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HOW TO EXPAND YOUR NETWORK OF POTENTIAL NEW COACHING CLIENTS. ⁣
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This is a picture of my first office (which was my own and that I didn’t have to share with anyone else) and I literally had the greatest time there. ⁣
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In the time period from 2013-2015 I had done more than 2.000 coaching sessions and how was that possible, starting as a complete newbie in the coaching field? ⁣
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Let me tell you: it had everything to do with a LinkedIn strategy! ⁣
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Today I have around 10.000 followers on LinkedIn which is primarily build from back then, when I used the strategy to book meetings with new potential clients and do some sale (the sale mainly happened afterwards on email). ⁣
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So here’s some tips on how to build a network of potential new coaching clients, book the meeting and then afterwards do the sale: ⁣
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1. Add people on LinkedIn who’s already working in the field you’re an expert in (fx if you’re an performance coach, then only add people from performance fields) ⁣
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2. When they confirm your friend request then send them a message where you (very short) tell them who you are, what you’re offering and if possible then offer them a free coaching session so they can try it out for themselves and experience if it is for them and if you as the coach and them as the client is the right fit. ⁣
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3. After finishing the session with them you present a future plan for the upcoming next 3 sessions ⁣
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4. You give them some discount on buying more than 1 session at the time. ⁣
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Try it out for yourself. In this way you’re expanding your network of potential new clients by being proactive. Remember this, and this goes in almost any field: more followers, means more potential customers which means more potential sale. ⁣
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Becoming a busy coach is in my opinion a combination of being great at what you do, providing value of cause, being proactive and brave - but in my option then it’s also a bit of a numbers game. At least in the beginning, for you to get it all started and happening. Good luck! xx⁣
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HOW TO ACT NATURAL IN FRONT OF A CAMERA. ⁣

If you’re doing YouTube, online courses, IG TV videos or work as presenting something (an online show/television show or so on) then this post is for you. ⁣
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The last couple of days I’ve received some messages from some of you on how to act natural in front of a camera. ⁣
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A few days ago I uploaded another post similar to this one about ‘how to be more comfortable showing up on video’. But the tips in this post will be slightly different. ⁣
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So here they come, there’s 4 tips in total: ⁣
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1. Imagine that the lens of the camera is someone you know. So wether you want to recall a sexy/chilled/funny/relaxed or so on attitude/vibe/face expression/look in the eye, then think of the person who makes you feel xxx and imagine them to be the lens of the camera. ⁣
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2. Practise in front of a camera tons of times, just for yourself. Practise makes master. ⁣
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3. Look a bit above the lens of the camera if it makes you feel too uncomfortable. We’re talking millimetres here!! ⁣
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4. Zone out by focusing on what you’re there to do: explain something/make a point/deliver a message or so on. ⁣
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I hope these tips will benefit you and help you to act and feel more natural in front of a camera. Good luck! xx J⁣
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So this evening I received an IG message with these words: ⁣
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‘I just want to be more comfortable showing up on video’ - can you relate? ⁣
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So of cause we’re going to cover this subject. ❤️ ⁣
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Personally then I’ve worked as an international model for the past 15 years. Also I’ve coached hundreds of women in model competitions on how to perform in front of a camera (or on stage) and then I’ve worked as a television presenter as well for two years, where I presented around 400 television shows (So I guess I know a thing or two about this theme).
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So here’s what I learned, I hope it will be beneficial for you too and add extra confidence, light and sparkle to your journey:⁣
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1. Know your angles. Yes I know this is a bit fun and very ‘me, me, me’ ish if you know what I mean, but it does help you feel more comfortable in front of a camera. Just think of Paris Hilton, most of the pictures with her looks the same because of her face position is the same. ⁣
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2. Look your best. When you have made an effort on looking your best, then it will for sure have an effect or two on your outer performance as well (because you feel more comfortable on the inside) ⁣
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3. Practise. Practise makes master. Go perform in the mirror or do a 100 recordings with yourself and then delete them. Just as practise with much of room for making mistakes. In this way you will (eventually) feel more comfortable in front of a camera/on video, because it’s more natural to you now when you have practised and it doesn’t feel as odd. ⁣
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4. Have a healthy lifestyle (eat healthy, drink your water, don’t have an hangover, get some sleep) I know this is a very general good thing, but I promise you that when your body and mind is healthy and in balance, then it will have an effect on your outer appearance and on your inner: balance reduces anxiety or other feelings that makes you feel uncomfortable. ⁣
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5. Have fun and know that you don’t have to do a one take so it doesn’t have to be perfect! You can cut in between recordings if you want to. Go watch my IG TV video about how to memorise a script. ⁣
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6. Watch your videos and learn from them! Enjoy. xx

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HOW TO GROW YOUR AUDIENCE FASTER AND USE YOUR TIME SMARTER/MORE WISELY. ⁣
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So tonight I want to share with you how to get downloads/followers/grow your audience (readers, viewers or so on) faster! ⁣
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And at the same time: optimise your effort on doing this in a smart way. Because I tell you, this is all about strategy and on how to use your time wisely. ⁣
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So let’s go: when I do my podcast, then I always make sure to do these 3 things: ⁣
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1. Use more social platforms! Personally then I’m on: YouTube, Instagram, I’m hosted as a blogger, LinkedIn, Facebook and then on my podcast platform. This means = every time I create a podcast episode then I’ll post it on all social media platforms in order to expand the traction BUT in different ways. Let me tell you: ⁣
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2. Fx I’ll edit some of my podcast episode combined with a picture and upload it on all of my other platforms and copy paste a small section of the text from it that describes the theme/point/vision/mission with the podcast episode as a ‘teaser text’. Or I’ll copy paste the whole thing in as a blogpost. Or I’ll record myself while making the podcast and upload it as a vodcast on all of my platforms, with a customised description that fits each platforms identity. ⁣
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In this way you can expand 1 product in many great ways, without having to do anymore work. You’ll make sure to brand yourself as much as you can and get your podcast episode (or whatever it may be) discovered by new potential followers/clients/customers. ⁣
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It’s all about thinking in the strategy of expanding your 1 product, customising it each social platform and create a way to automate it. ⁣
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My 3 tip is to make collaborations! Make other relevant people promote for your xxx on their social media platforms. ⁣
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If you’re interested in learning more about how you can make them do that, then please comment below and I’ll dig into that too in another post. Enjoy! xx J⁣
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ON FEAR. ⁣
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So I just had this great question in my inbox: “How to overcome fear?” Basically that was not the exact words on it, but that pretty much sums the whole point up. ⁣
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So whether you feel scared or very (too!) uncomfortable about something fx sharing pictures of yourself on Instagram, because you dream of promoting your brand and know it might be necessary, or maybe you really want to write a book but hold yourself back because you’re afraid of the potential ‘no’ from the publisher house. Then we’re talking about the same and underlying feeling here - or state of mind: fear. ⁣
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So how to overcome it? Well, I got some tips for you. ⁣
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In this video I’m terrified. I was shaking while doing all of the red carpet interviews; there were cameras everywhere and thousands of young people screaming and yelling everywhere! I had my own television crew with me (behind me, which is why you can’t see them in this video) and I was so scared if they would be able to tell that I felt how I did. Because I wanted to remain professional and continue to seem that way too! ⁣
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Here’s four big lessons I’ve learned during times of fear: ⁣
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1. You have to feel the fear, and do it anyway ⁣
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2. Fear doesn’t go away until you face it. Actually you make it worse by avoiding it ⁣
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3. It means you feel strongly about something - lucky you! You’re a human being with emotions, so remember that fear is a sign of: something is very important to you. So my last tip is: ⁣
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4. Let fear guide you. By that I mean: when fear arises, know yourself well enough to know, that you’re on some sort of track which is aligned with your dreams (which is why you feel so strongly about it) and that is a beautiful thing and a thing to envy itself. ⁣
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So my big advise to you is: stay on track, even though you feel fear related feelings towards whatever makes you feel scared, and then feel the fear and do it anyway. ⁣
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You’ll be so proud of yourself afterwards and gain even more strength for the next time to come, because you made it through anyway and know that you’re capable of doing that again another time. ❤️ xx J⁣
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HOW TO PREPARE YOURSELF BEFORE A PERFORMANCE.⁣⁣⁣
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1, 2, 3 go! How to prepare yourself before a performance? ⁣⁣⁣
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This picture is taken on my first day at the television station, in the studio - a few minutes before having my debut as a television presenter. ⁣⁣⁣
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Whatever field you work in, then I’m convinced that you know the feeling of ‘the few minutes before’ a meeting/session/show/performance and so on.⁣
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In my experience, then you have to have a few things straight (mindset wise and physical) in order to make a great performance. And in order to get those things straight, then you need a bit of preparation. Here’s what I learned works the best: ⁣⁣⁣
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1. Visualisation is a really great tool. Before attending the meeting/session/performance, then visualise it from start to end. How do you want to feel? Behave? How do you want to enter and leave the room? ⁣⁣
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2. Body language: before entering xxx, then make sure you have empowered and opened yourself up using body language. So instead of sitting down, with your arms crossed while looking at your phone (the few minutes before you have to do your ‘performance’) - then stand up, get your body moving, keep your neck straight, your face looking a bit up and with your arms above the head. This is named a ‘power position’ for a reason. ⁣⁣
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3. Keep your mind and body healthy by eating properly, get your 8 hours of sleep, drink water, find peace in meditation and so on. Your general state of wellbeing will have an influence on the quality of your performance sooner or later. ⁣⁣⁣
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4. Listen to music, or in some other way: get your vibe straight. Music is a great tool for this. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣
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I hope this was beneficial for you! Go nail it. xx J⁣⁣⁣
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WHAT TO DO WHEN FEELING STUCKED WHILE CREATING CONTENT. ⁣

So today I want to share some thoughts with you on how to move forward (in a productive and great way) even though you feel stuck during creating content. ⁣
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Do you know the feeling of: ⁣
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• Having no idea about what content to create for the day??? ⁣
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• Getting stuck halfway through your process of creating some content. Everything went so well and you felt completely in flow, but all of a sudden something happens and you feel like your heart and mind is closing off for ideas, creativity or even a good language to write or speak in - or maybe it’s your thoughts getting all cloudy and you can think of nothing but: damn it! I don’t have time for this! I have a deadline in a few hours! ⁣
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Maybe you keep forcing yourself to continue even though it doesn’t feel natural or smooth at all. And you can tell from your end/final results that your lack of being sharp in your mind/creative/on point or something else is lacking. ⁣
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You know you can do better, but for whatever reason your body and mind is working against you. So, what to do? ⁣
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Well, I had this experience myself today while I wanted to create a post for you guys and I know that feeling/experience so so well. Mainly from the times of writing a book or from the times of working on a podcast interview or a television show (as creating it.) ⁣
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Here’s what I learned, I hope it will benefit you too: remove yourself from the situation - now. Both physically and mentally. ⁣
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Go for a walk (get your body moving) and/or call a friend, listen to music, go have fun with your dog. You can’t force yourself out of the feeling of being stuck. ⁣
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Remember this: everything rises and passes. Also feelings. So your feeling of being stuck won’t last forever. It’s only temporary. You might as well enjoy your time waiting for your sharpness/talent/creativity or so on to come back. xx J ⁣
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HOW TO WRITE A SCRIPT FOR A PODCAST INTERVIEW, A VIDEO OR EVEN HOW TO BUILD UP A CHAPTER IN A BOOK THAT TEACHES SOMETHING. ⁣⁣
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The weather in Copenhagen was so beautiful today while I wrote the script to my first IG TV video which is all about ‘How to get downloads on your podcast’ even though I can tell I made a mistake in the video, by forgetting to add a small part of the video - in the video, while I edited it, for it all to make perfectly sense. Anyway, I’m sure you’ll get the point. ❤️ ⁣⁣⁣
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In this post i want to share with you how to write a script for a podcast interview, a video or even how to build up a chapter in a book that teaches something. ⁣⁣⁣
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Let me share with you a very simple way to think of it: what, why and how! If you build it up like that, then you’re definitely not setting your self up to fail in any way because you’ll make sure to cover everything you need! ⁣⁣⁣
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So next time you want to create some sort of text for a project or while you’re working on your dream to make it come true (whatever it may be) then don’t forget to add the: ⁣⁣⁣
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• What ⁣⁣⁣
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• Why ⁣⁣⁣
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... structure to your mindset while creating it. Good luck! xx J ⁣⁣⁣
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HOW TO PITCH YOUR BOOK IDEA TO A PUBLISHER HOUSE. ⁣
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Lately I’ve received a few messages on ‘how to write a book’ or on the want/dream of writing a book. ⁣
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I guess that those who dream of writing a book also dreams of having it published. So that’s what we’ll focus on today. ⁣
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Thought I wanted to share a different yet powerful and memorable approach on how to pitch your book idea to a publisher house - and make them want you as their household author! ⁣
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So here it comes: create a video based show on your book idea. Here’s how I did it with my latest book: ⁣
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1. Download/buy Final Cut Pro ⁣
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2. Write a synopsis beforehand on your book idea ⁣
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3. Find some inspiration pictures that reflects how you want it to look/vibe/maybe pictures of the kind of readers/audience you want for your book ⁣
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4. Choose a soundtrack that vibes with the identity/theme of your book ⁣
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5. Record yourself telling about the book/presenting it ⁣
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6. Upload everything to Final Cut Pro ⁣
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7. Cut/edit it all together ⁣
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8. Make sure for it to be maximum 10 minutes ⁣
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9. Make the effort and spend the time on doing it, I know this is rewarded ⁣
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10. You’ll also show other personal assets by doing this fx: creativity, being great at research and so on. + please add how you’ll do the PR for the book/the marketing/statistics on the theme/readers/audience and so on. Today publisher houses loves numbers (even more than the book idea itself, sometimes) and some of the publisher houses is even former advertising agencies. ⁣
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That’s just the time we live in today. So if you’re serious about getting your book idea published, then you better keep up on the trends/tendencies. xx J⁣
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WHAT TO DO IN THE VERY BEGINNING OF A BOOK IDEA. ⁣

So today I felt like sharing a post which is a ‘behind the scenes’ picture of writing my second book. ⁣
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So this is how it all started! I was sitting one day in my former apartment and got the idea of writing a book for young women about young love. ⁣
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So I went through my whole bookshelf and collected all the books I had at the time about love. And then I started my research! ⁣
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Because I wanted my own book to be 1/3 about the science of love, coaching tools and story telling. ⁣
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If you’re sitting out there with a book idea, then I’ll recommend you to do these tree things at the very beginning: ⁣
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1. Do a lot of research on the topic ⁣
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2. Write down all the themes you want to apply in your book ⁣
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3. Put the themes in order, in that way you’ve already started to create the framework of your book. It’s all about structure! ⁣
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When you have organised every step to take along the way in your process of creating and writing a book, then it’s so much easier to let loose, trust and know that your creative process is going in the right direction. xx J⁣
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