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In this episode of the Admittedly Podcast, host Thomas Caleel tackles a concern we hear often from families: “What if my kid isn’t the extroverted type who starts clubs or rallies crowds?” What happens when a student is deeply curious, authentic, and passionate—but in a quieter, more individual way?
Thomas breaks down what admissions officers actually value, why solo work can absolutely shine, and how to ensure your quieter approach still connects outside your own bubble.
With real examples from students who were more introspective but still successful at the most competitive schools, this episode will help you reframe what leadership, initiative, and involvement really mean—and how to lean into your strengths, even if they look different from everyone else’s.
Key Takeaways:
You don’t need to be someone else to succeed in this process—but you do need to stretch. That might mean presenting your research, finding collaborators, or simply joining a community tied to your interest. Whatever your personality, the key is showing that your work doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Let your ideas breathe outside your own world.
You’re not applying to college to live alone in a lab or in your head—you’re joining a community. Admissions officers want to see that you’re ready for that in a way that’s still true to who you are.
Are you an introvert navigating this process? We want to hear your story. DM us your questions @admittedlyco on Instagram or TikTok.
Visit www.admittedly.co for more resources and support.
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In this episode of the Admittedly Podcast, host Thomas Caleel tackles a concern we hear often from families: “What if my kid isn’t the extroverted type who starts clubs or rallies crowds?” What happens when a student is deeply curious, authentic, and passionate—but in a quieter, more individual way?
Thomas breaks down what admissions officers actually value, why solo work can absolutely shine, and how to ensure your quieter approach still connects outside your own bubble.
With real examples from students who were more introspective but still successful at the most competitive schools, this episode will help you reframe what leadership, initiative, and involvement really mean—and how to lean into your strengths, even if they look different from everyone else’s.
Key Takeaways:
You don’t need to be someone else to succeed in this process—but you do need to stretch. That might mean presenting your research, finding collaborators, or simply joining a community tied to your interest. Whatever your personality, the key is showing that your work doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Let your ideas breathe outside your own world.
You’re not applying to college to live alone in a lab or in your head—you’re joining a community. Admissions officers want to see that you’re ready for that in a way that’s still true to who you are.
Are you an introvert navigating this process? We want to hear your story. DM us your questions @admittedlyco on Instagram or TikTok.
Visit www.admittedly.co for more resources and support.
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