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I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.

I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.

Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:

-Much more peace

-Much lighter

-Much more grateful

And, God is blessing me financially as well.

Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…

And what to do about it…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.

Today you’ll learn about his story…

And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…

That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…

To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.

Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here. 

Dr. Mike

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https://31dailychallenges.com/

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I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago.

I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process.

I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way…

And how to accomplish it…

Learn how in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat.

Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)...

That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)...

And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)...

And let me know how it goes!

Dr. Mike

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A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.

That’s when you tell your wife:

-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking

-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling

-You’re right

This causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.

We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:

-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did

-Understand how she could feel that way

-Understand how she could think that way

This helps her feel safe and open her mind, heart and body more to you.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MytcPIKG2xk


Dr. Mike

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Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by…

Step 1 - Notice the anger

Step 2 - Release the anger

Step 3 - Listen or walk away

Now, try it and see how it goes!

Dr. Mike

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My wife and I got in a fight last night…

And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern…

Creating less safety and closed hearts…

And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy….

Step 1 - Notice the anger

Step 2 - Release the anger

Step 3 - Listen or walk away

Watch on YouTube here. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52A

Dr. Mike

P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.

Instead, try…

Responding with kindness…

Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...

Or just saying “no.”

And let me know how it goes.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…

Get mad back…

Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...

Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.

Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.

Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLco

Dr. Mike

P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

Relationships are built by…

Talking to people

Spending time together

Doing things together

To build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.

Choose 1 to do this week.

And let me know how it goes.

Dr. Mike

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