State Shifters Podcast

Is having sex before marriage a sin?

It’s a question that comes with a lot of different beliefs, expectations and interpretations — especially when faith and relationships are involved.

In this episode, I share my personal perspective on sex before marriage, my relationship with God, and what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda.

We dive into why I believe the deeper message behind spiritual teachings on sex may be less about rules and more about intention, commitment, consciousness and the kind of relationship you’re building.

If you’ve ever wrestled with where sex, love, marriage and your relationship with God fit together, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

Do you ever wonder why the sexual attraction in your relationship has started to fade?

You love your partner, but maybe the spark, desire and intimacy just aren’t what they used to be.

In this episode, I break down what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda about keeping attraction alive in a long-term relationship — and the patterns that can quietly kill that polarity.

I’ll share the framework I use with the men I coach to bring more aliveness, confidence, purpose and masculine energy back into their lives — and ultimately, back into their relationships.

If you want to reignite the attraction and become the man your partner naturally desires, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

Have you ever felt like you and your partner have slowly become more like roommates than lovers?

You still love each other, but somewhere along the way, the fun, sexual tension and desire just aren’t what they used to be.

In this episode, I break down what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda about keeping attraction alive in a long-term relationship — and the patterns that can quietly kill the spark without you even realizing it.

We talk about independence, dating your partner, purpose, friendship, and the roles we expect our partners to play.

If you want to bring more passion, play and sexual desire back into your relationship, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

There are certain patterns men carry from boyhood into their relationships without even realizing it.

They can show up as shutting down, reacting instead of responding, seeking validation, playing the victim, or minimizing what your partner is experiencing.

And the problem is, these patterns can quietly get in the way of the love, connection and relationship you actually want.

In this episode, I break down five of the biggest boyhood patterns I’ve seen in myself and thousands of men I’ve coached — and what it actually looks like to start moving beyond them.

If you want to understand yourself better, show up differently in your relationship, and step into a more mature version of yourself, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

In this episode, I sit down with my fiancée, Amanda, for our first-ever podcast together.

After nearly 10 years together, we finally sit down and have one of the real, unfiltered conversations we usually only have behind closed doors. We talk about the doubts we’ve faced, the hard seasons that tested our relationship, the moments we weren’t sure we were going to last, and what brought us back together.

We also dive into love, intimacy, attraction, independence, masculinity and femininity, our proposal, and what it really takes to continue growing together without losing yourself along the way.

You’ve seen Amanda and me in the content, but in this episode, you’ll get to know her — and our relationship — on a much deeper level.

No scripts. No skits. Just a real conversation. This is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

You can’t attract the love or life you want without first showing up as the person who can hold it.

In this episode, I sit down with Kady O'Connel, a relationship and self-mastery coach for Part 2, to unpack what it really takes to create deep attraction, healthy boundaries, and a partnership that elevates both people. From navigating desire and standards to balancing love, parenting, and personal growth, this conversation is about becoming the version of you who can show up fully in your relationships. If you’re ready to level up your love and your life, this episode will hit.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

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ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you rise to the level of your identity.

In this episode, I sit down with Kady O’Connell to unpack what it truly takes to show up fully in relationships, life, and yourself. From stepping out of survival mode to designing your ‘new self,’ Kady shares how to navigate reactivity, cultivate presence, and create space for growth, so you can hold your own needs while truly understanding others. If you’re ready to deepen your connection with yourself and those around you, this conversation will inspire and empower you.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

Discover the four-phase initiation that’s transforming how men lead in their relationships and life. In this video, I break down the roadmap I’ve used with clients and my own 10-year relationship to help men step into emotional clarity, build connection, and embody true masculine energy. From leading with direction, creating safety and connection, mastering embodiment practices, to communicating with clarity, you’ll learn actionable steps to deepen intimacy, reduce conflict, and become the man you want to be.

Whether you’re struggling with emotional disconnection or ready to elevate your relationships and personal growth, this is the guide you’ve been looking for.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

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🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

What actually makes someone feel deeply attracted, safe, and fulfilled in a relationship? In this episode, we explore the energetic foundations of attraction- initiative, emotional leadership, grounded presence, and inner security. This isn’t about looks, money, or performance. It’s about becoming someone others can trust, relax into, and grow with. Whether you’re in a relationship or seeking a partner, this conversation breaks down the inner work that creates lasting connection and magnetic love.

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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

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📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

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🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

Feeling stuck even though you’ve made big changes? In this episode, we explore how “nothing happening” is actually the breakthrough phase where your new identity takes root, and how small daily practices can anchor your next-level self. Learn to trust the process, embody your growth, and let your reality catch up to who you’re becoming.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠@jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.