Today, I'm going to talk about my favorite topic—rocking the shit out of our bodies, our way. In my book "Kiss My Curvy Assets," I had over 45 K.I.S.S Principles written down, all geared toward helping you keep your life simple, sexy, and can easily be implemented. Things that will help your body. Things that will heal your soul and empower you to seize life by the horns and truly live a badass life taking care of your mind, body, and soul.
Today’s episode talks about the actual epidemic we have in our society: millions of women who suffer from feeling broken, hating themselves, their body, having a negative body image. This goes on to impact how they show up in their life, it affects their confidence, their style, their essence. So I want to share with you today a few of my K.I.S.S Principles that will help you hit the ground running, in style, your way, a way that makes you feel good inside out.
Kiss Principle #1: Bye Weighing Scale, See you never!
Newsflash: Your weight is controlled by so many variable factors—hormones, stress, nutrition, lack of sleep, life changes, etc. So next time the number staring back at you isn’t one that pleased your idealistic expectations, it’s okay. Give yourself grace and start focusing on how you feel, and how you want to feel.
Kiss Principle #2: Our Common Frenemy—Social media.
Perfectly angled and curated highlight reels, posts, and stories. Where the eff has the authenticity gone? Whatever happened to keepin’ the reel real?! I mean, isn’t the whole point of social media to be social, take in what you love, and share what you desire? So stop chasing, comparing, and start creating, start being. Start loving YOU.
Kiss Principle #3: Drop the Comparison Game, Friend!
Enough. We are enough, as we are, in our bodies. The comparison ends today because it doesn’t serve you or help you get to where you want to be. Instead, highlight what you love about yourself, your body, and start rocking it. Start cheering yourself and other women when you see them with something you desire. It lets you know it is possible for you too! Start watering your own grass and watch how you bloom inside out. Your confidence will soar. Time to kick the jealousy monster bye-bye!
Kiss Principle #4: O-O-Orgasm, Baby!
There is something magical about a woman owning her sexuality and her power, everything feels much better, looks much better, it’s like living life in technicolor. It’s not the dress, the makeup, the designer bags or shoes… it’s you, baby, that glow of confidence and pure certainty in knowing exactly who you are, unapologetic self-acceptance. So stop repressing, start exploring and taking in self-pleasure.
Kiss Principle #5: Fad Diets are no longer in fashion, honey!
Fad diets are not sustainable, they wreak havoc mentally, physically, and emotionally. Instead, focus on building sustainable healthy lifestyle habits that will save the dollars in your pocket and also help you enjoy life without the guilt, the shaming, or the lack.
Kiss Principle #6: Let go of past screw-ups. Time to look ahead!
We cannot change the past… and we cannot control the future entirely. So let it go. Focus on what you can control — the ability to rock your body, your life with your mindset, with self-love, with confidence. Instead, acknowledge what happened… sit with it for a few minutes if you like, but take a deep breath and then let it go. Set the stage to do better tomorrow and the next day and the next day. Show up at 100% in all areas of your life, for yourself.
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