Rising After Divorce | Emotional Healing, Reclaiming, Starting Over, Trusting God

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January 2035| How to Unblock Your Blessings
HOW TO UNBLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS: A Path Back to Love 💕
Feeling like love has passed you by? Wondering if you're too broken, too damaged, or too late for the blessings God has in store? This episode is your reminder that your blessings aren't lost - they're just waiting for you to clear the path.
THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:
You're divorced, separated, or healing from heartbreak
You feel unworthy of love or happiness
You're ready to stop blocking your own blessings
You want to step back into your power and prepare for love

Be a founding member for Dating After Divorce for Christian Women
What you get:
50% off, locked in for life (even when prices increase)
Early access to everything
A real voice in what we create together
This is just the beginning. The best content will come from you and the founding group as we refine and build side by side.
Interested?
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EP 27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season
EP 23| What Single Moms Should Know When Dating
EP 17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth
13 min
January 13 34| Stop Over-Explaining Yourself: What James 5:12 Teaches About Boundaries
Are you struggling with setting healthy boundaries as a Christian? Do you feel guilty saying no or find yourself people-pleasing instead of being honest? In this episode, we dive deep into James 5:12—'Let your yes be yes and your no be no'—to discover what the Bible really says about healthy boundaries in relationships.

Join my membership Dating After Divorce for Christian Women
and go
FROM:
A divorced Christian woman over 40 who is wounded, isolated, and paralyzed by fear—carrying shame about her past, believing she's unworthy or "damaged goods," convinced good men don't exist or won't want her, second-guessing her standards, afraid to trust herself picker or date again.
Although she “believes” that there is someone out there for her, she feels hopeless and exhausted at times and doubts that God's plan includes real love for her at this stage of life.
TO:
A healed, confident woman who knows and owns her worth in Christ, clearly understands what she wants in a relationship without apology.
Has shifted her limiting beliefs about men, dates with discernment and boundaries (not desperation or fear), and she engages in faith-based dating while continuing her growth, and trusts both herself and God's timing to bring the right man to her.
She is patiently waiting for the right person.
If you join me as a founding member, you’ll get first access and a seriously discounted
50 % discounted locked-in for life! rate—even when the price increases later.
DM me @relationshipcoach4women on Instagram for more information
16 min
January 06 33| Stop Hiding Your Body & Trying to Control Everything - Part 4 The Wound of Humiliation & Injustice
HUMILIATION WOUND -THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS:
What Actually Happened to You:
INJUSTICE WOUND - THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS:
What Actually Happened to You:

listen to the full episode to find out if you need to heal from these traumas and how they are affecting your current adult life in general, not only your love life.

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EP 31| Why You Can't Trust Good Men - Part 3 The Wound of Betrayal
EP 30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants- Part 2 The Wound of Rejection
EP 29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
20 min
December 30, 2025 32| Rewriting Your Love Story in 2026 - Let Me Show You How
Another year has gone, let the old habits go with that year as well and welcome the new better habits this 2026

Let me teach you how....

If you’d like to schedule a FREE discovery call with me click the link below:
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EP 18| My Ex Has Not Apologize For What He Did
Ep 27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season
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December 27, 2025 31| Why You Can't Trust Good Men - Part 3 The Wound of Betrayal
In this episode we explore how past betrayal trauma affects your current relationships, even with good men who are doing everything right.

We discuss the self-sabotaging behaviors many of us develop as protection mechanisms—checking phones, creating loyalty tests, keeping escape plans—and why these patterns keep us trapped in a cycle of distrust.

I share Monica's story, a woman who ended a healthy relationship because she couldn't accept that someone could be genuinely transparent, and I give you a practical vulnerability exercise you can start today.

If you've experienced betrayal in the past and feel like you can't let your guard down with someone new, this episode will help you understand why—and how to begin healing.

If you are interested in the $10.00 gift card in exchange of a 20 minute zoom call with me, please email me at
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S01 EP 29 | Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
S01 EP 30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants- Part 2 The Wound of Rejection
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December 16, 2025 30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants - Part 2: The Wound of Rejection
What is the Inner Child?
Abandonment Wound
Humiliation Wound
Betrayal Wound
Rejection Wound
Injustice Wound

Learn:
What Creates Rejection Wounds? and How to begin to heal from it.

This episode is for you if you:
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know

Interested in a FREE Discovery call with me?
I AM INTERESTED!

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Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist
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Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce
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29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
25 | Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men: And How to Finally Break the Pattern
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December 10, 2025 29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
Learn What Creates Abandonment Wounds?
Physical abandonment: absent parent, divorce in childhood, death of a parent
Emotional abandonment: parent present physically but emotionally unavailable, neglect
Conditional love: love given only when you performed, achieved, or behaved "right"

How Abandonment Shows Up in Your Dating Life:
Anxious Attachment - You become clingy, need constant reassurance, fear being left
Testing Behavior - You push men away to see if they'll stay (self-fulfilling prophecy)
Settling - You accept breadcrumbs because any attention feels better than none
Hyper-Independence - "I don't need anyone" becomes your armor, preventing intimacy
Moving Too Fast - You rush commitment to secure the relationship before they can leave

Does This Sound Like You?

You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know

If you nodded your head to any of these, I'd like to ask you some questions for a research I am doing.
I AM NOT SEELING ANYTHING - I simply want to understand your journey better so I can serve women like you more effectively
If you or someone you know are interested, please send me an email to my email address listed below.
🔗 [email protected]

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24| You Have It All But Still Feel Empty - From Loneliness to the Companionship You Deserve
20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
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December 02, 2025 28 | How to Spot a Narcissist Before Your Heart Gets Involved
Spotting Narcissists Before You Fall Again

Why your fear of dating again isn't about you being "not enough"
5 red flags that identify narcissistic behavior early
The difference between godly love and manipulation
How the Holy Spirit guides you toward healthy relationships
Biblical truths to anchor your worth and decision-making

Ready to Go Deeper?
Join the You Are Enough Workshop and learn how to free yourself from narcissistic relationships with parents, ex-partners, or current relationships.
Break the cycle and step into healthy, God-honoring love.
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know
If you nodded your head to any of these, then my end of year workshop is for you.
Sign up for my completely online workshop YOU ARE ENOUGH
I AM INTERESTED!
🔗https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/a6e831b666

Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist
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Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce
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November 25, 2025 27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season
Your Person Exists: Why the Wait Is Preparing You for the Love You Deserve

If you've been waiting for the right person and starting to wonder if they even exist, this episode is for you.
As a life coach for Christian women navigating life and love after divorce, I see so many beautiful women losing hope in their waiting season. But what if I told you the wait has a sacred purpose?
Ready to Stop Waiting and Start Preparing?

Join my 5-Day workshop YOU ARE ENOUGH, where you will learn how to:

✓ Begin your healing journey after divorce
✓ The patterns keeping you stuck
✓ Prepare for lasting love actually looks like
✓ Become the woman who's ready for her person

Don't spend another year waiting passively. Your person exists - let's make sure you're ready when God brings you together.

Sign up before November 21st and receive the BONUS
I AM INTERESTED!
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Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce
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20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
EP 17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth

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November 20, 2025 26 | I Can't Remember Certain Details of My First Year After Divorced - And I Felt So Ashamed
Normal (short-term symptoms not long after your divorce): Divorce memory loss, can't remember after divorce, divorce fog, post-divorce trauma, healing after divorce, divorce brain fog.

Can't remember details from your first year after divorce?
The fog is real. Learn why memory gaps are normal, how your brain protects you during trauma, and how to heal.
The Fog is real when going through such trauma as Divorce!
I am sharing how I struggled to remember certain events from the first year after my divorce, and how that made me feel like I was damaged goods.
Don't miss the blessing that this episode will be to you, and help you to move forward from thinking you as if you are defective.

Does This Sound Like You?
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know
If you nodded your head to any of these, then my end of year workshop is for you.
Sign up before November 21st and receive the BONUS
🔗https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/a6e831b666

Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist
🔗 https://forms.gle/SZ2aGP2xUxoutpCR7

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Episode 9 | From Broken to Beautiful
Episode 17 | Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth
Episode 19 | Discover How Your Traumas Affect Your Love Life
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About Rising After Divorce | Emotional Healing, Reclaiming, Starting Over, Trusting God

From the publisher's feed

Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage — it broke you?

Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared.

Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it.

And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you.

If that's where you are — you are exactly where you need to be.

I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness.

I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage.

To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over.

To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story.

But here's what I found on the other side of all of that:

Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is.

Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens.

We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind.

We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward.

We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life — so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available.

You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready.

Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have — the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you.

Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce.

You were meant to flourish after it.

🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together.

Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning.

Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?

You deserve a love that honors you — and it's time to believe that's possible.

Join our community and take the next step:

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