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What if the issue isn't your case… but HOW you're thinking about the jury?
Most lawyers won't say this out loud, but it's happening.
You're asking the jury to do MORE than their job.
Not just decide the case, but decide if you're good enough.
If they rule in your favor → you feel validated.
If they don't → you question everything.
That's the trap.
Because the jury's job is simple: hold bad actors accountable.
That's it.
They are NOT there to:
🚫 Like you 🚫 Validate you 🚫 Prove you're a good lawyer
And the moment you start needing that from them…
YOU stop serving them and start trying to get something from them.
They can feel that.
🙅🏽♀️Stop asking, "What do they think of me?"
✅Start asking, "How can I help them do their job?"
That's where everything changes.
Tune in NOW! 🎧
Love, Sari
Quote:
"You are giving them the job of making you feel good about yourself. That is not their job. So much of your self-worth is tied up in whether these six or eight or twelve people like you… and that is dangerous."
Sari de la Motte
Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saridelamotte/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SariSwears
Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SariDLM
Free FB Group for Plaintiff & Criminal Defense Attorneys https://www.facebook.com/groups/fromhostagetohero/
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What if the issue isn't your case… but HOW you're thinking about the jury?
Most lawyers won't say this out loud, but it's happening.
You're asking the jury to do MORE than their job.
Not just decide the case, but decide if you're good enough.
If they rule in your favor → you feel validated.
If they don't → you question everything.
That's the trap.
Because the jury's job is simple: hold bad actors accountable.
That's it.
They are NOT there to:
🚫 Like you 🚫 Validate you 🚫 Prove you're a good lawyer
And the moment you start needing that from them…
YOU stop serving them and start trying to get something from them.
They can feel that.
🙅🏽♀️Stop asking, "What do they think of me?"
✅Start asking, "How can I help them do their job?"
That's where everything changes.
Tune in NOW! 🎧
Love, Sari
Quote:
"You are giving them the job of making you feel good about yourself. That is not their job. So much of your self-worth is tied up in whether these six or eight or twelve people like you… and that is dangerous."
Sari de la Motte
Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saridelamotte/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SariSwears
Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SariDLM
Free FB Group for Plaintiff & Criminal Defense Attorneys https://www.facebook.com/groups/fromhostagetohero/

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