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Sick of being told to "just let it go" after everything you've been through? 😤 This week on The Process of Healing, Susie Spencer and David Keck are flipping the script on anger! In this raw and unfiltered episode, we dive headfirst into the powerful, often misunderstood role of fury in healing from trauma.

We're challenging all the societal norms that force survivors to bottle up their rage. Through personal stories of injustice and resilience, we break down the damaging stigmas and show you exactly how constructive anger can empower you to reclaim your narrative.

Discover how acknowledging and harnessing this "forbidden" emotion can lead to profound healing – from fueling legislative advocacy to sparking deep personal revelations. This isn't about destructive rage; it's about channeling your fury to find your voice and demand your justice!

Tune in to unleash the hidden power within your anger and transform your healing journey!

#EmbraceAnger #TraumaHealing #JusticeForSurvivors #UnapologeticFury #EmotionalPower #HealingJourney #TraumaRecovery #Advocacy #MentalHealth #SelfEmpowerment #TheProcessOfHealing #SurvivorStrong

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Ever felt intense, burning anger after trauma, only to be told to "be strong" or "just forgive"? 🤬 This week on The Process of Healing, David Keck and Susie Spencer are ripping off the societal gag order on survivor anger! David kicks off with a raw, personal anecdote about the fury he felt after his attempted murder and rape, and the immense pressure to bury it.

We expose the "Be Grateful You Survived" trap and the harmful societal and even religious bypasses that demand survivors act calm and forgiving. 🚫 Why are we taught that anger is "bad" when it's often a crucial part of true healing? We dive into how these external pressures lead to internalized blame and silent suffering.

This episode is your explicit permission slip! 🔥 Survivors have the absolute right to feel angry. It's not a flaw; it's a valid, powerful, and necessary part of your healing journey. Stop silencing your fury and start your path to genuine empowerment.

Tune in and discover why embracing your rage might be the most vital step in your healing process!

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Ever found yourself absolutely losing it behind the wheel? 🤬 You're SO not alone! This week on The Process of Healing, we dive deep into the explosive phenomenon of road rage. Host David with Susie, a personal meltdown on the road and kicks off a raw and honest exploration: Is it really just about that slow driver, or is something deeper going on? 🤔 #roadrage #aggression #meltdown

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In this episode of the 'Before-Processing' segment on the Process of Failing podcast, host David takes a respectful and intense look at the tragic death of voice actor Jonathan Joss. David delves into the complex and painful circumstances surrounding Joss's passing, including the alleged hate crime elements. The episode highlights the broader implications for the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges of proving hate-motivated crimes, and the importance of empathy and support in the face of such tragedies. David also reflects on his personal journey of healing and advocating for acceptance. Tune in to understand the deep impact of this event and join the continuing fight for a more just and compassionate world.

#JonathanJoss #JohnRedcorn #KingOfTheHill #SanAntonioCrime #TrueCrimeNews #HateCrimeAllegation #JusticeForJonathanJoss #PoliceInvestigation #LGBTQVictim #NativeAmericanVoices #NeighborDispute #TristanKernDeGonzales #TrueCrimePodcast #PodcastDiscussion #WhatReallyHappened #TraumaAndLoss

• KSL.com (CNN affiliate): https://www.ksl.com/article/51324119/what-jonathan-joss-alleged-shooter-told-police
• Time.com: https://time.com/7290654/jonathan-joss-death-shooting-obituary-king-of-the-hill-redcorn/
• Yahoo News (from NBC News/The Independent): https://www.yahoo.com/news/slurs-911-calls-crossbow-records-120819315.html
• People.com: https://people.com/jonathan-joss-death-investigation-determines-no-evidence-of-a-hate-crime-police-11747316
• KSAT.com (San Antonio local news): https://www.ksat.com/news/local/2025/06/04/what-we-know-about-the-death-of-jonathan-joss-in-san-antonio-ongoing-feud-with-suspected-shooter/
• Economic Times: https://m.economictimes.com/news/international/global-trends/jonathan-joss-king-of-the-hill-actor-who-voiced-john-redcorn-shot-dead-several-times-in-texas/articleshow/121576977.cms
• AP News: https://apnews.com/article/king-of-hill-actor-fatally-shot-joss-35845e25be4a4b42ea9c9cdb2a2a66e8

NBC DFW: https://www.nbcdfw.com/entertainment/entertainment-news/jonathan-joss-husband-claims-king-of-the-hill-actors-killing-was-homophobic-attack/3854687/

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In this episode of 'The Process of Healing,' David converses with Ann Russo about the complex journey of trauma and recovery. David and Ann discuss various elements of trauma, including personal experiences, the influence of societal norms on emotional expression, particularly in men, and the critical importance of advocacy and authenticity in healing. Ann shares her own background, growing up in a queer household, engaging in social justice work, and eventually becoming a therapist specialized in marginalized communities. They also touch on religious trauma and how it intersects with queerness, as well as Ann's current work on a book addressing religious trauma. The discussion highlights the importance of setting boundaries, the need for tailored therapeutic approaches, and the value of empathy and advocacy in creating safe and inclusive spaces for healing. They also brainstorm innovative ways to make therapy more accessible and comfortable for clients, including the idea of 'speed dating' therapists and mobile therapy sessions. Esteemed insight is given on the importance of self-care for both therapists and those who are strong allies and supporters for peers going through trauma. #trauma #anger #emotions #healing

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"I'M SORRY" SECRETS REVEALED! 🤫 Ever wonder WHY some apologies heal and others fall FLAT? We dive deep into the SHOCKING psychology of a real apology – it's NOT just saying the words! Learn the surprising power of genuine remorse, the KEY to being HEARD, and the mistakes that RUIN your chances. Plus, we tackle the messy truth about forgiveness: is it ALWAYS necessary? Unlock stronger relationships and personal growth NOW! #apology #forgiveness #communication #relationships #selfgrowth #mentalhealth #personaldevelopment #psychology #empathy #compassion #selfreflection #resilience #healing

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Join us for a powerful and heartfelt discussion that Jenny & Susie had on a TikTok LIVE where we delve into the significance of Trey's Law and the personal story of a survivor named Susie's. Recently featured in a video testimony for the Texas Senate, Susie shares the emotional and challenging journey of advocating for legal reform to support survivors of sexual assault. The conversation covers the impact of statute limitations, the role of NDAs in sexual assault cases, and the importance of using one's voice to create change. Susie's deeply personal recount of her childhood trauma and her pursuit of justice serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for fellow survivors. Tune in to learn more about Trey's Law and the ongoing fight for the rights of survivors.
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Join us for a powerful and heartfelt discussion that David & Susie had on a TikTok LIVE where we delve into the significance of Trey's Law and the personal story of a survivor named Susie. Recently featured in a video testimony for the Texas Senate, Susie shares the emotional and challenging journey of advocating for legal reform to support survivors of sexual assault. The conversation covers the impact of statute limitations, the role of NDAs in sexual assault cases, and the importance of using one's voice to create change. Susie's deeply personal recount of her childhood trauma and her pursuit of justice serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for fellow survivors. Tune in to learn more about Trey's Law and the ongoing fight for the rights of survivors.
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Join David and Susie in 'The Process of Healing' as they bravely tackle the complex and heavy topic of suicide. In this heartfelt episode, they discuss personal experiences, societal stigmas, and the importance of finding light amidst the darkness. They emphasize the power of open conversations, the significance of mental health support, and present resources like suicide hotlines to help those in need. Learn how to approach the subject with empathy, break down harmful stigmas, and understand the importance of resilience and community. Listen in to discover how healing can be a collective journey. #stigma #suicide #mentalhealth #podcast

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In this heartfelt episode, hosts David and Susie of 'The Process of Healing' delve into the complex and often misunderstood topic of depression. Through personal anecdotes and insightful discussions, they explore the reality of living with depression, breaking down stigmas, and the importance of normalizing conversations around mental health. They share strategies for healing, emphasizing the difference between resilience and immunity, and introduce the idea of 'anchoring' as a grounding technique. The episode also touches on the significant role of therapy, medication, and support systems. Join David and Susie as they aim to provide hope, validation, and practical tools to manage and overcome depression. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. #toolkit #depression #dealing #healing #podcast

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