Simply Wealthy

Holding onto people is not a representation of being humble. 

It's actually a hand raise for exhaustion and consistently being unsatisfied.

This causes your energy to be depleted while attempting to remain around people and/or circumstances that do not pour into you.

It's time to let that go. 

Let go to:

-Allow you to explore and be more open minded

-Increase your capacity for things that you actually desire

-Establish consistent peace instead of sporadic peace.

Allowing yourself the room to embark on these things will allow you to fully show up for yourself in way that are important to you so that you become a magnet for success. 

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In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding your perspectives on life and your day to day activities. Your perspectives determine how you see life and the situations that unfold throughout your lifetime. 

Takeaways:

-Do you view things that occur in your life as a current circumstance or an everlasting battle?

-Are you easily influenced by what everyone else tells you or are. you mentally strong enough to discern distractions?

-Your perspective ultimately allows you to identify how you relate to other people. 

 

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Often times we feel overburdened with everyone else's problems and eventually you start to feel as if they are your own.

Then you weirdly feel obligated to come to their rescue even if you're drowning in your own problems.

I know the feeling all too well and unfortunately rescuing everyone else can cause us to neglect our own feelings and ultimately silence ourselves altogether.

We might think that this is humble but in actuality we are always teaching people how to treat us and if we silence ourselves we are telling others that we don't need to be heard.

However, that needs to end and here are some ways to get started:

-Set boundaries for yourself so that you can free yourself.

-Be okay with letting the problems of others fall so you can pick yourself up.

-Understand that finding your voice is the key to finding your originality and that's what gets you back to understanding who you are.

You deserve better and you will receive better.

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If there isn't enough time make the time.

It's not enough to just say "I'm just so busy" because over time you become a willing participant in the delay of your destination and make a choice to exist instead of excel.

You must realize that at certain times in your life, you must choose and agree to sacrifice.

This means sacrificing your time, energy, people and money.

However, you'll start to realize that sacrifice breeds clarity, which allows you to become your own problem solver instead of just a problem complainer.

This will allow you to save yourself in order to adequately save other people at a much greater level. 

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It's okay to not know what to do. 

However, it is not okay to remain stagnant and allow yourself to continuously fall victim to frustration and give up on yourself. 

One experience does not determine the full scope of your reality or the reality that you are attempting to create for yourself.

Instead, realize that clarity comes with consistency.

It's completely fine to not have everything figured out but you need to identify:

-What things do not support your new change(s)

-3 things that you do know that you need to accomplish change long term

-A "what if" strategy for when life and distractions come to get you off track

These key things will allow you to be intentional about having a "maintenance" strategy that goes beyond just doing the activity or activities and allow you to continue your pursuit to a greater you. 

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You might think that if it's not hard then there's more to be done.

However, that is a mindset that keeps you in struggle unnecessarily and allows you to constantly operate from a place that prevents you from accepting the fact that certain things are just that simple and only require dedication instead of exhaustion.

Instead, you should place your focus on operating with clear intentions in order to get clear results.

Not perfect results or quick results but simply clear.

This is how you get started:

-Plan intentionally to allow yourself the space to move from a place of stress to progress with clear direction

- Decide what you desire exactly

-Decide time frames that you want them by and be strategic with your time to accomplish those activities.

This allows you to build success habits which help propel your momentum for follow through and continue towards your path of fulfillment.

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Achievement is not the end goal.

You can be in a cycle of consistently looking at your output that you fail to look at yourself and your true needs.

This can keep you in a way of thinking that trains you to believe that your only source of validation is by looking at the evidence of things that other people have applauded you for. 

However, it's essential to realize the true essence of this life is to achieve different levels of fulfillment not just achievement.

Start by: 

-Realizing that your experiences serve as your blueprint and the building blocks of life.

-Identify patterns that continue to come up for you and make a conscious choice to explore them.

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When you know you need to improve an area of your life it can be exciting yet scary.

It's like you're mentally willing to take on the task, but you're frightened because it opens you up to your own triggers.

In reality, you might not have truly been taught to stand on your own without the permission of other people.

However, it is important to realize that no one is coming to save you and that you have to be willing to save yourself.

This comes with the acceptance of what is and the willingness to change. 

You must check what you're attached to and be in the mindset of moving so that doors of opportunities can present themselves instead of operating from the perspective of seeing the doors first and then moving. 

This will allow you to operate from a place of expansion and over self trust and improvement.

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It's Our Anniversary!!

One year ago I started this podcast as a way to breakthrough my own barriers.

I wanted to challenge myself to break down the walls that were not serving me.

It was like me against me and I knew that freedom would never come if I didn't actively invite it in.

Like me, you probably know that what you need to do to engage in your own breakthrough but the question is are you willing to participate in the process of saving yourself?

The key is to first make the decision. You'll realize (eventually):

-Your human mind can't process all the ways that your decision will open doors for you which is why you have to take the first step

-Understand that what you desire desires you as well (I keep this mantra close to me)

-Feeling like you are on the edge is the exact place where you receive the next step

-Understand that everything eventually becomes a habit (so the unknown will eventually become your new norm and so on)

Thank you for your continued support! Only up from here ☺️.

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Summer Rewind: This is just a reminder to be proactive in creating more time in your day to focus on the things that have importance and not just urgency.

In this episode, I discuss the importance of understanding what needs to be done less in your life. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled. In order to achieve that goal,  you must place less of your focus on things that do not allow you to move forward in life. An important question to keep in mind is to ask yourself "Why am I doing this" in your daily routine. If you don't have a great answer, it most likely means that you are just doing busy work and in a cycle of familiarity. 

Takeaways:

-Being busy does not mean that you are productive. In fact extreme busyness makes you feel depleted which blocks creativity.

-You need to develop less assumptions about what people think of you which are usually not even true. Instead focus on yourself and what you need to succeed. 

-Distractions come in all forms to trick you into stepping away from the things that can have a true and positive impact on your life. It is essential to identify the difference between taking breaks and creating distractions. 

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