Clarissa shares this: As a small child, I had two interests: I wanted to be an artist, and I wanted to take care of people. I had an active imagination. I loved painting, drawing, and sharing my work with others. It brought such joy and bliss. I grew up in a household of doctors who were very practical and protective. I did not get the encouragement to dive deep into art and was told that I’d be rich and famous after I died! I remember feeling like I wasn’t capable of making “right” decisions. As an adult I know my parents were looking out for my best interest. Life as an artist just didn’t seem stable or practical.

I also was drawn to becoming friends with children who were on the outskirts and alone. As one of the few Filipino children at my pre-school, I felt different. My dark hair and skin was a contrast to the other children around me. I didn’t want others to feel like I did. I would always befriend the new kids in town. I didn’t want them to feel left out. I remember walking up to a new girl in my ballet class from Canada and invited her to join me and my group of friends. Reaching out was something I always did. I became the “go to” friend who would listen, reassure, encourage, and just be with whatever situation was going on. I found I had a knack for making people feel welcomed.

Clarissa is a total GEM. Find her book Paint Your Path on Amazon.

Work with her by going to:

http://clarissastudio.com

Changing yourself internally and get in touch with our own internal communications is far from easy. It's difficult for many women to overcome fear and believe in ourselves. It is difficult to overcome the terrible messages we hear about ourselves all through our lives.

Listen is Ash talks about the importance of therapy to process through past stressors and trauma, and deeply understand what we need so that we can move forward. This is a complete how to episode that everyone should listen to with a pen and paper as well as an open mind. Find Ash Marshall-O'Dell at

www.sacredjourneyswithash.com

Each of us can think of apologies that we never got that forever affected us or held us back. Bethany Barton talks in this episode about how bad relationships lack of apologies and self-doubt was holding her back. 

After running out of reasons why not listen to how she move forward and forged her own path. Bethany talks about the importance of not waiting for permission from parents or anyone else to start following your dreams. Her advice? If you owned that you control the outcome then there is more responsibility for you however leaps and plans can be balanced plan what you can but be willing to Leap!

You can find her work at 

www.bethanynicole.com 

Just do it messy and put it out there! This episode is not to be missed!

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After 21 years in the military LaTrish Thomas has been spending some time figuring out what her next steps should be.

As a highly organized and structured individual learning things at a late age like medical coverage and life insurance was not something she was prepared for and yet it was something that she knew she had to face learn and accomplish.

Listening on this episode where we discuss the positives of should and the question about whether or not feeling like you should do things is really that bad. Hear about the need to being open to whatever may present itself to us, the importance of networking, the importance of doing your research, and the importance of support when making major life transitions.

This is an episode not to be missed. If you have a military member in your life you will want to hear about this process so that you can support them and better understand their challenges. If you don't, this is still an extremely interesting insight into the shift from military to civilian life.

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Let's see how I can support you in your shift, gain clarity as a leader, uncover your inner badass and more.

Megan Zink is a marketer, a multipassionate, a photographer, a show host and a ball of energy!

In this episode hear how Megan realized that even at a young age, just starting out you can outgrow a place and know that it no longer serves you.

Megan shares her path, her podcast Wider World View on the new Fireside app and her page Color and Curiosity.

Find her here:

Click https://firesidechat.com/meganzink to listen live or sign up at https://colorandcuriosity.com/newsletter/ for a VIP digital live studio audience invite! #WiderWorldview #GetCurious

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Sharon Holand started as a banker, but, a diagnosis of Crohn's disease for her son started her on a journey of discovery, learning and problem solving.

As her marriage was falling apart and her life seemed to be spinning to a place she didn't like, she found solace and comfort in discovering how food could solve problems that modern medicine didn't (or made worse!) 

Realizing that tenacity is the key to finding success, she soon found herself back in school and on a path to becoming an expert in how nutrition and food can fuel our bodies and solve our ailments. 

You will definitely want to check out her book The Gut Method

You can find her on YouTube at Lunch and Life or on her website www.sharonholand.com 

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Paula Telizyn is a BLAST y'all. Really, like, do you have room for one more best friend? After listening to this episode you will need to make some space.

A difficult marriage and a near death experience caused Paula to look back with regret. She was not the star of her life and it was time to make that change! Seeing that life is a gift she made major shifts including divorce and starting a business. 

Say Yes to EVERYTHING! It is that simple. In making that decision, she changed her life and her children's lives. She showed them the possibility of changing direction.

You can find and work with Paula (or set up your next best friend chat at these links:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulatelizyn/

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BONUS EPISODE!

We all get one life to live, Jason learned to never leave regrets. He doesn't ever want to shy I should have or what if.... so he goes for it! 

Leader of www.intentionallyinspirational.com Jason helps people with their digital marketing needs.

In this episode he reminds us that sometimes a pivot is just 1 or 2 degrees, and doesn't have to be a full 180 which can be scary as hell!

Jason is strong and dedicated and says If he puts his mind to something NO ONE will stop him! 

Stick with your instincts, feel your way through life and don't worry about pleasing others. That is the strong message in this bonus episode of Should Theory!

Corrie LoGiudice is a 4th generation entrepreneur, business strategist, coach, and TEDx speaker who helps people become entrepreneurs.  

Her signature coaching program, the Validate Your Biz Blueprint, is the only personal and professional development program designed specifically for aspiring and new (1st year or less) entrepreneurs. VYBB helps participants go from idea to landing their very first paying client, validating both their business idea as well as their ability to achieve freedom and flexibility as an entrepreneur.  It blends personal development skills like mindset and habits along with essential business training in areas like pricing/offers, operations, sales, and marketing, giving those who want to know how to start a business the A-Z blueprint they need to get started.  

Corrie also works as a professional motivational speaker and has been featured in TEDx, Business Insider, Girlboss, the Mighty, and more.

Website: www.corrielo.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/iamcorrielo

Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamcorrielo

Twitter: www.twitter.com/iamcorrielo

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/iamcorrielo 

YouTube: www.youtube.com/iamcorrielo

Free Training: How to Start Your Own Business and Land Your First Paying Client (Without Websites, Content or Paid Ads) http://www.corrielo.com/freeclass 

Free Quiz: Do You Have an Entrepreneurial Mindset? http://www.corrielogiudice.com/entrepreneurquiz

Signature Program: The Validate Your Biz Blueprint: http://www.corrielo.com/vybbprogram 

You won't be sorry!

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For much of his early life, Jay Shifman was told that he was living with a debilitating issue of Mental Health. As his condition worsened, he was prescribed more drugs at ever higher doses until, in his early 20s, he was daily taking more than the estimated lethal dosage of one drug and misusing many others while living with a full-blown issue of Substance Misuse thanks to prescription pills. "At 23, after two suicide attempts, an overdose, and time spent in an inpatient hospital and a rehab facility, I decided enough was enough and pledged myself to withdraw from all of my prescriptions. Over the next few years, many of my symptoms completely disappeared."

After entering recovery, and rebuilding my life, I pledged myself to one mission: regaining the choice over my struggles. In a world where many don’t get a first chance, I realized just how lucky I was to get my second. I decided to dedicate my life to making a difference around the topics of Mental Health and Substance Misuse & Recovery. After years of having my struggle chosen for me—to simply make it through the day—I finally chose what to struggle for."

In this episode Jay shares his story with us and it is nothing less than inspiring. Jay now shares his story with and helps others in a variety of ways. Find him here:

www.jayshifman.com

Check out his podcast here: Choose Your Struggle

Check out Rock Bottom Storytellers on YouTube 

Check him out on LinkedIn 

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