Relax with Meditation

  First I want to provoke you… and then we find together the solution. For stupid people? For cowards? For what…?  To cheat the people with the divine incarnation in order to make money? For making huge money?It is sad to say that all world religion had cheated the people, squeezed them out, killed even people in the name of God/Allah and to the same time we hear that God is love, compassion, forgiveness, …. If I see the today divine incarnations…. Then I remember, what my first Guru Osho/Bhagwan said on 100 Saints comes one real one, all the others are fakes… The Sufis are saying 1 real Dervish/Sufi comes on 1000 pseudos Dervishes/Sufis.  That is the reason why the people have lost their faith in God!The Srimat Bhagavatam has even forecasted this 2500years ago for this Kaliyuga. That there would be no real Sannyasin anymore, that even the Brahman cast would eat meat and drink alcohol drinks… That the holy cow would be slaughtered in India (Today India is the biggest meet producer in the world, Shame over it!!!)… That the Faith in God will disappear …  At least we can belief in the forecast of the Srimat Bhagavatam, who forecasted also Buddha….What is if we simple let go of these so holly people who are mostly not honest… Then there would be still God, who is not responsible for cheating, killing, in the name of God!!!! I write later over it more. On the other hand, a real Guru can give us the connection to the divine, the kundalini, the initiation in meditation, a satory, heal us and to change our life for the better. Now I want come back to our Question: For what we need religion?To find inner peace, happiness, love, wisdom, confidence and to gain faith in ourselves, in the world…! Through running behind worldly things we can’t find inner peace. What is if we learn to meditate and so to relax even in the difficult times, is this not enough? If we can relax even in our difficult times, this is much more, than mostly of all religious people can gain in their life! On the other hand, if we learn religious teaching and spiritual techniques, than we can learn much faster meditation and even we will gain bliss, inner love and inner happiness through meditation. Without religion, we can’t understand our life, our world, and we can’t connect to the Divine/God. So that it is priceless to gain meditation with religion. Still we need to understand ourselves, this means to understand our psychology, how we act, why we act, how we can change our belief system, subconscious … I think that psychology is very important to gain what we want, … Without understanding ourselves, every step in a new direction of our life is much more difficult. This means we need Meditation, Religion and Psychology to live a happy life.  My Video For what we need religion? https://youtu.be/eY_ngpzTrmMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/For-what-we-need-religion.mp3

  Then You are probably wrong. Quote, Elon Musk I could never understand as a child that people didn’t know what to do to earn money…  We need a compelling goal for that we fight like crazy.. Similarly, you can watch everywhere how strenuous a good mother works to grow up her child…A sacrifice for her child is just meaningless for a good mother, she even doesn’t think at all as a sacrifice… A good mother must be alert for her baby 24 hours, 7 days a week… Does a good mother:  Needs a motivation to serve her child well?Has a goal or is doing goal setting for raising up her child?Needs a vision board or motivation cards?Visualize to grow up her child?Has the love to endure everything for her child?Idealize her baby? Don’t care for sacrifice? How would it be if you would apply that for your goal setting?  How would it be that you do what you are passionate about?  And that I have done my entire life! The people thought that I am mad, for what I do that, it is fiction, non-real … Who got more criticized than me?  If you have a real goal, then that will drive you. Nobody can stop a good mother to care for her baby. Get a baby and call this your goal! Or get a goal and call this your baby! My Video: When you need motivation for your dearest goal… https://youtu.be/Db2MnIi90LwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/When.you.need.motivation.for.your.dearest.goal.mp3 Podcast: Relax with Meditation

  If we see for instance the old people, mainly frustrated, depressed, even they have tried their best to get their goals, desires fulfilled.There was this research from old people what they regret most? Answer what they didn’t have done. If we grow older, we had many desires which we could not live … and then we get inside, even we don’t recognize it, slowly more and more depressed. If we would had felt all of our frustration, then we would not be depressed for that.  Now I want to go one step farther.If the world would be perfect and we could accomplish everything….Do you think that this will give us all? Or would it make us total happy?Or would it make ourselves more dependence on material, worldly things? Can we buy Happiness or Love? Is it possible that there is true happiness/love beyond of our desires/ worldly things? Goethe said: Happiness that accompany our whole life and that doesn’t matter on worldly things/desires is the true or inner happiness! The same is true also for love… true love doesn’t depend on our desires that we get fulfilled, it is just there without reason. So more we accomplish so more we want!! Or we don’t care anymore!! My guru Osho/Bhagwan said if we don’t achieve something meaningful on the inner/spiritual/religious path, then we become more and more depressed/frustrated when we grow older. Because we have missed our chance to connect with the divine… This doesn’t mean that we do not live our desires!!! We should live our desires consciously and find out through that: This is not all (Sanskrit: Neti Neti). There must be something bigger … And this I call here the Divine!!! If God would have created a perfect world, who would think any more of God. Our world is not perfect for the worldly thinking people, and so we have to suffer for everything we accomplish or even we could not accomplish. The happiest people in the world had been the people, who had been connected to the divine…. Because they have learned to connect with the divine… And this everybody can learn!!! We don’t need to live in celibacy, rather more we chose for ourselves the right spiritual methods that make us happy…. It can start with Trance dancing or a great Dikir Night (Sufi), or with going to a high spiritual loaded place in India, Nepal, Tibet, Turkey (Konya)… and to meditate there, or going to a saint… My Video: Is there more?  https://youtu.be/LOFOtRwuxOEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Is-there-More.mp3

  If we want to change our lives, then first we have to change ourselves.  If we think, it is enough to do everything to reach our goal… This will not work out because inside we have to change.  For instance, if we see all these Lottery winners,… after 5 years over 90% are even broken more than before they won the Lottery. Or T. Harv Eker, Antonie Robbins got very fast wealthy and had been poor after a short time again. And then they understood: You have first to be it (inside) before you can become/accomplish it (Goethe). Everybody is deciding after his belief system, and our belief system was mainly created in the first 9 years (95%). For sure it will not fit into our today environment anymore, so we have to change it. We change first our perception and so our belief system.  The fastest way is, that we continuously question us, to change ourselves in the direction we want.  Self-critic is the first step for improvement (Bible). This means that we are looking for the mistake inside of ourselves, why we can’t get what we want… And the approach to look for the errors in the world, why we do not get what we want, will not work. For sure we will always find the mistakes in the world…  Jesus said: You are blind to your own errors and you will find the mistakes always in other people… And this we can use for ourselves.-How is it, if we would ask our friends, relatives, enemies for telling us our mistakes, that we can’t see by ourselves? It is much easier than to find our mistakes by ourselves! Be open for critic and don’t push it away!!! We are not perfect so we can learn from the critic. On the spiritual, religion and psychology scene it looks much worse, that the people are pushing away negative people, critic… If I attract negative people, then I know, that I have attracted them, because I have negativity inside of myself!!!!  Pir Vilayat Inayat Khan said so nice until I didn’t realize that everything that I see,- I am by myself; I could not become enlightenment!!!  Very short expressed said Krishnamurti: You are the world! What you see that you are!!! If we want to have the grace of God/Allah, we have to become humble (Allah don’t like proud people). If we feel better than other people, remember what I have written before, or the Tibetan quote: Everything is divine, but not our EGO!!! A religious person is looking for the mistakes inside of himself. Srimad Bhagavatam: The worst sin is faultfinding…. I hope I have convinced you… Otherwise: Our own sins we see first at other people (Goethe).   My video: Question yourself!  https://youtu.be/ZyoGRMRGwwMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Question-yourself.mp3

  If we see this Video (Link at the end) “Beyond Death” about the Religious.The question: What happens after the death… We can understand that the Religions had the monopoly of monetizing the death!The promise is/was, you do what we want, so that you gain the Paradise, Moksha, Nirvana… When you pass by… The Aztecan/Mayas in Mexico, Peru, and the Egyptians have built huge pyramids for their Priests.  The Believe was: When the priests died, the priests were responsible for the life and survival of the earth and sun. So, the dead priests should pray, and only if they do so the Earth and Sun could survive… Without Religion no Life on earth is possible. The Aztecs were sacrificing Millions of beautiful virgins for the Sun God, so that the Sun could shine… The priests slaughtered the virgins in front of the public, and cut out the living heart of the virgins to distribute to the mass… How cruel is that? The Egyptian slaves built huge channels to transport the big stone (1-2 tons) to the pyramids, to build these pyramids… No help from the Aliens!   All sacrifice for nothing! Then we see the death celebration in Varanasi. We hear this stupid believe that when you die in Varanasi you never get reborn… So, the Hindu and Buddhist religions have the negative belief that life is suffering.  The same Faith had the Christians before the “Fall of Constantinople”.  The idea is to monetize (good business for Varanasi) the death…  If we look towards Jerusalem, where Jesus died, we find the Cathedral and the place where Jesus was crucified as the holiest Christian place… You go there and pray there, then you will get the same eternal life like Jesus when you die… ! Good business! I had the fortune that I had been 3 times in my life a Near Death Experience...  There is no Death... And there was never a Death.  Science tells us: You cannot destroy energy! You can only transform energy!  The most important thing is the Lord, Allah,... To do business with the death of people is called a Religion... That is disgusting!  We surrender our life to the Lord selflessly without any regret... The Lord will take care of us when we live accordingly...We don’t risk our life or health for stupid things like money…We maintain a healthy lifestyle.We keep a healthy attitude.We enjoy our life and sexuality.We surrender our life to God and Love.And his will (God‘s will) should happen. All the holy places become holy through the people who worship those places.  If you go to Konya (Turkey), Varanasi (India), Boudhanath Stupa (Kathmandu), Dakshineswar Kali Temple Kolkata (Room of Ramakrishna),  Lhasa (Tibet),...   You will experience the eternal energy, ...Then you can understand better, there is something that is beyond of our mind... And this has nothing to do with the disgusting Moneymaking Machine call Religion!  My Video: Beyond Death https://youtu.be/ITdZPyLfZJQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Beyond.Death.mp3 Beyond death https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZORPVmXN7k

  we enjoy our life even more?This looks ridiculous? The great psychologist Prof. P. Wazlavic had done a research on this… The results are, that people who didn’t get fulfilled their heart desire, could after they had recovered, appreciate the small things in their life much more. Because after this tragic experience, they know that the little things in life are valuable. And so they can enjoy their life more. Then every moment can be enjoyed. For me, it was very tragic, that first I could not procreate and did love to have a child. And then I procreate, and the baby was coming too early…. Life is life, - be happy in the here and now.   When we are driven by passion, then we forget to enjoy our life in the here and now. Then only our goal is important.Oscar Wild said we are the small things and not the big goals that we have accomplished… This means if we can only enjoy, when we accomplish something, then 99% of our time we are suffering… So that we are unhappy. A happy person enjoys nearly everything,… When he gets up, he thankful for the new day, enjoys his morning exercise, the small talk with his children and spouse during his breakfast, even he is enjoying his meal as a very delicate menu… And the unhappy person gets up fast, pushes the food into his mouth and don’t want to waste his time on his family. For sure be friendly to ordinary people is a luxury for him. For what? It is not serving him….!!!! Everything becomes an obstacle for him!!! We can enjoy our life, only when we slow down and enjoy the small things in our life. Our passions have their place in our lives and when we are under the control of our emotions… Life becomes a suffering. And so is it with our heart/great desires, they become too important… And our life becomes unhappy.  Prof. Paul Wazlavick (Author of the int.Bestseller: The situation is hopeless but not seriously. It is an amusing book about how stupid we are sometimes.)   My Video: When a great desire fails.  https://youtu.be/wDYXKN05MiAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/When-a-great-desire-fails.mp3

  This is quite common because the world is fast changing and we have to adapt. It starts that we don’t accept our situation, we are fighting against the change, or we are depressed. For instance, when the Tsunami killed around 250000, I was one of the survived victims. The Indian families of the victims could not accept the loss, were mourning, complaining, blemished God blemished the Karma ….  And I was consulting them. I said for instance: Be happy that you survived, don’t blemish God/Karma it will not help. Thank God, that you have survived… The first step is, to release the anger, sadness about the change, loss … The second step is to change our perception, that for instance, everything is bad through that….  Everything has two poles….and every pole has the same size.  Before the Tsunami happened, I had an accident and got a wrong treatment from the Orthopedic… Through that treatment, my back became very sick (I could not work or meditate anymore). I blemished these stupid doctors… At the moment when the Tsunami was coming, I went to an Acupuncture treatment, and this saved my life, I missed the Tsunami for some minutes…. Was the accident/wrong treatment bad or good?After the tsunami, I was grateful to had this accident…. The third step, we have to find a new solution for our life. I had to leave the Ashram and India after 10 years to recover. This was very sad for me. Never less I said to everyone, my back will be in 3 years better than before… Nobody believed me, they had been dam wrong. And I chose to start a new life in Thailand and to learn and apply the Chi Gong from Mantac Chia… The fourth step is, after releasing our negative feelings, we chose confidently and positive to change our lives, so that our life will be even better.  We change our perception, embrace our tragedy, have faith that everything will be for the better, hope that we suicide and looking for new life opportunities…. Don’t remain to lie on the ground, go up and start positive…. Feel your suffering and let it go, self-pity will never work. Recognize that many other people are in even a worse situation than yourself. Be thankful for your tragedy, that you are still alive…If we have doubts, we go deep in our doubts and looking what we can learn from our doubts. Afterward, we let them go….  My Video: What we do if we don’t accept our situation? https://youtu.be/Ytz56ircIuAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/What-we-do-if-we-don’t-accept-our-situation.mp3

  T. Harv Eker said so sweet, for schedule exact our time … I am not a robot… I put the most important tasks on my daily schedule, do them, celebrate that, and if I like to work more then, I do this too. Otherwise, I finish my job. I love to work, and I don’t like to be overwhelmed by my time schedule…. And exact here start the problem that we have a to-do list and don’t look how it responds to our feelings. We push away our feelings to function as a machine and this we also do with the feelings of our kids and spouse… Feelings are in our way… How we can be happy if we push away our emotions? Then we drive away also our happiness and love! We should learn to understand our feelings, our needs for love and happiness. It looks great if we are over cool, never show any feelings…and we get through that the appreciation of the society. The reality is that we sell our feelings for recognition and inside the negative feelings are piling up and working against us. This means our suppressed feelings can erupt to a not appropriate situation, can cause diseases or can sabotage our success. There was a father with a baby sitting on a bus, and that baby cried and screamed like crazy… The father repeated again and again: Please calm down…. It didn’t help… A passenger said to the father: Maybe your baby can’t understand: Please keep cool. The father replied: I say this to myself!!! Because I have to calm down. We should learn from the father in the Joke above to deal with our feelings. For sure for many people, it is embarrassing when their baby is crying, and then we are getting panic… What should we do? Until we can’t calm down, we can’t calm down the baby….  So it is with all of our conflicts, we first find out, what are our feelings. Then we accept our feelings and feel them. For instance: we breathe deep in our feelings and with the breath out we release them… until the feelings are gone. We are feeling beings who can think… This means we have inherited the biggest part of our brain from the animals so that our feelings and subconsciousness are dominant. We make our decisions through our subconsciousness and feelings, and afterward, we reason it with our logic.  Our logic is still not so important. And if we suppress our emotions, then still these negative suppressed feelings are making our decisions… Let release them, and then we make much better decisions. My video: Don’t be a robot! https://youtu.be/ADQ69sjHiLgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Don’t-be-a-robot.mp3

  A Trauma is very strong negative emotional arousal through a personal catastrophe, nightmares, dramatic event… And afterward, we don’t like to remember that event and even we are afraid to let go of our negative emotions by feeling them.  PTSD is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. What is PTSD?PTSD has at least these 3 components.1. Experience symptoms. 2. Arousal. 3. Avoidance.  1. People experience vivid intrusive memories, nightmares and dramatic events.2. This leads to physical and emotional arousal. 3. This leads to Avoidance because we don’t like that. The people push away these painful memories and avoid situations that remind them of their painful memory. These avoidances of our traumatic memories: Prevent the healing of our traumas. Blocks our brain to be productive. The brain loses its ability to focus.Problem to sleep. Even worse, our behavior and emotions change how we feel.  So why do we get that PTSD.Our brain and body need to process this painful memory, like a fish need to swim, and if we suppress that, we get that PTSD. Every being wants to stay safe. Safety depends on predictability. Predictability depends on conquering chaos.So human beings are not good for conquering chaos.We need order to function well. We memorize automatically any chaos that we experience and not so our save secure life experience. For instance, if we are confronted with a clown in the supermarket, we automatically ask ourselves why is that clown here in the supermarket, because we are afraid of new situations. PTSD is much more, it is connected with deep and strong overwhelming emotions.  We are confronted with the fear of an unexpected event, and for that our brain cannot process, register, or memorize that event as normal and store it…At that moment our whole world or belief system is shaken… What to do? … We cannot function anymore.   And then we look to avoid similar situations or that memory of that trauma… And that makes everything worse. How we should treat our traumas so that they don’t influence our life anymore… These dramatic events are changing our lives for the worse.  So, we should expose that worse experience or trauma in a safe environment until we don’t have any negative emotions anymore connected with that trauma. Or we should experience that trauma again and again until we have our trauma under our control and don’t have any fear to experience similar dramatic situations. For instance, when we, my girlfriend and me, had that miscarriage, I avoided seeing babies for at least 3months. Even I worked so hard on that trauma with my therapist.Or when I survived that big Tsunami, I never wanted to go back to India where I lived.And then I experienced again, my Tsunami trauma when we had a Tsunami alert at ourmarina!  The most successful therapy for PTSD is EFT. Even it worked for Vietnam veterans of the Vietnam war, who could not sleep well for decades… Where all the other therapies failed, EFT has the highest Track record from over 80% for healing of Traumas.  I learned also Bioenergetic, Biodynamic… These therapies are only for people that are strong enough to face their traumas again. Then I learned Hypnosis and it worked where all the other therapies do not work when people can’t remember that trauma anymore. The eye-movement treatment has also good results, I learned that too.    My Video: How to treat traumas or PTSD? https://youtu.be/TCg_pb7y2h4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/How.to.treat.traumas.or.PTSD.mp3 Podcast: Relax with Meditation

  If we fall apart, then we starting to compromise ourselves and so our work, our being…This is what hurts more than anything else, we can’t anymore believe in ourselves, in our message, in our mission…. And still, it is so common to be half hearted and to break our promise. As a result, we can see the people lose their dignity and taking drugs, because of that. For instance: the politicians…  The great Psychologist Gerda Boyesen said: if we keep our promise regardless what, we have done very much for ourselves!A reporter is visiting a mad house… In one room is the previous mayor of the city… Total nude, except he is wearing a hut… The reporter is asking, Why you are nude? The principal replied: Because I am a free man and I am free of ego. The reporter asked: Why you are wearing a hut? The major replied: Because I am the major!And this exactly we are doing too, when we have still an option to escape, in the case we are wrong.It is better to fail full, to lose our face, then to have this additional option.No great man, for instance, all religions founder or significant Saints, like Jesus, Mohamed, Krishna, Buddha, Lao Tzu,… Had compromised them self…. The great stock market legend Jesse Livermore said it simple: Better I fail on my term, then to follow other people tips, because I can’t learn from that!  In the end, we have to learn from try and error and so we have to fail to win. We can become only an expert in any area when we have made all the mistakes…. There is no shortcut. Thomas Edison had needed over 8000 experiments to design the Electric bulb. And then his lamp was burning in the mid of the night, he went excitedly in the room of his wife and exclaimed: It is burning!!! His wife angry shouted: Make the light out, I want to sleep! Life is life.  My Video: Never become half-hearted https://youtu.be/l1X12P--ycAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Never-become-half-hearted.mp3