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Welcome to episode 199 of the Love Live Connection podcast and welcome to a new decade.

I want to talk a little about manifesting and the Law of Attraction, it can be misunderstood and mistaught and that’s why I’m excited to share this conversation with Jasmine today. As you listen today I want you to consider, are you afraid if you focus on another area of life you might miss out on a partner? Do you know why you want whatever you want in the first place? Are you trying to control everything or can you let things happen in divine timing?

4:20 - We welcome Jasmine to the show with her question.

7:20 - Looking at the fear around this question

10:15 - Talking about the reality behind manifesting and looking at the feeling behind it.

11:45 - Defining The Law of Attraction 

14:35 - The power of focusing on your own core values

18:00 - Taking the pressure off is where the magic happens 

19:40 - Shifting focus to the guy Jasmine is dating, but doesn’t see a long term relationship

25:40 - Jasmine’s takeaways from today’s conversation

26:45 - You are the one in power and more reminders from Veronica

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Welcome to episode 198 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

Today I’m joined by my good friend Veronica Perretti. Veronica joined me on the show before to talk about the difference between your sun and moon signs and your astrological chart and compatibility. You can listen to that episode here.  

Veronica is an astrologer by day, a yoga teacher by night, and a wellness advocate for doTERRA at all hours. After years of seeking outside experts and healers to fix her, she turned to her chart and her oils to heal herself. Veronica lives in NYC with her honey and her kitty kids, Rama and Zora. She’s an Aries with a Virgo moon, obsessed with KonMari and Bravo TV. You can learn more about working with her at veronicaperretti.com.   

2:45 - My on-again-off-again relationship with astrology.

9:00 - Why I recommend Veronica when people ask me for a recommendation along with a few other recommendations for Hedi Rose Robbins and Jennifer Racioppi

11:15 - Veronica shares a couple of high-level pieces as we look at 2020

15:30 -What it means when Saturn and Pluto come together.

21:00 - How the eclipses will impact 2020

24:15 - The impact of the Capricorn energy in 2020 

28:45 - Will the retrogrades make 2020 a tough year?

33:45 - What’s happening with Venus in 2020?

41:25 - Astrology and what’s happening politically right now

51:20 - Connect with Veronica on Instagram and on her podcast.

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Welcome to episode 197 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

I’m really excited about this conversation because we’re going to talk about how to actually shift your inner child. Before we get into that conversation I want to remind you that if you’re feeling off this holiday season or triggered as I was when I was single to reach out to someone. It could be a friend in your life or even DM me, I respond to every single one. There is someone in your life you can share how you’re feeling, and I want you to do that.

2:20 - A mantra I use to soften and let go of my desire to control all the things - What is for me cannot pass me. 

7:30 - The childhood experiences that informed Julie’s pattern of doing things to fit in or please

10:40 - Looking at what Julie’s inner child actually needed

12:50 - How Julie is changing the pattern with herself (including dating herself)

15:30 - Looking at how Julie’s inner child impacted her previous relationship

17:50 - How to connect with your inner child 

20:15 - Responding to triggers by connecting to your inner child

25:15 - How to connect with me and be coached on one of these calls

26:20 - Veronica shares a couple of caveats to inner child work

28:50 - A look at the steps to connecting with your inner child

27:15 - Spiritual bypassing

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Today on the show I'm talking about three keys to growing or starting your life coaching business. Now, I know a lot of you aren't starting a life coaching business, that's not on the horizon, but if you have any kind of entrepreneurial bug or you have a business or you think you might want a business, this episode will apply to you and I know you'll learn a ton.

Or if you're simply just curious about the behind the scenes of my business and kind of want to know what I did to be "successful," whatever the hell that even means, you're going to love this episode. And so I really wanted to do this episode for two main reasons. As I mentioned in last week's episode where I coached Renata, I've been doing a lot more work with aspiring and beginning life coaches.

If this conversation resonates with you, be sure to learn more over at veronicagrant.com/episode196

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Welcome to episode 195 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

I’ve been working with more women on building their coaching business, and I freaking love it. I love the coaching industry and supporting people in this way. I invited one of my clients, Renata, to join us on the show today for a coaching session. 

When I work with coaches we focus on 3 core things, their own mindset and beliefs, building their own coaching toolbox, and of course the business building piece. As Renata sat down with her first client they were able to get to a point of awareness but now she’s looking at moving that client through to what’s next.

This is a common question from all of my clients, so this is a great episode for anyone.

2:20 - The difference between therapy and coaching 

8:30 - Renata shares her question about moving from awareness and through fear

10:50 - Sharing about how to navigate clients through making a change

12:00 - Using inner child work to connect dots and shift into action

16:30 - Working with a client through the process

18:40 - The importance of the right client

23:30 - Expectations around how long this work will take for a client 

29:00 - Being your own best client

38:40 - Veronica shares action items to wrap up the episode

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Today is part three of a three part series on why high achieving women's struggle in love, and the purpose of these episodes are to do three things. 

Today is all about navigating two very real realities of dating as a high achieving women, and why they’re not actually bad things. 

If this conversation resonates with you, be sure to learn more over at veronicagrant.com/episode194

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Welcome to episode 193 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

I am really excited that Stephanie brought this question to us, we haven’t talked a lot about friends with benefits and so that is what we’re talking about today. If this is something you are in, or you’re considering this is a great episode to listen in on. 

I challenge you to listen to this (and any) episode without judgment. Listen in to see what you can learn and apply to your own situations regardless of how you feel about friends with benefits.

5:20 - Stephanie shares her question about moving from friendship to relationship 

9:50 - Listen in to Three Relationships You’re Confusing with Real Love   

10:40 - Seeing what we want to see with a person instead of seeing what is there

11:50 - Having the conversation about to define a relationship

15:30 - How to language what you want as you move from friends to a romantic relationship

17:50 - This is important - You have to believe what he says

20:15 - Setting boundaries after the conversation 

22:30 - Stephanie shares how she feels as we wrap up our session

24:00 - Veronica shares action items to wrap up the episode

25:20 - Two reasons to avoid a friends with benefit relationship

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Today is part two of a three part series on why high achieving women's struggle in love and the purpose of these episodes are to do three things. 

Today is all about using the same formula that you use to get that success you've had in your career and apply it to your love life.

If this conversation resonates with you, be sure to learn more over at veronicagrant.com/episode192

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Welcome to episode 191 of the Love Live Connection podcast.

I am joined this week by Tina to talk about the fear of getting what you want.  We talk about how fear and anxiety can arise when we experience happiness and success and the difference between real and made up fear. Be sure to listen to the entire episode as we share how you can handle these types of fear.  

11:40 - Tina poses her question about limiting herself because of fear and anxiety. 

12:25 - Tina shares that this question is coming up for her due to things at home with her family and how this tends to flare up doubt and anxiety in her personal relationships and business.  

13:40 - Tina shares her relationship with risk and how that may play into today’s fears and anxieties. 

15:30 - Tina shares her experience with not getting what she wants when she goes for it and how her childhood and being called “emotional” affects her today in her life and parenting.

19:50 - Tina tells us why she is so afraid of failing and we get to the real reasons.

21:50 - We talk about the comfort of not choosing or trying and feeling that we aren’t in control.  

23:15 - “Even if going outside is still better, it’s scary.”

24:30 - I break down Tina’ s fears. 

29:15 - We call out Tina’s made up fears.  

31:30 - I share how we learn through contrast.

33:30 - I share what I always tell myself that helps me in my life and business. 

37:00 - Wrap up of Tina’s action items. 

40:00 - Tangible and intangible things you can do to overcome fear.

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Today is part one of a three part series on why high achieving women's struggle in love, and the purpose of these episodes are to do three things. 

The first thing is I want to normalize the very real and unique challenges that ambitious women face in the dating pool. 

Number two, I want to give you a couple of mindset shifts so that you can see these "challenges" as actual opportunities for your love life. 

And number three, I want to make sure you have some actionable steps you can take away and you're going to get actionable steps after every single one of these three episodes. 

Make sure you listen to the end so you can take those steps and start making changes in your love life

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