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An awesome little oration on what my current jobs are and what the distractions are that are keeping me from them.  Also a nice little bit on the meaning of objective vs subjective; including examples.  And “my time for glory may come” but said in a different way.  Please enjoy!

Notes:

What my job is and some of the distractions that are keeping me from it.   

The job for me today is to:

1. Publish everyday
2. Progress my summit forward.

I've got no other jobs than that. 

But I have been adding other jobs to the list:

1. Driving traffic to my podcast
2. Creating content on the social media platforms to support my publishing content.
3. Or too grow my subscriber base.

I have been thinking my other jobs have been to refine my FB profile, my IG profile.  To convert my podcast content to other platforms (repurpose the content)…  in the vein of likes, looks subscribers, downloads, friends… 

Unfortunately none of that is in my current job description…  But I want it to be!  I had gotten distracted by shiny egoic objects.  The time to grow my following, to refine my profiles, to refine my social media strategies are coming.  But those are steps ahead.  

Fortuitously I have publishing down; now quality is subjective.   Defining objective v subjective measures.  One of the examples used to define, If I was compelled to get the new iPhone I would get the 12 Mini.  

Another thing that became abundantly clear is the reason they want us to publish consistently on a specific platform is because it has a long shelf life. The summit will drive traffic on a much bigger scale than the distracted time that I put onto the social media.  The current iteration - The “Your Life’s Calling summit”.  “How would you like us help you find your life calling so you can avoid staying in your soul sucking job?”  Subject to change lol! 

And there is still the job of holding space for my teen who is still in the house, which I love!

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When I played ping pong in collage and was a professional snowboarder in my youth, I learned that if I could have fun, well I won a lot more.   But when I tried to “Win” I rarely did and I didn’t have fun.  I’m trying to bring the “have fun” process and mentality into my current project…  And the thoughts and stories around this.

Show notes:

What if this part was fun?  What if time was an illusion?  What if the tension point that pulled me forward was “Fun” vs Finish, complete, succeed, prove…  The only hurry is ego satisfaction and perceived waste of resources.  What if I didn’t need to maximize dollars spent?  What if the squandering of resources was an illusion?  Relating ping pong to my current life experience. When I played ping pong if I tried to win I never could.  But if I tried to have fun, well that was a different story.  When I could get into a fun mindset, I would just start playing so good!   Enjoy the process!  God how would you have me utilize the resources you have put in my stead.  Gods got me in the 2CCX thing and it is not going as fast as I want to…  How am I gonna make this fun?

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Greg Beckett is a motivational hypnotist that I met five or so years ago at a Kyle Cease “Flow Group”.  We hadn’t talked for a couple of years so it was time to catch up.  And as Greg knows about me and I know about him, we have a lot of fun.  We talk identity, boundaries, and the Superconscious.  Am I a better man because of our conversation?  Yes, I am.  Did I learn something that helped me?  Yes, I did.   Greg is insightful, vulnerable, and says what's on his mind…  Enjoy the ride.  

Notes:

You can also call it “a transition”.   I call myself a motivational hypnotist, “I don’t diagnose and I don’t prescribe”.  I use the tool of hypnosis with other things to help people see things differently or to move forward.  Oh and he teaches Hypnosis. 

The superconscious is what he’s tapping into…  Shift change, release things, whatever needs to be done…  to move to shift.  Can we shift the autoimmune system?  Hypnosis is just as powerful over Zoom…  Allow the higher mind to take care of things that need to be taken care of that they might not even know needs attention.  I.e. letting source be the guide of what to heal.

Remembrances of my session with Greg 3 years ago.  It provided me peace and clarity to move forward… 

We get into Identity and the separation of Identity - Letting go of that old identity can be hard.  That’s how he ended up at flow group, trying to breakthrough and move forward from an old identity.  Outside people hang onto the old idea of what they want us to be, and it can make it very hard to move forward from…  All parties will have an opportunity to grow.  You either stay in it or when the pain gets bad enough…

The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz, changes his life.  The agreements are: Always do your best, don’t take anything personally, be impeccable with your words, and don’t make assumptions. He has a deep rich history with the book.  The Identity thing comes from the Four Agreements…  The idea that you are hurting their growth and not only your own.  “Why are they mad that you are doing something that you want to do?”  That fear of change and the unknown.  “Go with the change man.”  How do we see everyone as they are in the moment for who they are right now.   He has had to find his way…  That meditative moment.   

Really it’s all about taking care of yourself. 

Greg, tell me about the moment where you are about to cry…  It’s that opportunity to be authentic, this well of emotion, this truth, this feeling, this appreciation.  Often time it’s not mine.  I’m getting ready to tell the truth.  I feel safe to show it.  It’s allowable or it’s useful.  “This vulnerability was what I had to hide away for most of my life.”  “Growing up it was a weakness in other peoples eyes it wasn’t just a genuine niceness…  I had to hide it away to protect it.  This is my superpower.”

We come from different worlds him and me…  We have had some bitch slap moment opportunities in our group.  Our extended 4 person flow group that lived on for a few years.  He gave me some bitch slap moments once or twice.  He felt like in those moments I was living for someone else that was no longer around.  I was hooked on the “appropriate choices for what other people would think”…  Greg helped me be free of that. 

We get into the diverse dynamic of our “Flow Group” which gave us such good view points. 

“As a child, I was loved, I was not understood.”  Our parents are just doing the best they know how. 

…His aunt, their growth was not matching, and they get to work on forgiveness.  He has been a pleaser a lot.  He had to stand his ground, it was a big moment for him.  He gets to yell for the first time in his life.  They get to pull away and come back together.   I got to see the pull back, the boundary setting, the this is what’s best for Greg, and then the healing.  And I got to put my own notions aside and grow through watching. 

…”As a kid it didn’t really have to do with sexuality, it had to do with tenderness and things that scare ofter kids…  some kids have other things that aren’t so tender going on in their home… " When there are issues at school; “my dad says to me finally…  my dad looks at me…   you don’t want to go see someone about this?”  As his dad is shaking his head no “you don’t” telling him the answer.  It was a sign of the times, the 70’s.  “They were doing the best they knew how.”

Stuff we have to hide away until later and we are strong enough to handle it… 

The lessons of Rupaul’s Drag Race.  “Don’t you know that what people think of you is none of your damn business!”  What they say is none of your business.  Keep doing your business.

“Mischa, you’re making assumptions and taking things personally.”  

He was still hurting 5 years after an old relationship when me met.  And that provided me solace.  He’s still sometimes going through it. “I’m still here for them, and they don’t want that, and I don’t understand that.”

The one thing I’ve wanted to say today! The one thing that has helped me the most.  The best thing that has helped me with my relationships…  is this question “Do you just need me to listen or do you need me to help you with this?”  It’s been a game changer. “Boundaries”

I cop to missing the point of a comment.  And it turns out I was meant too.  “What do you need from me?”  “Would it be ok if I made a suggestion?”

“What is it that I want to do with this and how do I want to present myself… 

Find Greg Beckett Here:

https://www.hypnosisla.com/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZO6L70AbQlxP5o1qPkt__g/videos

http://www.flan-king.com/

Peace out!

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I record a podcast episode with a friend listening in.  The “A Course In Miracles” was good this morning so I go through my notes as well as all the Webster’s Dictionary definitions of words that I liked.  Kind of an experimental episode :).

Show notes:

A Course In Miracles (ACIM) super juicy this morning.  Some notes and thoughts I wrote down:  Ego - the fact that we can think about ourselves.  What someone else needs wants or should be doing doesn’t concern me.  Webster definitions of:

• “Ally” - to form or enter into an alliance.
• “Pursue” - 1) To follow in order to overtake, capture, kill, or defeat.  2) To find or employ measures to obtain or accomplish.  The ego wants you dead but not itself, lol!
• "Dissolution" - 1) a. The act or process of dissolving.  Such as separation into component parts.  b). Decay, Disintegration.
• "Equanimity" - Evenness of mind especially under stress; Right disposition.  If I’m in a state of equanimity perhaps I’m still in an ego state and it’s just an illusion that I am not.
• "Foretaste" - 1) A small anticipatory sample.  An advance indication or warning.  The Ego is setting us up.

The ego wants guilt all encompassing!  Then you hit bottom and have a bitch slap from the universe.  There is no fear in the present.  I have a question for you “Does the word immortality chap you?”  What if I didn’t think about myself and I only thought about you with love?  We are a child of…?  Change is an illusion.  

• Salvation - 2) Liberation from ignorance or illusion.  Or my favorite 1) c. - The realization of the supremacy of infinite Mind over all bringing with it the destruction of the illusion of sin, sickness, and death
• Afford - 2) To make available, give forth, or provide naturally or inevitably.

I can barely keep up with my own neuroses let alone yours!  I need to be willing to say to people “these matters you want to discuss bother me not, I do not care.  But I will listen if you want somebody to listen."  Things that used to interest and bother me bother me no more :).

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Shout out to my listeners in Spain!  More thoughts on moving away from judging people, places, things as good or bad; and my three main areas of current growth.  And an update on the results of saying the resentment prayer towards those unfortunate souls who tweak me.  All in a super fun manner of course! 

Notes:

An update on the resentment prayer. I think that judgment equals resentment.  I’m going to let more qualified people do the judging.  Judging is no longer in my wheel house.  Ignorance, denial, I don’t care, I’m freer than I’ve ever been in these 3 areas.  

1. Moving past judgment and the need to judge.  Judging the Judgers.
2. Moving past the need for many types of relationships.  Was that you with all the hair?!.  Oh you’ve found self love!
3. Some financial illusions have been striped away.

I’m in recording late mode.  The Prayer, “God give everything I want for myself (to said person), God give them their health, their prosperity, and their happiness”. AND IT WORKED!  …And is working.  If I think other people aren’t supporting me realistically I am doing a pretty poor job of supporting them.  Insert my high horse here!  I am learning how to be more supportive.  “Sorry I snapped and blew up!”  Shout out to my listeners in Spain!

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Recording the late night episodes gives me new life.  It’s like I turn it over to you the audience and I explain that in a fun way.  I discuss some breakthroughs from the meditation thought list that I had shared with you 2 episodes ago.  Introducing the idea of "Do it yourself, do it with help, and done for you".  And even more fun stuff…

Show Notes:

There was a breakthrough.  Recording the late night episodes give me new life.  Acronym’s for G.O.D.  Good Orderly Direction.  Group Of (recovering) Derelicts.  Great Out Doors.  You, the audience, are sometimes my G.O.D.!  Tackle this as it is a fun challenge.  Tools to get that new perspective.  I liked to be challenged; when I want to be.  The point of tension for me is sometimes “I want the answer!”.   The answer is “Sit down, have fun with it, and work at it.”  You should know I really started from scratch.  Versions of "I want the answer".  “Sounds like this program is designed to teach you how to fish!”  Do it yourself, do it with help, do it for you.  The "do it for you" is really expensive.  Bending my will to embrace theirs!  The bees, God's beautiful creation is literally happening right in front of me.

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It’s a beautiful Encinitas, CA day as I literally stop smell the flowers, and record my thoughts on the nuances within this prayer “God give everything that I want for myself to ________, god give them their prosperity, happiness and health.”  And of course I was irritated with someone earlier in the day which brought that prayer to my mind.

Show Notes:

I don’t really record nearly as much as while I’m walking. I get feedback a bunch that it is nice to see me on a zoom mtg.  I don’t even have to talk.  Some guy is triggering me because the rules don’t apply to him…  which reminds me of me.  We are all God’s children.  Crisp is a relative term.  It’s so pretty out that I stop sit down, slow down, look at the nature.  Hit pause and let the thoughts work their way through your mind…  

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 I sat a pen and piece of paper down next to me because I thought it would be fun to write down all that thoughts that were going through my mind as I was meditating this morning.  So here’s the list.

Show notes:

It’s almost like unburdening my soul on you, how fun is that.   I decide to write down the random thoughts that were plowing through my mind as I was meditating.  So here you go.  The last thing I wrote down…  These are all points I could have gone to god...  Finally my mind shut off… 

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I interviewed Barbara Karnes today (the interview should be out in a week or two) and I had so much fun that I had to record an episode talking about the interview. Barbara has been very influential in the hospice industry as well as writing very powerful booklets on grief, dying, and the like.  One of which changed my life.  I also talk light heartedly about some of the grief I’ve gone through.

Show notes:

Barbara Karnes wrote the “Gone From My Sight” booklet.  It changed my life.  I had chills and shivers sometimes as I had conscious awareness of spirits.  It gives yo the spiritual angel of death in a really beautiful non dogmatic view point.  It’s very simple which like.   There is also “My Friend I Care: The Grief Experience”.   The level of my grief was real. “Sounds like you just hit bottom!”

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Laura and I knew each other at the height of the Dot Com bubble in San Francisco in the late 1990’s.  We hadn’t seen each other for over 20+ years and it was time to catch up…  Why not do an interview.  Laura is smart, a deep and thoughtful thinker, and successful to boot.  She is a full on self starter with a whole bunch of life story and plenty of insight.  We have a ton of fun and you get plenty of opinions towards the end.  Enjoy! 

Show notes:

Laura got to see me fall in love…  And it’s fun to relive that moment.   Dawn and I get to make amends… 

But back to Laura - She gets reflective on her old divorce and the time it takes to heal that…  Laura plays coy on the exact time frame, but suffice it to say it was back in the 90’s lol. Any opportunity to go back and “amend” some of that?  Yes and “Please don’t contact me again?”.  Her answer is awesome :).  And her working through remorse of “things should have been different”. 

Laura and I were in the heart of the 2000 era Dot Com bubble.  Her time with “RedHat” stock options… Our reflections of the bubble!   Stuck with a mortgage and no job, then Kinko’s which doesn’t cover the mortgage.   I was willing to do anything to survive because I’ve been on my own since I was 17.  She finds a suicide note left on the copy machine…  It was a desperate time. 

Got a Nolo Press, “How to start a CA corporation book”…  And within a couple of months of telling the universe "I am this" I got a stroke of luck…”.  I was very fortunate, things boomed after that. 

After 8 or 9 years, kinda burnt out.  Trying to create a different business paradigm…  win win win.  It’s hard to stop on your own when the money’s good.  You’re praying for it to all fall apart.  “Please god get me out of this!”.  I had to keep doing it because of a bigger plan that was clearly out of my control… 

This life is rented, none of this is mine, I didn’t want any of this and it just kept coming.  

Her mom gets sick somewhere in there.  (Mom passed of cancer in 2006).  “Honey, when are you gonna have enough chestnuts?”  That’s a good question…  Any other mom nuggets from that time?  Oh yes there is.

Another stroke of luck, she builds a little widget for her company…   Laura’s pretty smart. “So now I have this little software company…”

I have lived in the $400 a month apartment cockroach infested apartment. 

Are we just white people with white people problems?  She brings up some good thought provoking questions and answers to my question.

Always be open…   Be grateful for what is.  Try to help as much as we can. 

Her current favorite charities:  

• Feed America https://www.feedingamerica.org/
• GRIP Greater Richmond Interfaith Program https://gripcares.org/.
• And Doctors Without Borders.  https://donate.doctorswithoutborders.org/
• Open a Fidelity charitable trust it makes giving really easy!

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