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I had a couple of interesting conversations that just couldn't wait for Season 4, so here's episode 1 of 5 in a "Summer Series."

It's safe to say everyone who listens to this podcast knows what a top is and what a bottom is. But, have you heard of a side?  If you haven't, make way because here they come.  Well they've always been here. 

A side is basically described as a gay man who doesn't enjoy receiving or giving anal sex.  But we don't want basics. That's why we reached out to OtterXaddy (pronounced Otter Zaddy) who is a side, to lay it all out for us. 

In this episode you will learn that a side is more than just a "gay man who doesn't like anal sex," it is everything sexual including oral, kinks, fetishes minus anal. So if you think about it; we've all participated as a side at one point or another. 

Otter details moments in his dating history when he realized he just wasn't that into anal sex, but loved everything else that came with being a gay man and how sides are made to feel like less of a gay man by others who don't understand them.  This is a great conversation filled with so much to learn and I hope you enjoy it as much as we had putting it together. 

P.S. If you have any questions you'd like to ask our guest this week, here is his twitter handle: @otterxaddy

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