Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your advice but I pray that you are not too stern with me. I am a 31 year old successful and beautiful woman with two children, ages 3 and 1. I am not married, but I am involved with a married man. It’s my sister’s husband. They have been married for 12 years and I started sleeping with her husband 5 years after they were married. My two children are actually his. My sister and my family members have no idea that I’ve been with this man for so long. Years ago, I started lying about dating a guy that lives out of town and I told them that it’s a crazy relationship, so they don’t need to meet him...........

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 22 years old and I have a 3 year old daughter with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 6 years but we’ve been off and on the whole time. One night when we were not together, I went out and got really drunk with a guy that has been liking me for a long time. I got so drunk that I passed out and the next morning, I woke up at the guy’s apartment and realized that we had had sex. We went to the store and got a Plan B pill, so I would not get pregnant.............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband acts like an absolute child at times and I can’t deal with it. It’s like having a third child and I am so tired of him embarrassing me. The most recent incident went down over the weekend at my Pastor’s house. We were invited to a barbeque and the pastor was a little late because of a wedding he had to do. There was plenty of food on the grill and we always let the elders of the church eat first. The first lady fixed the pastor a plate and sat it to the side and covered it with saran wrap. When it came time for my husband and I to fix a plate, only chicken legs, wieners and burgers were left..............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 16 years and my wife and I were headed for divorce 6 years ago because of her infidelity. She cheated on me and admitted it, but shortly after that we found out that she was really sick, so I decided to stay with her and help her out because she could only work part time, because of all of her medical appointments. I worked extra hours at a job that I really hated and I paid most of her medical bills..............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband is a great provider and what I love most about him is the way that he loves the Lord. We dated for 3 years before we got married and we’ve been married for two months. I love him dearly, but we have a problem in the bedroom. When we make love it's usually a 10 to 15 minute session. We do the pre-game stuff and it’s wonderful. I hook him up and he hooks me up before we get started. But when it comes to getting it on, he is done way too soon. I have a problem with him finishing too fast and not making sure I’m finished before him..........

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a young, healthy and wise beyond my years single woman, that is a leader to my peers. At my young age, I have found the most handsome and amazing man of my dreams. He is respectful, has a great job, a beautiful home and he treats me like a queen. But here is the problem… well, it’s not a problem for us, it’s more of a problem for our friends and family. I am 22 years old and he is 42 years old. Now I know you are also shocked by our age difference, but I love him and believe age has nothing to do with it...........

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have some news to share with you and I need your input. I am a 33 year old woman and I have a female friend that everyone thinks is just a friend, but secretly, she’s my girlfriend. Girlfriend, as in lover. It all started about four years ago when we both were having issues in our love life and we started venting, crying and holding each other. One thing lead to another and it was on! I totally loved the experience and wish I could be with her more, but we live in different cities................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have dated a man for the past several months and you will not believe what happened over the holiday weekend. He told me that he had plans to go out of town with his buddies since we had a long weekend. He said his phone service might be sketchy while he was driving, so he would call me when he could. He left town Thursday morning and everything was cool, until Friday morning at 9am when he called me. I was surprised to hear from him, but he sounded a lot different............

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Dear Steve and Shirley I need your honest advice here because I don't know how to handle this situation. I'm in my late 40s and in a good relationship with a man my age. We are well above the age of foolishness, but recently we had a big disagreement. I was staying at his house the other night and I got a call from my ex husband, who I still consider a friend. My ex husband is still single and he lives alone. So when he called me at 2:30AM I figured there had to be something serious going on and I needed to go and see about him. So, I got up and was leaving to go help my ex husband..............

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Hi Steve and Shirley, I really need your advice. I'm a 32 year old woman and my husband is 37. When we first got married, our sex life was amazing. About three years into our marriage, intimacy became an issue.My husband started making excuses for not wanting to do it. He never wanted to have sex anymore. When we did do it, he would just lie there like he forgot what to do. So I came out of my comfort zone to try to get him excited. I would turn on porn. Talk dirty to him. Go to bed naked get my hair done regularly and even dress sexy. Nothing worked.After a while I started to feel unattractive and unwanted..............

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