Once in awhile we meet someone who changes our view of life, our model of reality. One of such people like that, for me, was my friend Daniel.

He is both the luckiest and unluckiest guy I know—When he's "ON" everything seems to serendipitously fall in his lap. And when he's ''OFF'' he has the uncanny ability to F everything up.

This episode looks at how one can "turn on or off one's magnet", looking at Daniel, addiction, resentment, and an experiment for "manifestation".

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We tend to fight the worst with those we love the most. While fights ought to be rare, when they do happen they are great opportunities for improving the relationship as a whole. This episode covers how to resolve fights quickly and how to use them to "gain intimacy" rather than costing it.

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Being detached from outcome seems to attract what you want... In dating, in business, and possibly in unforeseeable ways in life. But how do you intend what you want while also being detached? This episode looks at achieving this mental state that helps one overcome internal resistance and MAYBE can also attract desired things beyond your control...

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"All the ancestors before us refer to beauty as the sacred. They regard to that as pure beauty. You should get chills when you really feel beauty."

Arthur Kwon Lee was named 'Artist of the Year' in 2020. Six months later was blacklisted for not subscribing to woke ideology. Since then he's become the artist of "don't tread of me" masculine virtue. We discuss culture and reality paradigms, functional ethics, anarchism vs statism, rites of passage, sacredness of beauty, and the creative unconscious in art.

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Polarity means asymmetry of responsibility: There are some things the man does for the woman that are not necessarily reciprocated.

But what about men's needs? This episode covers how a man can get his needs met without violating the polarity of his relationship. 

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You already know that women need to feel their feelings. But that's only half of the equation...

A man assuming the role of 'Head of the Household' is an increasingly taboo concept. But it's the only way to really give your partner and dependents the space and safety to be themselves.

(Please excuse the sound quality. This was recorded in nature.)

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You already know that women need to feel their feelings. But that's only half of the equation...

A man assuming the role of 'Head of the Household' is an increasingly taboo concept. But it's the only way to really give your partner and dependents the space and safety to be themselves.

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Your 'Demons' = Patterns from your past that limit your present. These emotions/beliefs/tendencies tend to re-appear right when you're about to have a positive breakthrough. I share how you can slay your demons with a process from Radical General Semantics (Gad Horowitz).

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Men have a new kind of "Fear of Women."

It's the fear that the woman they are intimate with, won't want to be in her feminine.

My wife pointed out to me that women have this fear too— of their own femininity.

She shares her recent experiences with the new levels of polarity.

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Ken Blackman coaches people in relationships, sex, communication, and human dynamics. We met when he was the Head of Education at OneTaste. We reconnected recently via one of his writings that resonated with a challenge I've been feeling regarding being seen. We talk about the good ole cult days, navigating traps in the personal development industry and media, and sharing your truth.

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