In this episode of The Sex Talk Cafe, host Susan Morgan Taylor and guest Kirsten Trammell explore the complexities of male confidence in sexual situations, the impact of pornography on sexual identity, and the resistance men often face when trying to change their sexual practices. They discuss the benefits of new approaches to intimacy, including the potential for deeper emotional connections and full-body orgasms. The conversation emphasizes the importance of balancing giving and receiving in relationships and offers practical advice for cultivating sensitivity and attunement in sexual experiences.

Connect With Today's Guest Here: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/

More From Your Host, Susan Morgan Taylor, MA Here:

Website: The Pathway to Pleasure Collective https://www.PathwayToPleasure.com

THE PLEASURE KEYS IMMERSION EXPERIENCES: A 3 day game changing experience for committed couples who want to deepen connection and create mutual fulfillment in sex and intimacy for the long term. https://www.PleasureKeysRetreat.com

ENLIGHTENED INTIMACY PRIVATE COUPLES COACHING WITH SUSAN: A 100% customized solution for committed couples who want sex and intimacy to feel easy, fun, and mutually satisfying so that they can get back on the same page without frustration, obligation, resentment or fear.(even if your sex drives are totally mismatched or it’s been awhile!) By application only. More details at https://www.EnlightenedIntimacy.com

THE CONNECTION CODE MASTERCLASS: Discover the 3 causes of mismatched libido ad the 5 Codes you must master to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy for the long term. Secure your FREE spot at the next class here: https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com/how-to-resolve-mismatched-libido-masterclass.html

THE PLEASURE KEYS EBOOK: Discover the 3 secrets to deepening connection, expanding orgasmic potential, and experiencing mutual intimate fulfillment. Grab your FREE copy at https://www.pleasurekeys.com

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Music Credits

• Music: "In the Back Room" and "Patched In" by Blue Dot Sessions
• From the Free Music Archive, CC BY-NC 4.0

Keywords: men's sexuality, sex coaching, tantra, sexual health, relationships, sexual desire, VITA method, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, communication in relationships, confidence, sexuality, pornography, sexual identity, intimacy, sexual practices, emotional connection, sexual mastery, giving and receiving, relationships

In this conversation, Susan Taylor and Ally Iseman explore the complexities of open relationships, discussing how they can be viewed as both a lifestyle choice and an orientation. Ally shares her personal journey with compersion, the joy derived from a partner's happiness with others, and how jealousy can be reframed as a tool for growth. They emphasize the importance of communication skills, the distinction between boundaries, rules, and agreements, and how these concepts apply to all types of relationships, not just non-monogamous ones. mismatched desires can be addressed. 

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• Website: https://www.Passport2Pleasure.com
• IG: https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure
• YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@passport2pleasure
• FaceBook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61554151163099

More From Your Host, Susan Morgan Taylor, MA Here:

Website: https://www.PathwayToPleasure.com

THE PLEASURE KEYS IMMERSION EXPERIENCES: A 3 day game changing experience for committed couples who want to deepen connection and create mutual fulfillment in sex and intimacy for the long term. https://www.PleasureKeysRetreat.com

ENLIGHTENED INTIMACY PRIVATE COUPLES COACHING WITH SUSAN: A 100% customized solution for committed couples who want sex and intimacy to feel easy, fun, and mutually satisfying so that they can get back on the same page without frustration, obligation, resentment or fear.(even if your sex drives are totally mismatched or it’s been awhile!) By application only. More details at https://www.EnlightenedIntimacy.com

THE CONNECTION CODE MASTERCLASS: Discover the 3 causes of mismatched libido ad the 5 Codes you must master to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy for the long term. Secure your FREE spot at the next class here: https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com/how-to-resolve-mismatched-libido-masterclass.html

THE PLEASURE KEYS EBOOK: Discover the 3 secrets to deepening connection, expanding orgasmic potential, and experiencing mutual intimate fulfillment. Grab your FREE copy at https://www.pleasurekeys.com

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• Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-morgan-taylor/

Music Credits

• Music: "In the Back Room" and "Patched In" by Blue Dot Sessions
• From the Free Music Archive, CC BY-NC 4.0

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open relationships, compersion, jealousy, communication skills, boundaries, agreements, relationship coaching, intimacy, non-monogamy, personal growth, boundaries, consent, non-monogamy, relationship dynamics, intimacy, communication, mismatched desires, relationship skills, curiosity, empowerment

In today's episode, intimacy expert Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the misconceptions surrounding compromise in relationships. Susan Morgan Taylor and Alexandra Stockwell explore the dynamics of relationships, focusing on the distinction between compromise and sacrifice, the myth of mismatched libido, and the importance of personal growth within intimate partnerships. They emphasize the need for clear communication, empowerment of women to express their desires, and the significance of nurturing passion in long-term relationships. The discussion highlights that relationships serve as a vehicle for personal evolution and that both partners must actively engage in understanding and fulfilling each other's needs.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Uncompromising Intimacy

02:57 Alexandra's Journey to Intimacy Coaching

09:02 The Intersection of Medicine and Intimacy Coaching

18:00 Rethinking Compromise in Relationships

27:12 Understanding Compromise vs. Sacrifice

29:51 The Evolutionary Perspective in Relationships

32:14 Debunking the Mismatched Libido Myth

39:35 Empowering Women in Relationship Dynamics

43:46 Secrets to Keeping Passion Alive in Long-Term Relationships

More from your Host Susan Morgan Taylor, MA

The Connection Code FREE monthly masterclass: Learn the 3 causes of mismatched libido and the 5 keys to getting back on the same page in sex and intimacy for good.

More info at https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com and click on "Masterclass" in the navigation bar

Free eBook: The Pleasure Keys: 3 Secrets to deepen connection, expand orgasmic potential, and create mutual intimate fulfillment. Get your copy at https://www.PleasureKeys.com

The Pleasure Keys Couples Immersion Retreats are held several times per year. A 3 day 4 night game changing experience for couples in committed relationships to get back on the same page in sex and intimacy for the long term. More info at https://www.PleasureKeysRetreat.com

Connect with today's guest Alexandra Stockwell, MD at https://www.AlexandraStockwell.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/intimacydoctor/

Join me today for a juicy conversation with, Shauna Stewart, Certified Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach and founder of the Linger Boutique. Shauna shares her transformative journey from a high-achieving career to embracing pleasure and intimacy. We explore the importance of creating spaces for women's pleasure, the role of education and community in overcoming shame, and the significance of receiving in enhancing relationships. Shauna shows us how to redefine pleasure beyond sexuality, the necessity of communication in intimate experiences, and the upcoming 'Receive' retreat in Tuscany, aimed at helping women reconnect with their bodies and cultivate joy in their lives.

00:00 Introduction to Pleasure and Connection

01:14 Shauna's Journey to Embracing Pleasure

05:34 Reclaiming Intimacy in Relationships

10:46 Creating a Sensual Space

12:29 The Birth of Linger Boutique

15:03 Defining Pleasure Beyond the Bedroom

17:42 Overcoming Shame and Unworthiness

20:21 The Importance of Receiving Pleasure

21:47 Reframing Sexuality for Women

24:36 The Importance of Solo Play

25:58 Redefining Women's Sexuality

27:52 The Role of Obligation in Sexual Relationships

29:26 Learning to Receive

30:43 Communication and Clarity in Intimacy

32:06 Anticipation and Pleasure

33:30 The 'Receive' Retreat in Tuscany

37:00 Balancing Productivity and Pleasure

40:16 The Power of Rest and Pleasure

42:48 Pleasure as a Superpower

Connect with Shauna Stewart here:

https://lingerboutique.com/

https://lingerintuscany.my.canva.site/

More from your host Susan Morgan Taylor, MA here:

Free eBook: https://www.pleasurekeys.com

Couples Retreats: https://www.pleasurekeysretreat.com

Somatic Sex Therapy and Coaching for Couples https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com

Keywords: pleasure, intimacy, sexuality, self-discovery, relationships, women's empowerment, education, community, receiving, healing

In today's engaging conversation we explore the transformative practice of Pompoir, also known as vaginal gymnastics. What if you could twist, milk, and stroke a penis with nothing more than your vaginal muscles? What if you could intentionally give yourself deep G-spot and cervical orgasms on command and at will during sex? Pompoir is a lost feminine art which enhances female pleasure, boosts libido, and amplifies orgasms. Belle Di Lorenzo, the founder of Gohddess! and author of 'The Gohddess! Method' a one of a kind Pompoir training program for women. Bel shares her journey of how she discovered and developed this practice, its benefits for women, and how it empowers women to reclaim their sexual pleasure. The discussion also touches on the misconceptions surrounding female sexuality, the importance of confidence, and the potential for Pompoir to enhance intimacy and connection in relationships. Because “It’s a theme park inside” that vagina, ladies and gentlemen, and we are only just getting started!

Episode Takeaways

• Pompoir is a form of advanced pelvic floor fitness.
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• • The practice enhances female pleasure and boosts libido.
• • Women can experience more frequent and intense orgasms through Pompoir.
• • Training the pelvic floor can help with issues like urinary incontinence and organ prolapse.
• • Pompoir empowers women to take control of their sexual experiences.
• • The practice can help women reconnect with their femininity and sensuality.
• • Men can also benefit from the enhanced pleasure that Pompoir provides to their partners.
• • Confidence is the most attractive quality in a woman.
• • Pompoir can be practiced solo, enhancing self-pleasure and confidence.
• • The connection between pleasure and empowerment is crucial for women's sexual health.
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Chapters

1. 00:00 Introduction to Pompoir and Belle DiLorenzo
2. 02:30 Understanding Vaginal Gymnastics
3. 05:45 The Benefits of Pompoir for Couples
4. 10:01 Exploring Orgasmic Potential
5. 14:56 The Connection Between Pompoir and Menopause
6. 19:51 Research and Future of Pompoir
7. 25:50 Introduction to Pompoir and Its Unique Approach
8. 30:27 The Science Behind Pompoir: A Comprehensive Fitness Approach
9. 35:51 Challenging Traditional Views on Female Sexuality
10. 39:44 Empowerment Through Self-Exploration and Training
11. 47:00 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies in Sexuality
12. 53:53 Resources and Community for Pompoir Practitioners
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Connect with Bel Here:

Learn Pompoir with Bel's Oh!lympus Course https://www.gohddess.com/a/2147495699/zSaabTYd

Bel's Website: www.gohddess.com

Connect with host Susan Morgan Taylor

Free Guide: The Pleasure Keys eBook: 3 Keys to Deepen Connection, Enhance Pleasure, and Experience Mutual Fulfillment at www.pleasurekeys.com

Couples Retreats and Private Coaching at www.pathwaytopleasure.com

Keywords: Pompoir, vaginal gymnastics, female pleasure, orgasms, pelvic floor, empowerment, menopause, sexual health, confidence, intimacy

Sometimes it seems men and women are doomed when it comes to finding alignment in sex and love. Our biological wiring is seemingly totally opposite. The myth that men want and enjoy sex more than women has been propagated for centuries. The argument that marriage mostly benefits women has also been falsely promoted. In this episode of Sex Talk Cafe I interview researcher, scientist and renowned author D. Liat Yakir, who shares her findings on the science of love in an easy to understand conversation. Learn how our biological and hormonal differences can actually be used to bring us closer together and to strengthen long term bonding between partners where love and sex can grow stronger over time, not weaker.

Connect with Dr. Liat Yakir here:

• Website: https://en.liatyakir.com
• Book: A Brief History of Love on Amazon here
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More from your host Susan Morgan Taylor

• The Pleasure Keys Couples Retreat at www.pleasurekeys.com
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• The Pleasure Keys free eBook: www.pleasurekeys.com
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• Website: www.pathwaytopleasure.com
• IG: @susanmorgantaylor
• FB: @susantaylorma
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Penis size. It's a hot topic of conversation in men's sexual health. But does size matter, and if so why? Are there safe options for penis size enhancement and if so what are they? How can men avoid potential harm to his most prized possession with enhancement procedures? Join me today as I interview Dr. Judson Brandeis, MD, creator of the P-Long protocol for men and founder of the BrandeisMD Male Rejuvenation Center. Discover a proven and safe method for increasing penis size while learning what doesn't work and what to stay far away from in the realm of male sexual enhancement products and procedures.

Learn more about Dr. Brandeis here:

• Website: www.BrandeisMD.com
• Get a copy of Dr. Brandies' book The 21st Century Man here.
• Follow Dr. Brandeis on Instagram here
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More from you podcast host Susan Morgan Taylor, MA here:

• The Pleasure Keys Couples Retreat
• Sex therapy for couples
• Sex Talk Cafe Podcast Series
• Follow Susan on Instagram @susanmorgantaylor
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• Follow Susan on Facebook @susantaylorma
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Psychedelic therapies are a revolutionary approach to resolving numerous issues most commonly delegated to the mental health arena. The realm of sex therapy is one of those realms where ketamine and other psychedelic therapies

can shed a new light for hope and healing of common sexual issues such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, challenges with reaching orgasm, communication,

and other common relationship challenges couples face.

In today’s episode I interview Dr. Stephen Radowitz, Chief

Medical Officer, Co-Founder, Nushama, a psychedelic wellness center located in Manhattan, NY.  Starting his career in New York during the peak of the opioid and AIDS crises, Dr. Steven Radowitz has a wealth of experience seeing the effects trauma and addiction can have on our

physical health. Dr. Radowitz joined Nushama, at the intersection of science and spirituality, to oversee and develop treatment modalities. He believes psychedelic medicine’s framework of neuroscience, mystical experience, and integration therapy is the future of mental wellness, and current solutions often fall short, treating symptoms without addressing underlying issues.    

Tune in to our juicy conversation to discover:

*Why ketamine is a groundbreaking psychedelic

therapy.       

*How ketamine works and how to know if you or a loved

one qualifies for this kind of therapy.

*Why psychedelic medicine’s is the antidote to current

solutions that often fall short.

*The problem with treating symptoms instead of root

causes.    

*How our relationships with ourselves can develop

and grow through psychedelic therapy.

*The most common sexual wellness issues that

ketamine therapy has been shown to alleviate.

Learn more about Dr. Radowitz and his work  here: https://nushama.com/

More from your host Susan Morgan Taylor here:

• Get your free copy of the Pleasure Keys eBook here: ⁠www.pleasurekeys.com⁠
• Learn more about the Pleasure Keys Couples Retreat and Somatic Sex therapy here: ⁠www.pathwaytopleaure.com⁠
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Today's episode of Sex Talk Cafe features Mattie Jo Cowsert, raised by a pastor and once a proud purity ring wearer before moving to New York City where she experienced an unexpected worldview and identity implosion thanks to Tinder and her Jewish roommate. Author of the book and blog by the same name, God Sex and Rich People, Mattie Jo is a living example of a woman who overcame the negative impact of religious programming and is now a beacon of hope for others. In this episode we explore the myth of "too soon", identifying what Mattie Jo calls "mysogynistic day walkers", overcoming sexual shame, and the steps you can take to overcome religious trauma and expand your capacity for sexual pleasure.

Learn more and connect with Mattie Jo Cowsert here:

• Website: www.mattiejocowsert.com
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• Instagram: @mattiejocowsert
• FaceBook: God, Sex and Rich People
• Tik tok: People@mattiejocowsquirt
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More from your host Susan Morgan Taylor here:

• Get your free copy of the Pleasure Keys eBook here: www.pleasurekeys.com
• Learn more about the Pleasure Keys Couples Retreat and Somatic Sex therapy here: www.pathwaytopleaure.com
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What is sexological bodywork? Why is somatic sex education and somatic sexual wellness the wave of the future of sex therapy? What do women most of all have to gain from this revolutionary approach to sexual evolution?

Today's episode of Sex Talk Cafe features Pamela Madsen, a Somatic Wellness Educator who has worked with hundreds of women and couples on their own personal journey back into their bodies. Pamela founded The Back To The Body Method™, now in its thirteenth year. A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, she also was the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and has been a blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and more. She has been called a “vagipreneur,” as well as an “OG in the world of sexual wellness” by Condé Nast Traveller. She is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality who reveals her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from women’s wellness, female desire and pleasure, body image, and infertility.

More on Pamelas work at www.backtothebody.org