The tongue of those who are right with God is like fine silver, but the heart of the sinful is not worth much. The lips of those who are right with God feed many, but fools die for want of understanding. The good that comes from the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow to it. – Proverbs 10:20-22
The love of God is unconditional, he does not love someone more and someone else less. Why then do we curse so much and bless so little? We need to pour out blessings on one another, especially our children. Are your words building up?