Today, I’m sitting with Debbie O'Connell to discuss the profound impact of state of mind on your golf game.

To Debbie, maintaining a positive mind is just as critical as a well-executed swing. She illustrates the power of mental fortitude through Amy Bockerstette's inspiring performance, explains how you can use positive self-talk and body language to boost your confidence on the course, and shares personal experiences around the transformative effects of gratitude and mindset on your golf game.

We also talk about the role of meditation, visualization, and self-hypnosis techniques in achieving peak performance. Reflecting on the wisdom of legends like Tiger Woods, we look at how taking responsibility for our game, rather than succumbing to external pressures, can empower us to excel under any condition.

About Debbie O’Connell:

Debbie is a seasoned media professional, successful entrepreneur, and accomplished business leader. She is the host of Audible’s series “Golf Positive.” She has also had multiple appearances on the Golf Channel and has hosted numerous golf-oriented radio shows as well as the television show “Par Fore the Course.” Debbie is the author of the bestselling book, “Golf Positive! Live Positive!” which offers insight and practical solutions to help one achieve their goals both on and off the golf course.

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We’re joined by returning guest Donna Taylor, a veteran of the golf world and a yoga instructor who specializes in helping women enhance their skills on the golf course.

With her unique approach, Donna has managed to make golf lessons more accessible and fun. She shares how her dad, a pioneer in the sport, inspired her and her childhood friend Julianne—who’s also joining us on the podcast today—to start their golf journey in third grade.

Listen in as Donna shares her thoughts on officially transitioning from competitive golfer to teaching professional and why she doesn’t miss the former. She also teases upcoming retreats with her thriving Golf Party Live, a fast-growing community for women just starting to get into golf.

The bulk of our conversation covers Donna’s thoughts on Jon Sherman’s “9 brutal golf truths”. Tune in and get a female golf veteran’s take on golf principles such as…

- There is always a better golfer

- You can make better decisions and have poor results

- Learning more about the golf swing can make you worse

- and more!

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Who would have thought that a career in international supply chain logistics could lead to the launch of a sustainable golf clothing line?

Today, I’m sitting down with Ali Putnam, a mom to five boys and the founder of A. Putnam, ”a luxury resort-to-sport brand for women that honors the traditions of golf”.

Like most female golfers, Ali was frustrated at the extremely limited choices she had when it came to quality golf attire. This frustration sparked her journey into business and fashion design, which was always driven by her love for the sport and a strong commitment to sustainable practices.

Ali shares how she juggles entrepreneurship and motherhood day by day, all while setting ambitious goals to make her mark in the industry. Creating golf apparel that seamlessly transitions from the course to everyday life is no small feat, and Ali takes us through her creative process to accomplish just that.

By experimenting with fabrics and styles, Ali designs versatile pieces like structured skirts and reversible bomber jackets that cater to women of all ages and styles. She explains how she’s navigating the retail landscape, weighing the pros and cons of distributing her line at big box stores and exclusive country clubs. She also gives her thoughts on how social media is revolutionizing fashion and the importance of staying true to one's vision in a constantly changing market.

Finally, from costly photo shoot blunders to the strategic shift from influencer partnerships to authentic connections with everyday women, Ali opens up about the countless lessons she’s had to learn as an entrepreneur!

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“You have to play golf to get better at it. Being out on the golf course is so crucial–you have to put yourself in an uncomfortable position to get more comfortable at it.”

Justin Klemballa is back to talk about how golfers can crush the 75 Hard Challenge and come out physically and mentally tougher than ever!

Listen in as Justin walks us through his morning routine to show how he uses habit stacking, consistency, and a sprinkle of discomfort to ace his goals. We'll uncover how little daily actions like staying hydrated and reading 10 pages of a great book a day can supercharge your growth.

Justin does a deep dive into the mental game of golf, focusing on the importance of celebrating small victories, replaying only your winning shots in your head, and consistently channeling positive vibes even during high-stakes tournaments.

Finally, you’ll learn how well-structured 30-minute practice drills and daily workouts can strengthen your confidence and resilience on the green.

Interested in the 75 Hard Challenge? Check out more info from the creator here.

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Today I’m sitting down with Jen Weiler, Senior Vice President of Network Relations at First Tee, a nonprofit dedicated to teaching kids life skills and building their character through the game of golf!

“At First Tee,” Jen says, “we believe that character is what you bring to everything you do; but you aren’t born with it.”

With 150 chapters across the country, the coaches at First Tee have taught countless youth to help them build confidence, set meaningful goals, and learn the value of perseverance - all through the game of golf! Jen also emphasizes that First Tee's work wouldn't be possible without the support of its community and shares how our listeners can get involved and give back.

Listen in as Jen walks us through the evolution of First Tee, from its fundraising success story involving a $106 million campaign, all the way to the organization’s ambitious 2025 goals.

Finally, Jen talks about the spark that led to First Tee’s mission to reach youths from disadvantaged backgrounds, and how she aims to make golf accessible through equipment and transportation solutions. She also shares why women-only golf trips are an absolute must for female golfers of any skill level!

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I’m sitting down with Jon Sherman of Practical Golf to discuss his five best tips for supercharging your golf game during the offseason!

“It’s much easier to make a change in your golf game,” says Jon, “in a risk-free environment.”

Your offseason is the absolute best time to troubleshoot your game and make changes that you simply won’t be able to track with efficiency in the thick of those competitive months.

With the help of a good instructor, use these next few weeks to make a series of 1% improvements on everything from rewiring your golf swing to setting achievable goals for tournament season. And as a pro tip, try recording your training sessions to really dial in on the details that you need to work on.

Jon also shares how to make the best use of an hour of indoor practice, and how to keep in top shape by making full use of resistance and speed training. Finally, he reveals his go-to strategy for fine-tuning your equipment and the art of setting process-oriented goals that will take your golf game to the next level!

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Today, Ashley, Max, and I are sitting down with golf enthusiast and TikTok star Morgan Middendorf, who shares her entertaining tales from the green as a bev cart girl!

Morgan talks about catering to all manner of golfers, from out-of-towners to snowbirds to men’s leagues. All the while, we’re catching up with Ashley on her time fresh off tournament season at Whistling Straits and Napa, and give a little sneak peek into our “outrageous” plans for Scotland in 2026!

Morgan pulls back the curtain on building a successful “cart girl” brand on TikTok and Instagram. She gives her best advice to newbies with minimal bar tending experience and low-to-no golf experience who want to have a career in serving drinks at prestigious courses.

She discusses her typical day-in-the-life, from prepping her mobile bar for the day ahead, to utilizing her charm-fueled tipping strategies. Ashley and Max also talk about their go-to-drinks on and off the course!

Finally, Morgan talks about her own favorite cocktail recipes and gives her thoughts (as well as a joke or two) on cart girl stereotypes!

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I’m sitting down with my good friends Andrea and Marla to catch up on their golf journey!

Listen in as we talk about how we deal with husband-and-wife dynamics out on the course–from casual to professional settings–and a little sneak peek into playing golf in the Scottish highlands for the very first time, with family to boot!

The Desert Classic has been a formative highlight of all of our golf journeys, and so we look back at what we picked up from our previous experiences. But while we’re reminiscing on recent golf trips, we're also looking forward to upcoming tournaments–the 2025 Desert Classic being right up there on our list, of course.

Andrea and Marla discuss the power of building camaraderie among women in the sport, and just how they’re juggling the stress and thrill of it all between raising kids! And speaking of kids, we finish of the conversation with my thoughts on approaching the empty nester phase and our goals in the world of women’s golf in the very near future!

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As we head into a new golf season here in Arizona, my sister Alix and I talk about what we’re looking forward to, as well as what we’re doing to keep on top of our fitness going into winter. We’re also giving you a sneak peek into our 2025 calendar of events and tournaments!

After giving our thoughts on new regulations announced by our Women’s Golf Association, we’re talking pilates and hot yoga breakthroughs and mishaps, before getting into the little tweaks we’re making to our golf game.

This is where a lot of our goals diverge, with Alix giving her thoughts on improving as an active competitor and drawing lessons from other sports like tennis, and myself talking about the power of consistent practice.

Finally, we give our thoughts on amplifying female voices in golf course design and share experiences from recent tournaments!!

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Pushing past my comfort zone in golf has always been a challenge, but with the help of the ever-amazing Colorado Hall of Famer Kim Eaton, I went on a journey that led me all the way to the USGA Mid-Am.

Today, Kim and I are reflecting on how entering some of those more intimidating tournaments can actually elevate your game. I talk about my commitment to compete in the Arizona State Match Play Tournament despite initial hesitations. One thing stays pretty consistent: The friends we make and the personal insecurities we overcome at these events always end up being as rewarding as the game itself.

Kim had a packed summer. From one tournament after another–from the Senior Match Play in Colorado to an unforgettable win at the state Mid-Am–Kim gives us an insightful blow-by-blow account of her prep work all through to the end of each match.

Finally, we talk about the ins and outs of organizing large golf events, and weigh the pros and cons of various locations to create the most memorable experience possible for all participants!

If there’s anything to take away from this episode, it’s the literal game-changing power of having a mentor at your side. And that if you don’t have one yet, it’s time to put yourself out there and feel the pressure of tournament play!

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