Do you ever find yourself sacrificing yourself in relationships to get any sign of affection, kindness or love? Why do you accept so little? Maybe it’s not even a true relationship because there’s no real commitment. Do you struggle to keep it together, and then wait for some big payoff that never comes?

When we believe there's not enough love, or WE are not enough, we exert a lot of effort. We believe we have to slog hours in the coal mines before there's a speck of reward. And that's the issue... the idea of reward. There is no prize for putting yourself through hell. And if you’re divorced or have been through a series of broken relationships, there’s actually a tendency to feel you deserve less instead of more. It’s time to flip the switch, moving from scarcity and struggle to ease and love.