Tea Time with Shayleigh and Amber

In this podcast episode, Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans explore various aspects of personal growth and development.

They touch on upcoming events like Amber's Winter Wisdom Journey and the Magic Adventure, discussing the importance of breaking limiting beliefs for successful manifestation.

The duo shares personal stories, including Amber's horse anxiety struggles and Shayleigh's shift from an animal communicator label to Mystic and Life Coach. T

hey cover their successful partnership, future plans, and even discuss a unique product called the Vibes Up Squishy.

Chapters include Manifestation and Belief Systems, Program and Event Updates, Vibes Up Squishy, Life Updates and Labels, Trailer Troubles, Overcoming Belief Systems and Co-Creation, End of Year Reflections and Future Plans, and Discussing Boundaries and Clearing Negative Energy.

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Link for VIP (Very Intentional Person)Club starting February:⬇️

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Winter Wisdom Journeylink: ⬇️

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1. *Manifestation and Belief Systems:* Emphasizing the importance of recognizing and clearing limiting beliefs for successful manifestation.

2. *Program and Event Updates:* Updates on VIP membership, tea tour, inner vision workshop, 21-day vision quest, and the Elements of Connection horse workshop.

3. *Vibes Up Squishy:* Exploring a product that raises vibrations, shared stories of its benefits, and a recommendation to include a link in meeting notes.

4. *Life Updates and Labels:* Sharing personal stories, including Shayleigh's donkey Clyde, changing labels to Mystic and Life Coach, and Amber's manifestation of a horse trailer.

5. *Trailer Troubles:* Discussing Amber's experience with her horse's trailer anxiety, trying different trailers, and finding a suitable solution.

6. *Overcoming Belief Systems and Co-Creation:* Amber's journey in manifesting a trailer, trusting co-creation, and learning to receive support without feeling inadequate.

7. *End of Year Reflections and Future Plans:* Reflecting on their successful partnership, overcoming commitment issues, planning a live tour, and expressing gratitude to supporters.

8. *Discussing Boundaries and Clearing Negative Energy:* Delving into a client's struggle with boundaries and negative energy, describing a session's resolution, and emphasizing the importance of taking action.

This episode covers a wide array of topics, providing valuable insights into personal growth, manifestation, and the dynamic partnership between Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans

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This Podcast covers horse training and breeding, focusing on Tara Davis' program addressing generational trauma. They discuss the impact of generational trauma on genetics, the energetic shift in humanity and the equine industry, and the importance of play and co-regulation in horse development. Trust and understanding in horse-human relationships are emphasized, with reflections on past experiences and the need for two-way communication. Closing remarks include gratitude, recommendations for Tara's lessons, and discussions on building trust with horses and the potential dangers of sharing videos without context.

Chapters & Topics: 1. **Discussion of Great Awakening and Enzo's role** - Shayleigh explores the Great Awakening shift, highlighting Enzo's bravery and unafraid nature. Tara validates and expresses pride, creating excitement about Tara's presence on the podcast.

2. **Tara Davis on her breeding program and creating a sacred space for horses** - Shayleigh asks Tara about her breeding program, focusing on healing generational trauma and providing a supportive environment. Tara shares her passion for matching horses with the right people, citing her latest foal, Asteria.

3. **Generational Trauma and Its Effects on Genetics** - Amber and Tara delve into the scientific roots of generational trauma, discussing how it affects genes and physical traits, emphasizing environmental factors.

4. **The Great Awakening of Horses** - Discussion on the destabilization of the neck in horses and the shift happening in humanity and the equine industry. Highlighting the need to bring rescue horses to a place of safety and self-expression.

5. **The Importance of Co-Regulation in Horse Development** - Shayleigh and Tara explore emotional needs, focusing on stallions, and emphasize the importance of co-regulation and setting boundaries for healthy development.

6. **Importance of Co-Regulation with Horses** - Shayleigh shares her experience with intentional relaxation with Biggie, discussing the power of two-way communication and understanding the needs of both horse and rider.

7. **Exploring the Relationship Between Horse Movement and Relaxation** - Amber reflects on past training methods, questioning if achieved relaxation was actually fawning. Tara suggests horses process emotions through movement, stressing a context-aware approach to training.

8. **Reflections on the Past** - Tara and Amber reflect on past experiences, advocating kindness and love in retrospection, focusing on lessons learned rather than guilt.

9. **Developing a Healthy Balance between Relaxation and Play Drive in Horses** - Shayleigh asks Tara about the balance between relaxation and play drive, emphasizing the need for healthy emotional regulation and cues for excitement reduction.

10. **Closing Remarks and Contact Information** - Amber praises Tara's skills, encourages lessons, and provides Tara's contact information, including a Calendly link and social media handles.

11. **Trust and Understanding in Horse-Human Relationships** - Tara and Amber discuss the complexities of horse-human relationships, emphasizing trust, understanding, and realistic expectations.

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In this insightful podcast episode, Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans explore water manifestation, fear, intuition, and the brain's inclination towards negativity. Amber shares her journey manifesting a trip to Sedona and underscores the importance of setting intentions without attachment to outcomes. The episode wraps up with the hosts discussing their evening plans and upcoming tasks. Segments:

1. Dog Talk and Meeting Introduction.

2. Experimenting with Water and Energy: Insights on beliefs, manifesting, and energy work.

3. Amber Lydic's Business Conference Insights: Balancing hustle and alignment, spoon bending, and struggles with success.

4. The Role of the Brain in Focusing on Negativity: Fear of success, fear of failure, and neuroscience.

5. Overcoming Fear and Finding Truth: Strategies to overcome fear and self-discovery exercises.

6. Manifesting a Trip to Sedona: Detachment, intention, and the power of letting go.

7. Amber's Lucky Hat: A fortunate hat's story and Shayleigh Evans's playful remarks.

8. Donkey Lessons and Water Experiment: Lessons from animal behavior and an invitation for listeners to join a freezing water experiment.

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In this comprehensive discussion, we navigated the intricacies of granting autonomy to horses while establishing crucial boundaries in horse-human relationships. Our exploration expanded to various chapters and topics, highlighting key elements:

1. *Choices and Intention:* Shayleigh and Amber delved into the healing modality they employ, emphasizing the integral link between choices, intention, and actionable steps in both their work and everyday life.

2. *Advocating for Horses:* The duo explored the culture of problem-solving in horse treatment, advocating for understanding root causes over quick fixes, and the commitment trainers need to make in advocating for horses.

3. *Discussion on Spurs in Horse Riding:* Personal experiences with spurs were shared, shedding light on their potential harm and the necessity of questioning their use, particularly in higher levels of competition.

4. *Importance of Time in Horse Training:* Shayleigh and Amber underscored the significance of dedicating time for horse training and education, emphasizing empathy for the horse and Celeste's impactful work in unlocking muscle tension.

5. *Understanding Horse Behavior:* The duo delved into physical and emotional indicators of horses, stressing the importance of recognizing subtle cues and understanding horse behavior and communication.

6. *Boundaries in Horse-Human Relationships:* Amber shared experiences, highlighting the need for mutual respect, recognizing a horse's free will, and the role of human entitlement in horse-human relationships.

7. *Energy in Horse Training:* Exploring boundaries in horse training, Amber and Shayleigh discussed the nuances of creating space versus using force, the impact on energy dynamics, and the importance of empathy.

8. *Observations and Ideas for Horse Training:* Amber shared insights on horse interactions and energy changes, while Shayleigh suggested innovative approaches like capturing videos of horses holding equipment.

This multifaceted discussion offers a wealth of insights, promoting a professional and informed approach to enhancing the horse-human relationship.

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Amber and Shayleigh delve into deciphering intuition and emotions, discussing worries about parasites and differentiating between premonitions and manifestations.

The duo explores a parasite cleanse protocol, emphasizing gut preparation and the use of binders like charcoal. Amber reflects on self-care and personal growth, exploring the role of resentment as a tool for finding one's voice and setting boundaries.

Shayleigh shares a horse communication story, highlighting the horse's grounded nature and deep insights. They discuss overcoming fear in horse care, stressing the importance of trusting intuition and not relying solely on aligned answers.

The conversation touches on seeking diverse perspectives, addressing triggers, and emphasizing the significance of boundaries and autonomy in horse-human relationships. Shayleigh's December mantra, "let go of the needing to know," resonates, while Amber reflects on future episodes, including one on biting.

The episode closes with gratitude for listeners, acknowledging its scattered nature, and teasing upcoming content.

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Katherine Lowry, who shares her journey in biomechanics and personal training. *The Value of Structure and Intuition in Coaching Sessions*

- Katherine, Amber, and Shayleigh delve into their experiences with coaching sessions and discuss the delicate balance of structure and intuition.

- They explore the challenges of conducting distance sessions and the necessity of adapting to fit clients' unique environments.

- Emphasis is placed on the value of embracing vulnerability and authenticity to form deeper connections, not just with horses but with others as well. *The Importance of Being Present in Your Body*

- Amber shares her personal experience of feeling disconnected from her body during exercise and how this impacted her.

- Katherine hypothesizes that being checked out of one's body leads to compensatory mechanisms and a missed opportunity to complete stress cycles.

- Both speakers stress the importance of staying present in one's body and the significance of allowing stress cycles to conclude. *Katherine's Accident and Recovery*

- Katherine Lowry recounts her injuries while building her personal and clients' show teams.

- She describes her mother's advocacy at the hospital and how a nurse guided her to the right treatment. - Despite her healing process, Katherine never felt the same again, highlighting the lasting impact of such experiences.

*The Fly Theory*

- Katherine introduces an amusing theory about flies and speculates that they might represent someone's wish to be a "fly on the wall."

- The group explores how seemingly random "squirrel moments" can lead to inspired actions, referencing their podcast built around such spontaneous insights.

*Overcoming Physical Challenges and Asking for Help* - Katherine Lowry shares her journey of dealing with physical challenges following two accidents, leading to a transformation in her approach to horse riding.

- She discusses the mental struggle of asking for help and accepting her limitations, which enabled her to focus on healing.

- The importance of support from clients and friends in overcoming challenges is also highlighted.

*Discussion on Fear and Support in Horse Training*

- Katherine shares her experiences with kissing spine horses and how they often face difficulties in training.

- Shayleigh relates this to her experiences with trapped emotions causing physical pain.

- They delve into the fear associated with riding and training horses and stress the importance of building a support system for both horse and rider.

- This chapter touches on the challenges of working with kissing spine horses.

*Fear, Forgiveness, and Weaponizing Exercise*

- Shayleigh Evans and Katherine Lowry explore the connection between fear and forgiveness and how it relates to asking for support.

- They discuss the tendency to weaponize exercise and knowledge, emphasizing the importance of self-forgiveness and forgiving others.

- Katherine shares her experience with negative thoughts and how she uses the pendulum exercise to return to a neutral state.

- This section explores the impact of fear and forgiveness on the healing process.

*Finding the Neutral*

- Katherine shares her personal journey of finding the "neutral" by visualizing her "acid and base" and learning to be okay with not always finding a neutral state.

- She discusses training her brain not to go to extremes and experiencing a peaceful snowball effect. - Shayleigh talks about the challenges of finding neutrality and how exercise continues to affect her daily life, mentioning Amber's help with managing intrusive thoughts using the "clear, cancel, delete" method.

- This chapter delves into the process of finding neutrality and shifting negative thoughts.

*The Importance of Allowing Yourself and Your Horse to Just Be*

- Shayleigh Evans reflects on the significance of self-care and self-acceptance in providing the best care for her horse.

- The pressure to have "perfect" horses in society and how this can hinder allowing horses to just be themselves are discussed.

- Katherine Lowry shares her experiences regarding the need for an external focus to control her mind.

*Importance of Being Present in One's Body* - Katherine Lowry, Amber Lydic, and Shayleigh Evans discuss the importance of being present in one's body and not fighting against oneself.

- They emphasize that people often focus on external goals and forget self-care and self-acceptance.

- This section highlights the need to be in the present moment and accept oneself to achieve personal goals. - It touches on societal pressure and the need to break away from a constant drive for improvement.

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Discover the transformative power of gratitude in your equestrian journey!

-Are you struggling with guilt stemming from past training methods of your horses before you understood the physical and emotional impact it was having on them?
-Do you want to shift your perspective and release that burden of guilt so you can grow your connection with them?
-Are you looking for a safe space to work through these emotions and find strategies for positive change?

Join us for a 5-day journey of self-discovery and transformation as we explore the profound connection between guilt and gratitude in the world of horse-(wo)man-relationship.

What to Expect:
✅ Daily videos designed to help you navigate your guilt and embrace gratitude.
✅ Daily messages, channeled by Shayleigh from the horse collective of the specific a group of horses
✅ Daily meditations channeled by Amber to allow you to go deeper with the lesson
✅ Practical tools to cope with and conquer overwhelming guilt.
✅ Self-compassion practices to support your growth and positive change.
✅Private Facebook group to connect with other participants and get support

Our program culminates in a live call where you can connect with fellow participants and share your experiences.

Together, we'll move from guilt to gratitude in our equestrian journeys.

Starts November 11th with the live call in November 18th

Don't let guilt hold you back any longer! Embrace the transformative power of gratitude in your equestrian life.

Join "Sorry Not Sorry: Transforming Guilt into Gratitude" and let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and healing together.

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Podcast Episode Summary:

Shayleigh and Amber reflect on their latest episode, "Boots and Holes," diving into the intricate world of horsemanship.

They explore the notions of connection, confusion, and security in horse riding, emphasizing empathy and awareness when seeking vulnerability and trust from these majestic animals. Their conversation delves into the challenges of body work for both humans and horses, building trust in such sessions. They also discuss the vital aspects of forgiveness and fear in forging authentic connections with horses, the need for mindfulness in horse care, and the significance of shedding societal expectations. Chapters & Topics:

1. Connection, Confusion, and Security in Horsemanship - Debunking the myth of "connection" in horse riding - The power of empathy in the horse-human relationship

2. Challenges of Receiving Body Work - Personal experiences and difficulties in trusting body work practitioners - Navigating these challenges when working with animals

3. Connection vs. Contact and Forgiveness in Horsemanship - Unraveling the concept of genuine connection versus mere contact - The roles of fear and forgiveness in achieving a profound bond with horses

4. Balancing Horse Health and Owner Identity - Amber's approach to horse health and striking a balance - The projection of owner identity onto horses

5. Labels and Identity - Overcoming the need to prove oneself or one's horse - Embracing self-acceptance by removing labels and expectations

6. The Importance of Choices in Horsemanship - Recognizing the freedom of choice in horsemanship - Challenging the notion that there's only one way to ride

7. Choosing Familiar Pain - Exploring how horses and people often cling to familiar pain - Encouraging curiosity to break these patterns

8. Importance of Questioning Beliefs and Asking "Why" - Amber's insights on questioning beliefs to promote personal growth - Applying this principle to the horse world and life in general

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In this lively opening, Amber and Shayleigh reminisce about the adventures at the Elements of Connection Clinic, recounting Amber's excitement at meeting Sage and Arlo. Amidst the laughter, we also share a humorous story about Amber's unexpected fall into a hole and some unexpected encounters with ghosts and snakes on a trail.

Our conversation takes some amusing detours, but it's all part of the charm of our podcast.

* Takeaways from the Elements of Connection Clinic * Meeting Sage and Arlo * Falling in a hole incident * Intrusive thoughts and manifesting

**Chapter 2: Intrusive Thoughts and Manifestation** In this thought-provoking segment, "I talk to animals" discusses her own experience with a wasp invasion and how it may have been linked to her fear and thoughts about them. Amber Lydic opens up about her battle with intrusive thoughts while driving and how she had to employ techniques to clear, cancel, and delete those negative thoughts to prevent them from manifesting in her life. Together, we explore the profound power of thoughts and how they can manifest in unexpected ways.

**Chapter 3: Reflections on the Clinic** Delving into a heartfelt discussion, we share our reflections on a recent clinic experience. We discuss our initial feelings of unworthiness and how the clinic ultimately validated us and made the experience not just transformative but fun. Meditation, which allowed participants to deepen their connection with their animals, is highlighted. We also touch on the clinic's role in challenging participants to step out of their comfort zones and try new things.

**Chapter 4: Amber's Identity Crisis** Amber opens up about her struggles with identity, particularly as a horse trainer. She shares her insecurities and the challenges she faced after attending an event unrelated to horses directly. She candidly expresses her comparisons to others and the connection between her self-worth and her career. We delve into her consideration of pursuing her passion for working with cows while questioning her motives.

**Chapter 5: Reflections on a recent animal communication clinic** We discuss a recent animal communication clinic experience, where we worked with Tara and learned new techniques. We openly share our doubts about our ability to connect with animals after returning home, but eventually, we discover that we still possess that ability. Additionally, we explore the challenges of transitioning back to real life after being in such a supportive and immersive environment.

**Chapter 6: Amber's Realization and Clarity on her Work** Amber Lydic recounts her experience while facilitating a session at EOC where individuals burned their old stories and penned new ones. She describes the powerful moment when people let go of their past narratives and embraced their new "I am" statements. This experience helped her realize her role in creating safe and magical experiences for people, allowing them to connect with themselves and their horses, find their own truth, and embark on their healing journey.

**Chapter 7: Animal Communication and Staying Grounded** We share a compelling story about communicating with a dog and receiving specific information about a sweater with bones on it. Reflecting on the surprising accuracy of animal communication, we discuss the importance of staying grounded and humble. We acknowledge the power of our work and the responsibility it carries.

**Chapter 8: Importance of Staying Present and Adaptable** We delve into the importance of staying present and adaptable, especially in our meditation sessions. We share our initial feelings of uncertainty and awkwardness before each session and how we channel the energy of the group once we begin. Emphasizing the significance of staying in the moment, we explore how excessive planning can sometimes detract from the overall experience. * "Relabeling as an Animal Communicator" * Uncertainty about professional labels and roles

**Chapter 9: Animal Communication and Intuition** In this enlightening segment, we share a story about a dog who didn't like other dogs and how intuition led us to identify his underlying health issue. The conversation highlights the importance of confidentiality in our sessions and the emphasis on creating a safe space for our clients. Lastly, we hint at an upcoming gratitude program for November, sparking intrigue for our listeners.

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In this episode, we dive into Heather's incredible journey as a cowboy, her passion for animal husbandry, and her profound involvement in the horse business.

 *Introduction:* - Heather shares her remarkable journey from a rodeo feedlot upbringing to studying computer programming in college. - She returns to her roots in ranch life and horsemanship, where her intuition and communication skills with horses flourished.

 *Heather's Dedication to Consensual Relationships:* - Heather emphasizes her commitment to establishing consensual relationships with horses. - She guides individuals through the entire horse training process, focusing on trust and cooperation.

 *The Evolution of a Skilled Horsewoman:* - We uncover Heather's unique path to becoming a skilled horsewoman. - Her journey from rodeo feedlots to computer programming and back to ranch life is unveiled.

 *Misconceptions About Spade Bits:* - Heather leads an in-depth conversation about the misinformation surrounding spade bits. - She discusses the development of a true bridle horse and the importance of education in the rodeo world.

 *Conclusion:* - Heather's passion for horses and her journey in the cowboy world is truly inspiring. - Her dedication to ethical horsemanship and dispelling myths in the rodeo world is commendable.

Thank you for joining us on this episode, where we've explored Heather's fascinating journey and her deep involvement in the world of horsemanship.

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