State Shifters Podcast

You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you rise to the level of your identity.

In this episode, I sit down with Alex Waters to unpack what it really takes to build wealth, freedom, and creative fulfillment without abandoning your nervous system or your truth. From collapsing money ceilings to hiring from joy and investing in rooms that stretch you, this is about becoming the version of you who can actually hold what you’re asking for. If you’re in the in-between of expansion, this conversation will hit.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠@jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

This is a guided breathwork journey designed to help you release stored emotion, quiet the mind, and reconnect with your body.

The practice begins with 15 minutes of conscious, connected breathing, followed by a 15-minute integration meditation. As the breath deepens, the nervous system begins to regulate, the mind softens, and the body is given space to let go of tension, emotion, and old holding patterns.

You don’t need to force anything. Your only job is to breathe and allow.

If your mind tries to pull you out in the first few minutes, that’s normal. Stay with it. Once coherence sets in, the breath becomes effortless and the experience opens into a deep, meditative state where real release can happen.

This session is best experienced lying down with headphones and an eye mask if you have one.

Press play when you’re ready to come back into your body.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠@jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

Attraction doesn’t fade because you “lost the spark.”
It fades when polarity gets neutralized and most couples don’t even realize it’s happening.

In this episode, I break down what a man genuinely needs from a woman to feel devoted, confident, and connected in a relationship, without turning his partner into his therapist or his manager.

We talk about the real essentials: trust, space to process, appreciation, a woman who can receive, healthy boundaries, and why trying to “fix” him often creates the exact distance you’re afraid of.

If you’re a man, this will help you finally communicate what you need without shutting down.
If you’re a woman, this will show you how to bring back depth, intimacy, and that magnetic pull, without forcing it.

If you’ve felt the attraction dip, the dynamic shift, or the relationship start to feel more like logistics than love, press play.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠@jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

Most people think reality creation is about positive thinking, strategy, or trying harder.
It’s not.

In this episode, I break down the hidden law that actually determines performance, success, and momentum and why fear of failure doesn’t stop you by accident, it stops you through tension, over-preparation, and unconscious resistance.

We explore how “big game pressure” shows up in business, relationships, conversations, and launches, how shame sits underneath the fear of failure, and why resisting discomfort is the same as resisting success.

This is a practical, embodied breakdown of how to interrupt old patterns, detach from outcomes, and shift into a state of calm, play, and flow where results happen naturally.

If you’ve been doing all the right things but still feel tight, pressured, or stuck right before the moments that matter most, this conversation will show you exactly what’s been in the way.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠@jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

What if your future isn’t blocked by effort, timing, or strategy, but by how you’re relating to right now?

In this episode, I break down the overlooked connection between self-image, the nervous system, and the present moment and why most people stay stuck even while “doing the work.” We explore why ease, joy, and lightness are not rewards you earn later, but signals that you’re aligned now, and how performance, abundance, love, and creativity naturally flow from that state.

I also share a personal story of chasing results, hitting resistance, and the subtle identity shift that led to a breakthrough I couldn’t have planned.

If you’ve been hustling, meditating, visualizing, yet quietly feeling frustrated or impatient, this conversation will help you recalibrate the way you move through your life, your business, and your body.

This isn’t about forcing a future.
It’s about remembering who you are in the present.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking⁠ ⁠here⁠⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠⁠JordanCandlish⁠⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠⁠@jordancandlish01⁠⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram:⁠ ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

What’s up legends? In this episode, I sit down with Aaron Doughty for a deep, honest conversation about why so many of us lose ourselves in relationships and how people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and unexpressed emotion quietly drain attraction, polarity, and connection.

We explore how childhood conditioning shapes adult identity, why tension isn’t something to avoid but a necessary catalyst for growth, and how the pursuit of approval keeps us disconnected from our authentic power.

This episode weaves together inner child dynamics, masculine and feminine polarity, self-acceptance, neutrality, and the subtle ways urgency, ego, and validation run our relationships, business, and sense of self-worth. We unpack why worthiness is a concept rather than a feeling, how embracing discomfort restores respect and desire, and why becoming more yourself is the real path to intimacy, leadership, and freedom.

If you’ve ever felt drained in relationships, stuck in people-pleasing patterns, or caught between self-development and self-acceptance, this conversation will challenge the way you see love, identity, and what it actually means to come home to yourself.

WORK WITH ME🌎

Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking ⁠here⁠

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about

JOIN MY COMMUNITY

📸 Instagram: ⁠@Jordancandlish01⁠

🐦 Twitter: ⁠JordanCandlish⁠

🎵 TikTok: ⁠@jordancandlish01⁠

🤳🏽 Telegram: ⁠https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1⁠

ABOUT ME

As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.

The Nikola Tesla Secret That Changed My Life

Apply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5T

Join the Relationship School 👉🏼 https://shr.pn/Emails

Access my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?

What's up legends? In this episode, I sit down with Liam for a conversation that honestly feels like one of the most grounding and eye-opening ones I’ve had in a while.

We break down Tesla’s famous idea of energy, frequency, and vibration — not in a complicated, “quantum-physics textbook” way, but in a way that makes sense for real life, real emotions, and real decisions.

This is the exact perspective shift that helped me move from feeling stuck in a corporate routine to creating a life that finally felt light, purposeful, and aligned with who I actually am.

If you’re in a season where things feel heavy or repetitive, this episode will help you understand why — and what needs to shift within you before anything can shift outside of you.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

• How your energy and emotional state quietly shape everything you attract

• Why every physical outcome begins as a vibration first

• The subtle habits, beliefs, and thoughts that keep you tied to your current reality

• How to tell when you're forcing versus when you're aligned

• Why ease, joy, gratitude, and lightness aren’t luxuries — they’re indicators

• How to step into the version of you who's already living the life you want

Connect with me:

📸 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/

🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish

📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01

🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01

ABOUT ME

Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.

Alternative Titles:

• How to Shift Your Reality (Energy, Frequency & Vibration Explained)
• Why You're Stuck (And How to Shift Your Frequency)
• From 3D to 5D: Reality Shifting Explained
• How I Manifested My Dream Life Using This Frequency Trick

#RealityShifting #Frequency #Vibration #Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #QuantumPhysics #NikolaTesla #EnergyWork #Consciousness #SpiritualAwakening #PersonalDevelopment #Mindset #QuantumLeap #FrequencyShift #5DConsciousness #RealityCreation #Manifestation #VibrationalAlignment #SourceEnerg

Join the Relationship School 👉🏼 https://shr.pn/EmailsAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?

How to Stop Being the “Nice Guy” & Start Leading in Love 💪

Join my men’s coaching group 👉🏼 https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/program

Access my FREE 30-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results:

Men Click here 👉🏼 http://jordan-candlish.kit.com/male30days

Women Click here 👉🏼 http://jordan-candlish.kit.com/female30days

If you’re constantly compromising yourself to keep the peace or win approval, this podcast is for you.

After working with thousands of men, I’ve seen how the “Nice Guy” pattern quietly destroys confidence, attraction, and trust in relationships. In this training, we’ll break down why this happens, where it comes from, and how to set boundaries that build respect, not resentment.

Here’s what you’ll learn:-

The psychology behind the Nice Guy pattern

- How childhood conditioning shapes adult relationships

- Why putting others first kills attraction and masculine energy

- The power of healthy boundaries and the “warrior” archetype

- How to say no with confidence and clarity

- Why guilt is actually a sign of growth

- The secret to earning respect through integrity

If you’re ready to stop seeking approval and start leading with strength and purpose, this one’s for you.

Connect with me:

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/

🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish

📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01

🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01

ABOUT ME:

Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.

Alternative Titles:

• Why Women Lose Respect for ‘Nice Guys’ and How to Fix It
• Becoming a Man You Respect After Being a People-Pleasing Nice Guy
• How To STOP Being A NICE GUY (It Ruins Your Life)
• Why Women Reject Nice Guys and Chase Men They Can’t Control
• How To STOP Being A NICE GUY (It Ruins Your Life)
• Break Free From Nice Guy Syndrome

#MensGrowth #MasculineLeadership #NiceGuySyndrome #MensWork #EmotionalIntelligence #MasculineEnergy #Boundaries #SelfImprovement #Leadership #MenAndRelationships #ConfidenceBuilding

When They Pull Away: 3 Mistakes That Push Love Further Apart 💔

Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about?ref=896ce71dc10b47168e05736f72853cdc

Access my FREE 30-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results:

Men Click here 👉🏼 jordan-candlish.kit.com/female30days

Women Click here 👉🏼 jordan-candlish.kit.com/male30days

When your partner starts pulling away — fewer texts, less affection, more silence — it’s easy to panic and make it worse.

In this episode, I share the most common mistakes people make when their partner becomes distant — and what to do instead to create safety, connection, and trust again. Whether you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or married, these practical tools will help you stop chasing, start leading, and rebuild emotional intimacy the right way.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

✨ The 3 big mistakes that push your partner further away

✨ How to regulate your emotions when you feel anxious or disconnected

✨ What to say (and not say) when they need space

✨ How to lead with groundedness instead of fear

✨ Practical steps to reconnect and rebuild safety

These lessons come straight from real coaching experiences with thousands of men and women learning to create secure, lasting love.

Connect with me:

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/

🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish

📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01

🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01

ABOUT ME:

Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.

Alternative Titles:

• They’ve Pulled Away?? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
• Feel Them Pulling Away & Going Cold? Avoid This Mistake
• What To Do When She Pulls Away
• Letting go is EASY when you do this (Make detaching EASY)
• What to ACTUALLY Do When A Woman Pulls Away From You When Dating
• The POWER Of Walking Away & Why It's EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE

#Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #MasculineLeadership #Connection #EmotionalAwareness #MindsetMatters