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Teaching Kids Problem Solving Skills: A Fun Homeschool Life Skill


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Teaching Kids Problem Solving Skills: A Fun Homeschool Life Skill

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Want to teach your kids how to think before they act?

Problem solving is one of the most important life skills children can learn—and it doesn’t have to come from a workbook. In fact, some of the best lessons happen through real-life situations, silly scenarios, and everyday decisions.

In this Just for Kids episode, Felice Gerwitz (Vintage Homeschool Moms Podcast) walks children through a memorable problem-solving challenge using a dog, spilled paint, and a whole lot of thinking. Along the way, kids learn how to slow down, consider their options, and make wiser choices.

For homeschool parents, this episode is more than just entertaining. It’s a simple way to teach critical thinking, decision-making, and self-control in a format your kids will actually remember.

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    What are problem solving skills for kids?

    Problem solving skills for kids are the ability to think through a situation, consider different options, weigh the pros and cons, and choose a wise solution. Teaching children problem solving helps them build critical thinking, better decision-making, and confidence in everyday life.

    These are skills that matter in academics—but even more in life.

    Why problem solving matters in your homeschool

    Homeschooling gives us the unique opportunity to teach more than just subjects. We also get to teach our children how to think.

    When kids learn how to solve problems, they begin to:

    • think before reacting
    • consider consequences
    • make wiser decisions
    • stay calmer in stressful situations
    • build independence and confidence
    • That’s why problem solving is such a valuable homeschool life skill. It supports character, maturity, and common sense—not just schoolwork.

      And honestly? Most kids need more practice in this area than we realize.

      A simple method for teaching kids problem solving: SODAS

      In this episode, Felice teaches a simple acronym kids can remember:

      SODAS

      Each letter stands for a step in solving a problem:

      • S = Situation
      • O = Options
      • D = Disadvantages
      • A = Advantages
      • S = Solution
      • This is a fantastic framework for homeschool families because it gives children a concrete way to stop, think, and work through what to do next.

        It’s also something parents can use again and again in everyday life.

        Teaching kids to think through consequences

        One of the biggest challenges for children is that they often act first and think later. That’s normal—but it’s also something we can train.

        A simple problem-solving process helps children move from impulsive reactions to thoughtful choices.

        Instead of:

        • panicking
        • blaming
        • yelling
        • freezing up
        • …they begin to ask:

          • What happened?
          • What are my options?
          • What might happen if I choose this?
          • What would be the wisest solution?
          • That’s a skill worth practicing.

            Just for Kids: Let’s Practice Problem Solving Together

            Okay kids—this part is for you.

            Have you ever had an adult ask you:

            “What were you thinking?”

            If they have… that probably means something didn’t go very well.

            But here’s the good news: thinking is a skill, and like any skill, you can get better at it with practice.

            When we solve a problem, we use our minds to figure out an answer or a solution. You already do this every day:

            • solving math problems
            • answering questions in school
            • figuring out mysteries in books
            • deciding what to do when something goes wrong
            • But there’s more to problem solving than just getting an answer.

              You also have to think ahead.

              Sometimes we ask “What if?” questions.

              Like:

              • What if I do this?
              • What if this goes wrong?
              • What if I make a better choice?
              • That kind of thinking helps you make wiser decisions.

                And now—it’s time to practice.

                The Dog and the Paint Problem

                Imagine this…

                Your parents have been painting rooms in the house. They’ve stacked several paint cans neatly in the garage until they can put them away.

                You have a big, energetic white lab dog. Let’s call him Dakota.

                Your parents leave for the store and ask you to keep an eye on the dog.

                Everything is quiet for one minute… until suddenly you hear a loud crash in the garage.

                You run in and gasp.

                Dakota has knocked over the paint cans.

                There is paint all over the floor.
                There are paw prints everywhere.
                And your beautiful white dog is now covered in paint.

                Oh no.

                So now what?

                This is where we use SODAS.

                S = Situation

                What happened?

                The dog knocked over the paint and made a huge mess.

                Now ask yourself:

                • How do I feel?
                • What is the problem?
                • What needs to happen first?
                • Your first reaction might be to yell.

                  But if you scream at the dog, what might happen?

                  He could panic and run through even more paint—making an even bigger mess.

                  So the first step is to look at the situation calmly, even if you feel upset.

                  O = Options

                  Now it’s time to think of your choices.

                  What are some things you could do?

                  Here are a few possible options:

                  1. Put a leash on the dog and take him outside
                  2. Put lids back on the paint cans
                  3. Scream at the dog
                  4. Call your parents or get help from a neighbor or sibling
                  5. Spray the whole garage with a hose
                  6. Now ask yourself:

                    Which of these are actually good ideas?

                    Sometimes solving a problem means breaking it into smaller steps:

                    • What should I do first?
                    • What should I do second?
                    • What should I definitely NOT do?
                    • That’s smart thinking.

                      D = Disadvantages

                      Now think about the cons—the bad parts of each option.

                      For example:

                      • Screaming at the dog is a bad idea because he may get scared and run.
                      • Spraying the garage with a hose might make the paint mess even worse.
                      • Dragging the dog through the paint could spread the mess even farther.
                      • These are all disadvantages.

                        Not every option is a wise one—even if it feels fast.

                        A = Advantages

                        Now think about the pros—the good parts of your better options.

                        Some advantages might be:

                        • Putting a leash on the dog helps contain the mess.
                        • Taking him outside keeps paint from spreading farther.
                        • Putting lids back on the cans prevents more spills.
                        • Getting help may make cleanup easier.
                        • Now you’re starting to think like a real problem solver.

                          S = Solution

                          So what is your best solution?

                          A wise solution might be:

                          • Get the dog under control
                          • Take him outside
                          • Clean him off
                          • Put him somewhere safe
                          • Return to clean up the paint
                          • Call for help if needed
                          • That’s called solving the problem.

                            You didn’t just react—you thought it through.

                            And that is a huge skill.

                            Why practicing problem solving helps kids grow

                            The more kids practice thinking through situations, the better they get at handling real life.

                            Problem solving helps children learn to:

                            • pause before reacting
                            • make wise choices
                            • stay calmer under pressure
                            • think for themselves
                            • avoid being easily influenced by others
                            • That last one matters a lot.

                              Kids who learn how to think are less likely to be led astray, manipulated, or pressured into bad decisions. When children can stop and ask, “Is this true? Is this wise? Is this right?” they become stronger thinkers and wiser people.

                              How parents can use this in everyday homeschool life

                              The best part about this episode is that it doesn’t have to stay in the podcast player.

                              Parents can use the SODAS method in real life when kids are dealing with:

                              • sibling conflict
                              • forgotten chores
                              • school frustration
                              • friend drama
                              • poor choices
                              • emotional overreactions
                              • You can even say:

                                “Let’s SODAS this.”

                                That turns problem solving into a shared family habit instead of just another lecture.

                                And honestly? That’s when learning sticks.

                                Listen to this episode with your kids

                                If you want a simple, memorable way to teach problem solving skills for kids, this episode is a fun place to start.

                                It’s practical.
                                It’s kid-friendly.
                                And it teaches a life skill your children will use far beyond homeschool.

                                Listen to: Teaching Kids Problem Solving ~ Episode 426

                                More homeschool life skills your kids need

                                If your family enjoys this kind of practical learning, be sure to explore more episodes on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network designed to help families raise thoughtful, capable, and confident kids.

                                 

                                Please visit my website at MediaAngels.com and be sure to sign up for our monthly planners. We have new character planners each month with fun activities that you can do with your children and I think parents really appreciate the page with scenarios. I ask the children questions that they can act out or write their answers. They are open-ended. At the end of the month, the children can even earn a character award that is provided. After the month is over you can only get the planners by purchase on the Media Angels website.

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