You walk into the milonga, scan the room, and instantly sense it—the unspoken social order. There’s the group of dancers who seem to know everyone, who never sit out a tanda. And then there’s you, trying to figure out how to get into the mix.

Tango isn’t just about dancing; it’s about navigating a social world with its own hidden rules. In this episode, I break down the realities of tango’s social hierarchy—why it exists, how it shapes your experience, and what you can actually do to build your status in a way that feels natural (without resorting to social climbing).

If you’ve ever felt like an outsider at a milonga, wondered why certain dancers get all the cabeceos, or struggled to find your place in the scene, this one’s for you.

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