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 I saw the video from Neil Tyson And he is explaining in precise words:  The religions are correct: For spiritual purposes. For giving faith.Forgoing beyond worldly matters.For finding spiritual happiness.To become humble in front of the creator. To connect with the divine.To become honest and humble.  And that proves even the greatest scientific geniuses.Like Kopernikus, Einstein, Tesla, Leonardo Da Vinci, Newton… Religions have nothing to do with science! We cannot let the Religions dictate what is scientifically true or wrong!Even so, science is 97% wrong!Only 3% remain true for longer than 5 years!  People give up their faith in God and prefer science to be true! Life is not logical. We live in chaos that has some order! (Google: Images, Order in Chaos, Mandelbrot, fractal geometry). There are indefinite more irrational numbers than rational numbers. Why do even the greatest geniuses submit that there is a force, power that is beyond themselves?  It is absolute nonsense that science should prove God’s existence… Science is looking for trueness and is mainly always wrong … But through science, we discover and develop so much more opportunities, that science makes sense! I have learned as an engineer to create a model from/for the reality that should be as simple as possible. And that model is good enough if this model is true for only one aspect, even though there exist millions of aspects. We have learned: What we can watch, that we can control! What we cannot watch in every aspect, we never can control…! What can we watch in every aspect? Nearly nothing, compare to the things that exist… So, we never can prove that God is true!  My Video: Science and God https://youtu.be/ujvD-ihBYVUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Science-and-God.mp3

 There exist many natural home remedies for varicose veins that are a blend of Olive oil with some other herbs…  We chose Olive Oil with Bay leaves because it makes really sense… Cold-pressed Virgin Olive oil with Bay leaves For 2 weeks you soak 100ml Olive oil with 10g broken Bay leaves.Keep it in a cool place for 2 weeks.After 2 weeks you filter out the bay leaves with a funnel…  Apply the bay leave oil on the affected places…Massage in circular motions for 2 minutes in the evening and in the morning. Do it for 2 weeks and you will see it is getting much better…  My Video: Natural treatment for varicose and spider veins. https://youtu.be/fwtp2-2KL0QMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Natural-treatment-for-varicose-and-spider-veins.mp3

  What is a thriving relationship and what can go wrong? How to fix that? The 3 causes for failure of relationships. 1. Indifference/ Contempt 2. Neglect 3. Violence 1. When you feel your partner is not caring anymore for you or you don’t care for them… The reasons are: Losing interest,  less important,  don’t matter,  and you are nothing for them.  We feel we want to be important, matter… And then we feel disconnected.  2. Neglect  The people take care more for their car/profession/business/family than for their partner, - after their dating and being together. 3. Violence Most people talk nicer to everybody else than their partner. Because they have to be nice and friendly to other people to get the things that they want… In reality, they are not nice at all! Because you are a part of their family, you do have to take their unfriendly or impolite, or rude behavior.  There are only 2 relationships that we experience,  with our parents and with our spouse…   All these relationship behaviors we learn as kids… When the Childhood was difficult, unlovely, rude, violent, doesn’t matter, contempt…  Guess what happens when you are together with your spouse. Even we care very much for our spouse, we attract the behavior of our childhood from our parents. The apple is not dropping far from the tree… We reflect the behavior of our parents. My experiences are, that when the parent had been lovely to their kids, the kids will be lovely to their spouses. Even though I have done so much therapy, in the end, I failed on these 3 topics.  My solution is simple if the relationship is not working out, just quit. Do therapy and look at what traumas are connected to the relationship.  Heal your traumas.  And it worked great for me, instead, to hang on to a relationship that is not worth being in.  Today sexuality is important for boths and for the relationship… So that sex becomes, pleasure, fun and playful for both. After some time, it gets bored and then…  How can we sustain sexuality in a relationship, so that we desire sex with our partner? Women get bored with Monogamy much sooner than men, that is a fact!!! The sexual desire to sleep with her spouse is plunging down and for males, it rather goes down slowly.  So, when the romance ends in the relationship, the women get turned down. Because romance and seduction are for women the most important reasons to have sex! Women want stability and security in their relationships. Women want for their sexuality, playfulness, romance seduction, excitements… And that is contradicting.  We have two states: what turns me on and what turns me off… If the woman has turned off, sex is no option. Women need confidence, thriving fun, to do things that set themselves on fire, -to have sex. If this is not happening, she is turned off. At the beginning of the relationship, her darling was turning her on…  Later he can’t do so, she has to do it by herself. When women are turned off, through circumstances, frustration, or depression, then they are not open to sex…  Women can turn on by themselves, through dancing, hiking in the nature, music, friends, family… Then these women are open for sex.  This means, that being ready for sex has less to do with sex, but with self-esteem and confidence.   Most women over 40 years old are depressed and so sex in the marriage is not possible.  If you have to take care of your partner, then this will turn down the sexual desire of a woman. A woman needs to be playful, alive, and engaged to be sexy…  This means she is not in the mood to be a good, responsible, serious, moral citizen… because this turns down her sexual desire… When the women come home, was engaged emotionally with her friends, and colleagues…. Then she is tired to have sex with her partner…     Be there, when she is emotionally turned on in the middle of the day… Committed sex is that she is ready in the morning, that she is important and matters to you… So that you are spending an hour, don’t do anything else than to be intimate with your partner… And then sex can happen without pressure. Be creative, be curious and look how your partner responds, don’t be boring, try out something new, look what you can improve… Small things matter, say thank you, please…  And the reality is that Facebook matters more to your partner than you…  80% of the women are doing Facebook just before and just afterward or when they have sex! You have to take that risk - and spend that time only to be intimate.  Otherwise, sex is dead in your long-term relationship.  The divorcing rate is today 50% after one year and 65% after 2 years…  My Video: The BIGGEST Reasons 80% Of Relationships FAIL. https://youtu.be/UPkGNyZvxWM My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/The-BIGGEST-Reasons-80-Of-Relationships-FAIL.mp3  

 The problem is that we think, we can’t do it or cannot get it… I have seen a YouTube from a TED talk done by an amazing old Lady Barbara Sher.. During her career, she found out, Positive Thinking will never work out for her to get what she wanted…  But what then?  The solution was coming to her when she was leading encounter groups for free.  Barbara got that job from an encounter therapist, who said, why are you not leading such groups? Barbara attended such encounter groups because she was frustrated.   An encounter group is: everybody should be as terrible as possible to each other…Yelling, let go of the emotions…And then the people will calm down…  How it works:  1. We do need serenity to solve our problems! Let go of our negative suppressed emotions…  The most unattractive person (Ronny) in the group was depressed…He said I am depressed…  2. Be honest when you want something and ask for help!!!!Why are you depressed? I hate where I am living… And I don’t have the power to find a new apartment, because I am depressed! 3. Tell the people your obstacle to get what you want!All people like to solve problems and to feel good by solving a problem! We will find for you a new apartment and do a painting party so that your apartment looks good…  Next problem from Ronny… 1. I am depressed because I don’t get a girlfriend… 2. I am so unattractive; every girl hates me…The group agreed… we will change you so that you become attractive. 3. The group needed 6 months to change Ronny, so that Ronny could be vulnerable, lovely, and wear nice cloth… Then the group organized parties and were inviting female strangers from the street and pubs, … Guess, he got his girlfriend, whom he totally could love. Barbara had an idea… To go on the stage and ask the auditorium for the most impossible dream...And she wanted to know the obstacle why the person can’t get what he/she dreams about…  For instance:  To dance with a certain famous star. No money, no time, to do a cruise tour.To become a cowboy as an accountant…To rent a chimpanzee for very less money…  Guess all dreams could be solved!  Because the entire auditorium was eager to help and had the connection to overcome the obstacle to solve that problem. My Video: Isolation is a dream killer https://youtu.be/KGGUplx-oaYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Isolation-is-a-dream-killer.mp3

 There are only 2 kinds of people who don’t feel psychology emotional pain!1. The psychopath2. The dead person Besides that, pain is for everybody! A happy life is not to be happy all the time! Different religious systems are selling full-time happiness…  Enlightenment/Moksha/Paradise… Those are just fake!Selling dreams and delivering B. S..  We learn to accept, and even embrace painful emotions, that is our goal to live a happy life. We learn how our painful emotions are connected to us, our goals, our dear ones, and our life.  Happiness through hardship… If we become stronger by hardships then we profit from them… For instance, we can train our muscles through weight lifting and then our muscles become stronger… What happens with our traumas? If we experience the pain of our traumas, we become stronger and happier… So more we release our negative suppressed emotions so happier we are.  I have done a lot of encounter groups, even with the most demanding therapists…We should go, regardless of what, in our worst and strongest negative emotions and encounter with our strongest negative feelings our partners in that group… … Afterward, the group was full of intense love! If people chase happiness as a life goal, they become unhappier…  I have done so also, but I could understand soon, that until I cannot feel my negative emotions, I cannot be happy. Instead, I was chasing to release my negative suppressed emotions to become happy and to be open to love. And that works. How I discovered that? I was set up for taking care of kids between 2 and 4 years old… If the kids cannot release their negative emotions, they become depressed.  A vessel filled with happiness is built out of sorrow. (Quote Aurobindo)  The first step, release your negative suppressed emotions!Open up your heart for the divine and for everything! What cannot kill us makes us stronger!  Instead, to avoid pain, which is even more painful, we open up and say yes to ourselves, our suffering and develop empathy, mercy, and love. FEEL MORE, THEN YOU ARE HAPPIER. Until we don’t understand the law of polarity, we don’t understand emotions. We embrace all negative emotions from ourselves and from all people.  That makes us free to enjoy our emotions. Until we value any emotions as negative, we cannot enjoy our life. We develop gratitude for everything that is coming to us, even if it is a hardship…  In the end, we learn from hardship the most…  Everything is Good!  For instance, when my entire body was paralyzed through a cardiac arrest… I repeated again and again: Thank you, my Lord… No doctor could help me… Then I remembered the movie The Secret… I visualized going home by myself…  With the help of God, after 6 hours, I stand up… Still, I had to go to another hospital to check my brain… It was such a nightmare, but it was also exciting! Still, my eyesight was not normal, I fixed that later…   We can enjoy every weather… There is no bad weather, only the wrong clothes. (Quote of an Advertisement)  We have 5 areas in our life that we can develop to become a fully functioning human beings: Physical. Sport, Yoga, Qigong, Music, Dancing…With these activities, we can relax and recover from our stress. These activities are fun and make us stronger.   Intellectual.We learn every day something new to what we relate positively. Those who are not curious about life and ask questions will die earlier.Do not grow old, no matter how long you live.Never cease to stand like curious children before the Great Mystery into which we were born. (Quote Albert Einstein) Relational. We develop great relationships that are even often painful.We spend quality time with people who we are caring for and who are caring for us. A purpose in our life. We are driven by something that makes sense for us, to go up in the morning and endure the pain for that.Without purpose, we cannot function well and we will die earlier.    Spirituality.We develop a connection to the divine/God. If we connect to God, then we experience peace in the mind, love, and bliss. And so, we enjoy more our life, and life makes sense, instead, to chase worldly happiness like a dog/vulture… My Video: Don’t chase happiness. https://youtu.be/KlujslR79O0 My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Don’t-chase-happiness.mp3 

  I stumbled again and again over this stupid quote…Why not both… Wise people aging well and live longer! Nobody would question that! So older we become so more we have to care for our health and fitness to keep up the testosterone to feel young!  If the testosterone level in our body decreases, then our motivation, focus, vitality, and sexual potency decrease too.  Besides that, you can lift up your testosterone level with an ice bath, Interval training, Maca… If we are aging and slow down, then our testosterone decreases drastically…So we need an agenda or mission! That is the reason why the Japanese live so long… 50000 people are over 100 years old.  Then I look around… For instance, Donald Trump's previous adviser and highest executive Georg Ross, who is nearly 100 years old, is still in the business of helping people become successful... Dan Peña, (age 78) the most successful business coach and entrepreneur gives every year around 10 long groups, to kick the people in the As to become the most successful people on the planet! His workshops are the most exhausting workshops in the business world…  Tony Robbins only 63 years old is doing everything to stay young… Very similar to me, with raw food, ice bath, Cardio training, weight lifting… Mike Jagger, 80 years old, keeps fit, even after such a long drug history… 25 km cycling every day, a healthy diet…  But do we need huge challenges to have an amazing life?Show me any person who had a more challenging life than Lu Zijian  When you watch the 118-year-old Grandmaster Lu Zijian performing Qigong, on YouTube,… do that! He was the greatest Kung Fu Fighter until the age of 88 years…  But Bruce Lee, whom people adore, died at 33 years old… Bruce Lee didn’t have any chance to win against Lu Zijian…  Or compare the stunts from Jacki Chan, age 69, with the stunts of Bruce Lee… What is behind this quote, “Give your life more life instead of years”?  The old people can’t keep up their health and fitness when aging and so can’t motivate themselves to live a healthy lifestyle and to keep the testosterone level up.  My Video: Give your life more life instead of years? https://youtu.be/nUTjJQs2SSY My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast3/Give-your-life-more-life-instead-of-years.mp3  

 The heart sees farther than the head. A sin that is hidden is half forgiven. It is not enough to run;You must start on time. Prices are forgotten, the quality remains.  What was hard to endure is sweet to recall. The first half of life is spent in longing for the second,And the second half in regretting the first. Youth lives on hope, Old age on remembrance. Only he who does nothing makes a mistake. You often meet your destiny on the road you take to avoid it. A bad workman never finds a good tool. You can cage a bird, but you can’t make it sing. You are either hammer or anvil.  An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.  You cannot be very smart if you have never done anything foolish. A fault denied is twice committed. A woman’s heart dries quicker than her tears. My Video: French proverbs https://youtu.be/FZprgcWi9MsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/French-proverbs.mp3

 They call themselves Sadguru, divine incarnation, Dalai Lama…  And the stupid mass, including me, believes in those titles.  I saw this video… I share at the end… How a normal woman scared to death turned around the most dangerous school into a place of love. She risked her life to help these violent kids.  Instead, to punish them, she loved them.  And the kids got the chance to go to the university and even with a scholarship.  What to do with a very brutal kid that was beating up the other kids in the hospital? The principal decided to let him play football…  Yes, and he became the best football player, got a scholarship to the University… Bingo When I hear the positive thinkers, complain he/she has such a negative attitude, the best is to separate them from negative people…  How cruel… How awful… You never have been in a crisis and then all your friends run away because of your negative attitude and then suicide…   Even if you don’t become a sad(h)guru or devi(l)ne incarnation or a spiting lama…  It is better to help people in crises…  My Video: The difference between holy and normal people They call themselves Sadguru, divine incarnation, Dalai Lama…  And the stupid mass, including me, believes in those titles.  I saw this video… I share at the end… How a normal woman scared to death turned around the most dangerous school into a place of love. She risked her life to help these violent kids.  Instead, to punish them, she loved them.  And the kids got the chance to go to the university and even with a scholarship.  What to do with a very brutal kid that was beating up the other kids in the hospital? The principal decided to let him play football…  Yes, and he became the best football player, got a scholarship to the University… Bingo When I hear the positive thinkers, complain he/she has such a negative attitude, the best is to separate them from negative people…  How cruel… How awful… You never have been in a crisis and then all your friends run away because of your negative attitude and then suicide…   Even if you don’t become a sad(h)guru or devi(l)ne incarnation or a spiting lama…  It is better to help people in crises…  My Video: The difference between holy and normal people https://youtu.be/kXGmnRfLAUA My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/The-trueness-about-holy-or-normal-people.mp3 My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/The-trueness-about-holy-or-normal-people.mp3

  Our Reality is the emotions or emotional state of our consciousness.  When our emotions/emotional state changes, then also our beliefs about what is right or wrong, thoughts, choices, and actions are changing. Because we are feeling beings that can think, mostly wrong, and our emotions or subconscious or beliefs are making our choices, that we afterward rationalize with our mind.  For instance, I have seen a short YouTube about American women in a female undressing room with a naked male... Scared?  I have studied at the University of Bremen/Germany and always when I  went in the male undressing room, there were more females than males and so naked females under male showers!Nobody cared!  All animals are naked, so what is the problem?   The cause of such weird behavior of the Americans is the emotional state or their reality or identity to be sexually uptight.  Some people are getting rich some not… what is the difference?Their emotional state or reality. If we think or believe negatively about money, money will not like us…If we feel uncomfortable or scared to be together with successful and wealthy people, they will not like us.If we enjoy the luxury and feel guilty about that… If we have a bad consciousness of being richer than our friends or neighbors… Then our choices and actions, cause that we have less or too little money or we are in debt without any wealth. Or our reality, identity, or emotional state is of a poor person.  Because we are scared to be rich and successful.We have minority feelings.We feel we don’t deserve that.And so we can’t get rich. When we are scared to be nude in front of other people what should we do? We go to nudist beaches or in a mixed sauna with naked people and face our fear, shame, guilt...We expose our bodies until we are not scared anymore…We look at the different sexual organs of the people until we feel comfortable.After 3 weeks we have shifted our reality and become nudists.  Homework: What should we do when we like to get rich?  My Video: What is reality? https://youtu.be/iK770fXi6KIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast3/What-is-reality.mp3  

 The Average cancer ratio is 200 per 100,000 people for cancer. Australia has 500.USA has 400.Middle East has 100. If we suppress our negative emotions, then that grows every cancer.  Positive thinking promotes suppressing of negative emotions and that supports Cancer.  Australia and the USA are the countries with the highest positive thinking mentality in the world! For most cancers, we can starve with fasting or Ramada. And that works for 90% of all cancers.  Fasting is the best for inflammation healing.Build up new immunity cells. Increase antioxidant network. Hippocrates said, eating when sick is to feed the illness. Animals don’t like to eat when they are ill.  For instance, the Hunzas never had in their past any case of cancer, and they have the longest life span, the healthiest life, because they fast for 3months, drinking only the juice from dried apricots. The Middle East is doing Ramada for 1 month. Fasting during Ramadan means abstinence from all food or drink, including water and chewing gum, from dawn to sunset. Then they start with the eating Dates and drinking water. Sugary sweets and fried food should not be consumed.  The Middle East is not consuming Alcohol.Alcohol is directly connected to cancer… Increase the risk of 6 different cancers… The alcohol kills the healthy bacteria in the colon and supports the harmful bacteria, organisms… Superbug…Supports so leaky guts and colon cancer. The Middle East is even eating white Sugar in most of all countries, and so have Obesity, Diabetes…White sugar is the very best food for growing cancer. Because Cancer needs glucose and without glucose, cancer cannot survive… The Middle East uses Spices that have Anti-Cancer properties.  Turmeric, Saffron, Cardamom, Nutmeg, Caraway, Cinnamon, Coriander…And eats food that prevents cancer.Black seeds, dill, sesame seeds, and dates. Low Tobacco uses for women on average is 20% and in the Middle East between 2-8%.If you smoke, then the risk of cancer is 20 times higher.25% of the cancer is directly caused by smoking.  My Video: Why does the Middle East have the lowest cancer rate? https://youtu.be/33CsvJn1RIYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast2/Why-does-the-Middle-East-have-the-lowest-cancer-rate.mp3