HOW TO HANDLE A PROBLEM. ⁣

... so don’t push the problem away or try to avoid it. ⁣
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Try to see it as your friend instead, who has a message for you, and try to listen and learn (or research until you know how to act accordingly/solve the problem/understand/learn) instead of seeing the problem as a negative thing or even as some sort of enemy. ⁣
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I see this like I see the thing about fear: don’t push it away, don’t avoid it, don’t be scared of it... instead: look it right in the eye and give it a wink! ⁣
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Whatever you try to run from in life (almost) will catch up on you sooner or later or keep ghosting you around. So try to make peace with the problem instead, it will satisfy your soul on a whole different level. ⁣
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And then be courageous and ask yourself open questions like: what are you here to teach me? How can I learn from this situation? What is the take away of newly learned wisdom that I can keep safe in my heart and add to future situations that will remind me/look like the current problem based situation I’m in right now? ⁣
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Asking yourself open questions, allowing yourself to search for the answers and to look at the problem straight - instead of closing your eyes towards what’s happening right now, will help you evolve and grow as a human being. ⁣
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So when a problem comes, please be nice to it, cause it tries to teach you something. xx J⁣
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THE SACRIFICES WE SOMETIMES HAVE TO MAKE IN ORDER TO REACH OUR DREAMS. ⁣

So this evening I felt like writing a post about the lack of integrity and/or the sacrifices we sometimes have to make towards reaching our dreams in order to actually and eventually reach them. ⁣⁣⁣
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Do you know the feeling of: ⁣⁣⁣
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• saying yes to ugly work (maybe you work as a photographer and have to say yes to brands you find boring or ugly, in order to pay your bills so you also can get to shoot editorials or whatever you find beautiful and inspiring. Or even important) ⁣⁣⁣
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• or the feeling of having to dress/speak/perform a certain way in order to reach respect from clients/someone who you admire, until you have proven enough to not having to do all of those things anymore? Because your results speaks for themselves, so now you no longer need to fear if you’re too unexperienced, young or even if your gender might be ‘in the way’ in order for you to reach the job/position/dream you long for? ⁣⁣⁣
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I think this is perfectly normal and a process most of us have to go through, before reaching the level we wish to reach. ⁣⁣⁣
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During the years I have even heard people putting words such as ‘prostitution’ on it because it can feel like ‘selling your body/soul/talent’ for money, which might be against your values and/or integrity. ⁣⁣⁣
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But I guess my point with this post is: everything has a beginning. And you can’t have it all. Sometimes you have do some irritating/boring or so on things, in order to get to a place where you no longer need to do them. But of cause: don’t go too far and take good care of yourself along the way. ⁣⁣⁣
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But when that is said then: see if you can gain some acceptance on the fact, that most of us sometimes have to do some not so super cool things in order to reach a point where we’ll only get to do the super cool things. xx J ⁣⁣⁣
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P.S. I’ve had five interruptions during writing this post, I hope they won’t be reflected to much in it.⁣⁣⁣
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⁣⁣⁣⁣** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true.

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HOW TO BECOME A TELEVISION PRESENTER.
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So this morning I thought I wanted to share with you a ‘behind the scenes’ video from our television show production. ⁣
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In this little studio, we produced +400 shows, can you imagine? ⁣
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I know that some of you would like to know, how to become a television presenter. ⁣
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Well, let’s cover that in a short way: you have to be proactive. ⁣
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You can either: ⁣
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1. Look for a job as a TV/online presenter on the internet ⁣
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2. Go and do some networking with people from the industry ⁣
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3. Send an email to the television station/company you would like to work for and explain them why you’re so necessary at their production. This is a job though, where a lot of the decision making on whether you should work there or not, happens during the casting while they observe you perform/present a script.⁣
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Personally then I networked my way in to being invited to a casting for the job. ⁣
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So there’s many ways to do it, but one thing those ways have in common is: proactivity.⁣
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Also: if you’re interested in reading more about ‘anchoring’ (= controlling your emotional state) before attending a fx meeting/casting/audition, then please read one of my latest post which is about ‘How to anchor feelings’. ⁣
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And if you have any questions or thoughts on this, then please comment below. ❤️ xx J⁣
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HOW TO SET AN INTENTION. ⁣

Good morning everyone! ⁣
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Thought I wanted to share a beautiful poem with you guys and after that: 3 tips on how set an intention. ⁣
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But first, here’s the poem by Christen Rodgers: “Like seeds on the wind our intentions spread far and wide unfurling their power as they go. Until they find the environment balanced just right for our dreams to take root and begin to grow.” ⁣
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Here’s the 3 tips on how to set an intention: ⁣
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1. Set aside some minutes to think ⁣
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2. Jot down priorities and realistically personalize them ⁣
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3. Check in on your progress and remain accountable
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Hope this was beneficial for you and remember: intention + action = (could turn out as) magic. xx J⁣
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HOW TO HANDLE BEING NERVOUS BEFORE A PERFORMANCE. ⁣
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Okay, so the other day I got a message about what to do, if feeling nervous before a recording. ⁣
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A recording can be many different things: a podcast recording, video, production, online live courses/sessions or so on - so I thought that would be a great topic to bring up and cover for this evening. ⁣
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This is a picture from a shooting at Mallorca, some years ago, but I still remember the excitement that arises before shooting for big clients, and therefore I find the emotional reaction exactly the same; whether it’s a recording or a photoshoot, like here. ⁣
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After 15 years in front of a camera (in different fields) I’ve learned a thing or to about how to handle the emotions and not letting them destroy your performance. ⁣
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1. Make peace with your feelings by accepting them ⁣
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2. Know that all feelings rises and passes ⁣
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3. Be prepared as good as you can⁣
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4. Do your best ⁣
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5. Show up and give it your all ⁣
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6. Dive into it ASAP and kick ass, instead of holding yourself back or waiting for your body to relax naturally. Sometimes I really find that you have to: ⁣
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7. Fake it until you make it ⁣
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Good luck! xx J ⁣
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** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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@xxjasminsoe / www.xxjasminsoe.com

HOW TO HANDLE A ‘BEING OUT OF BREATH WHILE RECORDING A PODCAST EPISODE’ SITUATION. ⁣
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I know that feeling for sure! And especially because my new podcast is in English, which is not my main language! (For those of you who don’t know, then I’m from Denmark) ⁣
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Here’s a few tips on how to handle the being out of breath while recording a podcast episode situation: ⁣
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1. Just stop talking when you need to breathe, and then continue. You can cut while editing your podcast episode ⁣
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2. Learn how to control your breath. Practise how to breathe from down in your stomach instead of from your chest and up. Hope it makes sense ⁣
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3. If you’re feeling like you’re loosing your breath during performing a sentence, then break the sentence up in shorter pieces and breathe whenever you need to ⁣
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4. Be very aware of starting on a new word while during this, so you don’t stop in the middle of a word or you start to record in the second you begin on your word. In this way you will make it impossible for yourself to cut in the editing process and the end result won’t sound good⁣
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Good luck and enjoy! xx J ⁣
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** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

@xxjasminsoe / www.xxjasminsoe.com

ON THE POWER OF SHOWING UP. ⁣

I just stumbled upon this quote by Marie Forleo on Twitter. And I find it beautiful. True. Wise. Brave... Courageous. Vulnerable. ⁣⁣
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And that made me feel like going on google to find some even more beautiful words about the power of showing up. ⁣⁣
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Here’s a few beautiful lines I found. I hope they will add some beauty and power to your heart and journey towards making your dreams come true, too: ⁣⁣
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“The willingness to show up changes us, It makes us a little braver each time.” - Brené Brown ⁣⁣
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“Life is about showing up, so is writing. That’s why I sit at my desk every day and dance my fingers across the keyboard” - Laurie B. ⁣⁣
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“The formula for success is 2% talent, 8% luck, and 90% of showing up every day.” - Jeffrey F. ⁣⁣
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** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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@xxjasminsoe / www.xxjasminsoe.com

TIPS ON HOW TO SUCCEED WITH YOUR PODCAST IN 2020. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Hi guys! It’s been a week since I posted last time, because I have been busy working on my other social media platforms. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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This picture is a screenshot of my statistics from my new podcast. ⁣
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I launched ‘Dream to reality’ podcast on my existing podcast platform on May 5th and 7 hours after (I didn’t check it again before bedtime) it had reached the #1 on iTunes in it’s category ‘How to’. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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This post is not for bragging, but for pointing out that I’ve changed a few things in the format this time, which obviously work and can might be helpful for you too in order to succeed with your podcast in 2020:⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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1. The episodes are maximum 5 minutes long⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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2. They’re really niched down to ‘how to’ (a category) in the fields I’m experienced in⁣⁣
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So a key thing here is to be very specific about your want with the podcast. ⁣⁣⁣
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3. I’ve prioritised good time to focus on my TAGS ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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I didn’t give my podcast any attention today, which is being reflected in the statistical. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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And that only illustrates the importance of taking the right steps in order for your podcast to grow. ❤️ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

@xxjasminsoe / www.xxjasminsoe.com⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

THE MAGIC OF A SUPPORT SYSTEM.⁣⁣⁣
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⁣⁣⁣Today I want to talk about the importance of a support system. Have you ever tried⁣⁣⁣
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• to be in a healthy relationship, and during that time you felt like you could reach your dreams a tiny bit more? ⁣⁣⁣
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• that a family member was there for you during a difficult time, and therefore you got quicker and even stronger back up on your feet? ⁣⁣⁣
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• that a girlfriend of yours kept supporting you during a time filled with stress and confusion, and therefore helped you to calm down and reach clarity sooner than later? ⁣⁣⁣
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Then you’ve also experienced the magic of a support system. ⁣⁣⁣
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My experience is, that we’re able to accomplish so much more as human beings, when we have people around us who love and support us during great or less greater times in our life. ⁣⁣⁣
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Sometimes one person, can help us do the whole difference. Because a support system is all about quality (authentic love and support) than quantity (having a bigger group of surface friends). ⁣⁣⁣
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This is a picture of me and my mom, and she is for sure one of the primary people in my life. Apropos support, then this picture is taken for my first book and I put it in the end of the book beside the page where I gave thanks to the people supporting me during the writing process. ⁣⁣⁣
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We can all be better through love and support. xx J ⁣⁣⁣
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⁣⁣⁣⁣** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

@xxjasminsoe / www.xxjasminsoe.com

GET TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER VIA YOUR DREAMS. ⁣

So tonight I just want to inspire you with something that could might be helpful on your journey towards discovering what you dream of achieving in your life. ⁣
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And that is: dream interpretation. ⁣
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You see, the beautiful thing about dreams is that they have their own global language. And by that I mean: when you dream, then you dream in pictures, colours or even in numbers and these things are metaphors for feelings/meanings of different things. ⁣
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Ex: if you tend to dream of water, then the global language/metaphor for water is: feelings. So there you got a clue on what’s going on inside of your mind/in your thoughts. ⁣
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Also: ask and you shall receive and by this I mean: ask yourself some questions you wish to have answered before going to bed and there will be a chance that the answers arises during the night in a dream. ⁣
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So: if you’re unsure of what you’re dreaming about (in real life) or what to do/how to handle a current project/event in your life, then go seek answers in your dreams. ⁣
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You can become smarter on dreams in many different ways but here’s tree easy ones: ⁣
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1. Google your dream (ex snake) on google like this: ‘snake dream interpretation’ and you’ll see what pops up and understand your dream/yourself better during learning about this topic ⁣
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2. Buy an ebook on dreams/a hardcover book and carry it around. Most books about dreams have a ‘dream dictionary/library’ with lots of different metaphors and their meanings⁣
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3. Go do some research on if you can find any great podcast on dreams⁣
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Go and get smarter and wiser on yourself through understanding your late night dreams in a way that you become wiser and reach more clarity on your day dreams / life dreams. xx J⁣
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⁣⁣⁣⁣** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣

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