Surfing Lessons

Surfing Lessons

By Ryan P. LampeEducationSelf-Improvement
Download on the App Store

Surfing Lessons episodes

  • Surfing Lesson 216: Learn Less, Surf More!
    If I would have 1/10 the time learning content these past 10 years
    And 10x the amount of time APPLYING what I know and ACTUALLY DOING what I KNOW to do
    I would be 100x the man I am today.
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    31 min
  • Surfing Lesson 215: The Unforgiving Tide!
    4 Tides per day.
    No matter what.
    No matter my schedule.
    No matter my problems.
    It doesn't wait for me.
    Low...High...Low...High...
    If I miss my chance, I'm screwed.
    If I procrastinate, I'm screwed.
    It can mean the difference between an amazing surf session and merely a dip in the water.
    Well you know what else is COMPLETELY unforgiving...?
    Time.
    Time is not messing around.
    It waits for NOBODY.
    When you waste your time, you waste your LIFE.
    LITERALLY.
    Time to do work son!
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    21 min
  • Surfing Lesson 214: Conquering Inside Chaos For Freedom
    We must PAY THE PRICE to experience more freedom in life!
    PERIOD.
    How does it feel being stuck inside an overweight, easily out of breath body?
    How does it feel being suppressed sexually and having to go to porn?
    How does it feel not being able to connect with your teenage daughter?
    How does it feel being stuck in your dead end job?
    Do you want more freedom? More LIFE?
    LET'S DO THIS!
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons Episode 🎙 to get clear on how to experience YOUR next level of freedom.
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    33 min
  • Surfing Lesson 213: Longing For A Party Wave...
    Each and every one of us wants so badly the best for others.
    We all have this place deep in our hearts where we long so badly to create value and support others
    So that they can experience and greater and richer life.
    I can get frustrated and sad watching others experiencing this tough life
    Wishing that there was something I can do
    And inside this place of hoping and wishing the best for them
    I can blame them or God or other people/circumstances in their lives which seem to hold them back from what I want for them.
    Which leads to a loss of passion and connection in both myself and my relationships.
    The reality is that there is ALWAYS something I can do to create value for and support them.
    Whether it's my wife, my children, my friends, family, strangers, etc...
    There ALWAYS something I can do...
    ‼️ BUT ‼️
    IT'S PROBABLY NOT WHAT YOU THINK 😉
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons episode 🎙 to learn how to be able create value and super ANYONE!
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    33 min
  • Surfing Lesson 212: Left or Right? Ahhhhhhhhh!
    When life isn't perfect...when life is simply LIFE...
    And our plans get interrupted...
    I can immediately go to a place of panic.
    Not knowing what to do.
    Which way to turn.
    What I have time for.
    What I DON'T have time for.
    What I'm committed to.
    And in this place of uncertainty
    I will find myself concerned, worried, stressed
    I can get on edge
    And feel I have lost control.
    This inevitably leads to me showing up disconnected with people, stuck in my head, and robbed of passion.
    And I just can't afford to live this way!
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    29 min
  • Surfing Lesson 211: Try Out the Inside!
    Whether it's 400 yards out into the ocean or sitting behind your iPhone/computer HOLDING BACK all the gold inside you...
    It's so easy to get stuck procrastinating, robbing yourself of life while we're waiting for perfection.
    Well I have news for you!
    Pshhhh...you already know the deal...
    You just gotta be willing to stick your neck out there
    And JUST DO IT!
    Or not.
    But don't be fooled BY YOURSELF the same way I have fooled myself time and again thinking that I really wanted something
    Or that I was even committed to something
    When all along I was really just terrified and waiting for the stars to magically align.
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    21 min
  • Surfing Lesson 210: Standing Only For The Set Waves
    There's commitments that imprison 🚧 and then there's commitments that SET YOUR HEART FREE 🔥!
    Commitments that imprison will ALWAYS create frustration and resentment.
    Have you committed to a diet and after a couple months felt TRAPPED?
    Or maybe you're in a committed relationship and when it gets tough and even seems IMPOSSIBLE, you feel stuck and imprisoned.
    I have made so many stands, promises, and commitments for myself and others
    Only to eventually find myself feeling like I'm trapped in a box and being smothered.
    And then resent God, Luci, myself, and others.
    At the end of the day there is no DEMAND I can make from anyone, not even myself, that will hold up over time without resentment.
    But there is another way
    Another path
    A path to making commitments from your heart
    That bulletproof your heart from resentment towards your commitments
    That clear the air of everyone else's resentment towards you...
    Even your SPOUSE!
    Join me in today's Surfing Lessons Podcast 🎙 episode "Standing Only For The Set Waves" to find out how to:
    ❗️Acknowledge the commitments you've made with yourself that create resentment inside you and SUPPRESS YOUR PASSION AND CONNECTION.
    ❗️Create new commitments with yourself and others that SET YOUR HEART FREE AND LEAD YOU TO FULL LIFE!
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected #ruthlesslycommitted
    46 min
  • Surfing Lesson 209: Navigating the Night!
    Surfing in the head high + waves can be challenging at night if not downright scary.
    And like so, our dark feelings of anger, rage, blame, guilt, shame, betrayal, + can be challenging if not downright TERRIFYING.
    So we avoid the dark.
    We avoid the terror.
    We only surf daylight where it's as dangerous, but at least at can see.
    And we only express (or at least try to) our "good" feelings of that are JUST as dangerous.
    But the problem is that the only way to fill our cups so that they overflow onto others...
    The only way to fully love and accept ourselves so that we are actually capable of loving and accepting others...
    The only way to OWN THE LIGHT AND LOVE...
    Is to go into the night, face the dark, and OWN THE DARK.
    When we can accept and own our hatred and blame and shame,
    Only then are we actually free to love others and accept them with a full, overflowing cup of love of them, themselves, as they are, full dark and full light...full human beings.
    If you want to be the light, you must OWN the dark instead of burying it and sweeping it under the rug.
    If you own your pain, you run the game!
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected
    28 min
  • Surfing Lesson 208: Never Too Late
    It took an entire TWO YEARS 🚨 of crippling disability for me to discover the impact I had on my kids!
    Couch ridden on and off and stuck inside a literal fantasyland of video games.
    And then I woke up and came alive.
    And when that happened and I saw how I was able to overcome so much of my disability
    I would look back with guilt and shame about not pulling it off sooner.
    Even worse, I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW that I had that guilt and shame!
    IT'S NEVER TOO LATE!
    The only decision you must make is do you choose to GO?
    Are you committed?
    That's it. And as long as you keep CHOOSING again and again to show up, you will get what you're committed to.
    You are your commitment.
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected
    32 min
  • Surfing Lesson 207: The Tears of July 4th
    ONLY WHEN THE PAIN IS BIG ENOUGH...
    And ONLY then, will we experience true transformation.
    People usually don't know it, but that's what they're seeking as they show up to great "transformational" events.
    Only when the pain (emotional) become so great enough that we see NO OTHER OPTION but to shift...
    To see differently...
    To change and transform...
    Will we not be able to help ourselves but to show up completely different.
    Only when the pain of my physical disability was big enough...
    Only when the pain of feeling so alone and disconnected from God was big enough...
    Only when the pain of feeling like such a failure as a man, husband, and father was big enough...
    Only when the pain of the consequences from not producing enough income was big enough...
    I could go on and on, and I will a bit more inside this episode.
    But make no mistake...
    We are emotionally driven human beings.
    Only when the passion is big enough will areas inside our lives and even ultimately our entire lives be filled with DRIVE, DESIRE, and PASSION.
    Passion comes from pain. Period.
    In fact, the word "passion" literally means "to suffer."
    You've heard of the passion of Christ.
    THAT'S DRIVE!
    The question is are YOU getting real and raw with YOUR pain.
    Get more PASSION. Get more CONNECTION.
    #livewildlyconnected
    19 min

About Surfing Lessons

From the publisher's feed

This is your podcast for the family man looking to access and unlock more PASSION and CONNECTION across every area of life. Your host, Ryan P. Lampe, directly applies daily surfing lessons from the…