Hi there, Single Lady!

As they age, what do men really value in women? If you’re a woman over 30 looking to build a meaningful connection that leads to marriage, this episode is for you. My husband, Clark, and I cut through the noise and get real about how attraction, priorities, and marriage shift over time.

Join us for an honest conversation and practical tips to help you understand what truly matters in lasting love. (And it's not looking like a Barbie doll.) 

In this episode, I dive into the emotional rollercoaster of being stuck in a "friendlationship."

You've been talking to him (maybe for years) on the phone and you're interested, but he hasn't made any effort to take things to the next level, I share reasons this happens, tough questions you need to answer to gain clarity, and how to take control of your love life.

If you've been wondering if this is love or this is limbo, this episode is for you.

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Hey there, Awesome Single Lady!

If you're a woman who is over 30 and is ready to find a meaningful relationship, then you're going to love this message.

In this episode, we dive into one of today’s biggest dating debates: Should you tell a man, “I don’t need a man”?

Join me as we take a look at this statement really communicates, why men are often drawn to women who celebrate their independence, and how to balance self-sufficiency with inviting someone into your life. This episode will give you the exact phrases to use to express your independence without making a man feel unwanted or valued.  

I know this episode will empower you to show up authentically—and get closer to the relationship you deserve.

I hope you love this episode! 

Your coach, 
Shana Schutte
SingleOver30.net

Hi, Shana Awesome Single Lady!

Are you tired of mixed signals, dead-end conversations, and relationships that leave you feeling confused and unfulfilled? You’re not alone.

In today's Single Over 30 podcast episode, Decoding Breadcrumbing: Spotting the Signs and Setting the Boundaries, we dive into breadcrumbing – the subtle act of giving someone just enough attention to keep them on the hook without real commitment.

In this empowering episode, we explore:

What breadcrumbing looks like in modern relationships.

The emotional toll it can take – and why it’s not your fault.

How to reclaim your power, set healthy boundaries, and walk away with confidence.

Tune in for actionable advice that will help you stop chasing crumbs and start embracing the whole cake you deserve.

You’re worth more than breadcrumbs. The dream you have to love and be loved is possible!

Your Coach,
Shana Schutte
SingleOver30.net

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I can't believe it's been so long! I am so grateful to be back doing the Single Over 30 podcast! Words can't express what has happened in journey, but I'm going to try and give you a little bit of what has happened to me over the last 15 months. It's a detour in my life that I didn't plan on taking and I am so grateful to be alive! 

On this episode, I'm also going to share what to do if the man you are seeing or getting to know has different physical boundaries than you. Is there a way to communicate where you stand and find out if things can work out between the two of you without losing yourself? 

In this special interview on the Single Over 30 podcast, I have a great conversation with one of my old roommates, Monica, who married in her thirties and met her husband in a way that will blow your mind! My conversation with Monica is a reminder that all things are possible. 

We also talk about dating anxiety, breaking up, self-sabotage, "putting yourself out there" even when you don't feel like it, and not seeing yourself as unwanted but valuable while you are single. 

I know you'll be delighted with this special interview with Monica! 

The dream that you have--to love and be loved--is possible!

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Your coach, 
Shana 

To set up a free, 15-minute Discovery Session to find out if one of my coaching programs is a good fit for you, just click here to set up a time on my calendar.  

Before I married, I once chatted with a 36-year-old man on the Internet who asked if I would like to see his requirements for a mate and marriage. “Sure‚” I typed. “Send them over.” His request was curious, but I was amused when I received his list for the perfect wife.

In today’s podcast, I share what I learned about this guy and I also share 23 questions you can ask yourself to identify if you are in an toxic relationship or if you meet a man how to tell if he could be abusive.

Hey there, Single Lady!

First Date Dilemmas. They happen all the time. Maybe he asks you out after the first date but then you never hear from him again.

He asks you out, you go out and have a good time, but then seems like he just wants to text you. He doesn’t move the ball down the field and ask you out again. 

You want him to ask you out after the first date, but aren’t sure how to let him know without coming across as chasing.

Ooooh! This is going to be a great episode because I’m going to share 9 First Date Dilemmas like those that I just mentioned and share what to do about them.  You're going to love it!

MENTIONS IN THIS EPISODE

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Episode #104: 6 Ways to Tell if a Man is Breadcrumbing You
Episode #10: The Only Two Questions You Need to Answer About a First Date

Many women I coach struggle with deep grief that their love story hasn't worked out the way they desire when they enter their late thirties and early forties. Maybe you can relate.  (I certainly felt a lot of grief in my forties.)

It's disappointing when you feel love should happen in your life in a certain way by a certain time and it doesn't happen that way at all. And not only can it be disappointing, but it can fill soul shattering.

You thought things would go this way, then you wake up one morning and realize that the years have come and gone and your deepest dreams and desires for romance haven't been fulfilled—and you doubt they will be fulfilled now.

You think, “Too much time has passed. My vision of my fairy tale life has flown away with the ticking of the clock.”

The dream romance you thought you would have when you were young is replaced by the painful reality that finding him feels much more complicated than you could have ever imagined.

If you can relate to any of what I just shared, I want to encourage you!

In this episode of the Single Over 30 podcast, I am going to share how grieving the loss of your ideal love life can help you find true love. It really can! I experienced this myself and I know it's possible.

Be encouraged, awesome single lady! 

The dream that you have--to love and be loved--is possible!

Learn more about my special, signature Finding Mr. Right  program.

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Your Coach,
Shana
SingleOver30.net

When I was dating and I met a man I really liked, I often experienced a lot of fear. There was something in me that would get triggered and I would become very anxious.

I was confident and happy in the rest of my life, but enter Mr. Charming and poof! My confidence vanished and I was replaced by a fearful woman I hardly recognized. 

Maybe you can relate. What do you do if you're afraid to date, afraid to love, or even if  when a guy just looks at you and smiles that you go into a spin of "What ifs"? 

Good news! I'm here to help you today with encouragement and practical advice on this episode of the Single Over 30 podcast.

If you'd like to take the next step to get help with your dating and relationship life to help you attract that trustworthy, marriage-minded man, I'd love to help! 

When you sign up for my most affordable coaching membership, you'll get my "Finding Mr. Right" program that is worth $1200 for free--and you can cancel at any time! 

Check it out here!