Sticky Note Conversations

Sticky Note Conversations

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Sticky Note Conversations episodes

  • Lucy Flores - "Unshackling Survivors Guilt"

    In this episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington revisits an in-depth discussion with Lucy Flores, a former Nevada State Assemblywoman. The episode covers a range of topics including the current socio-political climate, the Latino vote, systemic issues in education and policing, and the importance of mentorship and customized interventions. Lucy shares her personal journey from a troubled youth to a political career, and delves into the true meaning of the American Dream. This enlightening conversation sheds light on the complexities and challenges faced by marginalized communities and emphasizes the need for courageous leadership and systemic change.

    • (00:00) - Introduction to Sticky Note Conversations
  • (00:12) - Current Events and Immigrant Issues
  • (00:43) - Revisiting the Conversation with Lucy Flores
  • (01:39) - Welcome and Introduction of Lucy Flores
  • (02:06) - Lucy Flores' Background and Achievements
  • (04:30) - Growing Up in Las Vegas
  • (05:37) - Challenges and Hypocrisy in Las Vegas
  • (09:18) - The Importance of Intentional Parenting
  • (12:36) - Lucy's Troubled Youth and Turning Point
  • (18:32) - Survivor's Guilt and Mentorship
  • (24:33) - Systemic Issues and Policy Failures
  • (35:48) - Climate Change and Systemic Threats
  • (40:24) - Economic Boycotts and Effective Activism
  • (44:38) - The Inconvenience of Movements
  • (44:55) - Capitalism and Wealth Envy
  • (48:02) - Tax Inequality and Billionaire Myths
  • (50:50) - The Latino Vote and Republican Outreach
  • (54:18) - The Long Game in Politics
  • (57:10) - Challenges in Leadership and Funding
  • (01:04:10) - Pivoting to Media and Narrative Control
  • (01:10:12) - The Power of Latino Media
  • (01:16:09) - The American Dream and Systemic Change
  • (01:21:44) - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
  • 1 hr 25 min
  • Alvin Hill - "Trials and Tribulations of the Come Up"

    In this engaging episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington reunites with former guest Alvin Hill to discuss a plethora of topics spanning relationships, emotional growth, and current events. Together, they dive deep into the intricacies of maintaining personal boundaries while working from home, the honesty needed in relationships, and the challenges of balancing entrepreneurship with family life. Alvin shares insights on his business journey and a unique entrepreneur acceleration program he developed. The conversation shifts to trending topics, including the high-profile relationship breakdown between Cardi B and Offset, and the controversial verdict involving Diddy. They critically analyze societal double standards regarding the treatment of black celebrities versus their white counterparts. This episode is a must-listen for thought-provoking insights and candid discussions on real-life issues

    • (00:00) - Introduction and Episode Overview
  • (00:50) - Guest Introduction: Alvin Hill
  • (01:33) - Engagement and Relationship Dynamics
  • (02:45) - Living Alone and Personal Growth
  • (04:05) - Balancing Work and Family Life
  • (08:43) - Entrepreneurship Challenges and Mindset
  • (18:47) - Cardi B and Offset: Relationship and Alimony
  • (23:18) - Gender Roles and Relationship Expectations
  • (41:53) - Reflecting on Personal Growth and Family Dynamics
  • (44:25) - The Struggle of Letting Go
  • (46:40) - Potential vs. Reality in Relationships
  • (49:06) - The Impact of Personal Growth on Relationships
  • (51:07) - Navigating Peer Pressure and Personal Evolution
  • (56:27) - The Diddy Verdict and Double Standards
  • (01:16:25) - Final Thoughts and Reflections
  • 1 hr 19 min
  • Derek Washington - "Downton Banter"

    In this episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington and guest Derek Washington delve into a variety of topics ranging from the importance of voting in the current political climate to the intricacies of capitalism and its impact on society. They also discuss personal finance challenges and critique the Democratic Party's strategies and shortcomings. The conversation transitions into lighter fare with an in-depth discussion of the final Downton Abbey movie, including character arcs, plot points, and the series' historical context. Don't miss this comprehensive and engaging episode packed with insights and reflections.

    • (00:00) - Introduction to Sticky Note Conversations
  • (01:20) - Financial Freedom and Credit Scores
  • (03:57) - Capitalism and Military Socialism
  • (08:36) - Sean Diddy Combs' Legal Troubles
  • (12:28) - Bad Bunny's Super Bowl Performance
  • (15:34) - Nicki Minaj vs. Cardi B Feud
  • (21:03) - Taylor Swift's Marriage Announcement
  • (26:18) - ICE Raids and Racial Injustice
  • (34:32) - Democratic Party and Political Disillusionment
  • (44:08) - Government Shutdown and Communication Issues
  • (45:39) - Government Agencies Under Attack
  • (46:11) - Democrats' Fear of Addressing Race
  • (46:25) - Project 2025 and Class Warfare
  • (48:27) - Billionaires and Economic Inequality
  • (48:49) - Celebrity Critique and Wealth
  • (49:23) - Transition to a Lighter Note
  • (49:34) - Downton Abbey Finale Experience
  • (50:52) - Theater Experience and Movie Review
  • (52:51) - Character Arcs and Storylines
  • (01:11:15) - Final Thoughts on Downton Abbey
  • (01:17:12) - Wrapping Up and Farewell
  • 1 hr 19 min
  • Josephine Kalipeni - "Caution, Leadership May Be Bad For Your Health"

    In this enlightening episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington engages in a profound conversation with Josephine Kalipeni, a seasoned social justice executive and strategist. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of being black women in leadership roles within the nonprofit sector. Erika and Josephine cover topics such as the systemic barriers black women leaders face, the importance of having a supportive circle, and the need to trust one's intuition. They also delve into the significance of real, actionable support from allies and the complexities surrounding leadership, resilience, and joy in advocacy work. Tune in for an honest discussion that sheds light on the personal and professional facets of leadership in social justice.

    • (00:00) - Introduction to Sticky Note Conversations
  • (00:09) - Make It Work Nevada: Mission and Vision
  • (01:26) - Welcome to the Live Taping
  • (02:01) - Erika Washington's Leadership Journey
  • (03:37) - Introducing Josephine Kalipeni
  • (03:56) - Josephine Kalipeni's Background and Role
  • (08:14) - Challenges in Nonprofit Leadership
  • (10:33) - The Reality of Being a Black Woman Leader
  • (12:41) - Navigating Systemic Barriers
  • (21:03) - The Importance of Allies and Support
  • (26:49) - The Burden of Leadership
  • (29:55) - The Weight of Leadership
  • (30:41) - Challenges and Roadblocks
  • (31:11) - Nonprofit Quarterly's Timely Issue
  • (32:16) - The Struggles of Black Women Leaders
  • (34:06) - Health Impacts of Leadership
  • (36:27) - Reflecting on Leadership Mistakes
  • (36:57) - The Importance of Trusting Your Instincts
  • (38:41) - The Need for Change in Progressive Movements
  • (40:27) - The Reality of Internal Opposition
  • (42:32) - The Role of Funders and Allies
  • (44:54) - Finding Joy and New Leadership Models
  • (47:24) - Advice for Aspiring Black Women Leaders
  • (50:42) - The Importance of a Supportive Circle
  • (54:03) - Concluding Thoughts and Reflections
  • 1 hr 1 min
  • Nina Nova - REVISITING : "Breaking Down the Whorearchy"

    In this episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington engages in a candid and informative discussion with adult film star and activist Nina Nova. They explore mature and complex topics surrounding the adult film industry, legalized sex work, and the nuanced regulations within Nevada. Nina shares her journey from advocacy work, through camming and into mainstream adult film, including her experiences in Nevada's legal brothels. The conversation addresses critical issues such as safety, consent practices, ethical porn, and the stigmatization and criminalization faced by sex workers. Additionally, Nina reveals how she navigates personal relationships, including family and romantic partners, while maintaining her career. This episode provides a thorough look into the life, challenges, and empowerment experienced within the world of sex work.

    • (00:00) - Introduction and Content Warning
  • (00:48) - Discussing Legalized Prostitution in Nevada
  • (02:34) - Personal Reflections on Sex Work
  • (04:44) - Introducing Nina Nova
  • (07:09) - Nina's Journey from Advocacy to Adult Film
  • (13:17) - Experiences in the Adult Film Industry
  • (17:44) - Ethical Porn and Industry Practices
  • (20:19) - Legal and Social Issues in Sex Work
  • (26:14) - Challenges in Legal Brothels
  • (31:43) - Policy Recommendations for Sex Work
  • (32:46) - High Arrest Rates for Prostitution in Nevada
  • (34:33) - The Importance of Autonomy in Sex Work
  • (37:57) - Safety Concerns in the Adult Film Industry
  • (44:26) - Parental Support and Acceptance
  • (49:03) - Navigating Romantic Relationships in the Industry
  • (52:16) - Health and Safety Protocols
  • (56:25) - Self-Booking and Career Success
  • (01:00:13) - Living the Dream: Why Choose Adult Film
  • (01:03:19) - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
  • 1 hr 6 min
  • Frantonia Pollins - "Sacred Selfishness"

    In this episode of 'Sticky Note Conversations with Erika Washington,' Erika discusses the complex journey of menopause and perimenopause with Dr. Frantonia Pollens. The conversation addresses how these phases can significantly impact women’s lives, from physical symptoms like night sweats and hair loss to emotional challenges such as memory loss and depression. Dr. Pollens, a global business strategist and wealth empowerment coach, shares her personal experiences with perimenopause, highlighting the lack of societal dialogue and awareness surrounding the condition. The discussion also touches on broader themes of womanhood, advocating for oneself, financial empowerment, and redefining traditional roles imposed on women by society. Join the conversation to learn more about the importance of open dialogue, self-care, and celebrating every phase of womanhood.

    • (00:00) - Introduction to Sticky Note Conversations
  • (00:08) - Revisiting Past Episodes
  • (01:03) - Highlighting Dr. Frantonia Pollens' Episode
  • (01:49) - Menopause and Perimenopause Discussion
  • (03:47) - Introducing Dr. Frantonia Pollens
  • (04:34) - Dr. Pollens' Background and Achievements
  • (05:29) - Dr. Pollens' Early Life and Influences
  • (09:49) - Challenges and Racism in Las Vegas
  • (13:15) - Dr. Pollens' Experience as a Showgirl
  • (23:02) - The Journey of Menopause
  • (25:09) - Personal Experiences with Menopause
  • (42:23) - The Impact of Menopause on Daily Life
  • (44:13) - Social Conditioning and Women's Roles
  • (45:44) - Toxic Teachings and Leadership
  • (46:10) - The Counterintuitive Nature of Self-Care
  • (46:29) - Menopause and the Awakening
  • (47:02) - Redefining Womanhood Beyond Traditional Roles
  • (47:25) - The Journey of Motherhood and Identity
  • (49:34) - The Societal Expectations of Women
  • (51:59) - The Double Standards in Gender
  • (52:47) - Menopause as a Weaponized Phase
  • (53:53) - The Importance of Sacred Selfishness
  • (59:33) - Conversations of Renegotiation
  • (01:01:43) - The Phases of Womanhood
  • (01:06:20) - The Concept of the Soft Life
  • (01:15:03) - The Journey of Self-Defining
  • (01:21:47) - Advocating for Yourself
  • (01:27:44) - Holistic Conversations and Entrepreneurship
  • (01:28:57) - Final Thoughts and Resources
  • 1 hr 32 min
  • "Democracy Recap"

    Join Erika Washington on this episode of Sticky Note Conversations as she delves deep into the concept of democracy with various guests. Reflecting on what democracy truly means, Erika and her guests ponder if we genuinely have it in the United States. Featuring voices from different walks of life, this episode addresses historical perspectives, current challenges, and the future of democracy. Discover how individuals define democracy and if they believe it exists in America today. Don't miss this engaging and thought-provoking discussion!

    • (00:00) - Introduction
  • (00:33) - Support Request
  • (01:43) - Democracy Discussion Begins
  • (03:53) - Kwami Abdul-Bey's Perspective
  • (06:25) - Vincent Lynn on Local Democracy
  • (08:21) - Mayor Shelly Berkeley's Views
  • (09:40) - Lucy Flores on Democratic Crisis
  • (12:55) - Professor Lori Lee on Native American Influence
  • (16:38) - Erica Gallegos on Democracy in Action
  • (17:49) - Mayor Kelly Garrett's Concerns
  • (22:16) - Dion Johnson on Modern Day Slavery
  • (25:38) - A'shanti Gholar on Democracy's Fragility
  • (29:41) - Aaron Ford on Rule of Law
  • (32:43) - Alicia Contreras on Democratic Crisis
  • (38:55) - Deborah Porter's International Perspective
  • (41:14) - Amy Allison on American Democracy's Flaws
  • (48:32) - Shandra Summers Armstrong on Incomplete Democracy
  • (55:37) - Dr. Cheryl Neely on Historical Context
  • (58:03) - Closing Thoughts
  • 1 hr
  • "What's Your Version of The American Dream?"

    In this episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington explores the diverse meanings of the American Dream through candid interviews with community leaders, activists, and everyday people. Guests share personal stories and perspectives on health, equality, economic security, rest, hope, collective success, global citizenship, safety, family, freedom, reparations, and overcoming adversity. The episode also delves into the historical roots of the American Dream, its evolving definition, and the challenges faced by those historically excluded from it. Join us for a thought-provoking journey that asks: What is your version of the American Dream?

    • (00:00) - Introduction
  • (01:39) - Carrie Gordy on Health and Vitality
  • (03:12) - Dionne Johnson on Equality and Culture
  • (04:27) - Jo Jackson on Economic Security
  • (05:34) - Erica Gallegos on Rest and Community
  • (07:09) - Youi Wynn on Hope
  • (08:38) - Dr. Lori Lee on Collective Success
  • (10:05) - Amy Allison on Global Citizenship
  • (11:32) - About Sticky Note Conversations
  • (12:22) - Deborah Bora Porter on Safety
  • (13:46) - Sincere Altel on Family Success
  • (14:59) - Mayor Shelly Berkeley on Living the Dream
  • (18:09) - History of the American Dream
  • (27:10) - Aaron Ford on Overcoming Adversity
  • (28:37) - Alicia Contreras on Democracy and Softness
  • (31:56) - Alvin Hill on Freedom
  • (33:58) - Don Blade Grove on Reparations
  • (36:41) - Support Sticky Note Conversations
  • (44:15) - Closing Thoughts
  • 47 min
  • Kerry Gordy "Ed Sullivan and Motown"

    In this week's episode of Sticky Note Conversations, host Erika Washington sits down with Kerry Gordy, the executive producer of the Netflix documentary 'Sunday Best, The Untold Story of Ed Sullivan.' They discuss the significance of Ed Sullivan's efforts to showcase Black talent during a tumultuous time in American history, and how it paved the way for future Black entertainers. Kerry Gordy shares insights into his involvement in the project, his father's legacy, and the impact of Ed Sullivan on the visibility and acceptance of Black performers. The conversation also touches on the challenges and triumphs of producing culturally significant content and the ongoing importance of preserving and sharing this history. Don't miss this deep dive into the past and present of Black entertainment and advocacy.

    • (00:00) - Introduction to Sticky Note Conversations
  • (00:53) - Special Guest: Kerry Gordy
  • (01:45) - The Making of 'Sunday Best' Documentary
  • (06:00) - Ed Sullivan's Impact on Black Artists
  • (10:15) - The Power of Representation
  • (13:42) - Kerry Gordy's Personal Insights
  • (15:14) - The Legacy of Black Artists in Media
  • (16:41) - The Importance of Knowing Our History
  • (28:33) - Kerry Gordy's Role in the Music Industry
  • (39:59) - Protecting Creative Rights
  • (48:03) - Publishing Rights Evolution
  • (48:39) - Tragic Story of Jesse Belvin
  • (49:51) - Barry Gordy and Ed Sullivan's Impact
  • (51:06) - Interview with Mary Wilson
  • (53:34) - Motown's Class and Legacy
  • (55:42) - Challenges of a Marvin Gaye Biopic
  • (01:01:44) - Documentary and Film Projects
  • (01:07:28) - Producing the Play '44'
  • (01:14:18) - Carrie Gordy's Legacy and Vision
  • (01:23:34) - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
  • 1 hr 28 min
  • BONUS EPISODE: Derek Washington - "And Just Like That The End of an Era"

    In this bonus episode of Sticky Note Conversations with Erica Washington, Erica and her co-host Derrick Washington dive deep into the final season of HBO's  'And Just Like That'. The duo critiques the writing choices, character developments, and the potential reasons behind the series' failures, particularly focusing on diversity issues and forced narratives. They also discuss the possible endings and futures for the main characters of 'And Just Like That' as the series comes to an end. Expect spoilers and a thorough, honest analysis from the hosts. Plus, hear their perspective on what should happen next for Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and more!

    • (00:00) - Introduction to Sticky Note Conversations
  • (00:52) - Excitement for HBO's New Season
  • (03:04) - Discussion on 'And Just Like That'
  • (05:25) - Critique of Diversity and Representation
  • (16:51) - Fashion and Character Analysis
  • (21:53) - Patty LuPone Controversy
  • (26:58) - Final Episode Predictions
  • (28:22) - Unexpected News and Parental Confrontation
  • (29:47) - Parenting Styles and Generational Differences
  • (31:17) - Character Analysis: Brady, Miranda, and Lily
  • (34:58) - Carrie's Romantic Choices and Self-Worth
  • (37:56) - Speculations on Character Endings
  • (46:15) - Carrie's Journey and Symbolism of Her Home
  • (50:32) - Final Thoughts and Series Reflection
  • 56 min

About Sticky Note Conversations

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To keep my thoughts in order and my to-do lists remotely manageable I create arrays of sticky notes on my desk and wall. New idea? Stick note! Someone I want to meet with? Sticky Note! Need to remember to pay a parking ticket? Write it on a sticky note. Over the course of the last year, I have wanted to create a podcast that allowed me to dive deep into conversations with interesting people.. I wanted to have real conversations that were more than sound bites or regurgitated talking points about fluffy topics. My hope is that each episode feels like old friends catching up. Revealing great information but also humanity, struggle, victory, joy, grief, and possibly, a flicker of transcendence.