody else.  2.) Use the criticism from the others…If we are controversial, then we give information that is new or not appreciate from the other people. In this case, we can receive intense criticism.  Don’t take it personally. Hear what the people say and ask them to explain further their criticism… Relax and hear. Look where both of you had been on the same page… Acknowledge that so the tension will diffuse. Look for common ground. Apply the Strategy of  Aikido… You first follow the attacker and then you use his energy to bring him down.  Instead of beating him up like the stupid Karate guys.  Appreciate his opinion. Say thank you for telling me your opinion Look where his or your opinion is wrong. And then bring the solution for both. 3.) Look that he could verbal understand you. Have you spoken your opinion loud and clear enough? Repeat what you have said in different words and loud enough!  4.) Good posture will tell much better!Look that your spine and neck are straight and your breast is open and forward… The knees should not be locked, should be relaxed and bend a little bit. As you have seen on TV, don’t lean backward, sit straight without support for your spine. This will give you much more confidence.  5.) Be physically fit and drink enough water… Easy to do…  6.) Serve the people   If we try to serve the people instead to polish our ego, we will have confidence. All these ego trips make it so hard to find the best solution for everybody. Always remember that you like to help the people and to be a vehicle for the best of everybody. My Video: How to speak with confidence? https://youtu.be/xJ7G08z7ZfIMy Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/how-to-speak-with-confidence.mp3

  That which does not kill us makes us stronger.  The true man wants 2 things:Danger and play.For that reason, he wants women, as the most dangerous plaything. He who has a ‘why’ to live for can bear almost any ‘how’. It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. No one can construct for you the bridge upon which precisely you must cross the stream of life, no one but yourself alone.  To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering. It is nobler to declare oneself wrong than to insist on being right, especially when one is right.  You must be ready to burn yourself in your own flame.How could you rise anew if you have not first become ashes?  The higher man is distinguished from the lower by his fearlessness and his readiness to challenge misfortune.  The strength of a person’s spirit would then be measured by how much truth he could tolerate, or more precisely:To what extend he needs to have it diluted, disguised, sweetened, muted, falsified.  He who cannot put his thoughts on ice should not enter into the heat of dispute.   He who cannot obey himself, will be commanded, that is the nature of living creatures. So long as men praise you, you can only be sure that you are not yet on your own true path but on someone else’s. My Video: Quotes Friedrich Nietzsche https://youtu.be/spvVtkFs2Gk My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Quotes-Friedrich-Nietzsche.mp3

  The Statistic is just like a bikini, the most interesting things are hidden! If we look at the online dating, we discover a lot of wrongs or funny interpretation…  The Question: How important is that your boyfriend has the same race… Most of all western women will say… Not important. But this is contrary to the reality.  Now we look at a real statistic.If we assume that women with smaller breasts than average are married to smaller guys than average. The logic tells us that tall women or women with big breasts prefer big men. That is nonsense. The reality is that all women preferring big guys because their inherent nature wants big babies and they want protection. Is for women the appearance or wealth of their mate more important? The reality, if all male has the same attractive appearance, the guy who earns $60000 is chosen 9 times more over the man who makes only XDollar.  For men is it not important whether the female is in the lower or upper 10% of income.  If a guy is unattractive (10% bottom of appearance) and earns more than $268.000 a year and the handsome (10% top of appearance) man makes $60000 the unattractive guy is the top favorite… Again logic tells us that women care about money more than appearance. The difference between $60000 and $268000 is huge.  If you earn $1000 more than the other guy, you will not be the top favorite!!! My Video: What is right in the Statistic? https://youtu.be/HU3hh1o3OdM  My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/What-is-right-on-the-Statistic..mp3

  Where is a negative mind there is also a positive mind.  Watch the movement of a pendulum. If the pendulum is going slowly upwards to the left side it collects the energy for the movement to the right side. The pendulum reaches its highest point and then it turns its direction and accelerated to the downside and over the middle it reaches its highest speed. The pendulum doesn’t like to stay in the middle or without any movement. And exactly so is our thinking. We don’t think when we are whether be positive or negative, we stay in the middle. And not thinking connect us with the divine. Not thinking is superior to any thinking.  At first, we have to accept our negative mind.  Example, a visitor came to a meditation master and asked how can I gain peace of mind. The meditation master replied, never think of rats… The visitor thought, why?  I normally don’t think of rats. And the meditation master elaborated why he should not think of rats. At home, the visitor went to meditation and always thought on rats.   We attract what we don’t want or what is forbidden. If I demand to drop the thinking, for sure I will think more.  This over stupid concept in positive thinking results in more negative thinking or even worse in suppressing our negative feelings and thoughts. If we suppress our negative emotions and thoughts we attract diseases, like cancer or negative situations.   We learn to accept our negative emotions and thoughts.  The world and our life have always a positive and negative pole. And so it comes that we gain a negative mind and a positive mind… Still, we focus our life on the positive things and we see the negative side, too.  It is to 100% proofed that the feelings creating the thoughts.  80% of our thoughts are fear driven. Because our mind wants to protect us, and so we think always how we can avoid suffering. Only 20% of our thinking is for our benefit, pleasure. If we get rid of our fears, we get peace in the mind!Make a fear lists with the worst case scenery, prioritize them, and the fears are gone.  Learn to meditate!  My video: How to get rid of a negative mind? https://youtu.be/xzB3zwjwUVA My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/How-to-get-rid-of-a-negative-mind.mp3

  Have you seen in Asia, big buildings/bridges/ship constructions out of bamboo? Bamboo is strong, flexible, and light.The main component of Bamboo is Silica… If our bones lack silica, then they break easily.Older people suffer a lot from snatching bones. The digestive system of the elderly cannot extract enough silica from the food anymore. Because they don't take probiotics or eat fermented vegetables every day and they eat too less enzymes from fresh unprepared vegetables or fruits. The bamboo leaf contains 70% organic silica. That means you would have to consume 10 cups of horsetail tea to get the benefits of one cup of bamboo leaf tea! 1 cub of Bamboo tea per day is enough. You can collect the dry leaves from the ground near a bamboo bush when they are clean and make your tea out of it, otherwise, pick the leaves from Bamboo and dry them… My Video: Why do we need Silica for stronger bones? https://youtu.be/CvQN19f5sagMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Why-do-we-need-Silica-for-stronger-bones.mp3

  It is a direction, not a destination.  If we want a healthy life, we should focus on the here and now. This moment is the most precious moment in our life. All this goal setting should not prevent us to be in the here and now. What is more important than to live an extra ordinary life in the here and now?  This process starts now, and it ends in the now! Is really the destination relevant when we are not happy and fulfilled? If we are happy, healthy and fulfilled is the goal important? All our dreams end in a disaster if we can’t enjoy the journey. When I see again and again in my life the most important things didn’t contribute to happiness, fulfillment, and health… The most important things are just like a Fata Morgana.  How would it be if we make the step in the direction to enjoy now, to see the purpose of life to learn… Then every experience would be a life worth because we can learn from that.  We focus our life on our goals, and every experience would enhance our lives as learning.  Our primary focus should be the here and now. I had learned to write with 10 fingers for my orthography program, when I was 10 years old and a dyslexic. And today I see the purpose … My previous goal was to write without errors, that will never happen for a dyslexic. And today I write books with an automatic correction. Go through your life and see this madness to get the most important things, that today are meaningless.  All our passions are needed. Still, is suffering from trivial things necessary? If we have no passions, we have no life… Or we live a spiritual life where passions are not important. Our desires are nightmares….And to the same time, they give us the purpose to live, to hope,… My Video: The good life is a process, not a state of being.   https://youtu.be/4z9OVelaCnw My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/the-good-life-is-a-process.mp3

  The only thing we have to fear is fear itself, Franklin d. Roosevelt. Most people live in a constant state of fear and worry without even knowing it. We can easily see that other people are fear-driven, but we can’t see it by ourselves. Your own sins you see at first with others. (Goethe) Our fear is driven by external or internal influences The politician, the companies, are living from our fears. We think terrorist are dangerous… for instance in Germany are getting every year 44000 people killed by doctors… The pharmaceutical industry sells us vaccines or drugs that make our health even worse, and we buy them because we are afraid to get ill or to die… Inside of us, we have many fears from our childhood and these fears are our decision maker, even we don’t notice it. Every decision we make is fear or pleasure driven. 80% of our decisions are made to avoid pain. 20% of our decisions are made to gain pleasure. The first step of our solution is, we should be aware of our fears. If we are not aware of our fears, our fears dictate our life.  How can we find our hidden fears?Ask yourself these Questions to find your hidden fears! Why we have the concerns, fears when we like to do new things? What will the people think about me?  Do I need really this thing does it makes me safer? Why are we not doing our things differently instead to follow our old strategies?   Why don't we like to change our comfortable life? Why we can’t approach different people? Maybe we have the fear won't be accepted?  Fear is a bad guide! We should face our fears, get rid of them and life becomes amazing. Make your fear lists with the worst outcome that you can imagine… Prioritize your worst scenarios… Find solutions for every fear…. And you will see that your fears are gone! Is it not better to go earlier in bed instead of seeing this crime or horror movie? My Video: How to manage our fears? https://youtu.be/ZEI1q_c9XjY My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/How-to-manage-our-fears.mp3

  When I attended the Seminars with T. Harv Eker and J. T. Fox they told us to delegate all the labor that we don’t like, that we are too qualified for and that we are not good enough…  When I heard that, I thought that is nonsense…I went to the Seminar from Brendon Burchard and he told us that he is making more money in the Seminar Business than T. Harv Eker because he is making nearly everything by himself. Still, he takes 3 months off from his work every year…  The same told me. my father, who was, again and again, entrepreneur of the year… He said no big firm can beat a good running small firm in revenue! Because of so bigger the firm or the team so more ineffective. With a small team where everybody does everything to get the things done, where the communication is good, the work is done fast and good.  When I was working in a small firm as a designing engineer for automation, I had also to make the contracts with the firms, to make the best deals and to repair everything, like milking machines, sawmills, harbor cranes, color factories,… My boss trained me to bargain like crazy so that we could make good profits… But is that engineering work?  Robert Kiyosaki from Rich Dad, Poor Dad… What I can’t, I have to learn to become better…  So more we outsource, so more we lose the control and our money.  We are human beings, and if we concentrate mainly on one subject and skip all of our other abilities our mind becomes distorted, we attract severe brain diseases … Because we have also to do the very simple tasks to relax our mind… be it to play with kids, to paint the walls, to iron our shirts, to work in the garden, to clean the house, to wash the car…  I remember when I was in India and we had to do the pot washing for 20000 people… In one of my night shifts, there had been 3 Professors, 1 Doctor and me as the “unqualified engineer” was in charge…  Be flexible and try to learn from everybody!!! My video: I am too qualified for that  https://youtu.be/LM5lC45Toxk  My Audio on Podcast: RELAX WITH MEDITATION or see link in the end. My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/I-am-too-qualified-for-that.mp3