Dear Steve and Shirley,  I am a 52 year old female and I am dating a 60 year old young man.  We clicked instantly and we have been together for two months.  I may have been too forward with him after the first few dates because I wanted to rub and feel on him to see what he was working with.  I hugged him tightly one day and it felt like he was wearing a back brace.  I decided not to ask him about it right then..................................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 14 years and we’re hanging on by a thread. We have two children and sometimes I wonder if that’s why he stays with me. We never talk about our problems. Things have happened in our marriage that would make a normal couple split up, but we’re not normal. At our wedding, one of his exes showed up and cried loudly while we said our vows. She was escorted out and he apologized to me on the altar..............................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married and in my mid-forties and my husband turns 40 in a month. He decided he was going to have a guys’ weekend in Mexico and then he would come back and we would celebrate together with a small group of our friends. He got his little plans together and I was watching all of the emails going back and forth........................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m writing for my brother because he is too upset to do it for himself. My brother is 38 and his wife is 35 and she has planned a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a guy that has been her friend since they were 18 years old. This guy was married before and he has one child. Now he’s no longer dating women..................................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, you two are very fashionable, so I need your advice on how to talk to my husband. He seems to be going through a midlife crisis or something similar. We’re both 56 years old and been married since we were 30. We did get married so I could become a U.S. citizen, but we were in love. I met him when he was stationed in my country and we both had a lot of growing up to do. He was never trendy or fashionable because he wore a uniform to work until he retired recently........................................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband is 76 years old and I’m 60. I worked with his daughter years ago and that’s how we met. When we started dating, he loved having a much younger woman on his arm, but as he gets older, he’s getting more paranoid and asked if I would ever leave him for a man my age. I took my wedding vows seriously and he knows I love him, but he’s on my last nerve..............................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 34 years old and I own a hair salon in strip mall. I have been hanging out with a 38 year old dentist who works directly above my salon. I need your advice on how to deal with him. He is never ever pleased with anything and the first time we met, he came down to my salon and told me to turn my music down. I told him to relax and he got mad.......................................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for six years and we live with his parents in a two-bedroom house. We had to move in with them in 2020 after he lost his job. I don’t have any family in this town, so I agreed to stay there temporarily, but he just started working 4 months ago. He couldn’t find a job in his field for a long time so I was relieved when he started working full-time because I thought we would finally get our own place. Their house is small and our bedroom is directly across from his parent’s bedroom................................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship for almost two years and when I think about the things this man has shown me sexually and mentally, I am floored. He literally takes my breath away. But there are a few problems with our relationship. We’ve never spent a night together and I’ve never met his family, except for his twin daughters and their mother. It was a quick “Hi” and “Bye” when we ran into them at Target..............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was in a relationship with a man for 6 months, but we fell in love quickly and we were living together. He is 36 and I’m 31. He was going through a divorce when we met so I made him wait until the papers were signed before we had sex. He told me that his wife divorced him because he cheated on her multiple times. He told me that he cheated, simply cause his wife had stopped having sex with him.............

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