Curious about sex play parties? Lila Donnolo is on the show to unpack everything you need to know before attending or hosting one! She breaks down what to expect at a play party, how to physically and emotionally prepare, play party etiquette and safer sex talk, and all the best practices along with red flags to look out for. This is a juicy, illuminating, and dynamic conversation that will expand your mind to what’s possible in a sex-positive culture.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• What to expect at a sex play party
• Lila’s “FBID” exercise to prepare for a play party
• How to physically prepare your body and your tool kit
• How to give consent and gracefully receive a rejection
• Play party etiquette, safer sex talk, and hygiene 
• How to reframe your jealousy into arousal
• Play party best practices  

Follow Lila:

• Instagram: @horizontalwithlila 
• Website: horizontalwithlila.com 
• Podcast: Horizontal with Lila 
• Recommended Books: Mating in Captivity ; Arousal ; Sex at Dawn
• Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech

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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions