The Deep Dish

Rerun: Kitchen Table Counseling


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Melissa Kruger and Courtney Doctor talk about how to seek out the counsel of wise friends and how to respond well when friends seek your counsel. They discuss how to ask good questions, how to deliver a gentle rebuke when necessary, how to follow up on requests for accountability, and how to point someone to Scripture without treating it like a Bible Band-Aid. Listen prayerfully to prepare yourself for opportunities that arise to bear one another’s burdens.

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    • Discussion Questions:

      1. Considering examples of people who have supported you in difficult seasons, what qualities do you appreciate most in them?

      2. In what ways have you struggled to balance extending both grace and truth in your own “kitchen-table counseling”?

      3. How can we ensure any necessary rebukes we deliver are given with gentleness?

      4. What helps you determine whether someone is “safe” to confess a burden or sin to?

      5. In what ways could you make yourself a more approachable and available source of counsel for those who need your support?

      6. How can your discussion partners pray for you as you point others to God in difficult situations?

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