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  • Processing Tragedy When the Helpers Didn't Help + How Much Should We Follow our Feelings? : Selfie Podcast Episode 221
    We are discussing the tragedy in Uvalde, and how to process the feelings of helplessness and despair around gun violence, paired with the shocking discoveries around law enforcement's failures that day. We follow up on our convo from last week around feelings and butterflies, and what to do when you received messages that feelings can't be trusted.
    In this episode we also talked about:
    This Cute Amazon Caftan
    Shower Brush Back Scrubber Body Exfoliator
    Why deal with razor burn and wasteful disposable razors when you could be getting the best shave of your life with the Athena Club Razor Kit? Athena Club razor blades are surrounded by a water-activated serum with shea butter and hyaluronic acid, so you get a silky smooth shave that actually leaves skin soft and hydrated, not stripped dry. And the blades are spaced out to let hair and shave cream pass through easily, so you don’t have to take a ton of passes over your skin to remove hair. Fewer passes means less irritation to your skin, cutting down on razor burn and ingrown hairs. The Razor Kit is only $9 (with free shipping!) and comes with two blade cartridges, a magnetic hook for shower storage, and your choice of handle color. Get 20% off your first order at AthenaClub.com with promo code selfie.
    Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com.
    It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.
    Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit – no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System!
    Somavedic is a device combining Eastern approach to health & wellness with modern-day technology. If you’re concerned with the unwanted influences of electromagnetic radiation and geopathogenic zones, you’ll appreciate Somavedic. Somavedic devices rely on frequency therapies and the healing powers of precious and semi=precious stones and metals to create a natural energy field to harmonize your home. If you’d like to experience
    36 min
  • Anxiety About Roe v. Wade + Can You Be Friends With People You're Attracted To? | Selfie Episode 219

    Kristen and Matthias answer a listener who wonders if it's healthy to make friends with people you're attracted to while in a partnership. Then, they chat about anxiety around national events like the possible repeal of Roe v. Wade. Plus, Kristen shares what happened when she got in a fight with a megachurch pastor.

    Links + Resources:

    • Philips Norelco OneBlade
    • Life of Beth

    • Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com.

      It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.

      Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System!

      Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order.

      Backblaze makes backing up and accessing your data astonishingly easy. They offer unlimited computer backup for Macs and PCs at just $7/month. You can back up docs, music, photos, videos, drawings, projects – all of your data, and access your backed up data from anywhere in the world using their web app. Get a free fully-featured no credit card required trial at: Backblaze.com/selfie.

      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

      47 min
    • Anxiety About Roe v. Wade + Can You Be Friends With People You're Attracted To? | Selfie Episode 219
      Kristen and Matthias answer a listener who wonders if it's healthy to make friends with people you're attracted to while in a partnership. Then, they chat about anxiety around national events like the possible repeal of Roe v. Wade. Plus, Kristen shares what happened when she got in a fight with a megachurch pastor.
      Links + Resources:
      Philips Norelco OneBlade
      Life of Beth
      Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com.
      It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.
      Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System!
      Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order.
      Backblaze makes backing up and accessing your data astonishingly easy. They offer unlimited computer backup for Macs and PCs at just $7/month. You can back up docs, music, photos, videos, drawings, projects – all of your data, and access your backed up data from anywhere in the world using their web app. Get a free fully-featured no credit card required trial at: Backblaze.com/selfie.
      49 min
    • Centering Practices for Anxiety + Personality Disorders 101 | Selfie Episode 218

      A listener asks about quick centering practices to help in her busy and high anxiety life. Kristen and Matthias chat through a couple personality disorders that have been in the news a lot recently. Plus, Kristen explains the newest skincare treatment she's tried: sebaceous hyperplasia burning.

      Links + Resources

      • 1Password App
      • Kitsch Self-Draining Shower Caddy
      • Drunk Elephant Face Bar
      • EFT Tapping
      • Stop Walking on Eggshells Book
      • Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

        44 min
      • Centering Practices for Anxiety + Personality Disorders 101 | Selfie Episode 218
        A listener asks about quick centering practices to help in her busy and high anxiety life. Kristen and Matthias chat through a couple personality disorders that have been in the news a lot recently. Plus, Kristen explains the newest skincare treatment she's tried: sebaceous hyperplasia burning.
        Links + Resources
        1Password App
        Kitsch Self-Draining Shower Caddy
        Drunk Elephant Face Bar
        EFT Tapping
        Stop Walking on Eggshells Book
        46 min
      • Teen Sleepovers + Different Genders Rooming Together at College | Selfie Episode 217

        A listener asks about their college age kid rooming together with someone of a different gender, Matthias and Kristen discuss this alongside the complexity of teen sleepovers with different genders and sexual orientations. Plus, the Amber Heard/Johnny Depp trial and the reality that domestic violence doesn't just affect women.

        Links + Resources

        • Heartstopper on Netflix
        • Rothaniel on HBO Max
        • National Domestic Violence Hotline Website

        • Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com.

          It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.

          Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System!

          Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order.

          Backblaze makes backing up and accessing your data astonishingly easy. They offer unlimited computer backup for Macs and PCs at just $7/month. You can back up docs, music, photos, videos, drawings, projects – all of your data, and access your backed up data from anywhere in the world using their web app. Get a free fully-featured no credit card required trial at: Backblaze.com/selfie.

          Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

          45 min
        • Teen Sleepovers + Different Genders Rooming Together at College | Selfie Episode 217
          A listener asks about their college age kid rooming together with someone of a different gender, Matthias and Kristen discuss this alongside the complexity of teen sleepovers with different genders and sexual orientations. Plus, the Amber Heard/Johnny Depp trial and the reality that domestic violence doesn't just affect women.
          Links + Resources
          Heartstopper on Netflix
          Rothaniel on HBO Max
          National Domestic Violence Hotline Website
          Our sponsor today has helped thousands of women deal with thinning hair. Nutrafol is a doctor-formulated supplement clinically shown to improve hair growth and thickness that offers two targeted formulas for women. Nutrafol Women is ideal if you’re experiencing thinning hair caused by stress, dieting, overstyling, and environmental toxins, while Women’s Balance is formulated with additional hormone support for those with thinning hair through menopause. No matter your stage in life, Nutrafol has a solution. Visit NUTRAFOL dot com and take their Hair Wellness Quiz for personalized product recommendations, and use the promo code SELFIE to save $15 off your first month’s subscription at Nutrafol.com.
          It’s a new year, and many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.
          Getting beautiful salon-perfect nails at home is now a dream come true – with Olive & June! Their Mani System lets you treat yourself to beautiful nails on your time for about $2 a manicure. Olive & June nail polishes last 7+ days and do not chip! Olive & June offers press-ons too! A salon look in minutes that’s better than gel, they last 10+ days and come with the most sizes ever so you can find your best fit - no one will know they’re fake Visit OliveandJune.com/SELFIE for 20% off your first Mani System!
          Native is doing their part to help our earth with their new one-hundred percent plastic-free and recyclable packaging! Just like all of Native’s other deodorants, their plastic-free deodorant is aluminum and paraben-free, kills odor-causing bacteria, and has twenty-four-hour odor protection to keep you feeling and smelling fresh. With Native choose from ten scents - including their classic Coconut and Vanilla, Sensitive formulas that are formulated without baking soda, and even Unscented! Go to NativeDeo.com/selfie, or use promo code selfie at checkout, and get 20% off your first order.
          Backblaze makes backing up and accessing your data astonishingly easy. They offer unlimited computer backup for Macs and PCs at just $7/month. You can back up docs, music, photos, videos, drawings, projects – all of your data, and access your backed up data from anywhere in the world using their web app. Get a free fully-featured no credit card required trial at: Backblaze.com/selfie.
          51 min
        • Healthy Habits vs. Meds + Psychedelic-Assisted Therapies | Selfie Episode 216

          Psychedelics are at the cutting edge of mental-health research right now. Kristen talks about how she's about to try ketamine therapy for her depression and chats with Matthias about his experience in psychedelic-assisted therapy. Then, a listener asks about trying meds for her depression or continuing to try healthy habits. Plus, how is Pixar using psychology in their movies?

          Links + Resources:

          • How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan
          • Ancient Minerals Magnesium Oil Spray Bottle
          • The Dream Podcast
          • How Pixar Movies Use Psychology

          • Many of us are looking for ways to have better eating habits. Enter Factor. Factor makes it easy to eat clean 24/7, with fresh—never frozen—prepared meals that are so delicious, you wouldn’t believe they’re actually good for you. Factor saves time by delivering chef-crafted meals to your doorstep, eliminating the hassle of grocery shopping and meal prep. ach Factor meal arrives pre-prepared and ready to eat in two minutes. Their registered dietitians and expert chefs work hand-in-hand to create meals with nutritious ingredients. And with more than 27 meal options each week, you won’t get bored. They offer Vegan + Veggie meals, cold-pressed juices, smoothies, energy bites, plant-based bars, extra protein, veggie sides, and more to keep you fueled and focused all day long. Head to GO.FACTOR 75.com/PLANS and use code selfie120 to get $120 off over your first 5 weeks of meals.

            Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

            31 min

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          Let’s talk self-care and mental health. Kristen Howerton, writer and psychotherapist, is joined by her longtime pal Matthias Roberts, psychotherapist, side-eye aficionado, and dog dad, as they tackle…