Ashley and Ress answer questions about a range of topics from help forums from around the web, giving advice based on their experiences. The topics discussed include dealing with a partner who lacks ambition, how to handle unfair compensation, parenting styles, and dealing with a partner's crush.

Join Ashley and Ress as they dive into the relatable and often hilarious world of millennial adulthood. From grappling with emotional intelligence to deciphering the basic mechanics of everyday tools, this dynamic duo fearlessly explores the uncharted territory of being a grown-up.

Ashley and Ress dissect the reality of millennials feeling unprepared for the challenges of adulthood. From the elusive handbook on emotional intelligence to the mysteries of adulting, they've got it all covered.

The hosts share personal anecdotes, touching on the struggles of understanding tools that seem to have skipped their generation. Who knew a wrench could be so intimidating?

Ashley and Ress discuss the idea of signs and signals in life, and the importance of understanding one's individual "flow". They share personal experiences and anecdotes about recognizing these signs, how they push forward through challenges and practice resiliency.

Welcome back, did you miss us? In this episode, we delve into what it means to really let go of who we thought people were . We explore what it means to accept the reality of who they are. Through insightful discussions and personal stories, Ashley and Ress discuss the liberating journey of releasing preconceived notions of celebrities. We explore what its like when a tragedy strikes in the form of mental illness or life altering diseases change the people we use to know. What happens when they no longer fit into the box we had custom made for them in our minds?

In this episode Ashley and Ress explore the nuanced experiences and perspectives of black individuals in various black spaces. Recognizing that Black people are not a monolith, we delve into the diversity of experiences within the Black community and highlight the importance of understanding and respecting the unique stories and perspectives of individuals

In todays episode Ress and Ashley talk about including your partner in holiday festivities. Can holidays be the make it or break it point for couples? Ashley talks about the importance of being able to blend your partner in with your current life. Ress discuss what this might look like if you're simply not a 'family' type of person . What kind of details should you be looking out for when you're meeting the family and friends? And at what point should you take possible red flags seriously?

Happy Halloween! In this weeks episode Ashley and Ress discuss Halloween and the thinning of the veil. Both ladies discuss growing up in religious households where Halloween was frowned upon. The ladies discuss how Halloween can be a marker for those who want to call it quits on their relationship without seeming like the A-hole and running the other persons holidays. Ashley talks about her experience with Boohags, and Ress kindly ask that all spirits refrain from trying to wake her up out of her sleep for a little chit chat and favor asking. Dive into the lastest episode with girlies and enjoy!

In this fast-paced world, we often find ourselves overwhelmed by the pressure to achieve and succeed. We set high expectations for ourselves and strive for perfection in every aspect of our lives. But have we stopped to consider the importance of knowing our bare minimum?

Knowing our bare minimum means understanding the minimum requirements for our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Ashley and Ress deep dive into understanding our bare minimums for self but also for others, and the cost of only accepting the least.