In this week's episode, I unpack what you want to be aware of when it comes to working with other "healers." Ultimately it comes down to authenticity and if you feel they are trustworthy. This work requires a high level of integrity, clarity, and the recognition that you have given up your free will for divine will.
What is a “Bullshitter”?
A“Bullshitter” is not necessarily a bad person, but rather a person that may have a tendency to:
- misrepresent themselves frequently (either to you or to themselves)
- forget the discussed boundaries of the relationship
- have completely unspoken expectations
- or is selective about boundaries. (Sometimes yes, Sometimes no.)
Step One: Listen to Their Words, are they clear, concise and how do fr when they talk Indicators in speech for quality of character:
Are they positive? Considerate? Complimentary? Agreeable? Do they talk about productive and goal-oriented ideas?
Number 2: POLARIZATION AS FACT—Are they stuck in polarity/ good bad and fear-based language
Number 3: THEIR DOUBLE LIVES: Are they constantly showing how # blessed they are and how they manifest X Y Z in the form of money, but when you really get into the details they’re a fucking mess. Look at their lives and don’t be fooled by money. This is incredibly deceptive. Watch their actions and if they walk the walk and talk the talk.
Number 4: OUT OF BODY FOCUSED It’s all about astral projection, accessing higher realms, Uber plant medicine ceremonies anything that is hyper-focused on manufacturing enlightenment or needing to be outsourced.
Number 5: THEM OVER YOU. Hierarchy. Are they putting themselves above you? Are they claiming to be experts all the time and have it all figured out. If they are constantly selling you on the “I’m so special!” Leave. It’s total bullshit.
Number 6. OUTSOURCING. If they’re working with any archangel, they’re the second Mary. Discern. Your higher self is all you need, in connection to pure source. That’s it. We can’t awaken alone, we all need help along the way and if you have guides that’s wonderful just know that they’re you in other dimensions.
Number 7: DELUSIONAL NEW AGE LANGUAGE AND PRESENTATION. Pay attention to how you feel, when you listen to them. Chances are you’ll get a feeling or a knowing that this is the person who can help take you to the next level.
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